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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by bvc(m): 3:22pm On May 03, 2012
dayokanu: You mean they never called themselves on the phone or texted themselves in those times of chatting? was this in Pre Cell phone era?


Just the same things I thought
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 3:33pm On May 03, 2012
Frazy: A married couple work in different cities, he works in Abuja, she in Lagos, he goes home every weekend.

Both have facebook accounts. One day while bored at work he playfully creates a facebook account with a fake pix, he sends his wife a request & she adds him.

They chat regularly over 1 month, she finds him very exciting & is always looking forward to chatting with him, she began to hate weekends cos he was never available to chat. They chatted about everything, recently their chats became very sexually explicit, she got turned on by d things he asked her to do, then one day he asks her to send a pix of her private part, she excitedly does that without hesitation , he then asks her to take other pix of her body parts & she did & sent all to him, now he reveals his true identity & wants a divorce...

What can u say abt this?
The couples have differences they should settle, the man should talk to his wife, if they survive this, there is hardly anything that will split them.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by talk2dhanny: 4:07pm On May 03, 2012
They are both VERY wrong and should just laugh over it. The man was 'more' wrong cos it all started with him. The wife cudnt have stood a chance, her husband (the phony fbk acct holder) knew her too well. Am sure thats why she fell for the guy and went that far (too extreme sha). Anyway, it just shows that the marriage had trust issues frm d start.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by BiafranFirstSon(m): 4:13pm On May 03, 2012
I am so confused. Haba. Some married women are something else.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 4:15pm On May 03, 2012
Frazy: A married couple work in different cities, he works in Abuja, she in Lagos, he goes home every weekend.

Both have facebook accounts. One day while bored at work he playfully creates a facebook account with a fake pix, he sends his wife a request & she adds him.

They chat regularly over 1 month, she finds him very exciting & is always looking forward to chatting with him, she began to hate weekends cos he was never available to chat. They chatted about everything, recently their chats became very sexually explicit, she got turned on by d things he asked her to do, then one day he asks her to send a pix of her private part, she excitedly does that without hesitation , he then asks her to take other pix of her body parts & she did & sent all to him, now he reveals his true identity & wants a divorce...

What can u say abt this?
I think the story is made up... Ladies love talking, so all through this period of exchanging photos they never spoke on phone? Lailai... I no believe.. NEXT
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by BiafranFirstSon(m): 4:17pm On May 03, 2012
talk2dhanny: They are both VERY wrong and should just laugh over it. The man was 'more' wrong cos it all started with him. The wife cudnt have stood a chance, her husband (the phony fbk acct holder) knew her too well. Am sure thats why she fell for the guy and went that far (too extreme sha). Anyway, it just shows that the marriage had trust issues frm d start.
U are very wrong. she has failed WAEC and JAMb @ the same time. If this is another man she will still do the same thing. No cover ups please.Then fact the the man did not send another man to her makes him not guilty.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Sealeddeal(m): 4:19pm On May 03, 2012
The husband was never wrong.he is a wise man.he has demonstrated dat he is God's image.even God allowed us to be tempted to know how faithful we are.the woman could've won her husband prize (trust and more) if she was faithful.i'l only blame the husband if he's similar behaviour..i recommend divorce cos u'll continue to feel insecure and can die thinking and sad
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Brite02(m): 4:22pm On May 03, 2012
The woman allowed herself to go extreme, even taking a nude pix of her sensitive part to the impostor husband grin that alone will demoralise the man and will be wanting for a divorce undecided
> To the woman, i say Pele ohh
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 4:36pm On May 03, 2012
If this is true, then the woman is a gullible dumb twart.
First, why accept an fb friend request of someone you don't know.
Secondly, lets say you were dumb enough to do that, sending him your naked pictures? Puhhleezz!!! Simply dumb.
Thirdly, cheating on your spouse? How dumb. With someone you've never met? Oh! Simply incredulous.
If this isn't fiction then this man is not only married to a cheat but a dumb one
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Kol: 4:52pm On May 03, 2012
Another proof of how evil those things that bring us comfort can be: in this case BB and facebook.
what the initiator of this thread has described here is very true and happens everyday. thousands of married women fall for this daily, some because of greed, others because their husbands do not give them much attention. Forget about the girls.. if it was possible, they would cut off their privates with razor blades and send to you at the mere 'promise' of giving them a Blackberry phone. naija na waooooo.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by bigl: 5:02pm On May 03, 2012
"He that is faithful in lil, wld be faithful in much" and vice versa.

