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Forum Games / Re: Can You Translate This Photo Into Words? (pic) by ABAGA1(m): 7:56am On Feb 28
officialwdhtv:
Can you translate this photo into words?

So wat is the final answer?
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs South Africa AFCON 2023 Semi-Finals (4 - 2)pens On 7 Feb 2024 by ABAGA1(m): 9:11pm On Feb 07
kushercain:
Abeg this was my last game, which I carried 9ja to win. Sporty put it as a loss because of full time draw even though 9ja went through. Is this possible or it can be contested??
Whatever option you pick only applies during regulation time which is the 90 mins

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Music/Radio / Re: Nigerians Have Bought The American Market - Ghanaian Music Executive (video) by ABAGA1(m): 5:02pm On Nov 18, 2023
Dey beef who no send you...una no dey tire?

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Celebrities / Re: Mohbad’s Widow Testifies Before Coroner, Recalls Singer’s Last Moments by ABAGA1(m): 7:04am On Nov 08, 2023
Giftedhand47:



Lol you again
Seriously the thing is becoming annoying....everyday same story ..shuo
Romance / Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by ABAGA1(m): 3:53pm On Aug 15, 2023
You don't just see someone and sleep with the person....Getting to sleep with someone is actually a process with a lot of checks to ascertain whether you are sure of what you are doing or not..So there is nothing like mistake there...it is a decision you made,so to me it is a conscious act.
Romance / Re: Girl: My Ex Is Trapped In A Loveless Marriage. What Can I Do? by ABAGA1(m): 11:55am On Jun 07, 2023
What can you do as how and as what?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 8:58pm On Jun 01, 2023
Omakraid:
I've seen two pdfs. One is 56 pages, the other one is 63 pages.. Maybe it will be in batches
Please send the one of 63 pages to me oh..
victormakwile@gmail.com... thank you
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 8:57pm On Jun 01, 2023
amajik1:
ote author=Omakraid post=123517810]I've seen two pdfs. One is 56 pages, the other one is 63 pages.. Maybe it will be in batches
Please help me send to my mail.
amajikendanladi@gmail.com. thank you
Abeg which one is 63 pages? The one I have is 56 pages oh
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 2:33pm On Jun 01, 2023
ahmadmg:

I was able to download it
Bro send give me na...
victormakwile@gmail.com.... thank u
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 2:13pm On Jun 01, 2023
Olubiyo100:
How can i share it?
Bro abeg send to me .... victormakwile@gmail.com
Crime / Re: FRSC Officer MJ Oni Slaps Man For Recording Him In Osun by ABAGA1(m): 1:03pm On May 17, 2023
Crime / Re: FRSC Officer MJ Oni Slaps Man For Recording Him In Osun by ABAGA1(m): 1:03pm On May 17, 2023
Family / Re: Nigerian Couple Seeking Divorce Storm Court In Matching Outfit(pic) by ABAGA1(m): 4:25pm On May 10, 2023
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 10:10am On May 10, 2023
DukeJenrus:
For we that are writing today's text has been rescheduled tomorrow by 10 am to 6am email just received now
What did they say is their reason?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by ABAGA1(m): 8:51am On May 05, 2023
1lovetruth:

Drop ur email
victormakwile@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 9:25pm On May 04, 2023
Please help a brother with the past questions and answers abeg...my email is victormakwile@gmail.com....abeg make Una help me thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 9:16pm On May 04, 2023
Davoneskay:


I thought as much. I registered just two days the portal was opened. You are definitely correct, Auwalboy.
I am among those who registered early... just got my own mail not up to 1 min....my test is scheduled for Wednesday
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 2:37pm On May 04, 2023
embarassed
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by ABAGA1(m): 9:44pm On May 03, 2023
Please add me to the group chat 07064989671

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Religion / Re: Kilifi cult: Kenya Police exhume 26 more bodies (Disturbing Photos) by ABAGA1(m): 9:53pm On Apr 23, 2023
So members can starve to death to meet Jesus....He as a pastor dey fear to meet Jesus?abi why he no follow join the fast? angry
Crime / Re: Drama As Pastor Builds Church On Land He Borrowed From Woman For 3-day Revival by ABAGA1(m): 2:45pm On Apr 23, 2023
Aswear something similar happened in my area in Ibadan..The pastor got the land temporarily from a woman(in this case she is not a member of the church)..from setting plastic chairs in the open air to renting a small canopy and now he has even erected a building on the said land.....A friend of mine who used to attend the church told me he left the church because the pastor was always raising as a prayer point that God should make the woman lose memory about the land and never ask of it again. As in he will ask the whole church to pray about it anytime they have service....The way some of our clergymen behave nowadays ehn,it is well sha

