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Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Nobody: 3:07am On Jul 16, 2012
lol what do you mean?
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Mynd44: 3:16am On Jul 16, 2012
I knew what you would type before I read it
Ileke-IdI:
lol what do you mean?
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Nobody: 3:17am On Jul 16, 2012
uhmmm. am I that predictable?
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Mynd44: 3:18am On Jul 16, 2012
Ileke-IdI:
uhmmm. am I that predictable?
to me, yes
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Nobody: 3:19am On Jul 16, 2012
Tall,very dark,and how he handles himself. Some attraction is indescribable. Mannn, I was practcally stalking a guy like this today in the grocery store ! I was melting! tongue
Dont even mention money as a factor angry It could never be one
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by esere826: 7:55am On Jul 16, 2012
talina: Tall,very dark,and how he handles himself. Some attraction is indescribable. Mannn, I was practcally stalking a guy like this today in the grocery store ! I was melting! tongue
Dont even mention money as a factor angry It could never be one

But guys funny sha.

Our dear sisters are giving us the "right buttons to push to get to their hearts and pynts" (ref: kitty kat 2012, pp1 grin), and una dey here dey suffer from unbelief. kai!!!

so so money, money, money na im una dey use take block una mindset(infact i go open thread explain wetin money really mean). Yet boys they hala for hoda threads say "help how do i toast a woman?"


What i c from this is that if u r d one tripping for a gal (especially if ur interested in bedding her yesterday), and d gal no send u. then u go spend plenty money.

But if d girl dey trip for u, make u forget money as a key factor. In order words create an aura that will get chiks like Talina, kitty kat, shollpopz, cindyrella etc salivating, obsessing and stalking u.

As for me, gals don use style toast me even wen I no get money. The only problem b say many times, no be d kine chiks wen I dey sex.ually attracted to. But half bread is better than chinchin.

In fact em, if u understand gals em, u no need to think of d 7 wen dey wait u for paradise. Dem plenty and available wel, wel for ur grocery shop or kiosk closest to u. So what r u waiting for? hurry and grab ur copy while stock lasts. Rememember even GREATER VALUE at discount cost!!! grin kiss

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Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by esere826: 7:57am On Jul 16, 2012
Csami: Avengers Assembly go do the work.

lol, lol, lol
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by esere826: 8:00am On Jul 16, 2012
kitty kat: Instead of these guys to read and learn, they r busy yabbing d ladies. If I were u guys(berra remain urselves and let me be myself) I would read this thread and know why Nkechi, Funmi, Amina, Sharon hasn't been catching ur drift.

Goodnite peeps


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Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Lovechyld101(m): 9:36am On Jul 16, 2012
Money is supreme tho, all dis little tinz re jus enuf to create an attention nd in most cases not a relationship.. Buh dat dnt deter me from lookin ma best, cos I love flashy gurlz. There's dis gurl in skool den which I manage 2 chat up. Nd each time I go c her I wud borrow perfume 4rm my room mate even hall mates nd mix it with mine.. So we got talkin one day nd she told me she loves me buh we cant date.. Dats she jus likes the way I smell nd ma hair..got a kiss nd a smooch dat nyte buh still confussed till date y we cudnt date
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by kittykat1(f): 9:46am On Jul 16, 2012
Lovechyld101: Money is supreme tho, all dis little tinz re jus enuf to create an attention nd in most cases not a relationship.. Buh dat dnt deter me from lookin ma best, cos I love flashy gurlz. There's dis gurl in skool den which I manage 2 chat up. Nd each time I go c her I wud borrow perfume 4rm my room mate even hall mates nd mix it with mine.. So we got talkin one day nd she told me she loves me buh we cant date.. Dats she jus likes the way I smell nd ma hair..got a kiss nd a smooch dat nyte buh still confussed till date y we cudnt date
Maybe she is d kinda gal that loves real guys even though she might loook flashy. And she detected that u were not real. Some chicks hate guys who borrow.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by esere826: 9:53am On Jul 16, 2012
Lovechyld101: Money is supreme tho, all dis little tinz re jus enuf to create an attention nd in most cases not a relationship.. Buh dat dnt deter me from lookin ma best, cos I love flashy gurlz. There's dis gurl in skool den which I manage 2 chat up. Nd each time I go c her I wud borrow perfume 4rm my room mate even hall mates nd mix it with mine.. So we got talkin one day nd she told me she loves me buh we cant date.. Dats she jus likes the way I smell nd ma hair..got a kiss nd a smooch dat nyte buh still confussed till date y we cudnt date

ehn, ehn. Now we're talking.

I think the next question to throw to the ladies is for them to help us understand from their experience what makes them to bed a guy, not once, not twice, but many times? what sustains this bedding dating relationship for at least 4 months if they eventual discover that the guy can only afford to buy nice clothes and nice perfumes plus an occasional dinner for 2.

scene 1, act 1: So ladies, una don dey attracted to me
scene 1, act 2: But unfortunately I did not hit while the iron was hot but only smooched, and instead began to fall in love.
scene 1, act 3: Now, una done know me finish say I no hol.

