Yorisb:

^^WTH?!?!?!

Femmmy, stick to the Auto section abeg. Fcck me!!

Sealeddeal: ......the fact is,if he is cyber sexing,why cant he use his own usual facebook acct.the man opened a new facebook acct directly made to test his wife.dats what the post said.he opened a new facebook acct to knw the person the wife is which she must have been hiding all along.he has right to do dat afterall they are nt living 2geda dat much and u knw what many women/men do in such situation(adultery).like i said,i will only blame the man if he does similarly

Fhemmmy:

That is what the man said, and now let us turn the table and if the woman opened another account to test the hubby and now hubby is falling in love, would the woman be justified to dump the man and send him packing?

Sealeddeal: A woman testing her husband should be discussed in anoda thread.here,its out of context.wat we're pondering over is where a man tested his wife.

Outstrip: Actually both of them should stay together. He is no better honestly. He is also scum. Why should they separate and then go and be other peoples wahala.

upuphim: Once married, is married. There exists a bond between the two as they are one. Whether fake name is involved or not it is still the same spirit and the same emotion. I'm married for 15yrs, I've not cheated on my wife and by God's grace I will never. I foresee the marriage work in future if the man can forgive the woman because once beaten twice shy. Thank God it wasn't another man that saw pics. In summary, when you are too suspicious of anything, you will definitely get a clue to your surprise and curiousity. The married in the house, let's learn to build trust all the way. Avoid being married yet single. The world we are in now, requires husband and wife being together always.

Sealeddeal: ...like its said,trust is earned and re-earned.if the woman decides to test the husband,Gud! If the husband fail and she decide to park out,gud!.i dnt knw or havent heard where woman sends man parking though.to avoid digressing again,a woman testing her husband should be discussed in anoda thread.here,its out of context.wat we're pondering over is where a man tested his wife.

Yorisb:

Beats me to it! @Femmy, I was gonna pen down precisely these words in response to ur last post. #dontshiftthegoalpost

logica: Stop being a smart alec and admit you typed nonsense. There wasn't anything to do with "dating site" even in the post you quoted.

jp philips:


that face book account could have been anybody for God's sake and the mother of your kids will open it for an Hiv patient in LUTH,with internet access all in the name of online boredom?

Fhemmmy:

Yes, what he did was Cyber-sexing, so they are both guilty.
Let us check his hard drive and see if there are only the pix of his wife there.
Also, dont look cos you might not like what you see, love and marriage is never about the other person, but about YOU . . Stop testing, the answer might shock you.

Fhemmmy:

How about the man that asks for the pix . . . Is that how he has been asking from other ladies?
How do we know that the woman did not send the pix, cos she was so sure it was her husband playing pranks?

I wish the couple are in western world, where a good lawyer could make that man lose minimum half of all he owns and continue to pay spousal support for some years, while the woman will actually enjoy the touch of a real MAN

Fhemmmy:

Same rules that applies to the man is what we have to make apply to the woman too . . .

Yorisb:

^^WTH?!?!?!

Femmmy, stick to the Auto section abeg. Fcck me!!

Sagamite:

Never you in your life again wonder where we get police officers in Nigeria that arrest people for carrying laptop on the street without receipt as thieves.

This police men are members of our society just like Fhemmmy.

Yorisb:


Initially, I thought he was just ''playing around'', but NO, I was wrong.

Sagamite:

I know him from experience on NL. I have a good understanding of his IQ level. He aint playing, that is pure intellectual and insightful reasoning as far as he is concerned. He is digging deep to give you the best he has and is puzzled you don't get it.

Sagamite:
It is like when the Nigerian police officers arrest and detain anyone that come to the police station to report a crime as the prime suspect. They are puzzled people like you are not "intelligent" enough to see the logical value of their investigation. All they are doing is using the same ratiocination process as Fhemmmy uses.

You should know by now I abhor democracy. Every man has a right to vote, every vote has equal weight. That is a incredible social crime in my books.

Frazy: A married couple work in different cities, he works in Abuja, she in Lagos, he goes home every weekend.

Both have facebook accounts. One day while bored at work he playfully creates a facebook account with a fake pix, he sends his wife a request & she adds him.

They chat regularly over 1 month, she finds him very exciting & is always looking forward to chatting with him, she began to hate weekends cos he was never available to chat. They chatted about everything, recently their chats became very sexually explicit, she got turned on by d things he asked her to do, then one day he asks her to send a pix of her private part, she excitedly does that without hesitation , he then asks her to take other pix of her body parts & she did & sent all to him, now he reveals his true identity & wants a divorce...

What can u say abt this?

N101:

Story - although this kind of thing can happen, I don't buy this. It is totally irresponsible for a married woman (or man for that matter) to be having an intimate conversation with anyone other than their spouse. Sending pictures is even more stupid, which is why I find it hard to believe this, but then there are way too many people out there full of their own self-importance.

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jp philips:


for 15yrs you ran your home without common sense wow!!! you must be a hero ,the only reason your post should be forgiven is if it is proven that you have a poor capacity to understanding English language, anything short of that, you deserve a brain surgery.
"twice beaten bingo" shy that a lose gateman of an Abuja rich man could have taken your wife on a weekend jamboree under your roof and you have the unbridled temerity to be "beating" and "shying"?

that face book account could have been anybody for God's sake and the mother of your kids will open it for an Hiv patient in LUTH,with internet access all in the name of online boredom?

you are a fool

i suspect you are one of those people that inherited their wives from their late elder brothers, if not, i don't see the reason why an adult that courted and strived to build a home could not smell the sacrilege before your eyes
once again,

you are a fool

Frazy:
A married couple work in different cities, he works in Abuja, she in Lagos, he goes home every weekend.

Both have facebook accounts. One day while bored at work he playfully creates a facebook account with a fake pix, he sends his wife a request & she adds him.

They chat regularly over 1 month, she finds him very exciting & is always looking forward to chatting with him, she began to hate weekends cos he was never available to chat. They chatted about everything, recently their chats became very sexually explicit, she got turned on by d things he asked her to do, then one day he asks her to send a pix of her private part, she excitedly does that without hesitation , he then asks her to take other pix of her body parts & she did & sent all to him, now he reveals his true identity & wants a divorce...

What can u say abt this?

ronkebp:
I don't know how some women think, i personally hate to be in a position where i will be 'answering questions' for any unneccessary action, so i maintain inorder to retain my sanity, My hubby, and that was when we were still dating ooo, tried that anonymous thingy with me, this guy disturbed and disturbed, but for where? After so much mail without one single reply from me, the guy just gave-up and told me like a year later, when i asked him why he was so insecured?, he said because of the numerous competition then, and i told him, i left those competitions to be with you, is that not enough for you to know this babe is for real?? Common now!!!!

I really do not expect married women or men to be having affairs.it is so de-grading.