Like the title says. Do you know someone, a man or a woman that his or her ways was questionable in character, changed completely. Not change for few months or a year or as we popularly call it “taking a break” but changes that spans for years/decades and the changes brings about a new lovable character in this person.


E.g

Someone that stops smoking 5 - 10 years ago
Someone that stopped drinking ………….
Someone that stops fornicating ………….
A liar and dishonest person that completely stopped
A cheat that completely stopped
Etc etc.


Please be nice with the comments!

I know people who stopped smoking for more than 10 years.

immortalcrown:
I know people who stopped smoking for more than 10 years.

And they never went back to it even for once?

Carcholce:


And they never went back to it even for once?

Yes.

immortalcrown:
Yes.

Impressive! Thank you for sharing.

I have only seen in cases of addiction.

But you see wickedness, I don't believe a wicked person can change.....The reason you think they've changed is because they haven't got opportunity to exhibit their wickedness.

Yes
My dad ( Late tho)

He used to be a smoker cos he was in the Millitary

Gave up smoking before marrying my mum, my mum never saw him smoke, neither do I

Infact it was a surprise when my mum told me that he said he used to be a smoker

Bahamas95:
I have only seen in cases of addiction.

But you see wickedness, I don't believe a wicked person can change.....The reason you think they've changed is because they haven't got opportunity to exhibit their wickedness.

Are you saying a human, as small as a day old baby is born wicked and cannot be changed even from the stimulating effect of love?

illicit:
Yes
My dad ( Late tho)

He used to be a smoker cos he was in the Millitary

Gave up smoking before marrying my mum, my mum never saw him smoke, neither do I

Infact it was a surprise when my mum told me that he said he used to be a smoker

Impressive. Thank you for sharing!

I know about my uncle... He used to be a thug somewhere between the 80s and 90s... He and his group used to major in committing heists and robberies.

He's been in and out of prison before between the 80s and 90s.

But now he's completely changed... He's got a stable job and he's married with kids.

Carcholce:


Impressive. Thank you for sharing!

I gave up smoking too

Not up to five years tho

I don't see myself going back, I am free

illicit:


I gave up smoking too

Not up to five years tho

I don't see myself going back, I am free

I am glad you did. How do you manage the triggers? Do you avoid friends that smoke? Party invites? etc!

Samantha124:
I know about my uncle... He used to be a thug somewhere between the 80s and 90s... He and his group used to major in committing heists and robberies.

He's been in and out of prison before between the 80s and 90s.

But now he's completely changed... He's got a stable job and he's married with kids.

Impressive!

Thank you for sharing.

Carcholce:


I am glad you did. How do you manage the triggers? Do you avoid friends that smoke? Party invites? etc!

Yes I did

It wasn't easy


Actually I can't divorce this fact, I went for a deliverance session about one year earlier

Since that day I was convinced that I needed to quit smoking, so I started working and looking forward to it

It wasn't easy

A simp changed his ways right before my very eyes. It was impressive the level of assertion he attained, became so bossy and borderline disrespectful. He would never go back to his old ways. Just didn't see it happening.

Carcholce:


Are you saying a human, as small as a day old baby is born wicked and cannot be changed even from the stimulating effect of love?

Based on personal experience all the wicked people I have known are still wicked. They'll just relax for a while and look for a good opportunity to strike harder.

Taming/showing a baby cobra love doesn't mean it won't unleash it's venom later.....I don't believe a wicked person can totally change. They only pretend to deceive you.

illicit:
Yes
My dad ( Late tho)

He used to be a smoker cos he was in the Millitary

Gave up smoking before marrying my mum, my mum never saw him smoke, neither do I

Infact it was a surprise when my mum told me that he said he used to be a smoker

It's up to you to continue where he stops as the true son of your father.

illicit:


I gave up smoking too

Not up to five years tho

I don't see myself going back, I am free

how did you stop this, i really to stop my self

Bankerboy:
how did you stop this, i really to stop my self

It's not easy but then it's not impossible

It starts with determination

I smoked to a point that it no longer highs me, I began to see it s a waste of time and money, yet the urge won't stop coming

That's the worst part, I was no longer in control of myself

I decided to quit after I went for deliverance about a year earlier, I started to reduce my intake, sometimes I won't smoke for two days

It's weed o, I never smoked cigarettes

Gradually gradually, I stopped buying it