Travel › Re: My Experienced Living In Northern Nigeria by abduldope(m): 10:23pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
sign of tribalism war about to start down here
mid please kindly do the needful
Cc justwise
cc disguy
thanks |
Nairaland General › Re: Follow Me Thank God Ooo by abduldope(m): 9:56pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
just saw this.
LUCKY YOU BRO |
Travel › Re: I'm Taking A Road Trip Across Europe - Germany, Switzerland And Italy by abduldope(m): 11:47am On Apr 07, 2017 |
wanderlustian: OMG! I'm flattered!
Won't be a bad idea to do this again in 2017... with a group.
My baby is 16 months old now and a whirlwind! Wowz! I cant believe how much she has changed, but she still loves to travel. We were in Chicago from Sept to Nov and she took her first steps the moment we stepped out of the airport, was so emotional!
So holler me if you think touring Europe again is a fab idea! It's not too early to start planning. I will post visa requirements soon so those interested can start putting together paperwork... or do I start a new thread?
originalsly omoharry smithsydny Nepro ekharry GenBuhari Wellendowed Simababe winnielle abduldope abimbawealth DArey00 mexxy1 Chukxie seguno2 fredyoooooo ligxy hello, its been long I posted anything here due to the ban I received for no reason lol. back to the topic, how are you and how is the lil Missy doing ? about your next trip why don't you conclude the remaining European nations so that we will know you're done with europe. same as it will be much better in a new thread. wishing you the best ma. thanks. |
Romance › Re: Guys, Never Miss A Lady With The Following Qualities… by abduldope(m): 8:09pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
ferdvict2: Despite we say all manner of things against the female folks, there are some who are still worthy, like those with these under listed qualities. 1. Who walks for miles just to see/meet you
2. Who says “sorry” even though she didn’t do anything wrong..
3.Who cries because she still loves and misses you..
4. Who still tries to get you back..
5. Who no matter how much you have hurt her still loves you..
6. Who stops her argument with you to save your relationship..
7. Who continuously makes you feel special and tries to make you happy..
8. Who is upset but, does not tell you as she thinks she is annoying you..
9. Who wants to leave you because of your rude behaviour..but, she is not able to do so because her Love for you overcomes it all.
ADD URZ... #Seconded |
Sports › Re: Top 6 Football Players Who Have Had Plastic Surgery (pics) by abduldope(m): 12:25am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Stanleywaxy: Op it's obvious you've got much time on your hands and that's why you compiled this freaking list .
Wayne Rooney never had any plastic surgery neither did CR7 nor Beckham .
Don't tell me you haven't seen any recent pictures of David Beckham ? He's still got wrinkles and that picture of him without a wrinkle is a photo of him on a red carpet .
Ronaldo was not all that good looking when hre first came to united , but he still managed to change his looks later on. These players evolved , Gareth Bale within the past two years has changed severally .
Useless topics making it to the front page while the much better ones are being ignored .
