pass4life: I agree with Chaircover that since he found out that these are the things his wife desires, he should have cut the chase and get down to make it happen.

They are both wrong. We all should understand that man (male and female) are dynamic human being. So lets just try and stop all these TEXT thing in order to prove God knows what.

pass4life: They are both wrong. blah blah blah

upuphim: Once married, is married. There exists a bond between the two as they are one. Whether fake name is involved or not it is still the same spirit and the same emotion. I'm married for 15yrs, I've not cheated on my wife and by God's grace I will never. I foresee the marriage work in future if the man can forgive the woman because once beaten twice shy. Thank God it wasn't another man that saw pics. In summary, when you are too suspicious of anything, you will definitely get a clue to your surprise and curiousity. The married in the house, let's learn to build trust all the way. Avoid being married yet single. The world we are in now, requires husband and wife being together always.

ronkebp: OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!kata-kata don burst...Chei...see jonsing.

logica:
Lol. So Facebook is a dating site?

honor2011: That man should only be proud of himself that he knows his wife weaknesses very well. How many other women can he try the same trick on and get them to send him their nude pix? He was also able to 'hit' it off with the woman because he knows her very well and he capitalized on this knowledge while he was secretly chatting with her. A familiar terrain is so easy to trek. The consolation for the man is to realize that he can always 'get' his wife any day. How many married men have lost their wives without knowing it. [s]If I were the man, I would never reveal my identity but will use the fact to discover more of her secret yearnings and desires and come back home to fulfill it for her in reality[/s]. Again, all men should realize that there are only women who get married, there is nothing like a married woman. Big difference. Other wise what is the implication of that statistics out there that more than 60% of married women cheat at one time or the other. But men are so foolish that we think that just because we have given them rings to wear they are bound and will always respect the sacred vow. Keep on deceiving yourself. Fact is, how many men are respecting that vow. To a woman's mind, what is good for the goose is probably better for the gander. But women know this in their minds but will not say it out loud.

honor2011: That man should only be proud of himself that he knows his wife weaknesses very well. How many other women can he try the same trick on and get them to send him their nude pix? He was also able to 'hit' it off with the woman because he knows her very well and he capitalized on this knowledge while he was secretly chatting with her. A familiar terrain is so easy to trek. The consolation for the man is to realize that he can always 'get' his wife any day. How many married men have lost their wives without knowing it. If I were the man, I would never reveal my identity but will use the fact to discover more of her secret yearnings and desires and come back home to fulfill it for her in reality. Again, all men should realize that there are only women who get married, there is nothing like a married woman. Big difference. Other wise what is the implication of that statistics out there that more than 60% of married women cheat at one time or the other. But men are so foolish that we think that just because we have given them rings to wear they are bound and will always respect the sacred vow. Keep on deceiving yourself. Fact is, how many men are respecting that vow. To a woman's mind, what is good for the goose is probably better for the gander. But women know this in their minds but will not say it out loud.

idtreasures: This is what has come to be known as Cyber sex.
If the wife is sincerely remorseful about
her shameful act, she should be pardoned.
"It is only in pardoning that we are pardoned-
(St. Francis of Assisi)"."He who is without sin
let him cast the first stone- Jesus"

ronkebp: i will suggest the guy should forgive her and move on with their lives. " without forgiveness, this love thingy will never work".

Sagamite:

What a moronic point.

No 1, maybe because he is the only one out of the online friends that was brave enough to make a move.

No 2, and more importantly, how do you know or expect the husband to know if that is the only or first time she is meeting up with someone from online to cheat?

Trimia: you're the moronic vagabond, did you not see the part where i scolded her. For sending unclad pictures? She's very wrong, but in her defence her husband knows her sensitive spots already and things that can get her to fall for him. She was stupid to be so indecent. Also, i don't blame any of them, they have no regard for the institution of marriage.

Trimia: If she was so much of a loose woman how come of all her online friends, she fell for him.

Trimia: you're the moronic vagabond, did you not see the part where i scolded her. For sending unclad pictures? She's very wrong, but in her defence her husband knows her sensitive spots already and things that can get her to fall for him. She was stupid to be so indecent. Also, i don't blame any of them, [size=18pt]they[/size] have no regard for the institution of marriage.

Fhemmmy:
I love that . . They are both at fault, cos the husband too was doing wrong online . . . Sorry to discredit the claim, only register a name cos of the wife . . .

XtremeBase:

Nope, it's a social network. Instead of trying to be a smart alec, you should have read the comment i quoted. SMH.

Sagamite:

What a moronic point.

No 1, maybe because he is the only one out of the online friends that was brave enough to make a move.

No 2, and more importantly, how do you know or expect the husband to know if that is the only or first time she is meeting up with someone from online to cheat?

Sagamite:

What was wrong about what he did?

Fhemmmy:
He went online and cyber-sexing . . . Forget about the fact that it was his wife, how do we know it is not the norm for him . . . what is good for the goose, how come is not good for the gander?

Fhemmmy:

He went online and cyber-sexing . . .

logica: Ha ha ha ha ha. So he's no longer guilty for testing his wife? The goal-post has shifted to "cyber-sexing". Allah be praised.

jennykadry: It wil, be difficult forgiving this woman. Those pics mehnnnnn

logica: Ha ha ha ha ha. So he's no longer guilty for testing his wife? The goal-post has shifted to "cyber-sexing". Allah be praised.

jennykadry: It wil, be difficult forgiving this woman. Those pics mehnnnnn

Sagamite:

So you are blaming him based on your conjectures, not any facts.

Fck me Lawd!

I am getting alot of intellectual insights on this thread.

Fhemmmy:

How about the man that asks for the pix . . . Is that how he has been asking from other ladies?
How do we know that the woman did not send the pix, cos she was so sure it was her husband playing pranks?

I wish the couple are in western world, where a good lawyer could make that man lose minimum half of all he owns and continue to pay spousal support for some years, while the woman will actually enjoy the touch of a real MAN

^^WTH?!?!?!

Femmmy, stick to the Auto section abeg. Fcck me!!

Sagamite:

UNBELIEVABLE logical reasoning and arguments you are witnessing.

ABYSMAL!

You should know, accorrding to Fhemmmy's intellectual logic, since he has sex with his wife that means it is the norm he is sleeping with other women. Hence the guy is guilty of fornication.