I felt so sorry 4 you ,god wil brng d flesh of ur flesh , bone of ur bone to you.4get about d guy nd neva bother urself again but always open ur heart for dat mr.right to cum.concerning convenant dnt take it 4 granted jst like dat ,pray fervently in d name of wateva god u serve take break evry yolk of convenant btw u.by d annointing all d yolk shall b broking in jesus name(Amen).

Except ye repent ye shall likewise perish.
REPENTANCE!!!! GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS, THATS THE ONLY SOLUTION.
A SINNER IS NOT A CHRISTIAN; A CHRISTIAN IS NOT A SINNER.

nicole9: Good afternoon. I am a 22yr old girl dating a guy of 28. Please I urgently need your advice.This is my story.

I met this guy I am dating now when I was 15 years old. Then, I was in SS2 when we became friends. He was intelligent, smart, but came from a fairly middle background, but not poor.I did not particularly mind about his background even though I came from an upper middle class family. He later asked me out and I declined at first, but along the line I fell in love with him and I agreed to date him when I was in SS3.

I was a virgin at that time. I told him I wasn’t ready for sex and he agreed to wait. He waited for a year until I finished secondary school and he gained admission into the university. He loved me so much that he wanted me to take a covenant with him which I refused because I had heard that it was not good, and we forgot about it. So one day, I went to visit him as usual and one thing led to another, and we had sex unexpectedly. I was scared that since he has slept with me, he would break up with me but he assured me of his love and that he would not do such a thing to me. He then brought up the covenant issue again and at that point, I thought that is not a bad idea after all, since he said he was going to marry me.

So we made a blood covenant. We cut ourselves with blade, and then mixed the blood with water which we both drank and took oaths not to leave each other even until death. We also took an oath that we would to marry each other. We made other several covenants, like he was the only man that would see my unclothedness and use me until I am old. I also said the same to him but this covenant was not with blood and we read Ruth 1: 1-16 -17 during this also.

The relationship went on well and I gained admission into the university he was attending, so it was easy for us. However, I later got pregnant in March that year and we were scared. We were not experienced in any way about drugs to take and he said he couldn't use a condom on a woman he intends to marry. We thought of keeping it but we did not have the resources and we also couldn't think of telling our parents, so we made a decision to abort it.

The relationship continued and that same year again I got pregnant in November. I removed that one too. The following year, I got pregnant again in March which I removed later. In May that same year, the same thing happened and I removed it. Although, he was by my side in all these and that was when I said I would never do abortion again in my life. I said then that if I get pregnant again, I will go ahead and have the baby. Our relationship continued, but in the next year he started acting funny like he was loosing interest in the relationship, he didn’t tell me but I could guess but all still went well. That was the same year he graduated while I was just entering my final year in the university. Since he was in lagos awaiting NYSC and I was in school, it looked as if we were drifting apart. I tried my best to get along with him, which we did though.

When he came to school for clearance, we got along well too. Although, then we had a little misunderstanding which made him to travel in annoyance without us settling the problem. Later I apologized on phone and we were on good terms. He even called to tell me he was posted to the North and it was a two day journey from Lagos which he wasn’t happy about . After camp, he tried working his service back to lagos, but it didn’t work out, so he had to go back to the North and during all this time, we could not see one on one because I was in school writing my project.

After some time he didn’t communicate with me like he used. No calls, text or even a flash and, so I was scared and worried, and still tried my best to communicate with him. I called him and we talked. Then when it was almost time for him to come home for the Christmas holidays, he told me that he was in love with someone else but he still felt for me. I was heart broken. I asked him "why all this?" and then he said that I caused it and that we didn’t see each other for close to eight months, and that was why it happened. Then again, he later apologized that he would call it off with her and which he did when he found out the girl was playing him.

During the Christmas holiday, he apologized for everything, and we continued our relationship, but that time he told me that he slept with the girl he cheated on me with and that nothing happened to him and that meant that the covenant was not working, but I said nobody knows, you can never tell what will happen. However, I was scared within me and hoped that nothing would go wrong. I thought that since he had slept with another woman, it was possible that he would try it again, but I tried to get that off my mind.

