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Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 12:12pm On Mar 01
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Hezzyluv: 12:18pm On Mar 01
It's good you marry sha. However, Marrying doesn't completely solve your problem. I mean to change your addiction, it's in your hands.

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by advanceDNA: 12:27pm On Mar 01
canada123:
Hi

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost

Is it just me that feels lack of sex isn't a big problem....if the urge comes ..baba channel the energy else where naa...

That said...is it lack of a regular sex partner/wife that's making u go for escorts or an undisciplined sexual life style which also include carrying different women when u desire sex?

I'm not here to judge u.... just that u should audit urself well ooo...and bear in mind that a mere ring on ur finger and a marriage certificate wont fix or reset u poor sexual choices......ur wife will deny u sex... married men here lament alot....

.... and bad habits and desire don't just go away....u might want to fix them first...

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Boogyman557: 12:33pm On Mar 01
Holly Gram cool Bross u no get problem Na!!!


If them begin count the NUMBER of ASHAWO way I don NACK for inside las month way we just comort, E go reach to form full COMMUNITY!!!


U no get problem at all.


If that side too cost, enter NAIJA.. cheap cheap ASHAWO house full here..


Tins don cost for SMALL market and MAIN market so ASHAWO don reduce price for here..


ASHAWO need money now and customers..


Yesterday na 1k I use NACK better ASHAWO


I still use another 1k NACK another ASHAWO for another hotel.


The last ASHAWO wey I carry, na very fat girl..


She nearly break my PREEK with her fat laps..


My PREEK no even gree go inside her TOTTO finish because her belle too BIG!!


But still on still, here cheap..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by fyzaila: 1:21pm On Mar 01
When you don't kill/stop fornication it will definitely kill you.

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Ballzproblemm: 1:29pm On Mar 01
marriage won't stop it you will be compelled to cheat ,seek therapy and spiritual cleansing

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by IAmHim1: 1:31pm On Mar 01
you're addicted to sex which is alright. all addiction can be ended depending on the person willingness.

Read through and apply and this will save you


https://www.nairaland.com/7939213/one-guide-end-addiction


canada123:
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by HardBishop: 1:39pm On Mar 01
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool Bross u no get problem Na!!!


If them begin count the NUMBER of ASHAWO way I don NACK for inside las month way we just comort, E go reach to form full COMMUNITY!!!


U no get problem at all.


If that side too cost, enter NAIJA.. cheap cheap ASHAWO house full here..


Tins don cost for SMALL market and MAIN market so ASHAWO don reduce price for here..


ASHAWO need money now and customers..


Yesterday na 1k I use NACK better ASHAWO


I still use another 1k NACK another ASHAWO for another hotel.


The last ASHAWO wey I carry, na very fat girl..


She nearly break my PREEK with her fat laps..


My PREEK no even gree go inside her TOTTO finish because her belle too BIG!!


But still on still, here cheap..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!
This man 😆😆😆 na when you go repent? Kai

Ashewo this ashewo that.🤣🤣🤣

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Karlifate: 2:25pm On Mar 01
canada123:
...and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

You want to get married solely for having regular sex


Get ready for the rude shock of your life.

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Karlifate: 2:27pm On Mar 01
advanceDNA:


Is it just me that feels lack of sex isn't a big problem....if the urge comes ..baba channel the energy else where naa...

That said...is it lack of a regular sex partner/wife that's making u go for escorts or an undisciplined sexual life style which also include have different women when u desire??

I'm not here to judge u.... just that u should audit urself well ooo...and bear in mind that a mere ring on ur finger and a marriage certificate wont fix or reset u...ur wife will deny u sex... married men here lament alot....

.... and bad habits and desire don't just go away....u might want to fix them first...
👌💯

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 2:56pm On Mar 01
advanceDNA:


Is it just me that feels lack of sex isn't a big problem....if the urge comes ..baba channel the energy else where naa...

That said...is it lack of a regular sex partner/wife that's making u go for escorts or an undisciplined sexual life style which also include carrying different women when u desire sex?

I'm not here to judge u.... just that u should audit urself well ooo...and bear in mind that a mere ring on ur finger and a marriage certificate wont fix or reset u poor sexual choices......ur wife will deny u sex... married men here lament alot....

.... and bad habits and desire don't just go away....u might want to fix them first...

To be sincere , it’s a combination of both. Before travelling to Canada, I used hookup girls occasionally in Nigeria, but was very rare because I had a girlfriend so I never had a sex problem in Nigeria . Was good, when I got here then it kind of became a problem and I made the mistake of trying an escort here , thinking it would be a one off thing, but now I’m so deep into the act and want to be delivered from it badly . It’s draining me.

Why I said it’s a combination of both is, when I was in Nigeria and had a girlfriend though I used hookup girls like maybe once or twice but I was to a large extent faithful to her. But here started like a joke and now I’m in this mess
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 2:58pm On Mar 01
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool Bross u no get problem Na!!!


If them begin count the NUMBER of ASHAWO way I don NACK for inside las month way we just comort, E go reach to form full COMMUNITY!!!


U no get problem at all.


If that side too cost, enter NAIJA.. cheap cheap ASHAWO house full here..


Tins don cost for SMALL market and MAIN market so ASHAWO don reduce price for here..


ASHAWO need money now and customers..


Yesterday na 1k I use NACK better ASHAWO


I still use another 1k NACK another ASHAWO for another hotel.


The last ASHAWO wey I carry, na very fat girl..