If she cld cheat online. Only God know what she does wen d hussy is away.

A bitch is always a bitch. If u like, treat her like d queen of england, hav a 25in long 5inches thick roddy piper, she'll always cheat.

I'm not sayin d guy shld divorce her or not but, he's gotta be careful or next tin he'll see is his wife in a h.ard.core movie on youtube or youp.orn

Op, d guy shld find out why she's cheatin "virtually" and learn from it and adjust: if he's willin to forgive and forget and move on

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by GODSLOVE2(f): 5:02pm On May 03, 2012
firstly why will d man test his wife,,,,,,i thought u were suppose to trust each other b4 marriage,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,secondly why will a married woman act rubbishy,,,,,and marriage is for beta 4 worst,,,,so let them kill each other and settle,,,,,,,,,,haba ,,,,why will u even do dat in courtship........GOD IS WATCHING
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by omonaija87: 5:11pm On May 03, 2012
Negro_Ntns: They are both wrong!

The man knowingly lured her into the temptation. If he was doing his duties correctly she would not be in such a vulnerable situation to go online seeking affection from strangers.


I totally agree.. Why would you go talk to your wife and complicate issues and now, you are looking for a divorce. What were u you thinking? "u were bored and u opened a FB pro, added fake pics and all, and added your wife". Doesnt look like Boredom to me, looks more like a clearly thought out set up.

Where is the TRUST

Mr Man, abeg talk with your wife and settle this matter. I dont know you but oga, no be u holy pass oh.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Dannyboy1471: 5:43pm On May 03, 2012
d man shld divorce her.she has no respect 4 d institution of marriage,wat on earth shld prompt her 2 send nude pics.she is a disgrace 2 woman
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Trimia(f): 5:52pm On May 03, 2012
Yorisb:

The Man was wrong because?? Or are u saying the ''fictional characters'' were to much for her to have resisted?

A supposedly, responsible married woman sent pictures of her whatsis to a ''stranger'' and the Man gets blamed for it? Haaaaaaaaa!

I really can not believe some of the comments I'm reading herein. Seriously!
if you read my post you'll see i said it was indecent and wrong of her to send nude pics to a stranger as a married woman. But her falling for him in d first place has taught d man her sensitive spots. If she was so much of a loose woman how come of all her online friends, she fell for him.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by logica(m): 5:58pm On May 03, 2012
Trimia: If she was so much of a loose woman how come of all her online friends, she fell for him.
Where did you see the evidence that she only fell for this fake profile?

Somebody made a good point that should silence all you religious folk blaming the guy for testing her: Didn't God test Abraham? Did he pass or fail? If he failed, would you have blamed God? cheesy
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by joanana(f): 6:29pm On May 03, 2012
solomon111: Are you telling me,women are now dogs that cant control themselves?
Are you telling me,you would lead the guy on,date the guy online, but you would not send your nude pics?.
How does not sending your nude pics makes it less bad?
I hope it is not all Nigerian women that thinks like you?.If not,guys are in deep $hit!

