The man didn't tell the truth

His money is also involved

Go and ask someone who knows ebonyi people.marriage rites

Savedday2:
This one never know what await him in the hands of that girl.

There is no amount of gift the girl's family will give you that will equates, the amount of deceit, pain and death she is preparing for you.

Kindly, collect the gifts and throw that useless ashawo back to the family. Who needs a Borden in this modern life!

The only thing you should do, is use and dump her. Not shining teeth because of gifts.

Wow. Just wow.

You actually thought this through and then typed it on the internet.

Would you be proud to say this in person? If no, why hide behind a keyboard and type like a coward?

RickyJesus:

Yeah, normal practice depending on the family strength.

True

Why won't kidnapper's go after them. Bragards

The way that man go knack the woman for the foam ehhn

Come to the west you will end up feeding the hungry brides family with your money

After offering you a damaged product with smelly pussy

People from Ilorin also do this

Savedday2:
This one never know what await him in the hands of that girl.

There is no amount of gift the girl's family will give you that will equates, the amount of deceit, pain and death she is preparing for you.

Kindly, collect the gifts and throw that useless ashawo back to the family. Who needs a Borden in this modern life!

The only thing you should do, is use and dump her. Not shining teeth because of gifts.

E be like them don dealt with you before o

Almaiga:

Serious o 😆 🤣 😂

Theoarhics:
Something they do in wukari among the jukuns, but my issues with this is that any quarrel the girl pack her things the man's house become empty

Lol

extol1:

Lol, at least there is love in sharing

No be meat o.
Na person sister you wan share so.
Nothing for you there bro.

emmeyen:


Did you read where they said, those were gifts from the bride's family to the couples? And not on the list for traditional rites?

I don't think he did

Omoh I have never heard of this before...
Dem try oo kaii

emmeyen:


Did you read where they said, those were gifts from the bride's family to the couples? And not on the list for traditional rites?

😂
When the mind is already distorted, white will always appear black...

The guy is sick

Joke apart shortigboman, are you being serious?

Almaiga:


You are right. This is a must in all Northern marriages. During my marriage, my wife came with a set of executive Chairs, a 50 inches smart tv, two deep freezers, a massive family bed with it's mattress, makeup mirror,2 sets of AC, wordrope and all Kitchen utensils including a cooker.

I hope she is a virgin sha


Cuz I am not spending this much for a babe wey no be me break her hymen oh but she can buy them herself like this woman did abd give me 😉

ThatFairGuy1:
Joke apart shortigboman, are you being serious?

you dey take that thing serious ?
haaaa you can do better

Goodlady:
Correct bride's family. Not all these lazy nairaland broke ass boys family wey do head like prîck!

Hustle o, so you won't have to depend on Nairaland broke ass boys for survival. 🙄

fyzaila:
This is normal in Northern marriages. It's not new to me.

You know Ndigbo will always want to show as if they are the best
They always engage in unhealthy competition and this is what drives crime .

After collecting almost N8 million from
the man, guilt nor allow them, so they
used N500k out of the bride price to buy
these things for her....❗️❗️❗️❗️

Almaiga:


You are right. This is a must in all Northern marriages. During my marriage, my wife came with a set of executive Chairs, a 50 inches smart tv, two deep freezers, a massive family bed with it's mattress, makeup mirror,2 sets of AC, wordrope and all Kitchen utensils including a cooker.

Hope they also paid for your 2 years
NEPA bill to power all these gadgets❗️❗️

If things go wrong in the future, the man won't get liver to sack the wife.

Almaiga:


See painment


I feel your pains. Cause in some other Regions, some People are forced to marry some retired Ashawo and still pay millions as bride price. Yet,the lady comes to the house empty handed

Post your village own if you are not ashamed of your village.

Just post and shame us all.

Dem give you wife, give you bed, you don't mean it!

Cantonese:


No be meat o.
Na person sister you wan share so.
Nothing for you there bro.

Na marry I dey talk

broadman20:



Post your village own if you are not ashamed of your village.

Just post and shame us all.

We no get Ashawo for my village,if na wetin you wan see be that. And we no dey sell our precious daughters for millions of naira.
E pain u well well

Sheuns:


And when there’s a divorce the bride packs all that she brought to the house.

True she packs all, and the husband will start another marriage preparation with another lady. That's why divorce is kind of cheap in the north

extol1:

Na marry I dey talk

As I see you so, no be marry.
You wan do try ya luck.

Almaiga:


In the North,it is a thing of pride to arrange household stuffs for any bride. Infact, that is one of the most important part of the marriage. Most Aunt's and friends of the brides mom will come around to see what and what they bought for their daughter that'd getting married.

No family joke with that aspect of marriage rights

True! And the groom focus on the set of boxes to fill up, bride price and wedding events

fyzaila:


True! And the groom focus on the set of boxes to fill up, bride price and wedding events

Yes.
But most families do give the bride the bride price. Same was done to my wife. Her father asked her to do as she wish with it.

Almaiga:


We no get Ashawo for my village,if na wetin you wan see be that. And we no dey sell our precious daughters for millions of naira.
E pain u well well

You see why you wrote jamb 10 times without success

We only asked you to post pictures of your village wedding and you are calling Ashawo!

What is the relationship there?

Are you sure you are okay?


Post pictures too confirm to us you are really okay.

Cantonese:



As I see you so, no be marry.
You wan do try ya luck.

Lol. Funny
We are going to be helping one another