corkpikin:

Yes she will tell you that because she is assuming you have sold your Kidney in malaysia

komole:

Nigerian ladies (most) are not stingy but rather GREEDY. When you keep enmassing wealth are resources from different quarters (from various boy friends and aristos), and yet still come to your steady struggling boyfriend and still want to snatch away the little he has to add up to you excess, I think that is callous and disheartening.

The average Nigerian lady, is someone who wants to live far above her standard. She wants to use phones, fix weavon, carry designer hand bag, and live a general lifestyle even her own parents and entire family combined together can't live.

A poor boy still squats with his parent, yet when he calculates the total amount he has given a particular lady(ies) in a couple of months, it would have been enough to get him a decent and well furnished apartment.

My advice to guys is, start concentrating on you future to become successful 'cus this girls will NEVER settle with you if you aren't comfortable. If whatever you want to give a lady (friends generally) isn't so important, withold it and save it for more important things.

If you are only a salary earner, why buy a lady a phone of over N70,000 or weavon of N90,000 just to impress her? Isn't that madness.

And to the ladies who are complaining men buy only food, food, and more food, they have noticed you are gluttonic in nature anwant to satisfy your appetite. Without food you won't survive, but without those wasteful items, you sure can survive.

If you think your boyfriend is stingy, GET A JOB!!!

Koolking:

the op is just delusional. it's a display of insecurity and inferiority complex. Why expect so much from a common bf, even if in a committed relationship? for goodness sake, your bf is not your dad, neither is he your uncle or brother. being in a relationship with you does not mean he should carry all your financial burdens. what you need most in that relationship is the emotional supports. it takes too to tangle. both work seamlessly to make the relationship works. you are not doing your bf a favour by accepting him in the relationship. it should be out of love that you opt to accept him. you are really getting it twisted here op. i did not dig your point.

Excessive demands in a relationship, living above reality as a lady betrays a relationship. i should give as a bf when i feel it is necessary, but not wasting the limited resources cos you want to live the trends. supports should be two ways. Excessive demand comes with a price to most guys, slavery, not just sex but psychological.

please, op should understand that generosity or philanthropy and giving to gf are entirely different things. it should not be mixed up.
Being financially leveraged as a lady will earn you respect from guys. but when you begin to beg guys for money even to the least thing as call cards, i tell you guys make you are cheap bowel for the village spit. it is a smack of irresponsibility on a ladies part. Think about ladies.

this is 21 century, where lies ladies empowerment when they still stick to apron string of men for finances.

190_@:


with what you just said
I think i have made a very BIG MISTAKE in my current relationship

190_@:

i think i am

cynthiafred67:

I don't think nija guys are stingy,I think some are stingy for a reason, they just don't want to spend on a lady they don't plan on havin a future with. They will rather spend on a lady they want to settle down with. So if your bf is stingy then maybe he doesn't see u as a wife material. *It is just a thought, I might be wrong though*

dokkyelele:

190., sorry o, u will get over it but if u want a fast solution to that hint me[b]. I cud help,u dont knw what ORISHA cud do for you[/b]. And am still waiting for that sckopper answer wey want take style chop babe.