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If you are lucky. I have a sis that works there before I had my daughter

Mixfeeling:
. she pick up her phone and call her dad that his husband has started that they should warn me bla bla bla and cut off the phone conversation, i call her after some hours to know if she thoroughly went ahead with the journey, i found out she was already in Lagos

You said she called her dad to tell him her husband has started again. That means you both have been at logger heads before (probably about you trying to remind her "I am the head of this house".

Being that as it might, if you were my brother... I would tell you to make sure immediately the woman is back in Sagamu, she and the goods she bought in Lagos moves to her father's house... Since she already called them to warn you not to exercise your authority on your wife

If you let this slide by handling it with a cold voice and kids gloves, it will b the beginning of your sorrow. Make sure you stand your ground make sure she sleeps in her father's house.

Sometimes patience and leaving a tensed environment could have a lot of influence.

Avoid a cheating hubby like a plague too

All these rumors sha

Fake alert from the pit of hell

lovelygirl04:
Pls has anybody from Ogun State gotten d screening message?

I haven't seen mine please. When did they start. I don't even know how to travel from kaduna to Ogun for the test with a 8 month old baby.

Ist not as if the job is even certain. We all just making efforts

lovelygirl04:
Pls has anybody from Ogun State gotten d screening message?

screening message?

Chillext:
for this present economy?

abi now. Ibeji love dara ju laye yii

BLUELemon:
hello seems people think we are the same. How are we going to share your 5k

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We r waiting for the strike

ifyalways:
Omowumi17 and 7thLemonLover has been credited.

And thats Goodbye thread till some other time.

Good evening. I am grateful. I just got the alert. I am very Grateful. May God bless you and provide for you the more. Thank you

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ifyalways:
7thLemonlover and Fyngal1 are my last set of winners.

Please send your account details.

wow thanks ma

They won't collect it. They will say all applications are done online

;Dlol

ifyalways:
Are you 7thLemonlover

no I am me. I am not blue lemon o

Remove the sword. I don't think sword as a weapon is native to yoruba people.. You can use assorted charms just like the Nigeria police used to post when they make arrest of thugs

Only if people had given the 5k offer a chance it would have been easier to win.
Happy Sunday all. Remember to go to church and drop your offering

I don't know if this counts as betrayal. Our first born knew there was a guy I really like and the guy was stylishly making passes at me but never went straight to the point.

That was when In 100 level. When I was I was in 2oo level my got the news that my sister was going to get married to the guy.

At a point I stylishly told my mum my sister was getting married to my boyfriend but no one said anything. It broke me and I am still angry whenever I see my sister with him. They even have kids now. It really changed my acts towards my family sha. Maybe someday I will heal

He kinda looks like wizkid when the dude was still very young

Wow if this is real, it's better we try it on Mars

You will give birth to twins lol

Jesus is Lord

Wow mum has this at home.... God! Wow

I believe the church is changing but the beauty about being Catholic is know that your priest is your responsibility.

By the time they start having wives and children, it may bring Christianity to its knees

You can start importing women's shoes and hair in bulk.... The gain is really very nice

mainman7:
Thanks. Sincerely, money is not my motivation. I thank Yahweh for giving me a lucrative job. I'm often shocked when I see some of my Humanity/Christian liberating writeups copied and pasted on foreign sites, facebook, etc. If one refused to fulfill the Purpose for which he or she was created, the generation shall suffer and account of negligence shall be given to HE that sent us. Mail me your number Strongest777@live.com

mail you my number? For what exactly?

Fresh air is needed

Ejebleje:
Na im be say you go see only one man with like 68 rings for hand

funny but loyalty and honesty is the safest

This life is filled with irony

Holidays! I come from a family, I like to think we ought to be considered the 'Christmas family' or called 'the new year family'. If Santa comes visiting after Christmas and new year holidays, he wouldn't meet a twitching bird nor a cricket's sound to greet him.


For me, holidays started earlier than expected. Can you imagine the fun and expectations it brings? Maybe, but you can't fathom how demanding it could be for a last child from a family of 7.


On the 8th of December 2019, I got a whatsapp broadcast message from our family group mandating all the children whether married or single to be home by 16th of December. I had to flip through the whatapp group to know if I was going to exit it because I was feeling the messages were probably directed at me.


On the 18th of December, I got to NARTO motor park as early as 5am in order to make sure I sat in the middle row which I consider to be the best position in a commuter bus.
As I was waiting for the mosque's loud speakers to die down and wondering how vast language and culture in Nigeria is, my thoughts was halted by a barge of men and women speaking fulfulde. I quickly stood up with my brown wallash traveling bag and briskly entered the bus only to be greater by a warm handsome smile but I acted as if it didn't count.

Although, I knew if we were going to be sharing the same row, if he didn't talk to me I wouldn't talk to him either no matter how strong the urge might be. Even if he is Buhari's son, I will maintain my ego because I know once we get to kano, everyone will part ways to continue their journey but I was wrong.