Gareth Bale did surgery too abi ?  lol oga take am easy d rooney Hair Transplant wetin u wan call am ?? mama iyabo Saloon wevon ? lolz |
Technology Market › Re: PS3 new for sale by abduldope(m): 10:05am On Oct 09, 2016 |
aril: Pes 3 new.. price 50k pls update ur thread Topic To PS3 nt Pes3 ure confusing Pple #my.view.tho |
Technology Market › Re: Samsung Galaxy S5 From USA For Sale by abduldope(m): 10:02am On Oct 09, 2016 |
to b Unlocked and still 50k #recession.is.a.Biiitch |
Travel › Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by abduldope(m): 12:19am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Walspring: You go to college board site to download or buy or you go to yaba or Ojuelegba market and buy it tnx bt i dnt base at Lag tho |
Travel › Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by abduldope(m): 12:19am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Walspring: You go to college board site to download or buy or you go to yaba or Ojuelegba market and buy it tnx am nt in Lag tho |
Travel › Re: I Sincerely Regret Being Nigerian by abduldope(m): 4:37pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
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Travel › Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by abduldope(m): 4:29pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
hello house pls someone shld help me with TOEFL and SAT (2016/2017) or (2015/2016] edition. so that i can know the kind of TEST am about to face when am ready for my moves. ablamars@gmail.com tnks |
Celebrities › Re: Traditional Wedding Of Adekola Jethro Oyekanmi (Pictures) by abduldope(m): 4:07pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
WHO IA ADEKULE gold  ? |
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Technology Market › Re: SOLD SOLD by abduldope(m): 10:51am On Sep 29, 2016 |
ekiduwuka: Grab it now bro i admire d collection but Recession!!! No allw me |
Technology Market › Re: SOLD SOLD by abduldope(m): 5:37pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by abduldope(m): 10:52pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
GBAM!!!... When 1 pastor was busy preaching avoid sex till marriage u turn deaf ears nw ure reaping the outcome. BTW when u were about having s3x with tha Ex did u seek our Advice  #Hoes.evrwhr |
Romance › Re: Girl Says Jesus Fed 5000 People And Didn't Ask Anyone To Off Pant, Guy Replies by abduldope(m): 2:42pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Peacetemi: I don't have to boast  Just tell your fellow lazy FishBrain beggars to stop begging and go make something out of their lives. Be a successful woman and stop begging for meatpie. #Savage |
Nairaland General › Re: 6 Interesting Things You Can Do When You Are Bored by abduldope(m): 7:18pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Or xvideos  |
Politics › Re: Man Who Fries Garri: "APC Change Is Suicide" (Photos) by abduldope(m): 2:16pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
impressive |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Proposes To A White Lady On Olumo Rock. See Her Reaction! by abduldope(m): 2:20am On Sep 15, 2016 |
Wingback: Why don't you stop acting stupid_ and provide him with a mouth watering job...VAGABOND.
Is it your business how people spend their day
YOUR BRAIN MUST HAVE BEEN FINGERED. #Savage |
Family › Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by abduldope(m): 12:30am On Sep 13, 2016 |
tit: has she reach ilorin?
bother, no waste time again ooo.
this wan na winch. love ur Moniker man. |
Family › Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by abduldope(m): 12:29am On Sep 13, 2016 |
FrustratedNigga: i also noticed that.
Could be a typo error i been fear o. lol |
Family › Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by abduldope(m): 12:28am On Sep 13, 2016 |
ahahnow: your mother will be slapped 100 times on her death bed LoL all this E-trolls. pls did he mention ur mum ?? if nah y mentioning his for pete Sake |
Family › Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by abduldope(m): 12:26am On Sep 13, 2016 |
nameerfhtennek: It's more than 20minutes, I'm still unable to put words together to begin this story. I will try keep it simple and necessarily detailed so everyone will understand the true picture of what happened, why against my belief that writing personal experiences on social media is immature, I had to still write mine. Let's just say I'm not thinking right now, maybe I'm so upset but truth is, I need your advice.
I'm writing this thread seated at the back of a Hilux truck just outside our apartment. Yaa, that me in the picture. You see, today is EID and believe me I should be resting in the house since I'm not working today. Days like this only come by 6times in a whole year and more than anything, I would have loved resting than being out here.
It was yesterday evening, she called and said she her driver were headed to my office. She wanted to pick some stuffs around my office. Yaa, I forgot to say this is Saudi Arabia. If you know Saudi quite well, you will agree with me that a husband will definitely get exhausted running errands for his wife or the family. I was not in the mood for shopping but she wanted to shop. She got upset that I didn't want to accompany her shopping.
She did her shopping alone and returned few minutes before I closed from work. We headed home. Unknown to me, I forgot my internet router in my office because I was rushing to get home and continue with my FIFA 16. Her internet service expired some days back so we were using mine.
