beekind:
Rea

Now back to the issue, since it seems a lot of ignorant people have commented earlier let me address some issues.
1. A man with low sperm count can father a child all it needs to produce a child is 1 sperm
2. A man may have low sperm count and not know, as a matter of fact many people who have children actuallyy have low sperm count at one point or the other.
3. There is no way to 100% a ladies fertility unless shes pregnant, unlike a man that you can check his sperm parameters a lady may be able to ge

As someone who is a citizen of that same abroad and have lived there enough, I can tell you that travelling out is not an automatic solution to anyones problem.

samwash:
This woman nor do well Sha.
At all at all, she suppose talk to her husband if she wants to part ways.
This is not the best method to part ways.
Abeg Op, I want make up update us about the man reactions when he finally discover say him wife travel about without telling him

Ensa777:


Go and force her nw.As if the man's reaction will change anything.Yen yen yen.
Go to churches,ministries,hosputals even health section of Nl and see women looking for solutions for their childlessness even in threads for sperm jssues because Nigerian men would never be caught dead doing it themselves.

He is lucky she didn't decapitate his head the day she found out cos I can't imagine the litres of concoction,the various insults from in-laws,the deep penetrating painful vaginal/cervical scans.The years...

God will punish that man wherever he is.14 good years.

Persephone1:
You are not a good friend... To her you are a friend she can confide in but here you are comparing her with a serpent and judging her.

How is this woman at fault? Do you know the pains she had gone through for inability to conceive, what has been said to her by relatives, in-laws, monitoring spirits? 14 years of her life gone on account of deceit. Not fair at all.
It's good she has changed environment to start over. Unlike here in Nigeria where she will be termed a barren 40 years old Evening Newspaper,she has other chances over there and won't be called names.

The way she handled the relocation may not seem totally right but she knows best.

Luckysbab:


She will still be a regular AFRICAN WOMAN over there, evening newspaper or not.

Go and tell her there.

Persephone1:
Go and tell her there.

Luckysbab:


Okay ma

Persephone1:
Lol

Anytime you wan go sha inform me ahead so that I can start exercising to fit into your bag.

Luckysbab:




Stay and marry a Nigerian man.

Gerrard59:


How is she wicked? You Nigerians use words anyhow. This is something peculiar with Nigerians - mis-using words just because they sound funky and nice.

BTW: It is LEND not BORROW. You LEND someone money. She BORROWS money FROM you. You don't BORROW someone money. Sha, British Council has more reasons to ensure you people continue write IELTS till thy kingdom come.

luminouz:

Ehya!!! So this thing pained you like this. Pele o.

Biglittlelois:


Do you have human conscience? If you do you will not say this.

luminouz:

Lois if you don't get your big little ass off my mention ehn, I go show you pepper!!!

What's human conscience in my reply to that dude? Quit being emotional biko!!!

Biglittlelois:


Lol

That woman's situation is not enough for you to be emotional? Well, to each his own.

luminouz:

Nice reply!!! I was trying to see if you'd be set off like others but you gave a cool reply

Of course I knew she was wronged. She did what she thought was right but I would have divorced the husband the moment I learnt he was the one with the issue for 14 years and not me. That would have saved me time and I would have planned my life like I wanted.

N.B: I hardly get emotional. Just not in my DNA

Biglittlelois:


Me knowing you were not serious with what you said, doesn't mean you should do that to others, some wouldn't take it likely with you

Alright.

GreatAchiever1:
What happened to for better or for worse? It seems modern marriage is now for better or for best.
This is all shades of wrong.

cocolacec:

If the woman was the one with problem,the man will never wait before he impregnates another woman outside his marriage.

Fountainofyouth:


Are you not Nigerian? Abi what is wrong with this one? Someone made a mistake or an error it's now a Nigerian thing? Let me guess, you feel less Nigerian because you live abroad so the next thing to do is degrade everyone? Smh.

sanya4good:
The woman did nothing bad. That man deserved the treatment.

GreatAchiever1:
What happened to for better or for worse? It seems modern marriage is now for better or for best.
This is all shades of wrong.

OZIOGU1:
In this life ehh fear women,

I had the intention of bringing this story here since the journey begins but i wanted to be sure that she finalized her plans and actually believe the saying that if you meet a snake and a woman in the room, my guy secure the snake and deal with the woman .

My friend is married for 14yrs with no child, all effort to get the hubby to hospital for fertility test prove very difficult, on the other hand she did her own and it was confirm she is ok, fast forward to last year the hubby finally yielded to the family pressure and did the test in three different hospitals, lo and behold my guy was confirmed to have LSC or He can't give woman beans chop, the wife became very sad coz for her if the Man had agreed right from time by now there would have been a solution medically or trad.

Now she confirms to me she wasted her 14yrs with the Man and now she is no longer young enough to even look for a guy to settle with, then she open up on plans to japa last year October, i ask why? she said if she no get children make she get money and possibly oyinbo people no dey despise older a much older African woman the way we do here she is 40yrs. she requested i borrowed her 500k to support her movement i told her i dont have, even if i do i doubt i will give coz i am not happy the hubby is not aware of this plans.

fast forward to yesterday, this babe don move and she arrive safely and she just said comrade as she use to call me (Marriage don end be that), the hubby is not aware as i speak, how can women be this wicked?

I believe it should not get to this level, what do you think?

OZIOGU1:
In this life ehh fear women,

I had the intention of bringing this story here since the journey begins but i wanted to be sure that she finalized her plans and actually believe the saying that if you meet a snake and a woman in the room, my guy secure the snake and deal with the woman .

My friend is married for 14yrs with no child, all effort to get the hubby to hospital for fertility test prove very difficult, on the other hand she did her own and it was confirm she is ok, fast forward to last year the hubby finally yielded to the family pressure and did the test in three different hospitals, lo and behold my guy was confirmed to have LSC or He can't give woman beans chop, the wife became very sad coz for her if the Man had agreed right from time by now there would have been a solution medically or trad.

Now she confirms to me she wasted her 14yrs with the Man and now she is no longer young enough to even look for a guy to settle with, then she open up on plans to japa last year October, i ask why? she said if she no get children make she get money and possibly oyinbo people no dey despise older a much older African woman the way we do here she is 40yrs. she requested i borrowed her 500k to support her movement i told her i dont have, even if i do i doubt i will give coz i am not happy the hubby is not aware of this plans.

fast forward to yesterday, this babe don move and she arrive safely and she just said comrade as she use to call me (Marriage don end be that), the hubby is not aware as i speak, how can women be this wicked?

I believe it should not get to this level, what do you think?

Gerrard59:


Something is not a mistake when it is used consistently by netizens. It is only Nigerians I have read use BORROW instead of LEND. Ghanaians, Kenyans and South Africans don't use it. Even Europeans and Asians whose native languages aren't English don't do so. It is wrong, and I will always point it out whether I am in Nigeria or abroad. When I was in Nigeria, I always pointed out that using "Am" instead of "I am" when starting a sentence is wrong. You cannot use English from primary school to tertiary stage yet knowingly and consistently use the wrong words or phrases. A mistake is using LENT instead of LEND sometimes. Improper English is when everyone uses BORROW instead of LEND, even people one ordinarily expects to write correctly.

Then, after doing such, the same people would chant online that the British Council should waive off IELTS for Nigerians. That time has passed. Never would it happen without opposition from me. Next time I see such campaigns, I will write to the British Council with evidence never to grant them such wishes. They must continue to write IELTS till thy kingdom come!