She nearly break my PREEK with her fat laps..


My PREEK no even gree go inside her TOTTO finish because her belle too BIG!!


But still on still, here cheap..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!


Wow . You doing it all . I personally want to quit the life, it’s expensive, makes you feel less of a person , I see people in committed relationship , living a good life , and I’m here , just feel very terrible as a person and it’s affecting me physiologically

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 3:00pm On Mar 01
Karlifate:


You want to get married solely for having regular sex


Get ready for the rude shock of your life.

Was told this could happen , but also told it could be a head start to healing since you would be getting it on a regular basis , and all the money you currently spending would be saved towards something more productive

Also was advised to keep all my money into my senior sisters account , because having access to cash makes me tempted to book an escort


It’s so expensive, in Ontario (Toronto ) it’s 200 for half hour and 400 for an hour of sex . I’m so disappointed and ashamed of myself
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 3:01pm On Mar 01
fyzaila:
When you don't kill/stop fornication it will definitely kill you.

I sincerely believe this . Need guidance

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Boogyman557: 3:17pm On Mar 01
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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Thugnificent(m): 5:01pm On Mar 01
canada123:
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost
Good day Sir, Please i need a favor from you, can you help me? I just sent you an email.
Sorry for digressing from your topic.
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Rickmann: 5:39pm On Mar 01
canada123:
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost

What?
Omo, that's close to 15million naira. shocked

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Bfly: 6:00pm On Mar 01
Is losing money to it the problem or what?
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by PissInside: 7:01pm On Mar 01
Last year,I spent more than 11 million naira on sex.

That lifestyle is too expensive and woe betide you if you got a high libido and you don't have a girlfriend/wife.
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Psady(m): 7:05pm On Mar 01
End it before it kills you.
Since u got that desperation of coming out and stating your bad ordeal about it then truly u serious about stopping it. I was once in your kind of situation but I took that bold step of ending it by getting married , but u need a good and understanding woman,I tell you it's basic step to end such addiction.
Just work on yourself by determining not to live such demeaning life anymore.
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Adewale1603(m): 8:10pm On Mar 01
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool Bross u no get problem Na!!!


If them begin count the NUMBER of ASHAWO way I don NACK for inside las month way we just comort, E go reach to form full COMMUNITY!!!


U no get problem at all.


If that side too cost, enter NAIJA.. cheap cheap ASHAWO house full here..


Tins don cost for SMALL market and MAIN market so ASHAWO don reduce price for here..


ASHAWO need money now and customers..


Yesterday na 1k I use NACK better ASHAWO


I still use another 1k NACK another ASHAWO for another hotel.


The last ASHAWO wey I carry, na very fat girl..


She nearly break my PREEK with her fat laps..


My PREEK no even gree go inside her TOTTO finish because her belle too BIG!!


But still on still, here cheap..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!
hope you do go for regular checkups to know your health status.
Hope you're not HIV positive already


WTF MAN!

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Boogyman557: 8:24pm On Mar 01
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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by 1Sharon(f): 8:28pm On Mar 01
canada123:



Wow . You doing it all . I personally want to quit the life, it’s expensive, makes you feel less of a person , I see people in committed relationship , living a good life , and I’m here , just feel very terrible as a person and it’s affecting me physiologically

That's what happens when you listen to too many podcast bros.
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by HillaryNelo(m): 8:33pm On Mar 01
canada123:


Was told this could happen , but also told it could be a head start to healing since you would be getting it on a regular basis , and all the money you currently spending would be saved towards something more productive

Also was advised to keep all my money into my senior sisters account , because having access to cash makes me tempted to book an escort


It’s so expensive, in Ontario (Toronto ) it’s 200 for half hour and 400 for an hour of sex . I’m so disappointed and ashamed of myself
an hour 400k nackings hie!!!
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 10:04pm On Mar 01
Rickmann:


What?
Omo, that's close to 15million naira. shocked

Yh it’s an expensive thing to engage in especially in this part of the world . Imagine what I could have done with the funds . Maybe even gotten a land back home or helped someone in serious need
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 10:05pm On Mar 01
Bfly:
Is losing money to it the problem or what?

Loosing money is one but the guilt that comes from the act is another one too
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 10:06pm On Mar 01
Psady:
End it before it kills you.
Since u got that desperation of coming out and stating your bad ordeal about it then truly u serious about stopping it. I was once in your kind of situation but I took that bold step of ending it by getting married , but u need a good and understanding woman,I tell you it's basic step to end such addiction.
Just work on yourself by determining not to live such demeaning life anymore.

Oh nice, I think I would accelerate my plans of getting married too. I just feel it would help solve the problem to a large extent

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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by imagrg(m): 4:36am On Mar 03
Don't blame him oh...toto scarce for Canada oh.
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Anashe: 4:57am On Mar 03
canada123:
Hi guys,

Been awhile,

So I posted awhile back about being tempted to be paying pretty escorts here in Canada for sex, sadly something I thought was a one time thing, has now turn to become a habit , and I’ve really tried seeking for help to stop it. I’ve spent over $10,000 so far on escorts since 2023- date now.

It’s draining me physiologically, and I’ve confided in close friends and was advised to get married so I can have access to regular sex .

Just drowning now , I really need help . Feel so lost

It's good you're willing to stop, and it's an important first step. But you should go to therapy before subjecting another person's child to this habit. Without seeking proper help, I'm afraid you won't stop after marriage because your wife will not always be able to (pregnancy, childbirth, life, etc.)

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