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Romance › Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by abdsamad(m): 5:01pm On May 09, 2020
Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remembered, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

You know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

But just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keeps crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?
You didn't look each other up on fb for seven years?

Pls don't start a war with your families over a relationship that may or may not work.

If you're my child and you bring this case to me, I'll expect you to explain in detail what love is, what marriage is about, and most importantly how you intend to make an interreligion marriage work.
If you can't articulate those things, you're not ready.

But seriously, it's not easy. I've been in your shoes...kinda. She was a xtian. I was in love etc. I concluded that the only way it could work was if we were both open to talking about our religions and understanding them better...and challenging them when necessary. Turned out she wasn't as open minded as i was. It was painful but i ended the relationship cos the future didn't look so great.
Few months later i met a Muslim lady who I'm now married to.

It's okay to love with all your heart but decision making should be left to your brain only
Romance › Re: She Is A Muslim, I Am A Christian. Should I Forfeit The Relationship? by abdsamad(m): 4:52pm On May 09, 2020
VillagePeople11:
A bird might love a fish, but where will they build a home together
the bird will hold her breath and visit the fish under water where their hybrid babies are growing. Fish will also jump up and give her a kiss from time to time cheesy
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 3:27pm On May 09, 2020
NEW RULE!

Anyone that posts a screenshot on this thread must add the name of the font and the name of the theme, as long as they look cool.
You kukuma know that someone will ask, so just add the info.

Even wallpaper sef

Otherwise, Change to default font n theme before posting. Thank you

Order by NPF (nairaland patrol force) cool
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 8:55am On May 09, 2020
shocked
PrettyBunny:
Good morning to y'all

Genius 43, hope you had a good night rest?

Y'all should have a blessed day and stay safe smiley smiley
Celebrities › Re: Millie Small, The Bournvita Girl Dies At Age 72 by abdsamad(m): 7:39am On May 08, 2020
Instant name recognition.
I listened to "my boy lollipop" like it was well... Lollipop.

If your brain is in the business of appreciating good music you should definitely check out that song.
Politics › Re: Lockdown: Wike Orders Auction Of Seized Vehicles by abdsamad(m): 11:52pm On May 07, 2020
iLegendd:
If you don't like it, get lost. We need leaders like him. We Nigerians hate obeying rules and when we see a leader who doesn't take nonsense, we cry.

One thing you people don't know is: he is not going to auction any car, but with that statement, more car owners will not default.

Lagos and Rivers state are the two states that are supposed to set examples. If these two states don't, Nigerians will continually be disobedient as usual in all states.

These two states should make any rule they set strict and mean — just as Wiké is doing. When Nigerians start obeying rules in Rivers and Lagos state, the rest of the other states will also start obeying rules in their various states.
i don't want to say u people are not serious but there... I said it.
You want to sell a person's car because it was your father's money he bought it with, abi. Noo, seize his wife too and gift her to your younger ones.
Or you think it's 200 naira they are selling it.

That's how you people will encourage another Abacha to come and rule you. There are relatively reasonable laws in existence, just enforce them. And there are reasonable lawmakers in extraneous circumstances, use them. Selling people's properties isn't something that should be encouraged. Before you know it, we'll start hanging people in the market square for refusing to wear face masks
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 5:07pm On May 07, 2020
jboixxx:
[color=#0000ff]You be onijọgbọn somebody (troublemaker). grin grin [/color]
Ecliptically shaa. Most of the time I'll just be looking
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 9:50am On May 07, 2020
maclawrence02:
Union made in heaven! grin
You gerrit cheesy
Their children will be 43 pretty genius bunnies

cool
Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Oyedepo: It's Wrong To Allow People In Market And Not In Church by abdsamad(m): 9:46am On May 07, 2020
To lack sense at an old age is not an easy feat to achieve. Pls applaud this man.
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 9:39am On May 07, 2020
AirVaans:
Oh na Girl sef, OK Na Novice then. She's excused
You started by being blunt and wrong now you've graduated to sexism. Issokay.
Na girl sef... As in?
Pls go and drink all the morning coffees you've missed, maybe it'll help
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 9:36am On May 07, 2020
AirVaans:
"sHoUlD tHeRe bE a NeEd fOr iT"

No, there's no need for it dear, go and buy Camon 15... Since we that are using Xiaomi, we are tolotolo
Gross mischaracterization!

