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congrats to this most intelligent girl. Hope her dreams of becoming an aeronautic engineer comes true. smh @ the fool on d thread. |
life must be very tough for u male chauvinists seeing women who are supposed to be "mere domestic appendage" (soyinka's words) be heard in public. don't u just wish you lived in 1850 instead of 2013? It's only going to get worse for you bros Like someone mentioned appropriately "For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh."
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Xtfield: Many of Soyinka'a critics do not seem to know him.Your comment makes no sense. No one elected Soyinka as a political official so he has no constitutional right to meddle in the affairs of Nigerian politics either. Who voted for him? On the other hand, Patience Jonathan is our First Lady. She should be involved in Nigeria by virtue of her title. If u don't like it, next time elect a celibate or divorced president. This is no longer 1920 when women are confined to kitchen and can only be "seen and not heard" I can also create a list of good works Patience Jonathan has achieved for Nigeria (and esp. Nigerian women) despite she has only been in the arena for just a few yrs. Wonder why u didn't consider that. This Soyinka guy is getting old and need to go and have a rest somewhere. He is going the same way of Achebe. |
Wole Soyinka: "She is a wife. She is an unconstitutional being... a mere domestic appendage" how chauvinistic and sexist can you get!? |
foolish guy. When you were courting u didn't realize that she wore trousers? what part of her advice on your own clothing style have you adopted? u should have gone and found a deeper life girl when u were courting. it's not too late to divorce and find ur dream wife. |
Billionaires: Wole Soyinka married 3 times and divorced 3 times cos he take our women as 'mere domestic appendage', he is a f00l.https://www.nairaland.com/1357171/soyinka-embarrassment-admirers-patience-jonathan/14 |
excerpt that caught my eye: Buhari once noted that he rather not run for the highest job in Nigeria if the best his alliance can produce is Ngozi Okonjo who should be in the kitchen cooking for her husband, Such is the story of Nigerian politics.https://www.nairaland.com/1358304/soyinka-chauvinist-bitterness-empowerment-women ^ what more can I say? Billionaires: Wole Soyinka married 3 times and divorced 3 times cos he take our women as 'mere domestic appendage', he is a f00l.https://www.nairaland.com/1357171/soyinka-embarrassment-admirers-patience-jonathan/14 |
A (male) Nairaland member has created a thread to commentate properly on the issue. I wonder how people will respond to the thread. Soyinka's works and plays are well known to have a chauvinist/elitist bias which explains the thread title. Soyinka: The Chauvinist Bitterness For The Empowerment Of Women In Nigeria by akpomeme(m): 12:59am The elitist sense of self that the educated and fortunate class of people carry on their shoulders has become a burden to over 90% of Nigerian voters who do not fall within this segment. This segment is well occupied by all knowing narcissus “Wole Soyinka” and his kinds; who now believes that his acknowledged monkey see monkey do achievement by colonial factors gives him the right to belittle Nigerian women in politics. Patience Jonathan may not have had fair opportunities in life just as elitist Soyinka, but one cannot take away the tenacity of Patience Jonathan and her willingness to make mistakes in pursuit of goals. She campaigned for husband during the last election, the elite class laughed at her but she was well understood by her constituency (Women – Educated and otherwise). Her successes irked the less than 10% opinionated elite class who already defined the office of the first lady to be something beyond Patience; an everyday Nigerian woman. This was most recently highlighted by the calls for her to be relegated to ‘being a lady first before being a first lady’. The truth of the matter is that Patience Jonathan understand that there is nothing lady like about Nigerian politics. Buhari once noted that he rather not run for the highest job in Nigeria if the best his alliance can produce is Ngozi Okonjo who should be in the kitchen cooking for her husband, Such is the story of Nigerian politics. You will agree with me that under President Jonathan, more women have been empowered far more than any other government in the history of Nigeria has ever done. This battle is one of those battles being fought by Patience Jonathan. Nigerians should always read in-between the line when a frail that is good enough for men is considered not good enogh for women. Professor can criticise madam first lady all he want, but he can not detract the battle for empowerment of women in politics by Patience Jonathan. Chauvinism and elitism cannot win elections where erroneous diction can. https://www.nairaland.com/1358304/soyinka-chauvinist-bitterness-empowerment-women |
Patience Jonathan isn't sitting still and silently enough for his liking. passage from Death and the King's Horseman:
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Final scene in Death and the King's Horseman. what a coincidence ![]() I guess Patience Jonathan wasn't sitting still and silently enough for his liking.
