I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

Oga, if you wan help am, help am.

The way you sound here shows you are the type that brags too much or lord over people you help.

Your good does not justify your bad. You tried by giving him job links. But you are heartless for refusing to assist him with transport fare. Legally, you owe him nothing. But morally, you owe him every good thing you can afford for him.

Things are so bad for some people that they can miss wonderful opportunities because of lack of transport fare. The demand for transport fare can be a sign of unseriousness from some people. Yet, there are people who are serious but cannot afford transport fare, so they beg. This guy didn't ask you for money for his luch on the day he will go for the interview. He didn't ask you to buy him cloth or airtime for the interview. He only asked for transport. Do you think transport fare is the only thing an applicant needs for an interview? Be considerate abeg.

westlius:
I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

You're heartless. But don't worry, life na turn by turn.

westlius:
I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

U were in a position to help bt u chose nt to. U feel like a big boy nw ,right? Anyways, its none of my concern bt alwys knw that littl tns mata

westlius:
I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

You not being considerate

inkon:


You're heartless. But don't worry, life na turn by turn.

My dear given him a link for job I tried oo.
Apart from me don't he has close relatives.
I have never seen him since 2020 but I still find am job when he called

MidasTouch15:

U were in a position to help bt u chose nt to. U feel like a big boy nw ,right? Anyways, its none of my concern bt alwys knw that littl tns mata

If I never wanted to help I would have posted him.
U know how many persons are looking for job.
2 months till yesterday I am always on net for 1 hr looking for job for him.
Not just him u here. I have 5 friend I am looking for jobs for them.
2 are now working successfully.
It gives me joy my friends are working.
U don't expect me to burn data find job for u
And still give u transportation for the work

Wawelexy:



You not being considerate

My dear for 2 months u sending him lots of job invites
Now one calls him for a position.
He wants me to give him transportation.
When he was working at uyo he never called or message me
Now he is in ph he remembered he had some1

If this story is true then you've tried for him by giving him the link to apply for jobs.

However, even though you owe him nothing and he's not the owner of your funds, you could have tried helping him further.

This country hard no be small, I can't count interviews I've gone for and none materialised. I don't even apply anymore because the money for transport is not even funny.


For recruiters that are here and will probably see this please that phrase you guys love so much which is "WE WILL GET BACK TO YOU", abeg if you know the person is not qualified from the questions you asked or the assessment just tell the candidates and try to state the reason why he wasn't chosen. That phrase tends to give candidates hope and most recruiters won't even bother reaching out regardless of the outcome, it's not encouraging at all. Everyone is trying their best not to become a criminal.

He was probably scamming u and didnt get any job invite.

inkon:


You're heartless. But don't worry, life na turn by turn.

My dear my turn don come
U know how many people I have helped in this life without expecting or getting anything in return.

westlius:

My dear for 2 months u sending him lots of job invites
Now one calls him for a position.
He wants me to give him transportation.
When he was working at uyo he never called or message me
Now he is in ph he remembered he had some1

1k is something you can give to a stranger you don't even know, talk more of someone you had an acquaintances with, except if you yourself don't have it sha, but you goofed up if you are in position to give an acted that way

westlius:
I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

Black mentality, you think he has the money and doesn’t want to go, you were in position to easily help someone but the stupid mentality of I have done enough for him wouldn’t let you

If na woman now you go begin spend cash and be calling yourself omenka

Don’t tell your gee “I cannot” instead tell him “it’s out of your capability”

1k scam 😶

atilla:
He was probably scamming u and didnt get any job invite.