Someone hasn't had their morning coffee
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 7:34pm On May 06, 2020
kenomobola:
Please 2kurupt and segunmeivin1 kindly sheath your swords to avoid the net being dragged over this thread again. Let's be wise.
noooo! Don't interfere at all o.
I want to see who will win. Oh wait, there's nothing to win.
Just misery all around!

Well, it's okay cos it fits this whole pandemic vibe anyway. Let the keus continue.

But abdsamad, again I ask, is this the spirit of Ramadan?
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 11:01am On May 06, 2020
xoftxoul:
My time with the pad so far...
The pad is meant for productivity and work which is why I got it in the first place
Also Suitable for gaming
Don't expect extra much from the camera in low light cos it is built for productivity
Lol If your hands can be as stable as OIS or EIS... then you'll get good pic out of it in well lit environment... Same goes for videos
Battery will last you beyond a day even with intense use
Build of the phone is very solid

I'm using the WiFi-only version
I noticed on GSMarena that the LTE version don't support most bands... Take note
i hear good things about mediapad m6. worth considering too
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by abdsamad(m): 10:39am On May 06, 2020
Mrviktor:
That's the normal price.. Even cheaper than Xiaomi quoted price..
Even in 2022 it won't go lower than 300.

Except it's China version...
Den that's a high price angry angry angry
Hmm, lemme try that again...

Muhahahahahahahaha

Normal price!

They should shaa not stop making the one me i can afford
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by abdsamad(m): 7:59am On May 06, 2020
Nsonaso:
Mi 10 Pro 8GB/256GB (350k)
Mi 10 Pro 12GB/256GB (380K)
Mi 10 Pro 12/512GB (410)

Strictly on PRE-ORDER
7 working days to arrive Nigeria
Hahahahaha

Na to adopt meditation pose and wait for normalcy o
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 3:34am On May 06, 2020
ladykilllar:
Could your please help with list of thers like it within and beyond its price group? Thanks
Like I recently told someone on here, this entirely depends on the features you need.

I usually start by going to gsmarena where i do an advanced search.
I select the features dt must be presenf like oled screen, band 28 4g, underdisplay fingerprint, and the list starts to shrink. I finally have the phones i can use.

For you an ir blaster, ip rating or even headphone jack may be absolutes, and dt may give u a slightly different list. So you should try that. Play around with it till u have it down to 10 or 20 phones.

But if you want phones like mi 9 and price isn't a problem (n u don't want to do research) then just close ur eyes n grab any of the flagships like s20 or oneplus 8 or latest mate series. You'll be okay with any of them
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 10:18pm On May 05, 2020
ladykilllar:
Hahaha it happens

Any other alternative on your mind?
I was only eyeing it o.
Numerous alternatives but I'm also trying to keep my money inside my pocket.

I'm actually not "ready" for an upgrade at this time

If you've made up ur mind about the mi 9, you should be patient. It's a good device. But Ofcos there are others like it, though probably above its price group
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 9:08pm On May 05, 2020
ladykilllar:
He sold it already sad
grin i was crying dt u were about to buy phone dt i was eyeing but now dt its been sold, I'm doing eela!

Wait, Dis is not the spirit of Ramadan
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m):
miui12 dt will soon become stale n somebodi will be looking 4 13.
Abeg nobody sud raise my bp with another preupdate update noise again jere.

We'll just do it ota wen it eventually comes
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 12:55pm On May 05, 2020
Betnomore:
Can you explain better. What are the perks of updating it. Thanks
errm... because... Errm..
You can go through the changelog to see the fine details but the summary is: abeg, update ur phone
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by abdsamad(m): 12:51pm On May 05, 2020
noobody:
supa instant pick up deals