We became close again and he later went to complete his NYSC program after the holiday was over, and by then I had also graduated. He assured me of his love and we always kept in touch when he went back. But all of a sudden, everything changed. I called him one day when he was about to complete his NYSC program around May and he told me he wanted to be alone and that I should look for another man to marry. He said that he was not ready to settle down. This was was someone I spoke to just two weeks back and all appeared to be well. I was confused. I called to ask him why? I asked if I offended him and he said no, that he just wanted to be alone. Then, I knew that there was a girl involved, so I told his sister everything because his parents and sisters knew me as the girl he intended to marry as he had introduced me to them long ago. His sister told me that all will be well and that I should just be patient and that when he returned to Lagos in June, they (the family) would sit him down and talk to him.

After much pleading with him to tell me why he was behaving like this, he told me that he has seen another girl he loves so much and wants to marry. I asked him, "what about the covenant we took?" and then he told me that someone told him that the covenant would not work because we mixed d blood with water before saying all what we said. That day when he told me this, I cried my eyes out.

I have not been myself since then. This is a man I had looked up to as my husband. Someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Someone I removed four kids for. Someone who took my most prized possession, my virginity and pride. I have pleaded with him in any way possible, but to no avail. He neither felt remorse nor even tried to call me. I called him one fatetul day and I found out that he had deleted my number. He asked who I was. That day I felt like crying. Then he gave the phone to his new girlfriend telling me that she wanted to speak to me. That the woman he wanted to marry wanted to speak to me. When the girl collected the phone from him, she asked who I was. At that point, I was so dumbfounded that I had to cut the call. I later sent him a text and gave him a piece of my mind. I told him that God would repay him in his own coin and that the blood of my kids would fight for me.

The girl read the text with him, and this made the girl to keep calling and asking who I was. Once I knew that the girl would not stop, I told her that I was the girlfriend he had been dating for six years and broke up with because of her but that I had noting against her in my heart.

I made up my mind not to call my boyfriend again, but he later sent me a text me two days later asking why I told the girl that he just broke up with me and that she was the one he loves and wants to marry. I told his sister later everything that happened later on. His mother told me not to worry and that he would still come to Lagos this June, and that at least the girl was in the North. She said that everything would be resolved, but I believe that it is the man that has say in all of this and I have decided in my mind to let everything go, since he doesnt love me again. I decided that if it was meant to be, then it would have been.

However, I want to say this, I still love him and I am badly hurt by all that has happened. I am also still scared about the covenant. I have lost it all. I just need your advice and prayers badly because I am so lost. I don’t know where to start from? Even though I still have admirers, I have not been able to open my heart to any man till now. Please help!

What would you do if you were in this girl's shoes?

Its time for you to leave him,wake up and think about of your future instead of a good for nothing guy that doesnt have any plan for you..You are still young and you'v got a very long way to go [b][/b]

let go cause he doesn't deserve you..

Although ur case is pathetic but i want 2 assure u that ur own isn't d worst of all situations especially when u know that some pple whom u're sharing ur story with are even facing much more difficult situations than urs. Learn to talk 2 ur god. There's alwaz a light at the end of the tunnel.

ihekings: when he returns 2 lagos,go 2 him and demand dat the 2 of u shd go to a private room where both of u can break the covenant.u can then go ur separate ways.this is bc the effect of d covenant may hunt both of u later.if u ask me,i will say 4get d guy.he's not worth it.if he cant feel ur emotions after destroying 4 babies(another covenant) wth u,then he doesnt love u.he only lusts 2wards u.break d covenant and LEAVE HIM.a world is enough 4 d wise.

Don't you get it? The story, if true, clearly shows there was no covenant. Which type of blood covenant have you heard they mix water with it? Blood covenant doesnt mean you must lick blood as they did after mixing them. The most important thing is that the blood must be mixed and then a talisman is used to swear that there'll be consequences if breached. Chikena!
OP was used like a rag to off-load by the guy and dumped. QED

Dis is hilarious.. Dat guy is heartless... He shuld beta go n reconcile wit her or else he wil feel d pain in future... Woteva u sow u reap... He shuld b warn... He tot he is smart but dat is foolishness.

Many people have entered into blood covenant unknowingly through sex intercourse. The repercussion lies ahead. Op,you are not alone. God will have mercy on us all.

I feel 4u dear,u ve 2pul ur self back ,4get d God4saken guy n move on,talk dis ova wit a gud man of God,wit God u wil stay a perfect person 2moro,its just dat u girls make big mistake in ur life,u only tink of d present n 4get d future,find God dear. One love

If dis is true den tel ur friend 2 take heart cos its not d end of d world.she should go for conselling and deliverance 2 get past al dese & make sure she breaks d covenant she had with d guy cos such tins should not b taken 4 granted.Although dis story has similarities with a 9ja film i watchd.

