Hey guys, am a guy and my boss is asking me out. kind of weird to me, he keep sending me dirty mails, telling me to come f.u.c, k him, even paid some extra cash into my account. Pls should i tell my fiance about this, cos i don't want to cheat on her, and my boss is really pestering me, even after i told him i cant nyansh him, am in a cross roads now, cos if i resign what are my reasons, the job pays well, and don't want to lose it.

Mature minds pls advice me on to do? i want to quit, but the prospect of searching for another job is kind of scary, should i just do him and let him be? but i feel awkward about it, Pls lord show me the path to take,

Save the emails, the text or any evidence that you can.

As Inked asked, if there's a superior that you can report this to, then you should. This is simple assault.

If there's no superior, gently tell your boss that you can't; give him reasons.

If he persists, send those evidence to a newspaper office.

no he is the CEO, its a young company with good pay and also a career development opportunity.

And black mail is out of it, cos i wouldn't want to risk my life and that of my fiancee

iterator:

And black mail is out of it, cos i wouldn't want to risk my life and that of my fiancee

Nobody said aything about black mail.

Save those evidence now to save yourself later.

^^^ Its kinda hard to find a good paying job in Nigeria. I think it's better to publicize the harassment. I'm sure he's not the first.

OP

If you are not gay then just simply tell him. It is good to be HONEST than to tell a lie.

exactly thats what has been on my mind but was scared of how to go about it, and how she will take it cos  she is not yet working just finished her nysc.

Inked_Nerd:


First just talk to her and let her know what is going on because if she finds out some other way, it may not look too good on your part.

thks i would do just that

Mrs, Chima:

OP

If you are not man-lover then just simply tell him. It is good to be HONEST than to tell a lie.

told him i wasn't into doing men, but h keep on pestering me.

My Dear.

do you have a reliable BF Currently?  . . . If you do discuss this with him and let him decide what you need to do and don't forget to pray to Baba God about this

because he's the only one that sink you of the plight.

But if you don't have any BF . . . You can give your Boss a trail. atleast that thing was giving to  lo Ofe.  and he no dey count meter.

seedord247:

My Dear.

do you have a reliable BF Currently?  . . . If you do discuss is with him and let him decide what you need to do and don't forget to pray to Baba God about this

because he's the only one that sink you of the plight.

But if you don't have any BF . . . You can give your Boss a trail. atleast that thing was giving to  lo Ofe.  and he no dey count meter.

Am male how do i give him a trial?

iterator:

Am male how do i give him a trial?

OOpsss. . . . I think say you be woman sorry.

Btw. . . . shey you get Idi Gan le be ni? . . . because i think guyz that have that kind of yansh na dem do Gay

Your girlfriend is the least of your problem,start looking for a new job while you are still working,because either way you are "screwed", he still going to lay you off soon as he's done with you.and if you don't play ball with him,he going to fire you.

/\/\ will try and see if i can get a job. BUT hmmmm getting this kind of pay, hmmm . baba i need you favour ohhh

gay men are always harrasing straight men.na wah for them

iterator:

Hey guys, am a guy and my boss is asking me out. kind of weird to me, he keep sending me dirty mails, telling me to come f.u.c, k him, even paid some extra cash into my account. Pls should i tell my fiance about this, cos i don't want to cheat on her, and my boss is really pestering me, even after i told him i cant nyansh him, am in a cross roads now, cos if i resign what are my reasons, the job pays well, and don't want to lose it.

Mature minds pls advice me on to do? i want to quit, but the prospect of searching for another job is kind of scary, should i just do him and let him be? but i feel awkward about it, Pls lord show me the path to take,

wosh! scary! You should resign. Or perhaps try setting up your boss with some really attractive guy who is g/ay. . .that could work

Get the hell out NOW!!!!

Either way you lose. If you let him do you know what then you might as well kill yourself. If you refuse, he'll probably fire you.

Cant let someone have that kind of power over you.

LEAVE!!

Hope its not the other way round? Chill. Am allowed questions right?

You will be fool if you leave that job, and a bigger fool if you sleep with him. Bottom line, he can't violate you, or can he? You have already told him that you don't do guys, even so, not him. So, now you're guilt free if you make the office hot for him
As you have been told, save all the evidences, tell your fiancee if you wish. Then deal with the boss. If i were you, his seat will soonest, be mine. Don't be rude or anything. Just be coolly indifferent, and make him wonder what's on your mind. It will give him less time to bother about what you have behind your Versaces (whichever).

chikeuz:

Hope its not the other way round? Chill. Am allowed questions right?

yeah its the other way round he wants me to have his ass,

Blood_Shed:

Get the hell out NOW!!!!

Either way you lose. If you let him do you know what then you might as well kill yourself. If you refuse, he'll probably fire you.

Cant let someone have that kind of power over you.

LEAVE!!

am going to call my fiancee later today that am resigning , will ask her to come over so i can give her the full gist

sauer:

wosh! scary! You should resign. Or perhaps try setting up your boss with some really attractive guy who is g/ay. . .that could work

setting up is out of it, don't want to get too involved, it might back fire you know .

Now what kind of words are those poster. you can't nyansh him,do him,Bleep him. I try to read btwn lines.
Am trying to digest the story but it refuses to go down my throat.
Good luck though.

Pls should i tell my fiance about this, cos i don't want to cheat on her, and my boss is really pestering me[quote][/quote]
@ poster,it means u r considering doing ur boss already by stating u dnt want to cheat on her.

Na wa o,poster I don't even know what to write.

Just think about it this way, what if the company went bankrupt, wont you find another job and survive. Take it that this is a sign from God that this is not your job.

Even if you develop the courage to do this, remember that it wont be a one off thing - u will have to keep doing this all year(s) long . He has literally told you that you have to be G A Yy to keep this job. Either way, brace yourself for hard times ( no pun intended, lol)

@topic.i will advise u dont do it at all,cos once u start?he would always want more and more and more and when he is done wit you he will sack u and theres nothing you can do about it.
So its better u tell him u cant and wont.and tell ur fiancee about it asap!

For even considering it, u r gayy