debbydams:
u are saying your gf can't joke with you abi..well i did that to my man, I told him I missed my period nd I sent one trip I collected from my friend to disguise,I told him im gonna abort that I can't keep a child now,he persuade me not to that we can work things out, I told him I'm not pregnant that I was just trying to know how much he love nd we continue our relationship..that's love, she might not even be thinking about marriage I did mine because I want to know how much my man love me..u can test her nd she can test you, if the love is geninue I don't see anything bad in that tho

Godada:




This is a really big accusation here. Do you have proofs? At 25, a woman needs to know where her life is going. So cut her some slack. You can be rest assured that she will be getting lots of offers. She is at the flower of her youth. If you mean well for her, which I feel you do, you need to set her mind at rest.
I understand you,am doing well with my business already even planning on coming to see her mom after her final exams, why am saying all this is that an ex did this some years back and we ended breaking up due to her insecure and childish games


Now for the ever present elephant in the room: Are you financially capable? It's a expensive affair running an affair as well as feeding and maintenance. Marriage expenses and looking after your kids.

Arrange yourself well. Marriage is not for the slothful

Fafesot:
She's cheating on you son!
That's what the hypocrites on nairaland won't tell you.
My 2 cents.

Godada:
Guy, why would you wanna chicken out from her? Suppose she made a mistake. If you really want to be with her then this matter should not have been an issue.

You can't be digging a lady and she would not consider marriage.

I guess she meets your spec. Just see her peeps and do the needful

Areola14:
The lady might just be trying to know if truly you love her... She might have gotten someone who is on her neck but she didn't want to lose you just like that.. she want to know if by tomorrow she's eventually pregnant... You will be responsible... If you truly love her and want to settle down with her. Talk to her. If you don't like her, discharge her and don't block her from seeing a man who is ready....

CharisEleos:


To tell you to break up with her or continue the childish relationship you nearly Chickened out of at the mere mention of pregnancy?

My advice for you is to face your studies.

Goldbw122:
Hmm, well test her with money in return so that the play/test will be right and fair..

CharisEleos:
Tou need advice on what exactly?

Sebastine1994:
oboy the stress too much, heat and everything,

my sisters are pain in the ass, I want to give them out in marriage

check her out

Matheusmartin:
..... Kenny Rogers-gambler.
On a warm summer's evening On a train bound for nowhere I met up with the gambler We were both too tired to sleep So we took turns a-starin' Out the window at the darkness The boredom overtook us And he began to speak He said, "Son, I've made a life Out of readin' people's faces Knowin' what the cards were By the way they held their eyes So if you don't mind my sayin' I can see you're out of aces For a taste of your whiskey I'll give you some advice"
So I handed him my bottle And he drank down my last swallow Then he bummed a cigarette And asked me for a light And the night got deathly quiet And his face lost all expression Said, "If you're gonna play the game, boy You gotta learn to play it right:
You've got to know when to hold 'em Know when to fold 'em Know when to walk away And know when to run You never count your money When you're sittin' at the table There'll be time enough for countin' When the dealin's done..

Rosehinkle:
Na my side chick and i go cum open this thread ....na !!