PoliteActivist:


A married man is cheating on his WIVES

advanceDNA:


Bros...this thread is about a woman chatting on her husband...

And u are talking about a man cheating in his wives..... A man in a polygamous relationship and the women that agreed to be in such marriage all subscribed to cheating.... Abi how do u agree to be in a marriage with a man where u share penîs with other women.... There is no cheating here ..there is an agreement....
There are also polygamous women out there so don't rant

PoliteActivist:


How about a cheating man?

PoliteActivist:


Well, the thread is about cheating. If a man with wives, WIVES, still find it necessary to cheat, what does that tell you about men?

Jughead29:


The foolish things some of you women do is comparing yourselves to man..... A man cheats i will also cheat, opening your hole to men around in the name of retaliation..... God conderms it..... i don't support a cheating man but to a woman its a big taboo

Farid24224:


Don't mind her.. She don't know that a man cheating and a woman cheating are not really the same thing..

Farid24224:


A man and a woman ain't the same!! 🙄

advanceDNA:


Some men cheat some women cheat....so what's ur point??

PoliteActivist:


Exactly! Cheating is cheating hence the original question to those ranting about cheating women : HOW ABOUT CHEATING MEN??

PoliteActivist:


Well, am I right or am I right? Once a woman gets pregnant she should be free to bang as she likes (for 9 months) as she can't get pregnant again. A man, not so. He has to always be careful because he can get a woman pregnant every time he bangs!😆

advanceDNA:


So ...u point is u don't want a man to feel upset and rant that his wife cheated on him just because other men out there are cheating in their wives??

U know I asked u before how ur brain works??

PoliteActivist:


See him. You know full well that's not what I meant.
Simple: all these rantings about cheating women, but totally quiet about cheating men. Hence the original question: HOW ABOUT EL RUFAI??

zomoears:



So of all the differences between men and women, that’s d only thing your small mind can latch on to?

A woman that wants to be a public latrine has my blessings and curses at the same time.

A man derives his value from being a conqueror. A woman derives her value from being a chaste woman.

How do you feel if the call your mom a LovePeddler?

There you go.

Nature is not confused. It is people like you that are.

advanceDNA:


So u have not seen topics about men cheating here??

nairalee:
nawa oo

i know some people will now start postulating that it's his wife that planned his death.

conspiracy theorists will claim ANYTHING!!!

From
Nairamarley
Sam Larry
NDLEA
His father
His mother
He didn't die before burial
Tinubu
Nigerian government

(now they'll add his wife)

when in actual fact what killed him was the wrong medical treatment he got from that quack of an "AUXILLARY NURSE". but trust Nigerians, they love sensational stories

PoliteActivist:


Nope. All I see is "never marry a non-virgin", "never forgive a cheating wife". Even Okafor's law does not apply to men!

PoliteActivist:


And how do you feel if they call your papi ashawo banger or chaser?
So a woman banging more than one man is a public latrine. But a man doing same is not a public tool?

PoliteActivist:


And how do you feel if they call your papi ashawo banger or chaser?
So a woman banging more than one man is a public latrine. But a man doing same is not a public tool?

advanceDNA:


Maybe u just don't want to see it ...they are on nairaland...

Men open topics that matter to them ...women to open topics that matter to them too... why is that paining you?? I don't get why u are bothered about topics of happening in People's lives....

zomoears:


Haa, this is becoming childish.

Take the lesson. Or not. Your choice.

Some years down the road, you will remember someone once told you.

zomoears:


For proper perspective, I am a man who is proud of my conquest. I can get a female of any age, and it only ads to my value in the eyes of females.

I am proud that my father, as a very handsome gentleman, can still conquer women of all ages,even a 21yr old girl even in his seventies, cos nature has made it possible.

The Definition of ashawo today is very blurry cos most young girls into hookup by definition, thought u should know.

PoliteActivist:


Seems you're the one bothered. Someone said never forgive a cheating woman. I simply asked how about a cheating man!

advanceDNA:



Thats an question for a woman to answer naaaa

I don't get why u expect a man be worried about another woman's husband behaviour

RingRoadCartel:


Exactly!
Who turns down free 10 Mill? Especially now that the breadwinner is not alive. A TV Station owner offered this woman 10 Million Naira, but the only caveat was that she will have to get a paternity test done at his hospital. If Mohbad is the father of Liam, he will wire her the money at the spot.

Till today, she hasn't returned his call after accepting to get it done. Only for them to publish a few weeks later that a DNA test was done and it affirms the child's paternity. The man said that he contacted Mohbads dad and asked him if he gave specimen to the hospital where she claimed to have carried out the test and the dad said NO.

So on who's DNA did the hospital use as base to determine the child's paternity when the grandfather didn't give specimen? That's what informed Mohbads dads recent clamour for a DNA test. I believe Nairaland even published it yesterday.

PoliteActivist:


If he had just answered "never forgive a cheating man too" that would have been the end of the discussion. Instead he went on a rambling treatise about how there is no such thing as a cheating man!

advanceDNA:


U are making this a gender issue...and expect pple to speak how u want..... men talk from position of men just as women will talk from position of women......

Have u not heard women say men are scum.. does it mean their fathers and brothers too are scum?? They are speaking from a premise

At the end of the day... Don't forgive a cheating partner is the advice... but individuals opening a topic will speak from their personal experience and position ...I don't get why this is paining u??

DECLAN2015:


Poor nurse
Very convenient

PoliteActivist:


You're the one acting like it's paining you and therefore being biased.
I'm simply being unbiased - if a woman says men are scum, I'd ask her if that includes her father, brothers, and sons!

RingRoadCartel:


Exactly!
Who turns down free 10 Mill? Especially now that the breadwinner is not alive. A TV Station owner offered this woman 10 Million Naira, but the only caveat was that she will have to get a paternity test done at his hospital. If Mohbad is the father of Liam, he will wire her the money at the spot.

Till today, she hasn't returned his call after accepting to get it done. Only for them to publish a few weeks later that a DNA test was done and it affirms the child's paternity. The man said that he contacted Mohbads dad and asked him if he gave specimen to the hospital where she claimed to have carried out the test and the dad said NO.

So on who's DNA did the hospital use as base to determine the child's paternity when the grandfather didn't give specimen? That's what informed Mohbads dads recent clamour for a DNA test. I believe Nairaland even published it yesterday.

advanceDNA:



Me?? Biased....U are the one looking for equality where is not needed forgetting that people speaker from existing premise.....

When a woman says men are scum...she is speaking from a premise of being hurt by a man ...I ask u this ...why will she say men and women are scum just to make u the reader happy or so that u dont think she's biased....

U women don't just like hearing ur bad behavior....

PoliteActivist:


You may speak from any perspective or experience you wish. I'd answer you from my own perspective of being unbiased and neutral, and fairness