Scene 2, act 1: so ladies over to u, what's next?
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by kittykat1(f): 10:03am On Jul 16, 2012
SMH @ men. Women have told u wat attracts them and u keep insissting that it is money.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by kittykat1(f): 10:13am On Jul 16, 2012
Every woman is different. So I will only talk for myself.

We have established that I am super attracted to you. Since u no hol what I will look out for is ur innate potetials as a man. How u keep ur head above the waters. How u manae ur emotions. Ur decision making ability. I am a tough woman and I can only stick with a strong man with confidence. Also his dreams and aspirations shld be sensible and fascinating.

Another thing I will look at is how sensitive he is abt my needs. He might not have to provide them all but he shd be empathetic.

I appreciate sincerity a lot too.

And he must be hardworking o cos I wld do my best to push him to the top and he has to co-operate.

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Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by esere826: 10:21am On Jul 16, 2012
kitty kat: Every woman is different. So I will only talk for myself.

We have established that I am super attracted to you. Since u no hol what I will look out for is ur innate potetials as a man. How u keep ur head above the waters. How u manae ur emotions. Ur decision making ability. I am a tough woman and I can only stick with a strong man with confidence. Also his dreams and aspirations shld be sensible and fascinating.

Another thing I will look at is how sensitive he is abt my needs. He might not have to provide them all but he shd be empathetic.

I appreciate sincerity a lot too.

And he must be hardworking o cos I wld do my best to push him to the top and he has to co-operate.

U c Kittykat, we were built for one another. I be 'hips' man sha, nice curvy ones wink
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by kittykat1(f): 10:31am On Jul 16, 2012
esere826:

U c Kittykat, we were built for one another. I be 'hips' man sha, nice curvy ones wink
How u take know?
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by esere826: 9:07pm On Jul 16, 2012
kitty kat:
How u take know?

kitty kat, kitty kat smiley u're quite a siren and a mantle teaser aren't u. I have no doubt that u'll make for a good mum. Take one kiss for the road
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jul 16, 2012
His conversation. tongue

I mean dont get me wrong, a fine dude would get a few looks out of me and perhaps a stare grin
but if we are not talking and I am not able to see what is on his mind...it'll end with just a glance
and 2 minutes of admiration.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jul 16, 2012
kitty kat: Every woman is different. So I will only talk for myself.

We have established that I am super attracted to you. Since u no hol what I will look out for is ur innate potetials as a man. How u keep ur head above the waters. How u manae ur emotions. Ur decision making ability. I am a tough woman and I can only stick with a strong man with confidence. Also his dreams and aspirations shld be sensible and fascinating.

Another thing I will look at is how sensitive he is abt my needs. He might not have to provide them all but he shd be empathetic.

I appreciate sincerity a lot too.

And he must be hardworking o cos I wld do my best to push him to the top and he has to co-operate.
common sense at is Peak.

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Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Mynd44: 7:46am On Jul 17, 2012
Kit Kat is really hmmm
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by kittykat1(f): 7:57am On Jul 17, 2012
esere826:

kitty kat, kitty kat smiley u're quite a siren and a mantle teaser aren't u. I have no doubt that u'll make for a good mum. Take one kiss for the road

Awww, I am grinning from side to side. Hugs
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by dammytex: 3:27pm On Jul 17, 2012
I'm waiting for the first female to show interest in a bleaching + short(5'-2") + tribal marks + snoring pot-bellied man.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Jakestar(m): 3:42pm On Jul 17, 2012
dammytex: I'm waiting for the first female to show interest in a bleaching + short(5'-2"wink + tribal marks + snoring pot-bellied man.

LOL! . . That'll be quite an interesting union. . Nice combo, he doesnt stand a chance, all his physical features are on the negative slope..
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by horny4u(f): 3:48pm On Jul 17, 2012
1st: His voice, body and confidence...are his arms strong? is his voice masculine? does he walk with the confidence of a man who has a good 3rd leg and knows how to use it!

