Beverlyjean:
Don't ever visit a man in his house ...no matter who he is

Jewessgratitud3:
This is to create rape awareness and warn young girls and mothers out there to take precautionary measures to reduce rape cases because these things happen every now and then and those it happened to may not be able to disclose it to anyone.

Teach your girls never to trust or visit a man alone.

In my case it was a near rape experience on two occasions. One was in the 80s when I was still a kid and the other happened when I was already an adult.

The first one, I was playing with some neighbors children in our neighborhood. They were twin boys and same age as my twin and I.

As we were playing in their house with other children our age, their elder brother, a very big guy in his mid 20s then just walked in and as we all tried to rush out of the house, he just pulled me back, layed me on the bed and lied on top of me. I was just under his stomach struggling, kicking and screaming that he should let me go that my mom is going to beat me. Immediately he stood up and I ran out of the house. The other children didn't know what was going on.

I got home and told my Mom and she quickly checked my body and didn't see anything. She asked me if he touched my body I said no that he just layed on my body. she warned me never to go there again and I stopped.

The second one happened in 2013 after one of my chairmen fired me for turning down his advances.
There was this man that used to give me a lift to work then before I lost the job. He would come to the bustop and pick me. At a point I started avoiding him because it was becoming too much. When he noticed I no longer stood at the bustop he started coming to wait for me in front of my house.
When he came one day and found out I had lost my job, he promised to help me get a job in his office.

One day he told me that there's an opening that I should come let's discuss how I'll go about it. I went there and as soon as I entered his house he shut the door, threw the key in a far corner of his room and pushed me on the bed. Gosh! I felt like my life was over. I started screaming, I pushed and pushed and kicked until he got tired and stood up. I told him to open the door before I do something stupid he now opened and I left. God! That was so close!

Since then I never trusted anyone again. I kept to myself for long and till tomorrow none of my family members know about this. I couldn't bring myself to tell anyone except my then ex though we were not together at the time. I just called him and said see what happened to me and he blamed me for going there. I ended the call and that was it.

Please young ladies and mothers to baby girls, protect your girl child at all cost and always warn them of the dangers of going alone to a mans house.. many have been lured and even killed while struggling with a rapist.

Let's be safe out there

Dexy4yah:


Story.....which girl doesn't visit a man in his house....abegi

Beverlyjean:


Then she should not complain if he tries nonsense

emerged01:
Rape doesn't only happen to girls,it also happens to young guys too. I was once in such position,a lady almost a raped me but in this situation I had to beg her and promised her that i will come back for her that i urgently need to attend to something.
If I had decided to overcome her with my power,the table might turn and I could end be accused so I had to beg her and promised to come back which I never did. This lady was even a neighbour's maid. Some weeks later I discovered she was pregnant and later stopped working with her boss after incident.

Jewessgratitud3:


I'm telling you.

My dear I've not gone for any therapy. Like I'm so ashamed to tell anyone this. I can do that here because no body knows me here.

It was a terrible experience..

Thanks dear.

Beverlyjean:
Don't ever visit a man in his house ...no matter who he is .... ur ex told u the truth...instead of u to accept the fact , u got angry and cut the call on him....

Hardy123:
This insane lady again

Madam rest

Zukwanike

Nobody gives an "F" about your useless story and needless advice especially coming from a depressed evening news paper

Once again, madam rest

Or is Seun paying you for all this ?

CollectMoney:


Most men don't rape ladies. Some guys actually have excellent upbringing. They usually consider or put themselves/family/relatives in the same position as whoever they are dealing with. For example, a guy who values his sister(s) wouldn't attempt to rape a girl that visits him because he wouldn't wish same on his sister.

Some will treat their elders with respect as much as they would want their parents to be treated.

It is men from dysfunctional homes, bastards sons of whoring mothers etc that constitute societal menace.

Obierika:


You have no business calling a person you have never met before an evening newspaper or shaming a lady for being unmarried!

Jewessgratitud3:


I went there with trust and a clear mind, also because he lived in my neighborhood. I didn't know he had such in mind but now I know better that's why I'm trying to warn fellow ladies never to trust anyone

Hardy123:
Lol Simp. I know your type already, nothing new.

Hardy123:
This insane lady again

Madam rest

Zukwanike

Nobody gives an "F" about your useless story and needless advice especially coming from a depressed evening news paper

Once again, madam rest

Obierika:


Piss off!

If you see that lady physically I doubt if you will have the liver to look her in the eye and talk trash to her.

You teenagers can only talk tough online cos this is an anonymous platform!

EriMma1:


You must be stupid for calling someone you hardly know despicable names. You lots go about insulting ladies because you don't have a good mother figure and responsible sisters worthy of any respect enough to value other females outside and you think it's cool?

A Low life like you should not even belong to a forum of sensible and respectable class of people cos from your unruly behavior you obviously belong to the gutters. Get trashed immediately. You numskull.

Hardy123:
Lol empty barrels make the loudest noise. If you are in ABJ, I'll invite you to my estate, let's see if you can say this to my face.

Dexy4yah:


Story.....which girl doesn't visit a man in his house....abegi

PawsitiveBro:
I bet they won't learn anything from this. You know why? Hunger dey

emekalovepets:
All this evening news paper and lie na five and six continue with your stupidity of rape … if u cross check this evening news paper now na em go Dey pay boys to sleep with em

advanceDNA:


Greed and long throat seff dey....The need to buy wig and phones they can't afford and don't want to afford...

EriMma1:


Keep quiet! Does that give you men the right to rape? Just imagine and you think you're not a potential rapist with this silly comment of yours?

You have no moral justification whatsoever to rape any girl whether she's greedy or not.

If you continue with this mentality the laws will soon catch up with you.

Justifying nonsense with rubbish.

EriMma1:


You must be stupid for calling someone you hardly know despicable names. You lots go about insulting ladies because you don't have a good mother figure and responsible sisters worthy of any respect enough to value other females outside and you think it's cool?

A Low life like you should not even belong to a forum of sensible and respectable class of people cos from your unruly behavior you obviously belong to the gutters. Get trashed immediately. You numskull.

Jewessgratitud3:


Are you nuts? You see henceforth you and that you local champion madam will be highly ignored cos I see you two are very senseless and don't worth my mentions.

Jewessgratitud3:
My matter will always keep you on your toes.
So be my guest.

Talking of agadi, with my advanced age I still look ten times better than you that claim to be young with those your masculine legs. Woman be like man for body, every where strong like iron bender. Tufia!

Better to be advanced in age than have your kind of body

ExudeLoveToAll:


That's the pathetic situation we find ourselves. You see guys in all thread about rape shouting down guys that are perpetuators to be castrated and all evil but you will never see same people condem this against boys thinking that boys enjoy it while been raped.

This issue will continue like this until we see crime as crime irrespective of who is guilty of the crimes. This view that sexual molestation can only be done to his is archaic and nonsensical.

myami:
you know any lady that rapes guys. I'm horñy at the moment