davidylan:

my brother, you be the man. I used to be the nice guy too until i learnt my lesson the hard way.

davidylan:

i have to partially agree with this.

When did your religious a$$ get to the romance section?

*jogging by*

pendo89:

This is what I think.
1. You are being too nice to her.Like somebody said give her a challenge. I dislike men who say yes to everything a woman requests for esp if its inappropriate. A No is also an answer.
2. She's comparing you to a previous relationship or presently.
3. This is hard.But as a lady I know ladies have a way of talking indirectly.So as not to hurt you she will blame the routine when you are actually the bore.
This happens if the love has grown cold and if that is the case then you both entered into it for the wrong reasons.

> Be a real man not Mr.nice or Mr.yes yes.
> Up your game so that she has nobody to compare your game with. This is tricky.
> If she's 'bored with you my bro,no amount of gifts can restore that. Could be something in your personality she detests and that is difficult to work out.

Good luk though.

shikenan!Robert kelly sing am say 'when a woman is fed up;there is nothing u can do about it'.better google elsewhere bro

hmm love rules that rules love? but can it? love is mysterious, rules cannot cage, control love! after exhausting d said rules, love seeks again

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women! we get our styles, propose to her she go re-kindle

If i were u,i'll try all options given above startin wif d benign ones like takin her out n to d malignant ones like fakin date wif her close pal n shit.bt trust me,dat gal isn't 4 u, al these mite stil fail.

Ask her what she really wants and try to be creative. But i do not think it may work because once bored, always bored. She might not be meant for you.

Or maybe she's trying to nudge you to the next level,

She's had enough of relationships, hence it is getting boring(same o'l same) hoping you take it to the next level - marriage (a new exciting experience/prospect and most/some girls ultimate relationship goal)

Dude, girls have different styles of hinting on what they want without ever saying it (as she obviously can't in this case)

Try to be more creative.

Ask her what makes her happy and you continue from there.

@ OP.

What exactly does your babe mean by saying that she's bored? Is it bored in bed or just bored generally out of bed?

If it's the former, then i recommend my book for you. It is titled " Forking boredom out of your partner's brains" Its not at all expensive. It will cost you your ATM card and your pin.

But if it's the latter, shebi na naija chic she be? Then na Blackberries go do the magic. Believe me, she'll not know the meaning of boredom anymore.

best of luck man.

Guy, cant u sense the whole thing is crumbling. take what u can while u can and make your exit. I like to hit the metal while still hot

Mehn to be sincere, this guy's case describes my own case but in the reverse o. . . I fear I will be the one to get bored with this fine, nice gurl am dating at my work place.
My reasons are obvious; we work in thesame place and in thesame shift, besides people are already begining to run their mouths. We are both crazy about each other but I have some reservations about certain things she has openly told me she does not want.
1. she told me she is not interested in a relationship with sex: that I ve postponed to talk about it too often now but I ve told her that I never been in such relationship before though.
2. She has very strong views about putting troussers, earrings and even necklaces, and they obviously clash with mine. Though she is pretty without them but I love very fashionable women, my woman can't be an exception. I am hoping that with time and love she might change or at least moderate some of her views cos the love is very mutual, we call eachother like crazy even though we see eachother at work erry day.
Sometimes, I am tempted too to think that I am not being honest with my expectations in the relationship and may, like the OP's GF get bored quicker than I think if things don't go my way or atleast ease up a bit.
OP's post just awakened me to that reality!!

Gbenge 77:

Try to be more creative.

^^seconded

Kai see as dem come destroy person relationship majority of peeps on this thread are quite pessimistic.

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Offline Re: How Can You Ignite A Boring Relationship « #1 on: July 12, 2007, 09:37 AM » If the relationship is boring, why can't she be the one to think of a way to make it interesting? Nigerian women can be so passive, and that's so annoying considering how big their brains are.[b][/b]

U shld try new tins 2geda,a'ight,give her good suprises,spend less time wid her,after d above,den she'll nid u more n wen u meet always make it remarkable,girls lyk guys who arent always available,dnt respond at her beck n cal,be busy y'know bt dnt over do it,might make maters worse,its beta 4 a girl to mis a guy n wish he wasnt so busy instead of havin him hoverin around her like flies to shyt,its annoyin n borin too,hope u code.u act lyk u r scare 2 loose her n so try 2 do evrytin 2 please,too much of evrytin is bad.n after pleasin her much d end result is '. . . borin'.seriously,let her miss u a bit,n let her knw how much other girls want u.wish u al d best n i pray 4 u ma broda dat dere a'int anoda broda out dere makin it look greener 4 her,3 mnths is too short a time,if realy its love.dnt forget d suprises.pheww! enough said 4rm moi.

