Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Bross u no get problem Na!!!


If them begin count the NUMBER of ASHAWO way I don NACK for inside las month way we just comort, E go reach to form full COMMUNITY!!!


U no get problem at all.


If that side too cost, enter NAIJA.. cheap cheap ASHAWO house full here..


Tins don cost for SMALL market and MAIN market so ASHAWO don reduce price for here..


ASHAWO need money now and customers..


Yesterday na 1k I use NACK better ASHAWO


I still use another 1k NACK another ASHAWO for another hotel.


The last ASHAWO wey I carry, na very fat girl..


She nearly break my PREEK with her fat laps..


My PREEK no even gree go inside her TOTTO finish because her belle too BIG!!


But still on still, here cheap..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

This guy

Karlifate:


You want to get married solely for having regular sex


Get ready for the rude shock of your life.

Exactly bro.

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One of the scams of marriage is that you will be knacking your wife anytime your dick stand.

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Big fat lie.

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Most married men cheating today is because their wives no longer give it to them like before.

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Especially after having children.

canada123:


Yh it’s an expensive thing to engage in especially in this part of the world . Imagine what I could have done with the funds . Maybe even gotten a land back home or helped someone in serious need

Pls try to seek counseling.

canada123:
Hi guys,

and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost

LOL! As someone whose parents owns hotels, I laughed when I read that line. It is not possible. In fact, the major patrons of sex workers are MARRIED MEN. Yes, married men. Unfortunately, there is no data yet, but I want to bet sexually active bachelors have sexual intercourse more regularly than their married counterparts. Marriage doesn't guarantee constant sex. If God wants to punish you, you get married to one of those Twitter feminazis who will accuse you of marital rape kini kon and you get exposed by their goodness Uju Anya and Co. Canada has in abundance of such women.

Bants aside, marriage does not guarantee frequent sex. Your wife will deny you sex several times thus leading to frustration on your side. See
the lamentations of fellow Nairalanders: https://www.nairaland.com/6888695/dear-married-men-how-cope

My advice? You need therapy or strong spiritual prayer to let go of this addiction. Then, redirect your energies to other activities such as your popular sport, travelling, reading, learning a new language, starting a business, investing etc. There are more than a thousand activities to indulge in which are mentally stimulating and even though might be expensive, they have a high return oin investment. Having sex with different women - different yansh shapes and breast sizes - is sweet as a man due to testosterone, but the ROI is low. That has been my issue with brosititution.

canada123:


Was told this could happen , but also told it could be a head start to healing since you would be getting it on a regular basis , and all the money you currently spending would be saved towards something more productive

Also was advised to keep all my money into my senior sisters account , because having access to cash makes me tempted to book an escort
It’s so expensive, in Ontario (Toronto ) it’s 200 for half hour and 400 for an hour of sex . I’m so disappointed and ashamed of myself

You are a rich man o. You need strong therapy and spiritual prayers as backup. Very strong one. I recommend Mountain of Fire Ministries. Go to the headquarters o. But sorry to inform you, you won't get regular sex from your wife, especially after childbirth and above two children.

canada123:


To be sincere , it’s a combination of both. Before travelling to Canada, I used hookup girls occasionally in Nigeria, but was very rare because I had a girlfriend so I never had a sex problem in Nigeria . Was good, when I got here then it kind of became a problem and I made the mistake of trying an escort here , thinking it would be a one off thing, but now I’m so deep into the act and want to be delivered f But here started like a joke and now I’m in this mess

Which means you don't have a girlfriend in Canada. The question is: why? Since being in a committed relationship will reduce your "going outside" to satisfy yourself.

Uchesis:
One of the scams of marriage is that you will be knacking your wife anytime your dick stand.

Big fat lie.

Most married men cheating today is because their wives no longer give it to them like before.

Especially after having children.

Fact

Gerrard59:
But sorry to inform you, you won't get regular sex from your wife, especially after childbirth and above two children.

Universal fact.

It wouldn't stop after marriage.

Sorry to break it to you.

canada123:
Oh nice, I think I would accelerate my plans of getting married too. I just feel it would help solve the problem to a large extent

I think what could break the temptation is non availability of funds.

You could try opening an online savings account that only allows you to withdraw twice a year and you just make 2 withdrawals of $1 each on Jan 1 and 2 and then you cant withdraw until the next year when you then repeat the cycle. Also avoid credit cards which may allow you to withdraw cash at the machine. In fact, avoid loans and credit cards and from your salary only leave in your account what you need for the basics and transfer the rest into this 1 year account.

This will slow you down at least by your not having access to cash easily and you should also tell your mum and siblings not to lend you any money i you ask the. Tell them you are saving for a mortgage.