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Sports / Davis Vs Garcia by ABAGA1(m): 8:10pm On Apr 20, 2023
Please what is the Nigerian time for the Gervonta Davis Vs Ryan Garcia fight on Saturday?
Romance / Hakimi Matter Oh by ABAGA1(m): 8:37pm On Apr 14, 2023
If by now your babe never ask for your opinion about this Hakimi case ehn...you are single oh infact you dey date yourself grin
Crime / Re: Adeshina Olayinka 'Khadi' Found Dead In A Hotel by ABAGA1(m): 10:11am On Apr 10, 2023
Yemike:
She was called when her plug was about to leave and she answered the call saying all is well..🤔

Only autopsy can unravel this.
Are u sure she was called?...the hotel could just say that to cover the fact that they were not professional at all....many hotels don't call whoever is left behind when their partner leaves...may her soul RIP
Family / Re: Homeless Man And Wife Get Help From Twitter As They Go Viral by ABAGA1(m): 6:15pm On Apr 08, 2023
OdogwuMoney6:
I pray they return back to square one, rubbish... Help that will not last.....When God has not answered my own prayers, Na the prayers if people wey I better pass him wan answer?
Thank God say u no be God

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Family / Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by ABAGA1(m): 5:49pm On Apr 06, 2023
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booksbo0k:
Sorry for the long write up my people, I need advice.

My first son has been behaving somehow in our family, as if he's not part of this family...
You and this boy can be in the same house but you might not set your eyes on him once for a whole day. He will be inside his room through out...

He has been telling me that he is currently working on going to rent his own place and live on his own and that if God helps him and he is able to achieve that, He will not have anything to do with our family again and that we will never set eyes on him ever again :[ ...

I would have not been bothered by such statement if it were coming from someone else, I would take it as a bluff. But this my son is someone that normally doesn't call people to check on them, not even us his parents..

When he was in his previous University before he dropped out, this boy can go for months, that is a whole semester stretch without calling anybody to know how you're doing, except you call him or maybe he wants to ask for money for something or school stuff....

We have five children and he is the first, the second and third children are away in University, he and the two last siblings are the only one's with us.. My husband refused him from going to University in a far place instead he gives him transport money to be going to his own University from home everyday...... He and his father don't even talk again except good morning greetings. He is only 21 ohh..

Let me give you guys small back story so that you can understand how all these things started.

My son graduated from secondary school (a boarding school) in 2017 at 16 years old... Initially, he said he wanted to study computer science as he said that was the course he loved and wanted to study. But my husband refused and persuaded him to study pharmacy because he worked at NAFDAC and he saw the way pharmacy graduates were living at his work place and the salary they were recieving. He and one of his chemist friend sweet talked him into going to study the course and I guess it was because he was young then and could not challenge his dad then that was why he gave in....

He wrote JAMB but he did not meet the cut of mark for pharmacy (but I later realised his score was good for computer science then)... No public University was willing to admit him for pharmacy then because his score was not good for the course but due to my husband love for the course and not wanting my son to lose admission that year , he decided to go the way of private University not minding their school fees...Long story cut short, my son got admitted into Madonna University where we were paying 1M naira every year.....After 3 years in the school and in 300L @18 years old, he began saying he was not interested in the school any longer, that he was tired of the course, that he's body is no longer in the school and blablabla that he wants to go and play football in Europe...

He came back for holiday during the beginning of covid and refused to go back to the school when they resumed, saying that he was only wasting our money by being in that school and he did not want to continue.....This got my husband really sad and angry....My son stayed home for almost two years doing nothing because my husband was adamant that if he would not go back to school, nothing for him, that all the money he has spent for school fees in that school can not be for waste that he can become a footballer after he graduates, saying no one can become a successful footballer without being a graduate, that it would later affect them in life...

But my son refused. I must confess, my son is extremely good at playing football. That was the talent i can confidently say that God personally gave to him from birth. Infact when he was graduating from secondary school, they gave him the award for the best graduating footballer and he was always the centre of attention anytime he plays at our church events. He friends used to call him "nima" then, I think...

I and my husband got tired of him staying at home for long so I went to meet with one pastor in our street who was based in the UK with his family but comes home sometimes for church related matters. I explained my son's situation to him and he offered to help my son travel out to chase his football career provided we have the funds for it. The man was secondary school class mates with "victor ikpe ekong" who was a former super eagles player but currently a pastor in Sweden. To my greatest surprise he called him on a WhatsApp video call in my presence and i was really surprised...He gave me the man's phone number to keep in contact and also scheduled a day to meet with my husband and have a discussion.. I told my son and he was very happy..I also told my husband and he was eager to meet with him at least, anything to solve my sons idleness at the time..