While playing game, she walked into the seating room and demanded for my router. Mine, not hers. With her tone and facial expression demanding the router, I didn't respond because there was an indication that she was warming up for a quarrel. I wasn't just in the mood. The thing is, she is very skilled in extending her anger phases. That is one thing I can't understand till today. Believe me, it was not like this while we were dating. Sorry, I forgot to tell you I married my university girlfriend, she years my junior and the same department. Ya, I'm one of those guys that dated and planned for the future with their girls at the same time. God blessed that plan but at this point I don't understand everything that has been happening for the past one year plus since we got married. She repeatedly demanded that I handed over my router to her but I was quiet. Meanwhile, it occurred to me that I forgot the router in my office the minute she first asked about it. Truth is, I actually needed to use the internet that night for my online FIFA.
After several times of asking for the router and no response from me, she took the TV remote and switched off the TV. She walked straight to the kitchen and hid the remote. I approached her in the kitchen and told her I was not ready for any kinda quarrel. We have had enough for the past one year of getting married. I then told her I forgot the router in my office, I didn't have it. I guess she didn't believe me, she never did. She told me to leave her alone. I returned back to the seating room with my heart beating fast. I knew she wanted a serious quarrel that night. After some minutes, I returned to the kitchen and requested for the remote. Then I figured out she hid it in her pant. Pretending I was passing by, I swiftly went for the remote from under her short gown and grabbed it. She didn't expect I knew where she hid it. She followed me behind and ceased the game console, second indication she wanted me to react. I do have a problem with my temper just like every human, male or female. I have also learnt to deal with it by walking away at times I feel I was going to lose it. The same reason I'm outside at this time, 9:55 pm Saudi time. She knows I have fought hard to tame my temper issues but most times, she makes deliberate efforts to have me overreact to her nags and rants.
I watched her hide the console in her pant yet again. I shuddered in obvious fear because I knew what the woman wanted, a fight. Unable to deal with it,the intimidation and the shame, I went for the console and squeezed it out from her hand while she was trying to hold it tight. That was when the trouble then started. She wanted a buffer to help her spill everything she had nursed in her mind. "You are a violent person!! You can kill, idiot!! You were not shown love by your parents, that is why you will squeeze your wife's hand to collect the console. They allowed you to grow up in the street without parental guidance and love." Then it came....pwaaaaaaah!!! She spat on my face!!!!! God knows, I have never been spat at before, not by my parents, not by my siblings, not by anybody. " I agree I was not shown love by my parents but your Dad is a coward for running away from your mother without being there for you guys when he needed to play his roles as a father. That explains the reason you are like this", I said and walked back to the seating room.
I managed to play a few games which I lost mostly and then slept off around past 5am this morning. Around 3pm, I woke up and went to the office. Not like I had work but I needed to clear my head away from the house. If only there was alcohol in Saudi, I would have been somewhere in a hotel drinking away the shame. When I returned home by past 7pm, hungry and tired. I needed to continue my game but I could no longer find the game console and the TV remote. I asked for it and she ignored me. I managed to eat and then left the house to this truck.
You see, I love my wife more than anything, more than anyone. She is one person in the whole world I could go any length for. I love her, that was why I forgave her when she broke up with me after I left Nigeria for Saudi Arabia. She broke up with me few months after I came to Saudi and started dating another guy twice her age. She says she never expected I would come back to her after she left me but I did. I did because I saw a future with her, a future I imagined, believed in and worked towards its reality. Today we have gotten to a level where most people out there would want to be, our colleagues envy is because they believe we are privileged and blessed but what they don't know is that in the truth, I have no peace. This marriage has become my legacy and my curse.