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Anyone following this topic? https://www.nairaland.com/1357050/soyinka-patience-jonathan-lady-before Wole Soyinka has accused Patience Jonathan of being behind the rivers state crisis. He didn't provide any evidence or proof for his accusations. But it is highly suspect that he is infuriated over Bipi's esteem of Patience. Somehow just that fact that Bipi holds patience in high esteem means to soyinka that patience has power which she should not have as a "lady" http://news.naij.com/40015.html wole soyinka's words verbatim: She is a wife, she is an unconstitutional being, she should not be empowered to such an extent that she is flouting the prerogative, the rights and the responsibilities of the governor of any state, in Rivers, Lagos or in any other state.this is beyond absurd and I am highly disappointed in Soyinka. according to him, it is "unconstitutional" for wives to give their husbands and friends political opinion. LOL I guess he feels he (as a male) should have more authority over Nigerian politics than our first lady should have. seeing as he has an opinion on everything and doesn't seem to see the problem with his own actively meddling involvement in Nigerian politics. I wonder how he rationalizes that. legislators throwing chairs and beating each other up. not an uncommon spectacle in Nigerian politics. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zM9P9nxNMA8 |
the question should be: which cameraman is better? ![]() they both wore it very well. but sarah's pic looks like it was taken by a professional (better focus, hue etc) while Ebube's pic looks like an amateur smartphone pic taken by her 16yr old brother. camera/picture quality is what creates d difference I see. besides that, maybe i'll take Sarah but just because of her pretty red shoes. |
Unspoken rules are behavioral constraints imposed in organizations or societies that are not voiced or written down. They usually exist in unspoken and unwritten format because they form a part of the logical argument or course of action implied by tacit assumptions. Examples involving unspoken rules include unwritten and unofficial organizational hierarchies, organizational culture, and acceptable behavioral norms governing interactions between organizational members. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unspoken_rule #feminists-defy-unspoken-rules |
This is for Davidylan. Eat ur heart out. What do you think of Hillary Clinton now huh? She was the "crazy feminist" when she started out. She was vilified and called every abusive name in the book for being an ambitious woman and not "submissive and traditional" like the first ladies before her. Now that she is fulfiling her ambition you assume and pretend as if she just magically rose up to high ranks without having to face criticism from anti-feminists like you. The public vilification that is meant to put women "in their place" (on whatever issue it may be) do not faze feminists and that is why you are threatened. Now that their are laws, who is preventing women from taking advantage of them? Patriachs? lol. Sit there "gbaming" while your mates are working as surgeons, senators and now president when Hillary runs in 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPZkwbuKbTw "I suppose I could have stayed at home and baked cookies and had teas but what I decided to do is to fulfill my profession which I entered before my husband was in public life..."hahah LOVE HER!! "the first lady was supposed to play the role of the wife and mother.. when Hillary stepped over that line, she got hammered more than anyone in this country ever has".... |
music video about patriarchal culture that promotes the idea of the "dumb blonde" or "ditzy girl" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BR4yQFZK9YM in the 50s, intelligence was ranked almost last in qualities men looked for in a wife. looks and submissiveness ranked very high. this is where the idea of "dumb blonde" comes from. women were encouraged to act dumb in order to get a husband so that the won't hurt their husband's ego. ex. A woman who received PhD was told it meant "push husband down" etc and this is right before the second feminist wave (naturally of course the femninists were less likely to be married back then - for good reason ). of course this idea still permeates the media as u can see from the Pink! video. above. things have changed a lot since then course but we are not completely there yet. [img]http://frenchfriedgeek.files./2011/05/01324.jpg[/img] |