Na wa og God is your strength. Forget him and move on. My question is why the oaths. Didn't u think wat if he died suddenly even before uni. Was over. Or even you for that matter. Or fell out of love with each other? And the part about using your body till ure old. Even the bible alway says till SeTh do us part. Y will u want to tie urself to one person forever and ever like that? People never think about the future. Pray and fast for God to release you of that bind.

Poster, i don't blame you for anything u've done both d oath(which is a serious issue) nd d abortions. I'm nt trying 2 b spiritual here, bt i believe u were naive and ignorant abot evritin u did den. My advice for u is jst go 2 a living church for deliverance. Our GOD is faithful nd will forgive u of evritin u did. 1ce u r delivered, u'll feel dos pains nd torture u r feeling nw no more. For d guy, i cant judge form what we see physically cos wen u hear of oda pple's case, u'll knw dat the battle we fight is nt of physical bt principalities nd power. Please try nt 2 blame ur self for anything. Nd dnt think ur problem is d greatest cos u have a GOD dat forgives.

Poster, i ve seen som1 of d same case as urs. She wz delivered @ the synagogue church of all nations. Pls dnt listen to any1 dat will discourage u frm goin der. All u need now is peace of mind cos i knw ur conscience will b hunting u. I wish u d best

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Oh my God this quite sympathetic. My dear i want u to pull yourself 2gether and move OK. I want u 2 know 1 tins, if its yours, its yours and if not, no amount of crying can bring him back, so please be strong.

Harbioollah:
What a sharp Guy!!
He follwed d trend, "Catch them when they are Young and inexperienced"...

Face it galfrnd, he neva loved u in d 1st place...dats wat guys do wen dey know u r nt smart

ur words ar too harsh no one starts being wise .

nicole9:
Nt my own life story bt a frnd of mine who needs advice badly so i had 2 post it 4 diff opinions. ;DNt my own life story bt a frnd of mine who needs advice badly so i had 2 post it 4 diff opinions.

ur friend OK were at u wen she as d first abortion,were ar u wen she remove d second 1 nw u at look for help wen whole tin as spoilt hw did u won't him to love u move wen all ur value as depreciated 4 abortion nd u wnt him to still marry u.OK ooo my crucial advise,move close to God and never b fool like DAT cos if he love u he will respect ur health

Hey Nicole How Did It Go?

na wa o

na wa o abeg wetin later happen its been five years now

wickedness

Thus gal is stupid!!!!! how could u just be doing all these abortions without having a second tot and expect the man to still be there for u?

Kennyprince:
Thus gal is stupid!!!!! how could u just be doing all these abortions without having a second tot and expect the man to still be there for u?

Do not judge

Oh my God!! Four abortions

She get mind o. I can even imagine the pains

Girls should please learn about their bodies, when I was in SS1 I had a fair knowledge about ovulation, pregnancy, and menstruation circle. I bought a book which helped me greatly in understanding my body. I knew my safe periods, I knew when I'm ovulating , when my period gonna come, the days, Circle and all that.

I will keep this precious book for my kids, so they learn more about the human body.

All my mom told me the first day I started to see blood as a woman was "make boy no touch you o, you go get belle, make dem no deceive you. Start to wear bra to hide your breasts" . My brothers and sisters, na so my mama tell me o

Thank God I was reserved, all my mates got pregnant in fact two of my best friends (they never had any information from their mothers about how a woman's body looked like). If not I was insatiable for knowledge, I might have gotten pregnant cos the information from my mom wasn't what actually happens, a boy can't touch you in the arms and you get pregnant of course.

So please, let's teach our children the vital information they need to know about their bodies. Let's be a friend to them, we might be saving situations like this.


When I become a mother, I would choose to be a friend instead cos a lot of children have mothers but no experienced friend to teach them right so they go the wrong way.

I'm sorry for the predicament, o.p have the courage to move forward. I ain't gonna blame you or be harsh with you. We are all humans and make mistakes. You are pardoned, you are only human. Stay blessed.

Ten years, am sure the folks in the story have moved on....and had kids for other people

All in all, MAKE NO MAN YER IDOL