Noted sir. Thank you op

I completely agree with you, most especially on borrowing money from in laws. I will forever regret that action till I die because I know the insults that came out of it when I had issues with their daughter. I didn't want to but my ex-wife pushed me to and I wished I never did. So [/b] DEAR MEN, NEVER BORROW OR EVEN COLLECT MONEY FROM YOUR WIFE'S PEOPLE. IT NEVER ENDS WELL[b]

The only thing that makes me stay on top is that I always put my wife first for anything I do... All others secondary

Wisdom...

Sheistoopretty:

Yes including my papa.

Okay then…

[quote author=lavylilly post=126477562][/quote]No 2 and 4 doesn't make sense. Some men's breakthrough came from their Father in law

Based on my experience, those you accommodate today, will be your tomorrow's shield in the days of adversity

Infact!
Life becomes unbearable for someone

Dogalmighty17:
You've never met terrible in-laws. That's when you will understand.

[quote author=Blitzking post=126495595]I am very terrible playing the inlaw politics...but one thing is no hard feeling love them for raising very brilliant but stubborn head woman. [/quote}

No one is complete

[quote author=lavylilly post=126477562][/quote]

Thats number 6 ? hard oo even if they dont deserve your respect chaiii?....

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Never spend the night in your inlaws house, Never!

Emyzoloye5:
No 8. Learn to change it for your in-laws when necessary (especially her father)

My girls fada wan try shit with me the other day, the way I yab am eeeh, he later told his daughter to stay way from me that I be cultist lolz!

Na truth, my best friend yab his fiancee's father so much last week and through the yabbing, he was able to save his relationship. Sometimes, gentility dy cause nonsense and violence dy prevent rubbish especially in this country. As a man know when to endure nonsense and when to react to stop nonsense. I learnt that last week.

If you like [quote author=lavylilly post=126477562][/quote]follow these principles all but you can never dictate how you will be treated by inlaws. The best bet is to be successful so you won't be worried about how they treat you. Money stops nonsense abeg

Jangbajantis:

It's worse when neither your wife nor the sibling sister is working. You'll pay for everything, including sanitary pads.

na definition of death be this.

stevups:
The only thing that makes me stay on top is that I always put my wife first for anything I do... All others secondary

Hmmm! You're lucky to have her and I guess she respects you a lot for that because some ladies will still take it for granted. The best thing is to marry right and get it right.

Nicenixon:
Na truth, my best friend yab his fiancee's father so much last week and through the yabbing, he was able to save his relationship. Sometimes, gentility dy cause nonsense and violence dy prevent rubbish especially in this country. As a man know when to endure nonsense and when to react to stop nonsense. I learnt that last week.

The world have no place for weak men

How? Die for them? You never jam one that's ready to press your stomach

Nooneonline:

Read and understand how to deal with and avoid terrible in laws

Klass99:
Create another thread for women in marriage to balance things out.

From where I stand it looks like women in marriage tolerate far more from in-laws and take a crap load of bullshit from them, in order to sustain and keep a marriage so it doesn't break.

And nature help you if you are married to a man who doesn't shield or protect you from the excesses of his family members.

One man is even asking on front page, if women cannot water down their taste to keep a marriage on top of 3k feeding money. That kind of man will expect you to shut up when his family disrespects you, all in the name of keeping a marriage.

Blablabla.. Women are the problem to their inlaws in Nigerian marriages.

In laws are wonderful people, remember we are all in-laws one way or the other, and we shall become one, sooner than later.

The number 3 made me laugh 😂 "You gave your daddy 2 pieces of meat, you gave mine 1”

Sheistoopretty:
N!G€RI@N M€N are Uzelezz..... all of them

Including your FATHER

Sheistoopretty:
N!G€RI@N M€N are Uzelezz..... all of them

Including your FATHER ?

All of them are valid.

Dogalmighty17:
You've never met terrible in-laws. That's when you will understand.

God bless you bro . I agree with the op's write up though but there exceptionally terrible ones that want to sniff peace out your life. And those ones you have to be tougher on them.

Nicenixon:
Hmmm! You're lucky to have her and I guess she respects you a lot for that because some ladies will still take it for granted. The best thing is to marry right and get it right.

Not that I was lucky oo, but the way things fall apart when I make her secondary

Apt! The last point depend on the value they place in me. Some in- laws are very terrible especially the ones from broken homes.

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Smh.

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There is Sense in every nonsense

Klass99:
Create another thread for women in marriage to balance things out.

From where I stand it looks like women in marriage tolerate far more from in-laws and take a crap load of bullshit from them, in order to sustain and keep a marriage so it doesn't break.

And nature help you if you are married to a man who doesn't shield or protect you from the excesses of his family members.

One man is even asking on front page, if women cannot water down their taste to keep a marriage on top of 3k feeding money. That kind of man will expect you to shut up when his family disrespects you, all in the name of keeping a marriage.

Abeg calm down
3k to cook no bad, some people use less than that, depending their pockets. If she add her money na bad thing? My elder sis dey add her money do cook for their house even when her husband give her 20k for only meat o. Na ur humility go tell man