Actually if you have that kind of money, what about getting a mortgage even if it is a little one so that the bulk of your money will go to paying off your monthly mortgage and the good thing is that that house you buy will pay off in 25 years time and will be a good source of additional pension. All rent is waste by the way.

Delete your only fans and Instagram accounts so that you don't get tempted by those women and if it means changing your phone number / sim card to avoid those women that already have your number, then so be it. The end justifies the means.

Good luck.

imagrg:
Don't blame him oh...toto scarce for Canada oh.

It is technically

Anashe:


It's good you're willing to stop, and it's an important first step. But you should go to therapy before subjecting another person's child to this habit. Without seeking proper help, I'm afraid you won't stop after marriage because your wife will not always be able to (pregnancy, childbirth, life, etc.)

Wow from the comments now I’m scared, cause that was really my main aim of getting married to help solve this issue

Rickmann:


Pls try to seek counseling.

I’ve started talking to close relatives and friends about it.

And also trying to use the money to buy things for myself when the konji hits

But another issue is my masturbation has increased greatly. I can masturbate like 6 times in a day .

That’s another issue too

Gerrard59:


You are a rich man o. You need strong therapy and spiritual prayers as backup. Very strong one. I recommend Mountain of Fire Ministries. Go to the headquarters o. But sorry to inform you, you won't get regular sex from your wife, especially after childbirth and above two children.



Which means you don't have a girlfriend in Canada. The question is: why? Since being in a committed relationship will reduce your "going outside" to satisfy yourself.

I’m working on it. I’m 26. Would be 27 this year. Really working on getting a girlfriend .

Ilekokonit:


I think what could break the temptation is non availability of funds.

You could try opening an online savings account that only allows you to withdraw twice a year and you just make 2 withdrawals of $1 each on Jan 1 and 2 and then you cant withdraw until the next year when you then repeat the cycle. Also avoid credit cards which may allow you to withdraw cash at the machine. In fact, avoid loans and credit cards and from your salary only leave in your account what you need for the basics and transfer the rest into this 1 year account.

This will slow you down at least by your not having access to cash easily and you should also tell your mum and siblings not to lend you any money i you ask the. Tell them you are saving for a mortgage.

Actually if you have that kind of money, what about getting a mortgage even if it is a little one so that the bulk of your money will go to paying off your monthly mortgage and the good thing is that that house you buy will pay off in 25 years time and will be a good source of additional pension. All rent is waste by the way.

Delete your only fans and Instagram accounts so that you don't get tempted by those women and if it means changing your phone number / sim card to avoid those women that already have your number, then so be it. The end justifies the means.

Good luck.

This is really smart and a good way to go. Hopefully it helps , and hopefully I can also work on the after effect which is reducing my masturbation too

PastorOlokonla:
It wouldn't stop after marriage.

Sorry to break it to you.

Meaning I have to figure it all out before getting married otherwise I would be cheating even in marriage badly

Lord help me

Though so far haven’t told any of my siblings about this my terrible and shameful act

In the last born , they are all married and here in Canada and United States .

But I feel terrible telling them as I would break their hearts and all . Especially my mum, it would shatter her.

Just few friends that know, hence why I feel comfortable on this faceless forum and feel like pouring my heart out here.

So far I almost did it again recently but I quickly overcame it, wasn’t easy that day as I had to masturbate like 5 times for the konji to totally die off

canada123:


Meaning I have to figure it all out before getting married otherwise I would be cheating even in marriage badly

Lord help me

You will have to create new good habits to combat old ones. Go out more, make new friends. Read a lot of books.
Remove yourself from environments that enables bad habits. Its all a mind game my brother and nothing special about sex, if you let it control you, it will destroy you and your wife.

Also, there are good therapists in Canada that can work with you.

canada123:


Wow from the comments now I’m scared, cause that was really my main aim of getting married to help solve this issue

Don't be scared. Just seek professional help, you'll be fine. Wishing you the best.

canada123:
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost

marriage will not guarantee you regular sex. Your friends are tripping. Don't be deceived.

canada123:
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost

You are romansing the grave

canada123:
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost

bro, I try dat shit wen I first land. When I realized how much I was losing, I give myself brain

Bolt458:
bro, I try dat shit wen I first land. When I realized how much I was losing, I give myself brain

Oh really, how did you approach it bro

PastorOlokonla:


You will have to create new good habits to combat old ones. Go out more, make new friends. Read a lot of books.
Remove yourself from environments that enables bad habits. Its all a mind game my brother and nothing special about sex, if you let it control you, it will destroy you and your wife.

Also, there are good therapists in Canada that can work with you.

Yh I guess they are good therapist, already in talks with scheduling a session with one

canada123:


Yh I guess they are good therapist, already in talks with scheduling a session with one

That is a good step in the right direction. Hopefully everything works out well for you.