biolabee: Went to the girlswhocode websitefeminists do good work all over the USA and the world. at least u can't deny that. they introduce, encourage and support young girls to participate in STEM fields and continue to mentor the ones who show sustained interest. and that's just one small aspect of what they do. kim ka-trash-ian is just a product of her environment. she is the dream of many anti-feminists. Iceland's FEMALE president recently banned strip clubs and s.extapes that demean women. most anti-feminists are in uproar over this. they love their kim k fixes. http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2013/02/28/173187642/icelands-plan-to-ban-online-porn-spurs-outrage |
never thought i'll live to see d day when i'll be plagiarized almost word for word by my haters. hahaha ![]() but next time, cite u source. u know who u are! |
There are many brands of SUV (Sports Utility Vehicle). you have toyota, jeep, honda,hummer etc jeep is just a brand or company name. they specialize in SUVs only which is why people associate it with SUVs. Another brand that only produces SUVs is Hummer. People associate them with trucks/SUV because these companies don't produce small cars. SUV is a cross between a car and a truck. It's usually used by families with too many children/ large families that can't fit in a small car. or people who haul things and don't want to buy a big truck. from left to right: Truck, SUV, car. https://www.ybslogistics.com/Portals/183723/images/car_truck_suv_3.jpg |
DOD.:motorcycle instead of okada bike/bicycle instead of keke |
high fructose corn syrup instead of sugar |
@ I.JOAN, this is for you!! why anyone would criticize something like this is beyond me. This is similar to something I'm involved in. You should also consider it although no one is forcing you to. it's your CHOICE ![]() https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0JpjmdEgIw&feature=endscreen&NR=1 |
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what's with all these actors dressing up as women? |
souldust: i think the biggest reason feminism have not being able to achieve its legitimate aims is that feminists are most times confrontational and abusive. Sometimes you hear them say that the man does not matter! But tell me who likes to be looked down upon?feminism has and continues to fight for and achieve legitimate aims ![]() your opinion that women should be subservient to a man; kneel down obsequiously to beg the man for basic rights is the main reason why feminism exists. women aren't children, neither are they slaves or servants to be treated as such. if your ego is so big that you feel it's ok to insult a woman or feminists but cannot tolerate it when she insults you back then the problem lays with you. you (and many males) were probably raised to believe that a woman is below you and isn't deserving of respect and dignity due to her gender and that is the main problem behind gender inequality. the men who get defensive when confronted by feminists are just insecure beta males. Warren Buffet is famous for stating that the reason for his success is because he only had to compete with half the population. At least he admits this. The anti-feminists are threatened and in denial that's all. something for you to note is that this is not really a man vs woman issue. it's a feminist vs anti-feminist issue. there are many male feminists just as there are many female (although some of them are just sycophants) anti-feminists. If you watch the chimamanda's video she clearly states that her brother is the most feminist person she knows! I'm sure her husband is probably the second third most feminist person (after her). lol many men do support girls and women's goals and ambitions. usually it is these men's daughters that go on to achieve great things. Either that or she must have been raised with a strong mother or attended schools where girls were taught to nurture their ambitions. NB: this post is a response to Souldust's comment and I would greatly appreciate it if the pack (biolabee,toshman,davidylan,camerooon) can keep off. You will not get any response from me as I have no time for attention seeking salivating wolves. |
doesn't look realistic. |
so a male p.orn photographer is directing and paying a teenage girl to pose nude in a restaurant. and this is his idea of "women equity"? WHAT? someone needs to give him a HOT debilitating backhand slap across the face. |
too funny. I know we have underage voting but what should we call this one? supernatural voting? ![]() I just dey wonder how GEJ got those massive votes in the 2011 general election. Never knew it wasn't the real people that voted for him but the ogbanje, egbere, amadioha and amadiohess in the shrine of evil forest that voted. |
