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BusinessRe: Foreign Loan: Why Can't CBN Print The $5.5bn Instead Of Borrowing? by abescom: 9:09am On Oct 11, 2017
thesicilian:
Somehow makes sense.
Makes no economic sense. It will lead to massive inflation and worsen the economy.
PoliticsRe: $26 Billion Scandal: Kachikwu’s Camp Hits Baru With Six Posers by abescom: 9:09am On Oct 11, 2017
GeeString:
Hypocrite!!!

When you blindly voted him, I thought you kept telling us how incorruptible he is and how nobody scares him?

So Buhari is either a bitch or a thief.
This is a genuine question, who was the other option available that was viable?
FamilyRe: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom: 8:18am On Oct 11, 2017
ElsonMorali:
undecided

Did you read my post at all? Does the woman's panties in his pocket mean that he's sleeping with the woman? The post herself said she's seen the panties spread on the line OUTSIDE several times. Have you given it a thought that the man could have picked it up without the woman's knowledge?
When police, the world over get to a crime scene and found someone dead and another person with a blood soaked knife, they pick the person with the knife as a suspect.

The onus then lies with the suspect to proof his innocence. If anything the supposed husband ought to proof his innocence and not bully his wife.

An issue that implicated you happened then rather than going the extra mile to vindicate yourself you act as a bully. Pathetic. It is even sickening people are holding grief for him.

The pant was found in his POCKET for f*ck's sake. Anywhere else would have even been better but his pocket. Fool me not abeg.
PoliticsRe: $26 Billion Scandal: Kachikwu’s Camp Hits Baru With Six Posers by abescom: 8:08am On Oct 11, 2017
The way Buhari handles this scandal will make or mar his re-election bid.

Best bet for him now is to step down and push Osinbajo and a northerner candidacy.

Buhari is a good man surrounded with corrupt bastards who he himself ( Buhari) doesn't have the mettle to prosecute.
FamilyRe: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom: 7:38am On Oct 11, 2017
ElsonMorali:
The woman's action was wrong.

Imagine If the husband had just snatched the panties from the line. Giving it back to your neighbor's husband is implicating an innocent woman in your husband's crime.

If the neighbor's husband had broken her head instead of your husband's own, that would be sad indeed.

What the woman should have done was to have put the pant in a covered plate and served it to her husband for breakfast. No need to say anything after that. He would have taken the hint.
So you snatch someone else's wife's panties and keep it in your pocket?

And what's wrong in what the woman has done? Imagine the reverse was the case? He finds his best friend's boxer in his wife's car. Let's stop the hypocrisy jare.

He shagged that woman and even if he didn't, putting the pant in his pocket has already implicated him. He should know this and not try to be a bully.

You unfortunately find yourself in scene where robbery has just taken place, police came who is prime suspect number one?

Putting it in a plate and serving it to him also makes sense. However, people react differently to issues. If he was not a bully he would have moved out to think properly. Not ask the woman to leave the house simply because he has the power.

That man is a useless un-remorseful bully. End off.
FamilyRe: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom:
Zither:
I believe you acted in haste. There are some people that a simple and severe caution would suffice to make them desist from their cheating ways. Maybe he feels hurt you denied him that right and that you preceded caution with punishment. Anyways, you did what you believed to be right the outcome no matter.

To the matter, I think his telling you to leave his house is his best response to the shame of being caught in his game and disgraced publicly. Best to leave him to lick his wounds and reflect on the futility of his adulterous ways with its many unexpected, unwelcome and dire consequences. He needs time alone to come to his senses. Give him space to do that but before you do that notify his parents or anyone he respects.

In my opinion, you may have acted in haste but you have just saved your husband big time....maybe he knows it and is not willing to admit it.
He is a bully. Plain and simple. He wants to have the right to his actions and then determine the consequences of his actions as well. That's impossible. We all react to things differently.

And as much as people try to hold grief for him, I am 95% sure that man has shagged his neighbour's wife and is still disrespecting the woman. Idiots like him give pen and paper to feminists.
FamilyRe: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom: 2:16pm On Oct 10, 2017
goodness11:
I think you went too far

There are men who has a fetish of smelling women panties. It might just be his fetish. He will just smell it and maybe masturbate with it and then return it back to the collection point cheesy

You should ve talked to him first before reacting.
The hypocrisy and double standard on the men commenting here is shocking.

You guys should just for a minute think about this - you found your wife's pant in your friend's house or pocket, what would you do? Return it to her and tell her "sweetie, you forgot your pant in my friend's house" I guess.

If anything that stuupid man ought to have known he has been implicated by the incident and the wife has behaved in the right way albeit too drastic and not ask her to pack simply because he can do so. It is nonsense. If anything, he ought to himself leave the house, calm the f*ck down and then explain and seriously warn the woman to watch it.

It is like getting to into a room, finding your best friend in a pool of blood and then trying to help then police come in and you refuse to explain your innocence. That supposed husband is a bully, nothing more.
FamilyRe: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom: 12:33pm On Oct 10, 2017
Such a man is useless. Pack and leave and let him live the rest of his life to regret his adulterous life style.

What was he expecting? He shagged another man's wife and got what he deserves. A man like that is the reason why feminism talk shit about us men.

