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Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by queensmith: 4:13am On Apr 05, 2012 |
hmmm- it's difficult sha. If I met a billionaire I won't want him not to marry me lol. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 7:52pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
queensmith: hmmm- it's dificult sha. If I met a billionaire I won't want him not to marry me lol. You are such a political thief. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Nobody: 2:19am On Jun 19, 2012 |
Marrying from an extremely poor home? Not slightly poor or poor but extremely poor? - If he is first child, I won't. - If he's the only male child I won't. - If he's not the only male child and not the first child, but his sisters are all unmarried and his brothers are jobless, I won't. I nor dey marry any poor person. Poverty is a disease and it's contagious. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by queensmith: 10:46am On Jun 19, 2012 |
acidtalk: lol |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by SisiKill1: 1:20pm On Jun 19, 2012 |
I find it really and truly ironic that a girl who says she won't marry into a poor family is being lambasted on a thread where is guy is all but saying there must be something wrong with his friend because he is marrying into a poor family. All of a sudden, she is not a nice person, she is a braggart, she is being forced to apologize for how she thinks, people think she is condescending. . .yet the thread starter, who. . .once again, thinks there is something wrong with his friend because he is marrying into a poor family, is allowed to slide. If a girl is poor - She is a gold digger. If a girl is rich - she is a spoilt braggart If a girl marries into a Rich Family = She is a gold digger If a guy marries into a Rich Family - It is True Loooooove If a woman does not help with the upkeep of the house - She is lazy and a drain on the man If a woman helps with the upkeep of the house - She will be disrespectful It is a lose/lose situation, I tell ya. . .and it only goes to prove what I've always believed, girls are not always the ones with the problem. The sooner we accept that some guys are riddled with low self esteem, the easier it will be to deal with them. These set of guys make up the rules as they go along (that's why they do not see the irony peppering this thread) and trying to work around those rules is a waste of time. Naijasexy, don't mind them jare. . .you know what you want and by God's grace you will get it. 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 9:59pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
michelin89: Marrying from an extremely poor home? Not slightly poor or poor but extremely poor? Sho! see condition. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Shinatu: 4:12pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
To people who say rich people marriages do not last and that a rich guy may end up being a wife beater. I am just wondering, do marriages last longer (or are happier) in Ajegunle than in Ikoyi or do Ikoyi men beat their wifes more than those in Ajegunle? I guess we need this statistics/info before we can make such declarations 1 Like |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Fruitful2: 2:19pm On Jun 26, 2012 |
WEALTH IS NOT THE SOLE RIGHT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL OR FAMILY.SO THE MAN HAS A CHOICE TO EITHER BACK OUT BEFORE MARRYING THE GIRL OR LIVE WITH HIS DECISION. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 7:24am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Shinatu: To people who say rich people marriages do not last and that a rich guy may end up being a wife beater. So so on point. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Dahbutter(m): 3:55pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
A senior colleuge I know married from a very poor family, today he is the breadwinner of their entire household, there are at least 4 pesty inlaws living in their house at every given time, he has grown so lean and can't even afford stuff his mates and even we his juniors in the profession have, he is now forty and hasn't even been able to build on his long acquired land, yet he has spent several millions on the poor wasteful family he inherited always coming up with crafty schemes to sap out money from him everytime. Yet whenever he refuses his wife blackmails him heavily 4 not caring 4 her family. His advise to me which I gladly took was to never get married and if I ever do, marry from a family that is comfortable and won't be parasites. Don't be decieved money matters a lot marrying from a poor family is akin to acquiring a liability |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
I love how people do this "either-or" thing. As in, either have a good spouse from poor background, or bad spouse from rich background. Either chase success and be sad, or ignore chasing success and be happy. What happened to successful and happy? What happened to a good spouse from a comfortable/rich background? These things are conditions spawned from the bitterness of the ones giving the conditions. Ignore them please. Your own will be better 1 Like |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by tpia5: 9:04pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
@ original post why did the guy have an expensive wedding? is something wrong with just doing a plain registry marriage if finances are limited and the families unable to cope with the expense? just wondering why he stretched himself that far. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by tpia5: 9:09pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
@ topic and some of the responses there was this book i read years ago about a lady whose husband was from a wealthier background than herself. the in laws were all highly educated rich people, and she wasnt their level at all. They'd discuss things like how do you chemically remove the bitterness from bitterleaf, and other such high falluting stuff. Her husband could join in the conversation but she couldnt. think they eventually sorted themselves out but i dont recall the ending. or maybe it was the man who wasnt at the inlaws' level. Cant remember. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Digriz(m): 11:01pm On Sep 10, 2012 |
tpia@:so wats ur point? |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Digriz(m): 11:05pm On Sep 10, 2012 |
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Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Digriz(m): 11:10pm On Sep 10, 2012 |
u guys are scaring me concerning the girl am planing to marry, from a poor home, first daughter, first issue, her mother a widow, not doing anything, my girl still in school, is like I will back out I the first son, taking care of my younger ones,my parents almost old. am confused on what decision to take. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Metalgoong(m): 1:08am On Sep 11, 2012 |
hahaha . . . I must agree, men are funny creatures! . lol If a girl comes from a super wealthy home, some men will avoid marrying her If the girl comes from a poor home, some men will still find problem with that Anyway, I can marry any girl from any background so long as she has the qualities I want in a wife. If she comes from a poor family, I wont have any problem inheriting their family financial obligation. Money is meant to be spent!! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by tpia5: 1:39am On Sep 11, 2012 |
Digriz: so wats ur point? relativity. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 5:06pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
tpia@: hmmmm |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by tpia5: 4:22pm On Sep 12, 2012 |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 9:45pm On Oct 01, 2012 |
Wetin dey do you? |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by mrperfect(m): 1:09pm On Oct 15, 2012 |
An interesting issues are being discussed here. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 9:49pm On Oct 15, 2012 |
^^^ Moderators please come and fling off this lun*natic and hide this crap he put here. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Oct 15, 2012 |
My Brother, believe me, if not that I don't personally know you and that this post is just this year, I would have thought u were talking about me, but no! I got married 5 years ago and I had a similar experience (it was very ugly). However, now what I enjoy in my home is what I would love to spend much more than what I spent then times one million trust me. Thank God I did what I did 5 years ago - no regrets at all. Wifey is very very stable and her family is doing great too, my siblings and other family members have long swallowed their words, All glory to God Almighty, You just do your best to encourage your friend, it may not be an all-too-bad situation after all. God Bless! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 10:03am On Dec 27, 2013 |
The need the decide on the background of who to marry is extremely important. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by dare2think: 9:06pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
acidtalk: The need the decide on the background of who to marry is extremely important. Any latest revelation? |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by Nobody: 2:43am On Dec 28, 2013 |
opribo: Before NLanders will start attacking me let me make myself clear, I have nothing against the poor...my own is that everybody has a choice to make in life at one time or the other. Just as they say love is blind but I believe love has its eyes wide open that is why nobody sees a beautiful mula babe and go ahead and marry her neither do you see a beautiful mad girl and go ahead and marry her. Great & hilarious post. You hit it hard . Otito koro my friend. more so Egbe eye leye nwoto. I laugh so tey my belle dey hurt. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2013 |
Ewuro707: He made 100% sense. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by acidtalk: 8:56pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
Still curious to know. |
Re: Marrying From An Extremely Poor Home. Can You Consider It? by CHIMSKY(m): 12:20pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
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