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Why exactly do women get married cuz every single reason I know are usually tagged punishment on them by their husbands ?

Paulego:
Go and ask your mum.

kandiikane: ^ could be if the husband wants 3,000 spartan children.

Fran asoan: The number one thing in marriage is companionship,,,so others are secondary,,,,,she can still learn how to cook in one of these catering schools,it is a matter of time and money and remember love is blind

cowgurl: Is the way to a man's heart STILL the stomach

cusehcuseh: It is a taboo 4 one 2 b called sum1's wife bt cnt cook 4 d husband. A woman who isn't domesticated don't worth being sum1's wife.

Fran asoan: The number one thing in marriage is companionship,,,so others are secondary,,,,,she can still learn how to cook in one of these catering schools,it is a matter of time and money and remember love is blind

omojolajohnson: absolutely no but if she is not adamant to correction i will teach her all but, if she is adamant to correction she will be out of my life.My hobby is cooking and cleaning but that does not mean i should marry someone who can not cook no but am ready to teach her and even send her to school for that i dont care but is she is adamant i cant cope with her.because i cant raise my children in such way

goodluckizuchi: I we not marry a woman that can not cook 4 me in the name of love bcs it we bring a wast of money to me and I don't know why I marry her I we sen her back to her family let her mother traine her well

Mynd_44: Yes I can. I did not marry her so she can cook did I? Cos If I wanted someone to cook for me, I will move back with my mum or hire a cook.
I will marry because I want to spend the rest of my life with the woman not because of food

Bright2: Yes i can since i can cook bt if she can't read nor write well,no way cos i'll not do the childeren home work!

ACM10: Never will I marry someone that can't cook. In fact, I've bounced 3 of my gf's because they can't cook delicious foods. There iz a saying in my tribe that "the way to a man's heart is thru hiz stomach". This statement haz been a time-tested maxim. That iz why Calabar girlz excel in this art, while other tribez are playin catch-up. In my tribe, girlz help their mother in the kitchen as early as 8yrz. Which means that she must have been an expert by the age of 15. My younger sister wz cookin a very delicious food when she wz 13. By the age of 16, she wz cookin for a large gatherin during a ceremony. It wz not a surprize to us when several suitors started to knock on our doorz when she wz only 17. My dad refused, insistin that she can only marry when she'z thru with the university. She later married at the age of 22 during her NYSC.

I don't know what I should be doin with a woman that can't cook. My role as a husband iz to provide for the family and make them comfortable. I can't be the breadwinner and chef at the same time. Even when we change role, I can never accept the role of a chef. I wouldn't want to hire a cook either. Therefore, the ability of a woman to cook a delicious food iz one of the prerequisites in marriage.

Mynd_44: Yes I can. I did not marry her so she can cook did I? Cos If I wanted someone to cook for me, I will move back with my mum or hire a cook.
I will marry because I want to spend the rest of my life with the woman not because of food

mollytinrox:

Seems to me you've wasted money going to school. What did you type here?

livapul86: This generation has gone Crazy. After reading the entire length of this thread and not one single justification by the ladies on the Importance and the intimate bonding that envelopes a family that eats together at home.
In your quest, to be tagged 21st century babes, don't end up Burying yourselves.

fellis:
Seun do and remove anonymity from NL. Am tired of reading fallacious claims on this site.

omenziate:

Ogbeni, go sidon jor, u wan score cheap points wit d ladies abi? A responsible woman who wants to keep his home should learn or know how to cook. The way to a man's heart is in d belly. I trust ma yoruba and igbo ,SS and akwa-ibom babes, as for d akata dem, dem fit eat burger,canned food and all dose MacDonald gbogbo ni se. But here in Naija, it is highly necessary.

ACM10: Never will I marry someone that can't cook. In fact, I've bounced 3 of my gf's because they can't cook delicious foods. There iz a saying in my tribe that "the way to a man's heart is thru hiz stomach". This statement haz been a time-tested maxim. That iz why Calabar girlz excel in this art, while other tribez are playin catch-up. In my tribe, girlz help their mother in the kitchen as early as 8yrz. Which means that she must have been an expert by the age of 15. My younger sister wz cookin a very delicious food when she wz 13. By the age of 16, she wz cookin for a large gatherin during a ceremony. It wz not a surprize to us when several suitors started to knock on our doorz when she wz only 17. My dad refused, insistin that she can only marry when she'z thru with the university. She later married at the age of 22 during her NYSC.

I don't know what I should be doin with a woman that can't cook. My role as a husband iz to provide for the family and make them comfortable. I can't be the breadwinner and chef at the same time. Even when we change role, I can never accept the role of a chef. I wouldn't want to hire a cook either. Therefore, the ability of a woman to cook a delicious food iz one of the prerequisites in marriage.