Her husband led her into temptation dats all my saying but its not wrong for a lady to flirt once in a while ... i hate d idea of sending unclad pix... its demeaning and stupid even to my boyfriend or husband i cant do dat. gosh!!! Finally i am not justifying her actions, all m saying is he shouldn't ve tempted her. Is like tempting my husband with a girlfriend he has never seen. You get! wink wink wink wink wink wink
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Yorisb: 6:54pm On May 03, 2012
Trimia: if you read my post you'll see i said it was indecent and wrong of her to send nude pics to a stranger as a married woman.

Her not sending the Unclad pics wouldn't even have made it any better. NO?

She's a Cheat but finally got her comeuppance for her uncouth misbehaviour. QED!


If she was so much of a loose woman how come of all her online friends, she fell for him.


How sure are u he's the only one she fell for? Are u privy to such info? Can u prove it?
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Sagamite(m): 7:03pm On May 03, 2012
Trimia: if you read my post you'll see i said it was indecent and wrong of her to send nude pics to a stranger as a married woman. But her falling for him in d first place has taught d man her sensitive spots. If she was so much of a loose woman how come of all her online friends, she fell for him.

What a moronic point.

No 1, maybe because he is the only one out of the online friends that was brave enough to make a move.

No 2, and more importantly, how do you know or expect the husband to know if that is the only or first time she is meeting up with someone from online to cheat?
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Yorisb: 7:08pm On May 03, 2012
joanana:
Her husband led her into temptation dats all my saying

What would've been ur stance had the temptation(?) came from another man? Or don't ya know she could be easily be ''tempted'' same way by another Bloke?

The substance is what matters not the ''Husband's involvements''.....


Xcuse me pass jare!
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Sagamite(m): 7:13pm On May 03, 2012
Yorisb:
What would've been ur stance had the temptation(?) came from another man? Or don't ya know she could be easily be ''tempted'' same way by another Bloke?

The substance is what matters not the ''Husband's involvements''.....


Xcuse me pass jare!

Thank you.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by logica(m): 8:01pm On May 03, 2012
I can understand why some of these females here will side with the woman in question; many of them flirt online and cringe at the thought of being caught by their boyfriends/husbands. Don't worry; we will soon read about your exposure on Nairaland. cheesy
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by nolio(m): 8:35pm On May 03, 2012
To the man,let him check the picture of the private part and his wifes private part and sees if they match. Meanwhile, to the wife, let her kneel down,close her eyes and open her mouth till I die cos am jus 19 and will die 120
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by flexdee(m): 9:12pm On May 03, 2012
dayokanu]You mean they never called themselves on the phone or texted themselves in those times of chatting? was this in Pre Cell phone era?

Exactly what i am thinking.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by finguy(m): 9:22pm On May 03, 2012
Fire the bitch
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Onyenna(m): 9:57pm On May 03, 2012
chaircover: The tragedy of this story is that the fun and excitement that she was looking for in Sokoto was actually in her Sokoto. SO basically she had an affair with her own husband thinking that it was another man more exciting than her own husband.

Na wa ooooooooo lipsrsealed

So touching....... cry
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Fhemmmy: 12:18am On May 04, 2012
The man was wrong too . . He is in Abuja and the woman in another state, she is human and would be lonely.
The man could have been using that time to reveal his true identity all along and they have fun together.
However, the woman too should not be sending pix of what belongs to the man to another "Man"
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 4:35am On May 04, 2012
There is no excuse for her behavior. She sent a manwho is not her husband her private part pics? How stoopid is that woman? They did not just chat, she sent himna pic of her intimate areas are you people kidding me?
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by childluck(m): 6:23am On May 04, 2012
1. What was her reaction after the man revealed his identity?
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 6:50am On May 04, 2012
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 7:02am On May 04, 2012
chaircover: I still dont get the private parts thingy. What pleasure were they both going to derive from that I wonder? me i dont understand this online affair/games ooooo!
I would have sent him a picture of someone elses toto, its not as if he would know the difference lipsrsealed

Ehn did CC type this? na someone else hacked into your lappy cheesy grin
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 7:04am On May 04, 2012

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