The pastor came to my our house on several occasions and discussed with my husband. My husband kept telling the pastor, saying he would like my son to be going to school while chasing his football career at the same time, a feat which pastor let us know would be difficult as one has to be dropped for the other. Unfortunately, my husband changed he's mind and said he was no longer interested in the whole footballer thing. He said he knew that my son wanted to become a footballer only because of girls. That he, my son knew that if he becomes a footballer, all the girls would like him, that that was the only reason he wanted to become a footballer, and that if football was his true destiny, he doesn't need to travel out for it to manifest, that he can be in Nigeria and make it from here.....That was how that chapter close like that. Pastor left for England few months after.....

After years of my son staying at home, my husband got tired. One night, he hired some Street thugs to come take my son away and beat him up...my son stayed with them for 2 weeks. When he returned, he said he was ready to go back to school. But my husband told him he won't be going back to any private University again. My son wrote jamb again to study computer science and was admitted into COOU. but my said he would not allow him go to any University that is not in the same state we are residing. Now the problem here was that all the public schools in the state we are staying will not accept you to study computer science unless you did chemistry in jamb. And my son did not do chemistry in jamb because he is not good in chemistry. If he was to study in the same state we were staying, he had to settle for another course, which he did...Now another problem arose. My husband refused to rent an apartment for my son around the school because the school is considerably far from our house, instead he decided to be giving him money (2000) everyday as transport fare to be going from home. This did not sit down well with my the boy and he again, said he was no longer interested in schooling again sef that he can't be going such far distance from home to the school everyday to study a Course he does not even like siting that it would be stressful and affect his academics and that it was unwise to be paying 60k a year as school fees while you spend 2k everyday as transport..My husband got angry and called on our estate CSO to come pick him up. They beat him so badly in public that when he got back home later in the evening, I went to check him in his room, his buttocks and back where scarred and red with huge marks...

Ever since, he has been going to the school from home and he has become very distant from us especially his dad. They don't talk again in the same house except "good morning sir"...

My son has turned into something else. He can stay indoors from morning till night. I would have said he has started keeping bad company but he does not even have a single friend, not one..Nobody calls him, and he doesn't call anybody...I have five children and he is the first. The second and third already gained admission this year in a private University and are in school currently, so he and he's last two siblings are the only one's with us now..

Why I'm writing this is because I'm scared..I'm beginning to fear that my son might commit suicide, he's beginning to show that kind of attitude.. And the plans he have to leave us forever to go and stay alone, I don't like it ohhhh...

Nairalanders please I need your advice.
Your husband needs to give the boy breathing space.... He practically wants the boy to live the life he has chosen for him....Let the boy at least have a say in the affairs of his life...Only you chose the Work place,the course of study,the state where he must school,whether to rent a hostel or to stay at home.....Abeg let the boy study what he wants,NAFDAC is not the only organisation in Nigeria and pharmacy is not the only course that will make u rich in future...@21 the boy can take care of himself while studying the course of his dream in another state..you are his mum,talk to your husband cos whatever he is doing is affecting the boy negatively and he is already creating a beast in the boy.

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Sports / Re: Frank Lampard To Become Chelsea's 'caretaker' Manager by ABAGA1(m): 9:58pm On Apr 05, 2023
So far,the new Chelsea owners have proved to be clueless...the sacking of Potter just made them look stupid honestly.....the question remains "WHY SACK TUCHEL IN THE FIRST PLACE?"

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Romance / Re: How Did Your Last Relationship End And Who Was At Fault? by ABAGA1(m): 7:45pm On Apr 04, 2023
Thegoodone13:
. Look always decive
So true my brother
Romance / Re: How Did Your Last Relationship End And Who Was At Fault? by ABAGA1(m): 6:42pm On Apr 04, 2023
I realized I was dating a hotspot,any guy with a WiFi could easily connect......the most annoying thing was she looked so innocent....the thing tayad me

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Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by ABAGA1(m): 9:54pm On Mar 29, 2023
It is so unfortunate that many of our women are like this...as in hostile attitude when the mother- in-law is around,but their own mama na Saint...@OP,for me...if my mum can't stay,yours too can't ... period
Celebrities / Re: Boy Shares Photo Of Him Doing Crazy Things To His 14 Year Old Girlfriend On FB by ABAGA1(m): 5:34pm On Oct 17, 2016
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