Brand new

Xiaomi mi 9,6/128gb, 120k, sd 855

Asus RoG Phone 2,8/128gb,160k sd 855+

Redmi 7 2/16gb,global version, 36k

Redmi 7A,2/32gb,global version, 35k

Redmi 7A, 2/16gb,global version, 30k

Call/whatsapp:07051054953,08100115319

Location, lagos, egbeda,

Can be waybilled anywhere in the world,

Cheers
You'll not dash me that mi 9 abi?
Is dt how life is?
I thought i was your friend o cry
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 3:45pm On May 04, 2020
oluwashedy:
Font name please
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Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 11:12am On May 04, 2020
Keiyadosh:
I am not buying again.... Snapdragon 845 is almost three generations of chipset now...it is not just that much of a good deal
Snapdragon 845 will still dance circles (eyes closed) around the thing inside rn9s
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 11:10am On May 04, 2020
Keiyadosh:
I was even only initially concerned about screen...all these ones wey u Jes list down,,make I Jes settle for Note 9s jeje
#never settle

Check dis out on jumia. Mi 8 is on par with the s9+ in most respects.
It doesn't have band 28 support for glo though

I used the phone for a while and i can tell u it's super sweet. Still sad i had to let it go

Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 7:46am On May 04, 2020
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Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 7:45am On May 04, 2020
genius43:
This kind of question is honestly beyond anyone here. Even most people at Xiaomi Nigeria don't know if it is coming.
but what if i consult my "ifa" and "orunmila" sends the answer to me via facebook grin
Crime › Re: Nigerian Police Force Reacts To Viral Video Of Woman Assaulting A Police Officer by abdsamad(m): 7:41am On May 04, 2020
Luckysbab:
You're saying rubbish, brother.

Cry for help is locking his shirt for over 6 minutes and still slapping him repeatedly? What sort of unreasonable and partial submission is this?

What happened to using her mouth and face only to cry out for help?

That's a violent woman there and she went overboard, regardless of the said provocation. He didn't kill her child or something, to warrant such reaction.

Plus she had it coming, as soon as she was caught flouting the governor's curfew order.
Uh uhn! And it's so b&w to you, isn't it?
Well, dts how i see it.
You see a trouble-maker, i see a victimised woman.
We'll just have to agree to disagree

As for flouting the lockdown rules... Let's be reasonable pls. You cannot ask people to stay at home n starve. Maybe the officers were just doing their jobs but people are only doing what they av to for survival.
If this person was operating a small shop in front of her house n dts what her only source of income is, I'm waiting for someone to close it n provide her an alternative. I don't know what the full story is so it's better to keep an open mind but as much as we need to contain this virus, we also have to do it within the bounds of our local reality
Crime › Re: Nigerian Police Force Reacts To Viral Video Of Woman Assaulting A Police Officer by abdsamad(m): 6:22am On May 04, 2020
ProfDview1:
U r right and wrong at the same time


Fine she was assaulted but she took it too far..
If her neighbors cud be calling her from behind, then trust me she is a very stubborn woman
That's a woman who has been wronged. In all likelihood the person she's slapping also knows that he wronged her.
We're praising the perpetrator for having the patience to not continue assaulting his victim, in all likelihood.

She didn't go too far. That behavior is essentially a cry for help in the face of helplessness. She obviously knows these men can do terrible things to her but at that point flight/flight/freeze takes over.
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 3:37am On May 04, 2020
Keiyadosh:
Sorry guys I need to ask u about something I am not really knowledgeable about...Is it advisable for me to get a UK used Samsung S9+ plus for 130k...it seems like value for money my only concern is that I heard (I have not done my research on it) that OLED screens have screen burns after about 2 years later or they are not Sha advisable to use for long...my point now is S9+ was released in 2018...whoever bought it and put up for sale did so in 2018 or probably 2019...I might be using the phone for anoda one or two years...Am I safe??
In summary, s9 plus is a great phone but weigh all your options well. May the force be with you, like my oga once said smiley
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 3:28am On May 04, 2020
BryanWyatt:
Is there a way to access battery capacity of used Samsung phones? From a friend's experience he always has issues with UK or US used Samsung phones because their batteries don't last and getting good replacements not easy.

I agree with you apart from battery problems of older flagship phones.
I think there are apps that can show the current battery capacity. "Castro" comes to mind, though i can't verify its accuracy in dt dept. It says my mi9t now has 3600 mAh capacity sad
But... Meh! Ion care. Phone is Working well
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 3:21am On May 04, 2020
Elxandre:
But do you use used Computers?
smiley Negative
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by abdsamad(m): 8:34pm On May 03, 2020
Lexusgs430:
For Hard drives, get Dell..... They are baba & mama of external HDD.......
But what if someone is lookin for aunty and brother of HDD instead cool

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