rhymz:

Mehn to be sincere, this guy's case describes my own case but in the reverse o. . . I fear I will be the one to get bored with this fine, nice gurl am dating at my work place.
My reasons are obvious; we work in thesame place and in thesame shift, besides people are already begining to run their mouths. We are both crazy about each other but I have some reservations about certain things she has openly told me she does not want.
1. she told me she is not interested in a relationship with sex: that I ve postponed to talk about it too often now but I ve told her that I never been in such relationship before though.
2. She has very strong views about putting troussers, earrings and even necklaces, and they obviously clash with mine. Though she is pretty without them but I love very fashionable women, my woman can't be an exception. I am hoping that with time and love she might change or at least moderate some of her views cos the love is very mutual, we call eachother like crazy even though we see eachother at work erry day.
Sometimes, I am tempted too to think that I am not being honest with my expectations in the relationship and may, like the OP's GF get bored quicker than I think if things don't go my way or atleast ease up a bit.
OP's post just awakened me to that reality!!

u shld stop tinkin about bein bored okay,becos we tend to atract tins to ourselves,u tink positive u get it n get negative results wen u tink negative,so have positive tots about d relationship so dat at d long run u wouldn't have say 'i knew it was gonna happen'.just enjoy

kayalla:

women! we get our styles, propose to her she go re-kindle

Sey wetin happen?!,

Abegi, leave dat thing. He doesnt know what went wrong and you want him to propose like that.

Like the word 'propose' dey sweet your mouth/mind. You wan make i propose?

I THINK U NEED AN EBOOK TITLED 100 WAYS TO KEEP UR LOVER AND MAKE MONOGAMY HOT. CONTACT asanifx at yahoo dot com.

Or you can obtain your copy of Kamasutra. That should do the trick

Xionez:

Or you can obtain your copy of Kamasutra. That should do the trick

bad man!

Hmm, where exactly do i start from, okay, i think i got something,
When a girl tells you that she is bored of the relationship, that invariably means that She is getting tired around you, do you understand?

And at the same time, it means that some other guy is making her life enjoyable, not financialy, but emotionally. Now this make this a little bit more messy, , you are in a intense competition with a guy who make your woman life not boring,

Now, let me tell you something, Woman was created out of man, do you understand, that means that God has given us every power to control a woman, in other words manipulate her, to your taste of course,

what am trying to say is that, you don't need anybody to teach you how to make your girl life not boring, am pretty sure, you have inserted your software in her hardware, that gives you an extra edge, cos you have known her in and out,

So, the answer to your problem lies within you, all you need do, is to do a little bit of thinking, am pretty sure you would figure it out, TRUST ME,

I would like to say that you should try and make your girl laugh, try to be, you know funny, make her go wild, tease her, joke her, touch her, wink at her, play some kind of rough play with her, and also stop quotting all these love quotes to her, she has heard them a thousand time per day from guys,

Try composing your own love poems, and above all, try to act natural, when ever you are with her, Be yourself man,

@ OP, Heed to the advises from Moderatorr and KC3000

luk straight into her eyes and sing for her.

jenny b:

luk straight into her eyes and sing for her.

Damn, now i have to pay for surgery to get my ribs fixed!!!

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Emmh poster jus pretend d babe na peppersoup wey u wan cook , buy all ingredients alligator pepper, maggie , salt , catfish, dry pepper etc wen u don harma al d list dats enough to spice $ginger d relationship.Kappish

^^^^^^
By ingredients, do you mean Christian Louboutin pumps/shoes, Marc Jacobs Carolyn Crocodile Designer bags, Street Circus jeans etc etc.

1. Puuunny eating
2. Arse fu.u.ck.i.ng
3. Rough & hard-core fu.u.ck.ing generally

Works like magic

Xionez:

^^^^^^
By ingredients, do you mean Christian Louboutin pumps/shoes, Marc Jacobs Carolyn Crocodile Designer bags, Street Circus jeans etc etc.

Dat wud b amazing need me some Balenciaga bags to balance it all up