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Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by geominas(m): 3:31am On Sep 30, 2007
What Is Your Idea Of A Perfect Relationship? Does It Exist?

Some says it does by having a sincere, caring and faithful partner.

Some says it doesn't having been disappointed severally,
To some its a total mystery meant to be kept in a box and never dare to open.

What do you feel about it?
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by iice(f): 1:32pm On Oct 01, 2007
Perfect doesn't exist
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by efuah(f): 1:45pm On Oct 01, 2007
iice, word!
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by ufobabe(f): 2:19pm On Oct 01, 2007
in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

it is wise 2 weigh the pros and cons of anything that reguires commitment. nothing has the power 2 determine what happens in ur life like the coice u make.

pple that are always having problems are yet 2 realise their mistakes.maybe u are looking 4 beautiful girls who will soon dissappiont u because she knows 4 herself that she is beautiful.

romance tells u nothing about character and is extremely unreliable as a method of determining the viability or vitality of a relationship

there is true love, only if u can open ur eyes
anyway, goodluck
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by londoner: 2:33pm On Oct 01, 2007
I dont believe that any human being can be perfect, so there can never be a perfect relationship. I do believe in compatability and when you have that you can be so content that you feel your relationship is perfect.

Relationships have to be maintained though.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by dearstan(m): 2:43pm On Oct 01, 2007
no such thing as perfect!
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by aquita(m): 3:10pm On Oct 01, 2007
as far as we don`t have perfect human beings, there can`t be a perfect relationship. any one that tells you that he/she has a perfect marriage is not telling the truth. however, we should always work towards improving our relationship with people.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Oct 01, 2007
it exists but not perfect
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by edmondo(m): 3:17pm On Oct 01, 2007
no perfect love since no human being is perfect
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by otuonye(m): 3:17pm On Oct 01, 2007
ufobabe:

in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

it is wise 2 weigh the pros and cons of anything that reguires commitment. nothing has the power 2 determine what happens in your life like the coice u make.

people that are always having problems are yet 2 realise their mistakes.maybe u are looking 4 beautiful girls who will soon dissappiont u because she knows 4 herself that she is beautiful.

romance tells u nothing about character and is extremely unreliable as a method of determining the viability or vitality of a relationship

there is true love, only if u can open your eyes
anyway, goodluck


YOU SAID IT ALL. WORK FOR WHAT YOU WANT!!
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by mellow(m): 3:28pm On Oct 01, 2007
No perfect relationship but we must strive toward perfection.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by spaceworld: 3:38pm On Oct 01, 2007
mellow
u have said it all, it all depends on the both, if the real intention is stay on, then they should perfect both side to makle one perfection., it takes alot of sacrifies
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Oct 01, 2007
there are but not that perfect
it depends on both parties, if they are determined to make it a sucess
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Olusleeky(m): 3:45pm On Oct 01, 2007
its does exist,give it n u will get it
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by moreshow(m): 4:11pm On Oct 01, 2007
It does exist depending on the view and the ways which the parties involved took it,
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by teena(f): 4:14pm On Oct 01, 2007
Nothing is perfect in this world, but you can have good relationship if you are able to understand each other.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by tomX1(m): 4:46pm On Oct 01, 2007
as far as we don`t have perfect human beings, there can`t be a perfect relationship. any one that tells you that he/she has a perfect marriage is not telling the truth.
Well no one is perfect but you can find someone who is perfect for you. In the same vein you can be perfect for some one. Perfect love does exist and it might take some work but it's workable.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by degubi(m): 4:58pm On Oct 01, 2007
no perfect relationships do not exist, all relationships must be worked upon to give u the ideals u seek.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Etin(f): 5:19pm On Oct 01, 2007
Hi All,

I wouldn't use the term perfect as its too clinical and would be an adequate term for something with a fixed value (Numerate), one that anyone could check the boxes and tick off. In relationships that is not the case the standards keep changing by communities and by person - there are no absolutes for measuring relationships only the people in it really know what works for them.