And you brought this online,make e go thief transport?or you dont know how hard things are?you tried but dont be too insensitive .its not easy for people

I don't know why you are angry ... Someone that is not working is on a negative balance in the first place ... If you don't have , then you tell him so, and encourage him to use is legedizbenz , not getting angry over nothing... It is like giving someone a private Jet and a pilot and asking him to come join you in San Francisco from Nigeria but he has to fuel the jet ...for someone used to fueling just his car and earning regular income .. fueling a private jet is not his mate ...but did the person do wrong giving you the private jet ..no

westlius:

If I never wanted to help I would have posted him.
U know how many persons are looking for job.
2 months till yesterday I am always on net for 1 hr looking for job for him.
Not just him u here. I have 5 friend I am looking for jobs for them.
2 are now working successfully.
It gives me joy my friends are working.
U don't expect me to burn data find job for u
And still give u transportation for the work

I think they expect you to help him more than he wants to help himself.

After you send him transport money and he gets the job, some will be here telling you to go and do the work for him too so he can get paid.

Brother man just 1k and you could not help him , you think he have it .if he can still go for the interview tomorrow please drop his account number

can you stop talking and go back to lift that Broda up

westlius:

My dear for 2 months u sending him lots of job invites
Now one calls him for a position.
He wants me to give him transportation.
When he was working at uyo he never called or message me
Now he is in ph he remembered he had some1

westlius:
I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

Ordinary 1k u no fit give ur guy?? Just 1k??

If na woman now u go triple the amount.


Baba u disapoint aje

I pray never to have a friend like this wicked OP!

You think you've done more than enough by sending him useless links for job. Nonsense human being!

westlius:
I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

Bro forget, you didn't do well at hall

atilla:
He was probably scamming u and didnt get any job invite.

I don't think this is true

Zonefree:
I pray never to have a friend like this wicked OP!

You think you've done more than enough for him by sending him useless links for job. Nonsense human being!

I don't need friend like u too
we were never friends
saw him last 3years ago
I he Neva called or chatted till he needed something
which I sacrificed my time in given him.
I even regreted giving him the link
my ex staff who isn't working and his wife just put to bed (I linked him to a job in gra but they still not open yet, it's a new place)
he will be glad for the job.

everyone saying funny thing don't just understand.
heaven help those who help themselves.
I don't run an work agency.
I am also an husler too
I am greatful for where God placed me.
the zeal of the person was poor, most times I send him links, I even remind him always if he has applied. he only love requesting for urgent 2k.
I had this friend of mine(ex staff) one day last month while leaving the office I heard of a vacancy, I had to put a call to my ex staff, I was shocked 1 hr later he called he was around my office.
I was please, he submitted the CV and requested to transport, I was happy given him.
is a person who needs a job not like the other one who wants a free lunch

westlius:

I don't need friend like u too
we were never friends
saw him last 3years ago
I he Neva called or chatted till he needed something
which I sacrificed my time in given him.
I even regreted giving him the link
my ex staff who isn't working and his wife just put to bed (I linked him to a job in gra but they still not open yet, it's a new place)
he will be glad for the job.

But what is wrong with you? What makes you think that your friend wasn't happy to get an invite? Na ontop 1k you dey type this nonsense gibberish thinking you are wise? If he had the transport you think he would have bothered to ask you? Why do a favour half way and think you've done enough, with the way things are hard in this country, some people can't even feed well, that guy is definitely at a minus and you've spoilt his chances of a job, to even get an invite in this current economy is a miracle because everywhere red, yet all you can use to defend yourself is he was never your friend, bla bla bla trying to justify nonsense of three years ago,

It's obvious this one cannot even help a stranger, smh.

Just 1k you denied him an opportunity because you give him the link ? Haba this is not nice naa

In all honesty if it's a beautiful girl you just met and you're sexually attracted to

You wouldn't mind sending her the money after helping her look for a job

You'd even ask her if she'd like to use bolt or Uber in a bid to get under her skirt.

Men the suffer sha

Stop saying u helped the guy cos u didn`t. If u did i see no reason why u can`t just give out 1k someone for his tp to the said work place. Just knw that as life de sweet u 2day table fit turn nd u seek his help 2moro.

So nobody is going to talk about how men are the biggest setbacks to each other's destinies?

Anybody?


Okay.

There is an adage where I come from, it goes like this "if you give a lazy person cloth, you dye it for the person"

I want you to think about the adage as it applies to the situation and tell me your thought on it