2nd: Spiritual : Does he believe and love his Creator,does he pay attention to his thought forms,words,deeds. Has he got faith in a higher power, Is he aiming at being a better person , kind to people, considerate, a good leader etc
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by dazzle37(f): 4:39pm On Jul 17, 2012
His Hieght and his charisma,
I am 6.ft so i don't enjoy lookng down to talk to a guy.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Mynd44: 5:12am On Jul 18, 2012
dazzle37: His Hieght and his charisma,
I am 6.ft so i don't enjoy lookng down to talk to a guy.
Wow.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Jakestar(m): 9:13am On Jul 18, 2012
dazzle37: His Hieght and his charisma,
I am 6.ft so i don't enjoy lookng down to talk to a guy.
LOL. . . I love tall ladies, see I'm 6'2.ft and i hate having to stand or walk out with a girl 5'8 and under. . Its so hard to get a tall, slender, caring and pretty girl these days. Most girls are just 'average' though some are extremely HOT! But i'm sure you get my drift.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by namfav(m): 1:19pm On Jul 18, 2012
cheesy grin grin i laugh at comments such as "broad shoulders, voice, height"


bennyraz: Laughing @ all d ladies in dis room cuz u all are liars tongue the key to ur heart is money! Excess money! Fine dude, neat dude, tall dude without kudi isn't good for u.. Infact most of u wud prefer a monkey with plenty money.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Mynd44: 1:37pm On Jul 18, 2012
Jakestar: LOL. . . I love tall ladies, see I'm 6'2.ft and i hate having to stand or walk out with a girl 5'8 and under. . Its so hard to get a tall, slender, caring and pretty girl these days. Most girls are just 'average' though some are extremely HOT! But i'm sure you get my drift.
or where? Who dash you?
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jul 18, 2012
kitty kat: Instead of these guys to read and learn, they r busy yabbing d ladies. If I were u guys(berra remain urselves and let me be myself) I would read this thread and know why Nkechi, Funmi, Amina, Sharon hasn't been catching ur drift.

Goodnite peeps

Do u know that celebrities & big shots, even the very ugly ones don't toast but they still have fleet of elegant ladies, why? How many handsome, intelligent guys have you confessed to your fellow female friends that you like, & how of ugly-looking celebrities & rich dudes have u admired & even told yourself that I would love to be this guy's gurl? answer the question & you will know the answer to your question. Though in very rare cases, ladies tend to like a guy cos of the aforementioned traits & qualities, but thats just very very minute & not so rampant in Nigeria! Lest I forgot, haven't u seen very handsome, super-intelligent & well-built guys still single with no single girl to call their girlfriend just becos they have no swag (money) or are still job-hunting, whereas u will see some ape-looking guys, with ugly manner & all sort of ugly stuffs moving around with lots of elegant looking ladies? whats d answer? MONEY! And u know what? Nigerian guys have come to discover the secret to every Nigerian girls heart, & hardly nowadays do u see guys still wooing ladies on the road or street; most now rely on the internet, while waiting for their swag to mature...our ladies are no longer after real traits, my dear, just tell yourself the truth. Anyway, forgive my intruding...was only strolling by....still whistling as I waka pass....Lolz....

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Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by yommy2sure(m): 8:10pm On Jul 18, 2012
I lof you hall.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by kittykat1(f): 8:57pm On Jul 18, 2012
DailyNews:

Do u know that celebrities & big shots, even the very ugly ones don't toast but they still have fleet of elegant ladies, why? How many handsome, intelligent guys have you confessed to your fellow female friends that you like, & how of ugly-looking celebrities & rich dudes have u admired & even told yourself that I would love to be this guy's gurl? answer the question & you will know the answer to your question. Though in very rare cases, ladies tend to like a guy cos of the aforementioned traits & qualities, but thats just very very minute & not so rampant in Nigeria! Lest I forgot, haven't u seen very handsome, super-intelligent & well-built guys still single with no single girl to call their girlfriend just becos they have no swag (money) or are still job-hunting, whereas u will see some ape-looking guys, with ugly manner & all sort of ugly stuffs moving around with lots of elegant looking ladies? whats d answer? MONEY! And u know what? Nigerian guys have come to discover the secret to every Nigerian girls heart, & hardly nowadays do u see guys still wooing ladies on the road or street; most now rely on the internet, while waiting for their swag to mature...our ladies are no longer after real traits, my dear, just tell yourself the truth. Anyway, forgive my intruding...was only strolling by....still whistling as I waka pass....Lolz....

Funny enuf I hv never dated a rich guy. I dunno if wealt turns me off or the rich guys just felt that money alone is enough for a lady. I hate flashy guys too. Homely and Godly is what I always look out for. PLUS CUTE.
Re: Ladies Only: What Attributes Get U Smitten Over A Guy At 1st & then 2nd Sight by kittykat1(f): 9:04pm On Jul 18, 2012
DailyNews:

Do u know that celebrities & big shots, Haven't u seen very handsome, super-intelligent & well-built guys still single with no single girl to call their girlfriend just becos they have no swag (money) or are still job-hunting, whereas u will see some ape-looking guys, with ugly manner & all sort of ugly stuffs moving around with lots of elegant looking ladies? whats d answer? MONEY! And u know what? Nigerian guys have come to discover the secret to every Nigerian girls heart, & hardly nowadays do u see guys still wooing ladies on the road or street;..

Where's d superhandsome intelligent guy u described up there? Send his digits to me and I fix him up in 48hrs with a lady with similar traits. If I don't MODs ban me!

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