davidylan: So she was governor for 3 months and so? Millions of nigerian men will never achieve that position in 900 yrs.clearly no woman should ever be governor unless millions of nigerian men have achieved the position. what a joke! there is no need to even respond to this. |
ogugua88: So reaffirming what I stated earlier, laws are not the answer. We have to tell our girls they can truly be anything and give them the needed support to get them through. My opinion.I agree with everything you've said. although I think the law also plays a role even though I agree that it is not the answer. women should watch the law because these change all the time. esp. depending on the type of government in power (congress especially) women should especially watch out for the bills that are being passed in congress and put into law that may restrict women. sometimes, laws reinforce positive attitudes in people and let people know what is OK and what is NOT. ex. I will say that acceptance of gays in american society is positively correlated with the achievements they have made in gaining legal rights. people may have ill feelings towards gays but their ability to cause overt harm is limited because of laws. women can sue for discrimination in the work place based on laws and report harassments based on laws that were created to protect the rights of women, minorities and other groups etc. so laws are an important legitimizing tool. at least even if the law isn't being enforced all the time, we can point to it. but I agree with you that PATRIARCHAL MINDSET/ PSYCHOLOGY is the main problem. It is very insidious and dangerous and is the ROOT of the problem. |
davidylan: Why does the US law prohibit stealing? Does that mean stealing is associated with a large portion of the society? Laws are there for a purpose... to make sure that EVERYONE complies with the same codes of conduct as decided by the society.there he goes comparing women, gays, and religious minorities to thieves and criminals. go start ur own rush limbaugh clone radio talk show, I tell ya. it was criminal for a woman to vote or probably walk alone on the street at some point in history anyway. that law was clearly there for a purpose. to placate misogynists like you. thank God for feminists to fight to change the laws and force govt to grant non-existing rights to women. ex maternity leave etc. there will be MORE to come so long as feminism exists!! go dig a hole and bury urself in it if u don't like it. |
davidylan: Again you are speaking from your pie-hole. Hillary was promoting US interests not her personal "feminist" agenda in her role as secretary of state. Even a 5 yr old knows that. No amount of head-scratching emoticons will hide the fact that you are one in the line-up of noise making empty heads here.well then, sure. feminist agenda in US interest or not (I didn't write the article after all. tell your 5yr old head-scratching story to the author of the article). Hillary Clinton is one feminist role model even Condoleeza Rice is a feminist and she has even mentioned many times over that she will not be where she is today if not for her parents. Her father was a feminist(her words not mine) who inspired her ambition. |
davidylan: Again you are speaking from your pie-hole. Hillary was promoting US interests not her personal "feminist" agenda in her role as secretary of state. Even a 5 yr old knows that. No amount of head-scratching emoticons will hide the fact that you are one in the line-up of noise making empty heads here.hey listen here d[size=1pt].[/size]ickhead, how about you just go suck ur thumb in a corner because u make absolutely no sense. you have done nothing on here so far to justify your senseless attack on women who support women's rights. except to say that "my mom is anti-feminist. that's my excuse" yeah right. hahaha I will give a million bucks for you to proove so because without a doubt, you are lying through your teeth. besides, how is that a proper excuse for ur pointless comments so far? u are yet to prove any point for why feminism shouldn't exist. In fact, you have only provided evidence for why it SHOULD exist. and YES hillary clinton is an OPEN supporter of women's rights. I don't even know why u r mentioning her in ur post when clearly, her view veers toward Chimamanda's view which u have labeled as "hare brain" or whatever it is u call women's rights. maybe u should start listening to rush limbaugh for ideas on how to start your own radio talk show. u will need a token female supporter in ur plan. I suggest Ijoan ![]() https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udA-j4J2vIo&feature=player_embedded |
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