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Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by bdon123(m): 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2023
joyd200:
Those "Abikus" in our fathers' days are SS situations, please don't be ignorant.
Na u sabi.i get 2 kids n none are ss.keep overtinking everything.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by bdon123(m): 5:06pm On Nov 14, 2023
erico2k2:

How does millions compensate for the hard life and the constant epistle the child will have to go fru each time?
How many epistle ir uncles kids dey go tru.did ur fada n his brodas do this test before marriage. D probability of hav a sickle cell is 1 in 4 ...can be 1st or last.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by Ojetayo17(m): 5:07pm On Nov 14, 2023
Make that bird run o, because life after marriage will be miserable
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by bong4(m): 5:11pm On Nov 14, 2023
determination26:
I would advice them to let their love die a natural death. I'm lucky not to be SS, but my sister wasn't so lucky. I watched her live a life of pain and in her death bed, she begged us to allow her die because the pain was just too much. I cry when i think about what she could have become but I'm happy she doesn't feel the pains anymore. If they love themselves so much, they should not allow a sickle cell child into this world to live a life of pain. Whenever a man has unprotected intercourse with a woman and cums inside, in my opinion, he has indirectly asked God for a child so he should love that precious gift he's asķing for and make sure the child doesn't come into a world of pain and suffering.


Well said! A Word is enough for the Wise
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by bong4(m): 5:16pm On Nov 14, 2023
Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him


All love stories aren't bound to end in marriage. If you truly love that lady, free her to get happiness in a relationship that is void of anxiety, panic and stress thinking what the outcome of an expected child would be.

See yourself as the "John the Baptist" for that lady, knowing fully well that her "Jesus" is around the corner.

Both of you deserve happiness in separate relationships.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by grandstar(m): 5:21pm On Nov 14, 2023
Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

At all cost, they mustn't marry.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by VULCAN(m): 5:28pm On Nov 14, 2023
What a powerful observation

akube34:
dem born first SS kid, dem still get mind born another
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by JimD(m): 5:32pm On Nov 14, 2023
If you have money, use IVF with donor egg (AA) for conception. But then I think you shouldn't use love to trap each other. There are many fishes in the sea for either of you.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by HBB1(m): 5:34pm On Nov 14, 2023
Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

They can do IVF.
They can screen for SS genotype before implantation.

Life is no longer that hard

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Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by wolebest: 5:41pm On Nov 14, 2023
Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him


The two of you better forget and perish the idea....

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Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by gidyambi(m): 5:45pm On Nov 14, 2023
Enjoy pun* and part ways, shikenan!
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by phemmyfour: 5:59pm On Nov 14, 2023
Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him
They should go their separate ways. You can't subject your future kids to pains and agony because of love. For your sanity and genuine love, you guys have to end it

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Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by MrSmithy: 6:01pm On Nov 14, 2023
You can try other options of having kids like Adoption, IVF etc...We need understand that the compatibility of couples is not a sure guarantee that they must give birth...Eg!i have a cousin who is currently seeking for adoption cox she can't give birth. Both husband and wife are medically compatible but pikin no wan show. So it's not about compatibility but the happines, bond and understanding of the man and wife. If u have the funds please go ahead and marry her cox our society has changed that negative and old mindset.

Dont end up with the wrong person all in the name of genotype unless u want to be frustrated in that marriage
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by chinnyonwu(m): 6:01pm On Nov 14, 2023
@OP youve heard it all. But see what I will add.

Do you have money?

There is a solution but it's expensive . Anytime your wife conceives , you can do a test on the fetus to determine the babys genotype . But it's expensive ... I costs upto 1m+ .

So if you are a civil servant , or you are not boxed up, kindly abort mission .

I ask again, do you have money to spend on such ?
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by KangaIye: 6:04pm On Nov 14, 2023
When it comes to birthing SS, ignorance is a silly excuse.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by Slurity(m): 6:18pm On Nov 14, 2023
Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him
NO ADVICE FOR REUNION. THEY SHOULD JUST END IT.

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Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by AyobamiIsaac12: 6:19pm On Nov 14, 2023
Leave yourselves. Don't because of love make a foolish decision that you'll continue to regret incessantly afterwards.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by tuoyoojo(m): 6:28pm On Nov 14, 2023
I would advise that you go and see a doctor and they would tell you the options you have

Amniocentesis can be done, where after your wife takes in , a sample of the fetus at 3 months can be tested for its genotype...

The results would determine your next step

But it is very expensive


Don't go and marry the wrong person because of children that would leave ur house by the time they are adults
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by folake4u(f): 6:29pm On Nov 14, 2023
ABORT MISSION!
ABORT MISSION!!
ABORT MISSION!!!