There are happy, comfortable, good relationships but non of them got there without going through a learning curve and a determination to make it work.

The concept of 'perfect relationships' is one of the reason for lots of marriage breakup, lots of people have been sold a myth - love movies, mills & boon, novels, fairy tales etc.

Real people are comfortable to live with, unrealistic expectations creates dissatisfactions.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by sweetberry(f): 9:09pm On Oct 01, 2007
perfect relationship does not exist.
people just find other people which fit most of the criteria of how they fill a perfect partner should be and the minor irritable qualities they learn to live with.
just as their is no perfect car, house e.t.c
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Robroy: 9:11pm On Oct 01, 2007
Perfect relationships DO exist. A perfect relationship is one where both partners argue but make up respectfully, love each other sometimes and cant stand each other the rest of the time, work at communication but fail most of the time becos everyone is different. That is perfect. If a relationship is all "yes dear" one partner will muder the other out of boredom grin, if it is fighty-fighty everyday that is equally not good. A nice mixture of both is perfect,
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by kokoletz(m): 9:25pm On Oct 01, 2007
Perfect relationship? Well it sure happen in d novels. Gbam
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by sweetberry(f): 9:55pm On Oct 01, 2007
oh that z so true the only place the perfect man exist is in novels & film. where the guy is tall, handsome & very rich most preferably a prince lol & the girl is very beautiful, extremely nice, very sweet & loving e.t.c
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by kokoletz(m): 10:02pm On Oct 01, 2007
U hv jst said it all.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by nazzyon(m): 11:50pm On Oct 01, 2007
If you see any perfect relationship.

It means that the duo are fooling each other.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Ndipe(m): 1:58am On Oct 02, 2007
Compatability is the right word, no perfect relationship in the human realm. We are humans now
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Nwaka77: 2:05am On Oct 02, 2007
No, it does not exist but you can find someone you are compatable with who will compliment you.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by bimbliss(f): 8:34am On Oct 02, 2007
i will say sweet and happy relationships exist and not perfect becos when u say something is perfect u are saying it does not have a defect in anyway , inside out.
relationships will always have its bitter moments becos of the differences in the individuals involved but the sweetnees comes in when u can tolerate the other person and love them despite thier weekness thats is when the person can become close to perfect in ur eyes. theres a say ing that goes thus: "nobody is perfect until we fall in love with them"
u can make ur relationship tend towards perfect if u take time to work on it, but u will need alot of patience cos atimes it will seem atimes that ur efforts are just waste !!!!!!
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by ibrahiem(m): 9:58am On Oct 02, 2007
i seriously DOUBT.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Kabibi(f): 10:53am On Oct 02, 2007
Perfect relationships do not exist - they are made. The patners
must make an effort to make the relationship perfect by loving each
other to death.

I know a pastor who says he has made it his project to find new
ways of making his wife happy - so why should that relationship not
be perfect when people are working on it. If you dont work at it
then you are condeming it to doom - like everyone else's. If you wait
for a perfect relationship to 'EXIST' you'll wait till Kingdom come.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by Bblak(f): 11:18am On Oct 02, 2007
Not at all.
Re: Do Perfect Relationships Exist? by larriederm(m): 11:35am On Oct 02, 2007
@ UFOBABA

in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

it is wise 2 weigh the pros and cons of anything that reguires commitment. nothing has the power 2 determine what happens in your life like the coice u make.

people that are always having problems are yet 2 realise their mistakes.maybe u are looking 4 beautiful girls who will soon dissappiont u because she knows 4 herself that she is beautiful.

romance tells u nothing about character and is extremely unreliable as a method of determining the viability or vitality of a relationship

there is true love, only if u can open your eyes
anyway, goodluck
WORD!!!!!
U HAVE TO WORK ON UR SELF FIRST! AND ALL OTHER THINGS FOLLOWS

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