I want to send her back to Nigeria in few days time and I hope I'm not making a mistake!!! Spitting on my face, nah nah....am so fed up!!!! The ending part after she left u. U strted dating another Guy twice her Age ?..... |
Family › Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by abduldope(m): 12:24am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Wtf! for real u strted dating another guy twice her Age ? |
Romance › Re: Man Announces His Engagement Break-up On Instagram by abduldope(m): 3:56pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
LadyMercedes: Ouch!  Ur moniker.... u a relative of Nina Mercedes or A fan ?? |
Technology Market › Re: Topic closed by abduldope(m): 12:30am On Sep 07, 2016 |
airminem: I AM VERY WORRIED OF THE MILLIONS OF NIGERIANS WHO WHERE FORCED TO SWAP TO THE MTN NETWORK BECAUSE OF MTN INTEREST WHICH IS POORLY SERVICES BY THE NETWORK MANAGEMENT OR WHATEVER TEAM. NEVER DID I KNOW IT WAS GONNA GIVE ME A HEARTBREAK. EVER SINCE I SWAP TO THE MTN NETWORK, I HAVE HAD THE WORST NETWORK EXPERIENCE. I HAVE BEEN UNABLE TO RECEIVE TEXT MESSAGES, SUBSCRIBE THE INTERNET, SWITCH PLANS, BORROW AIRTIME AND EVEN ACCESS THE *131# PLATFORM. WHAT IS MORE DISTURBING IS, I FIND IT UNBELIEVABLE TO RECEIVE CALLS WITH THE SIM, ONLY FEW BUT ITS REAL. I AM NOT SURE THIS IS NOT FUNNY TO YOU, BUT CERTAINLY NOT ME. I HAVE LAID SEVERAL COMPLAINS BOTH ON @MTN180, MTNLIVECHAT, AND ALL THE EMAIL PLATFORMS IN NIGERIA. I RECENTLY WENT TO THE MTN OUTLET AT OPEBI TO LAY THIS HUGE COMPLAIN TO THE CUSTOMER DESK, AS USUAL, THE REGULAR THINGS"PLEASE WAIT WHILE LET ME CHECK YOUR LINE", AFTER FILLING THE COMPLAIN FORM OOO. OKAY THE RESPONSE WAS FOR ME TO GO SWITCH MY PHONE OFF, TAKE OUT THE SIM AND RE-INSERT SIM AFTER COUPLE MINUTES. I AM TIRED NOW AND EXHAUSTED ON THIS ISSUE. QUESTION: DO YOU THINK I SHOULD HIRE AN ATTORNEY SO THEY WILL PAY ANOTHER ONE TRILLION NAIRA. I NEED UNA ADVICE...... BEGGING!
PS: I REALLY NEED THAT PARTICULAR PHONE NUMBER LIKE "BATS OUT OF HELL". I WAS DOING BEST ON VISAFONE NETWORK. UNTIL NOW.
GREED NO GOOD OOOO views but no comment... i blieve this your upper case is a turn off.. #no.offence |
Technology Market › Re: . by abduldope(m): 12:26am On Sep 07, 2016 |
thegame: Just stay away from jiji.
From experience, there is this new clone in market that's superbly close to the real deal. The only way you will know is to try reset the phone or log in to icloud. But if u believe in Font or ringtone or even interface, you will be surprised how you'll be fooled.
They scammed a friend and the painful thing was I was there and even confirmed the phone was good. It was when he wanted to reset the whole data that the real sdk, which I guess is android thing came up and he called me to let me know.
so be careful with jiji! seconded |
Travel › Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by abduldope(m): 12:05am On Sep 04, 2016 |
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Phones › Re: Windows Mobile Naija Forum by abduldope(m): 12:20pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
Gucciboss: Search for "wptorrent" in store tnx i have both dont understand how to use them @tyms it would refuse to save the file (wptorrent). d only item i managed to gt was Kanye (TLOP) which was 148mb bt any item of 1GB upword wont save, any solution to that. while torrex lite i cant search for torrents direct it always direct me to cortana (bing search) |
Phones › Re: Windows Mobile Naija Forum by abduldope(m): 12:11pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
UjSizzle: I use WPtorrent-- it's really good. Or Torrex Lite. tnx i have both dont understand how to use them @tyms it would refuse to save the file (wptorrent). d only item i managed to gt was Kanye (TLOP) which was 148mb bt any item of 1GB upword wont save, any solution to that. while torrex lite i cant search for torrents direct it always direct me to cortana |
Travel › Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by abduldope(m): 11:29pm On Sep 02, 2016 |
Walspring: Are you going for Bsc or Msc ? MBA in Business manegment (Msc) |