I met dis lady a couple of months ago nd we startd dating. She narrated her past experience abt her ex-boyfriend's brother who raped her. 2cut d story short, whenevr i told her dat I love her, she wil say thank u. She said she doesnt believe in love again. Pls advise.

if you really love her then... you can,

1. Don't tell her you love again (i mean put the 'i love you' sentence on hold for now)... she will soon start missing it

2. Shy away from sex, try to always initiate her romantically (dunno go hard on urself, dont get dip into the romance thingy)... slight kisses will do..

3. Let her start feeling your presence (start treating her like it will be your last, you dont have to spend money to do this)

4. Start having real interest in her future (know what she wants and try helping her achieve it by contributing your quota, not money,)

5. know about her past and really understand what yhe went through (put yourself in her shoe)

6. treat her right (know how she feel before her opening her mouth [it's very easy] little psychology)

get away from her (abruptly) for like a week, dunno avoid her but get her busy and leave her to it. She'll miss you and really cry for you to be back... bring back the love topic back at this time... her reaction will suprise you... easier said than done sha...
Goodluck!!

She needs to heal. Healing takes time.

V_Official made some good suggestions too.

Yield: She needs to heal. Healing takes time.

V_Official made some good suggestions too.

Thanks Baby

Just cos she does not believe does not mean it does not exist. She will come around

Make her a true believer, she will believe.

V_Official®:
if you really love her then... you can,

1. Don't tell her you love again (i mean put the 'i love you' sentence on hold for now)... she will soon start missing it

2. Shy away from sex, try to always initiate her romantically (dunno go hard on urself, dont get dip into the romance thingy)... slight kisses will do..

3. Let her start feeling your presence (start treating her like it will be your last, you dont have to spend money to do this)

4. Start having real interest in her future (know what she wants and try helping her achieve it by contributing your quota, not money,)

5. know about her past and really understand what yhe went through (put yourself in her shoe)

6. treat her right (know how she feel before her opening her mouth [it's very easy] little psychology)

get away from her (abruptly) for like a week, dunno avoid her but get her busy and leave her to it. She'll miss you and really cry for you to be back... bring back the love topic back at this time... her reaction will suprise you... easier said than done sha...
Goodluck!!

Nice!

When women experience hurt from more than one man, it is generally hard for them to believe in love. I can't condemn her for her feelings. Men need to watch how they treat women.

V_Official®:
if you really love her then... you can,

1. Don't tell her you love again (i mean put the 'i love you' sentence on hold for now)... she will soon start missing it

2. Shy away from sex, try to always initiate her romantically (dunno go hard on urself, dont get dip into the romance thingy)... slight kisses will do..

3. Let her start feeling your presence (start treating her like it will be your last, you dont have to spend money to do this)

4. Start having real interest in her future (know what she wants and try helping her achieve it by contributing your quota, not money,)

5. know about her past and really understand what yhe went through (put yourself in her shoe)

6. treat her right (know how she feel before her opening her mouth [it's very easy] little psychology)

get away from her (abruptly) for like a week, dunno avoid her but get her busy and leave her to it. She'll miss you and really cry for you to be back... bring back the love topic back at this time... her reaction will suprise you... easier said than done sha...
Goodluck!!

My kind of guy

V_Official®:
if you really love her then... you can,

1. Don't tell her you love again (i mean put the 'i love you' sentence on hold for now)... she will soon start missing it

2. Shy away from sex, try to always initiate her romantically (dunno go hard on urself, dont get dip into the romance thingy)... slight kisses will do..

3. Let her start feeling your presence (start treating her like it will be your last, you dont have to spend money to do this)

4. Start having real interest in her future (know what she wants and try helping her achieve it by contributing your quota, not money,)

5. know about her past and really understand what yhe went through (put yourself in her shoe)

6. treat her right (know how she feel before her opening her mouth [it's very easy] little psychology)

get away from her (abruptly) for like a week, dunno avoid her but get her busy and leave her to it. She'll miss you and really cry for you to be back... bring back the love topic back at this time... her reaction will suprise you... easier said than done sha...
Goodluck!!

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Shollypopz:
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Don't mind him, he just closed the topic.

anyway am coming back with more point..brb

V_Official®:
if you really love her then... you can,

1. Don't tell her you love again (i mean put the 'i love you' sentence on hold for now)... she will soon start missing it

2. Shy away from sex, try to always initiate her romantically (dunno go hard on urself, dont get dip into the romance thingy)... slight kisses will do..

3. Let her start feeling your presence (start treating her like it will be your last, you dont have to spend money to do this)

4. Start having real interest in her future (know what she wants and try helping her achieve it by contributing your quota, not money,)

5. know about her past and really understand what yhe went through (put yourself in her shoe)

6. treat her right (know how she feel before her opening her mouth [it's very easy] little psychology)

get away from her (abruptly) for like a week, dunno avoid her but get her busy and leave her to it. She'll miss you and really cry for you to be back... bring back the love topic back at this time... her reaction will suprise you... easier said than done sha...
Goodluck!!

Dis has said all, I wonda wat he want us to say. Nice 1 bro. @poster just follow wat he said it will help u.

Hmm...
Thanks guys, hope it helps the poster...

love is just this 'thing' we keep making noise about, there is no lovometer you can only take someones word for it. I dont trust people enough for all that! lol

Her saying the words to you shouldnt matter as much as her treating you right, if she makes you feel loved it shouldnt make a difference, besides give her time to feel, you cannot control her emotions.

You need to give some time healing takes time, she will feel love again

She will eventually

Many thanks 2 evry1 dat commentd...
Guys, pls, let's always treat our ladies as "queen" if not "god". Women r emotionally sensitive n dey think deeper than we guys.

Op

But she believe in sex

I also have a friend that thinks the same but my friends didnt had any breaks or family problems she sais she dont believe in love caus its only a feeling express by humans, and all that and just last night i when on a date with her, we had an amazing time i was super romantic super sweet we kissed we hugged, i was an old time gentlement to her but the now today she said that it didnt supose to happen so idk why she just said she doesnt know why

just show her gr8t luv.make her feel as if she is d only gal in d world aviod uncessary arguments.if u notice she is like enjoyin d way u are treatin her stop.she must wuld b d 1 askin u y u stoped or changed.then remenber her d coment she made dat she does nt belief in love.ask her do u luv me nw?she must say yes.then kontinue d gud way u had being treatin her b4