That was how I began my two days journey from katsina to Lagos. As the vehicle was about to leave NARTO Park enroute UNGUWAR UKU MOTOR in kano, I started feeling like vomiting. Five minutes into the trip, i tapped the guy and signalled to him that I wanted to vomit.


He understood my sign language and told the driver in hausa to park. Before I could step out of the vehicle, I had vomited the toast bread and eggs I eat earlier. It was really embarrassing, but I felt comfortable after throwing up.

The guy sitting beside me brought his bottled water and offered his handkerchief to clean my face. I collected it but I was really afraid of using it owing to the fact I have heard different stories of how hausa people hypnotize unsuspecting people with handkerchief.


We got back into the journey and talked. I asked him about academics and he told me he is a 300level undergraduate at Bayero University Kano. I smiled and told him I didn't attend any school but I am hoping to soon. He smiled and asked again and I told him am a 2017 graduate of University of Abuja.

If I had told him the truth, 2015, that might scare him off. I just hope he isn't reading this essay.

During our conversation we exchanged numbers and I got to understand he was traveling to Lagos but had to branch in Kano. I was surprised and told him I was headed to Lagos too as its a family tradition for all family members to come home, irrespective of their marital status.

He laughed and questioned why that was compulsory since we are all matured. I explained that he ought to consider it as a form of reunion and getting to care for each family members lagging behind in livelihood. I don't blame him, he is a kind young dude who barely has an excellent idea about maternal and paternal bond.


After four hours of traveling and resisting the urge to chat my Facebook and whatsapp friends up because of my new found acquaintance, the messages started trickling in like drops off a river.


The notifications were much and I didn't want him to feel like I was hiding anything, so I had to reply the few I could. I was conscious of him looking and I took the bull by the horn and started showing him my pictures; that of my sister's wedding, my brothers, that of my parents.

He made me feel like a big girl because of my infinix S4 but that feeling didn't last much till he pulled out his iPhone with three cameras. What is it even called, iPhone 12?

We got to a place we could eat and I ordered rice for both of us, he smiled and did not reject nor question it. He only reminded me I need to get drugs

We continued the trip and he asked if I was staying in kano. I told him I was traveling through but I would Lodge and continue my trip the next morning. He kept quite for a while and I could only liken it to an awkward silence. "So instead of looking for a hotel late in the night, what if I offered a better place for you to stay and we continue our trip to Lagos in the morning"?

I didn't know if I should accept or decline then I responded that I would rather prefer an hotel because I barely met him some hours ago. He responded, "we are all bound to meet at a certain point in life. I am not evil ".

He called his uncle's wife and told her she should be expecting two guests. Partly, I felt happy but uneasy; one for being given the privilege to save my money and comfort, second, for spending a night with a semi-stranger.

When we got to the park, we were picked by the wife but she was stealing a glimpse of me each minute like, ''what is Habeeb doing with this "Kafir"? And the thing was, at that point, I couldn't go back to seek a hotel.

I called my big sister to inform her I would be staying with a friend although I didn't go deep as to how we met. We were served rice. Part of me wanted to reject the meal because I have been eating rice throughout the trip. I did not want to turn it down so she may not feel bad.

The next morning she greeted me really nicely, she asked if I wouldn't mind bread, eggs and tea. I told her I didn't want to be vomiting, and she was Sympathetic to my response.

She dropped me and Habeeb off at the park but this time, she was super nice to me. My best bet was Habeeb already narrated how we met. Women and their palava sha.

When we got to Ibadan, I posted on my family group chat that I made a friend on my way from katsina. I shared a selfie we took together with Habeeb's iPhone on the group. I must say we were both beautiful. IPhone is designed to present reality in a refined way, please i am not advertising them I am just saying android comes no closer.

When we got to Lagos, my family was at the park with an entourage waiting to pick us. So much cars you would think Sanwolu came to park. So much love it's hard not to be emotional.

The truth is, when you are scarce the demand is high: when you are available, the value depreciates.

We had to go drop Habeeb some where on the island. We maintained contact and the whole family keeps asking, "How's your sugar boy. When is he coming to visit ?"

On the 22nd of December I had to take big Sister's Camry to make transportation easy. Me and Habeeb took a trip to very interesting places in Lagos. Anyway, Lagos is big.

On the 23rd, I fell ill and spent more than more than 7 days on admission. Doctor quoted malaria and typhoid. I wonder where it came from because I was never Ill or had any symptoms of malaria.

I wouldn't let this weigh me down, It's already in the past and my goals this year is to take notice of my health more. I also intend to get a life insurance eventhough I used to attach a lot of superstitious believe to it.

Part of my 2020 goals is also to expand my business since I'm self employed. I am also working towards a steady relationship and I promised to be careful with my conversation. Nonetheless, I won’t let Anyone waste your time. It's not as if I am raising my expectations too high I am just recharging my energy!

I hope God helps me because without him efforts might be in vain.