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Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by duduade: 6:35pm On Nov 14, 2023
They should leave each other as even the money no even dey
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by FalseProphet1(m): 6:35pm On Nov 14, 2023
folake4u:
ABORT MISSION!
ABORT MISSION!!
ABORT MISSION!!!
You're not a spiritual person.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by akube34: 6:43pm On Nov 14, 2023
jattopeter:
Seems you are not seeing what people are saying here now . When I was in a serious relation, I took my Fiance to Hospital Lucky enough She was As while I am AA. I told her straight up had it been we were both AS AS i Will call it a quit .My Church cant even join a couple that are both AS AS. Some children were causing their there parent for bringing them to this world to suffer. A word is enough for the wise .Dont try is pls , Love will not be able so save you when the consequences of AS Marrying AS comes knocking. Shallom
oga. I no follow you talk
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by fimzzy1991: 6:47pm On Nov 14, 2023
Abort Mission. DONT DO IT. THINK ABOUT YOUR KIDS. Except you can afford IVF+Gender selection[

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Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by ConfidentialDoc: 6:48pm On Nov 14, 2023
HBB1:


They can do IVF.
They can screen for SS genotype before implantation.

Life is no longer that hard

Exactly and these procedures are becoming more affordable too
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by Segzy19: 7:00pm On Nov 14, 2023
Quit the shit now
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by pikechukwu6(m): 7:01pm On Nov 14, 2023
As far as it's not marriage continue chopping kpekus till you find the bone of your bone undecided kiss
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by emmastuffs(m): 7:08pm On Nov 14, 2023
There's nothing God cannot do. You really don't have to test Him though. I've had my traditional marriage before discovering I'm AS, my wife is also AS.
After the discovery we were both shattered as white wedding was about to be cancelled. Long story short we both decided we'll carry on, family members said no but we insisted. Today we've got two lovely kids both AA.
Grace is different but again God is a miracle working God.

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Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by tuoyoojo(m): 7:23pm On Nov 14, 2023
emmastuffs:
There's nothing God cannot do. You really don't have to test Him though. I've had my traditional marriage before discovering I'm AS, my wife is also AS.
After the discovery we were both shattered as white wedding was about to be cancelled. Long story short we both decided we'll carry on, family members said no but we insisted. Today we've got two lovely kids both AA.
Grace is different but again God is a miracle working God.

Lovely testimony
I was in same shoes about 7 years ago. Bf I started dating my wife. I asked her of her genotype because I was AS. She told me she did it when she was young and it was AA.

Na so we let love carry us go where we nor know. Fast forward to when we were planning for our wedding, mumsy insisted we did the test again that was how I found she was given the wrong results.

I wanted to call it off as that was the natural response but I prayed for God's direction and I asked Him to give me a sign.

Truly God gave me the sign and gave me peace during that time.

We have two kids,one AA and other AS. Throughout the pregnancies we kept praying that God would show himself faithful and truly He did.

If the OP has a personal relationship with God ,ask Him for directions. Don't go to God with ur mind made up because you would hear a false yes. God to him with a neutral mind and God would speak to you in the manner he uses to speak to you personally.

Most people would tell u to quit the relationship as though it is easy to find someone who is compatible. If God says u should go ahead and quit, then pls do becausehe would give you a better replacement.

If not he would give u the same testimony he gave me

I would tell u something, the main purpose of marriage is companionship. Children are secondary because when they are adults they would up and leave, while you would be stuck with who so ever u married.

Apologies if you end up with the wrong spouse
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by Matinox: 7:35pm On Nov 14, 2023
DeepSight:


You had better stop right there in your tracks.

Do you believe God can heal HIV?
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by Nobody: 7:37pm On Nov 14, 2023
Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

There is no single encouragement for him. It is what it is. That love should just die. That is all there is to it. There are no words to describe the massive amount of pain in a new human body that could result from their love. Nobody deserves to experience that pain. So they should just shake hands as friends and go about their separate lives.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by Nobody: 7:45pm On Nov 14, 2023
determination26:
I would advice them to let their love die a natural death. I'm lucky not to be SS, but my sister wasn't so lucky. I watched her live a life of pain and in her death bed, she begged us to allow her die because the pain was just too much. I cry when i think about what she could have become but I'm happy she doesn't feel the pains anymore. If they love themselves so much, they should not allow a sickle cell child into this world to live a life of pain. Whenever a man has unprotected intercourse with a woman and cums inside, in my opinion, he has indirectly asked God for a child so he should love that precious gift he's asķing for and make sure the child doesn't come into a world of pain and suffering.

Indeed. I don't know about the circumstances that led to your parents being together so I will choose to assume that it was ignorance of their genotypes. But those that know ehnnn, as far as I'm concerned, for the fact that they could force a soul that was ready to come to earth into a very painful body, their judgement...hmmmm.
I believe that some souls might want to come to life and want to go through the pain for some learning or development purpose. But let such souls come through parents who didn't know of their genotypes, not some wickedly selfish immature individuals.
Re: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by Nobody: 7:49pm On Nov 14, 2023
Guyman01:

I hope he reads this, I have a friend with 2 SS kids, I don't want to explain what they are passing through because its really a very pathetic situation cry cry
The first child didn't display any symptoms until they had the second child, then it was confirmed that they are both SS.
He knew about his AS status, prior to their marriage the wife went for genotype test in a lab and they told her she was AA, she didn't go to a second lab for second opinion.

Okay. As long as it was truly a mistake and not that she got to know but somehow chose to deceive the guy, then it's okay.

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