Klass99:


3k to cook food for a man, a woman and their two children, abi? Poverty of the mind and financial poverty will not depart from some of you sha, with the way you reason and open your mouths waaa to talk.

And who asked you about your elder sister? It is interesting how the women in your families are always virtuous and good on this forum, but every other woman is not.

FreeStuffsNG:
Hahaha!Talk is cheap o.

The best thing is to run for your life and avoid marrying into horrible families. There's a cautionary Yoruba proverb that warns one never to dare having horrible in laws. It literally says it's even better to have a horrible wife (or husband) than to have horrible in laws!

Once you see a prospective in law experiencing a persistent strange, peculiar bad luck and sadness, apply one of the Robert Greene's 48 laws of power; avoid unfortunate and unhappy people.

No politics will save you or your marriage if you marry a son/daughter raised from a horrible family. In fact, you're doomed for ever!

Do not be deceived o. No two-way solution o, just flee! To avoid such trap, flee even before you get into such entanglement before you confuse your life with love. They will not stop until they destroy you!

Who wants to have innocent children who will have the misfortune of inheriting strong generational curses and ill winds? No one! Check my signature for free stuffs!

backinsidse:
Valid point.
I really like the never accomodate them part.
If you must, help with their house rent but don't let them stay with you. It never ends well.

Klass99:


No be your own sister dey use towtow in this case for survival through her marriage? Shebi you logical gender people on this forum have said it countless times, that Nigerian women bring nothing to the table and they only marry so that a man can take care of them and pay their bills.

Is your sister not a Nigerian woman again? A Nigerian woman who married for the very purpose of depending on a man to take care of her because she has towtow?

Or has she suddenly stopped being a Nigerian woman of that category because she is your sister? You people's two faced hypocrisy stinks like lawma trash. Take a stand already and quit being all over the place with your stupid and flawed logic.

Male logic 101 on nairaland - Nigerian women bring nothing to the table, they marry to depend on men and be taken care of. So that includes your sisters and mothers too, no exceptions, they are after all, Nigerian women too. Going by that male logic there's nothing special about that your sister o, she's not different from or better than the next Nigerian woman so alaye rest!

Klass99:


3k to cook food for a man, a woman and their two children, abi? Poverty of the mind and financial poverty will not depart from some of you sha, with the way you reason and open your mouths waaa to talk.

And who asked you about your elder sister? It is interesting how the women in your families are always virtuous and good on this forum, but every other woman is not.

Integrafamoo:

It all depends on individual relationship. Some of the points are invalid and childish

Skyview01:
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I agree with all of your points

EngGandalf:

Based on which standards?

FreeStuffsNG:
Hahaha!Talk is cheap o.

The best thing is to run for your life and avoid marrying into horrible families. There's a cautionary Yoruba proverb that warns one never to dare having horrible in laws. It literally says it's even better to have a horrible wife (or husband) than to have horrible in laws!

Once you see a prospective in law experiencing a persistent strange, peculiar bad luck and sadness, apply one of the Robert Greene's 48 laws of power; avoid unfortunate and unhappy people.

No politics will save you or your marriage if you marry a son/daughter raised from a horrible family. In fact, you're doomed for ever!

Do not be deceived o. No two-way solution o, just flee! To avoid such trap, flee even before you get into such entanglement before you confuse your life with love. They will not stop until they destroy you!

Who wants to have innocent children who will have the misfortune of inheriting strong generational curses and ill winds? No one! Check my signature for free stuffs!

stevups:
The only thing that makes me stay on top is that I always put my wife first for anything I do... All others secondary

backinsidse:
Valid point.
I really like the never accomodate them part.
If you must, help with their house rent but don't let them stay with you. It never ends well.

robosky02:


Hmmmmm

stevups:
The only thing that makes me stay on top is that I always put my wife first for anything I do... All others secondary

Kobojunkie:
Some of you no dey dey practical at all at all.

FreshNotemike:
Exactly. Always make yourself scarce.
Allow the wife to go first and then only join them when the program has started.

GboyegaD:


This is the most unreasonable thing I have read. You only disrespect yourself if you can't be at the program on time. I don't understand when late coming to functions adds to respect.
Whether you go early or otherwise, if you don't act reasonable, you will still be disrespected.

Olarewaju89:


Accept people as they are, but place them where they belong.

You are the CEO of your life. Hire, fire & promote accordingly.