Leave him, there is someone else out there who deserves you, not that tw*t.
SportsRe: RUSSIA2018: Tunisia, Senegal, Morocco Set For World Cup by abescom: 9:55am On Oct 10, 2017
fortune1894:
which of the countries mentioned r u guaranteed a win
NO GO THERE OO
Nothing is certain in football but going into the match knowing the objective could help the players play better.

Wales had a wonderful draw at the last Euros because their FA intentionally took advantage of a loophole. We should have done same thing. And I am sure many countries are doing the same thing now.

The FIFA ranking which is used in seeding teams for key tournaments can easily be gamed. Easily.
SportsRe: RUSSIA2018: Tunisia, Senegal, Morocco Set For World Cup by abescom: 7:45am On Oct 10, 2017
hoopLA:
I'd likely agree with you, except that the time between the last qualifier and the draw itself is less than a month. any friendly won't most likely make a dent on the rankings and as such we may not be able to move as high as we want to to get the favourable draw. Remember that the ranking system is cumulative.
I actually forgot the world cup is next year but it is disgraceful NFF are not thinking this way. We can beat the likes of Wales, Denmark, England, Poland, Iceland, Mexico, Croatia and they are ahead of us in FIFA we should have gamed the system like Wales did for the last Euros.
SportsRe: RUSSIA2018: Tunisia, Senegal, Morocco Set For World Cup by abescom: 7:43am On Oct 10, 2017
Alezy:
guy, can u beat Poland?? Or Serbia?? Hnmmm. No let this victory deceive u o
Not seen Serbia play but we sure can beat Wales, England and Poland. Surely but again, the draw takes place in December which makes it too late now.
SportsRe: RUSSIA2018: Tunisia, Senegal, Morocco Set For World Cup by abescom: 7:14am On Oct 10, 2017
easyelliot:
Abeg where is Ghanahuh??

Teams that will join SE and the pharohs

Tunisia
Senegal
Ivory Coast

South Africa still basking in the glow of the last two times they faced us, they forgot about the WC.

Cameroon? We own. If not for our go and his Jackie chan moment, beatdown in yaounde was in the books.

What do I wish for?

Nigeria beats SA 5-0 in their backyard in the return leg and SE are drawn in the same group as England so we can finally beat the toothless 3 lions.

(End transmission)
If NFF is wise, they will invite beatable countries such as England for friendlies before the draws. That way we will get higher in FIFA ranking which will help us get a better draw.

Countries such as Wales, England, Serbia, Poland that are beatable but ahead of us in FIFA ranking.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 7:03am On Oct 10, 2017
Preetiex:
na my sis name be dat abbeycity,pls forgive & forget
me I have forgiven and moved on. I am sure I have spent x3 or even more of 19k between Saturday and now.

Was just disappointed at the attitude. But very happy GOD used me to help him. He seems genuine but with a piss poor attitude.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 7:59pm On Oct 09, 2017
Preetiex:
i think abescom is a nick for abbey, right? abeg forgive d guy,miss independent & co. pls let us bury d hatchet cool ejoo,biko forgive & forget
yes, my name is Abiodun. Hence Abbey.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 5:08pm On Oct 09, 2017
kylie01:
Mr Abescom,

Thank you for helping. Admin please bring down the post. OP's attitude is so irritating.
Never seen such a behaviour in my 31 years on earth. Even if people put him on the front burner, he should have known that is expected considering the behaviour of many.

I wonder if he ever attends interviews or expect to be given a job.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 4:53pm On Oct 09, 2017
BentiBenti:
thanks for the advice.. Just that I hate when people criticize me for the wrong reason(s). From the inbox that my helper leaked, you saw when I told him that I'll go to my new apartment today and take some shots. He even said that he gave me just 24hrs to do that which half of it has not even gone. But jst when I came online, he already leaked our chat and started threatening me as if I stole his money. Well, to be sincere with you guys, I bought the foam, but from a friend for the sum of N24,500 and I'm still waiting for him to find the receipt and send to me. I made a better choice to buy from him instead of the new one for 19k because his own is very big. I later went to my apartment today to set things up and below is the picture of my new room. You can compare it with the first picture I posted here. This is to show my sincerity. I hereby apologized to everybody here that I offended and I beg my helper not to look into my bad side and forgive me. He promised to send me some money this week. If it still pleases him to send, I'll still be thankful.
So here's the pic

Cc: Abescom
Listen man, if my wife had her way, she will send you more than x5 of the amount you asked for but I can't take the risk. We felt if someone could be so desperate for a mattress ( when we have 3 rooms with each having it own mattress and can only sleep on one, not trying to be arrogant but return the glory to the GOOD LORD) such a person should be helped to be dependent but you have shown yourself.

I am of the believe that we are custodians of everything we are given by the GOOD LORD and everything we are given should be spread to others but your behaviour to me and the other commenters/commentors on this thread is SHOCKING.

It is appalling, honestly. The 19k I sent you is not even close to being the problem but your pathetic behaviour.

What were you expecting? That people should not question your claim? I guess you don't expect to be interviewed when you apply for a job because it is YOU and no one should interview you.

I am disgusted.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 10:51am On Oct 09, 2017
BentiBenti:
alright boss, I'm sending it to your email today.
You sent me a mail at 6:51am saying "
Good morning boss, I'm sorry for what's going on on nairaland. It will
surprise you to know that I'm done tidying my house and ready to pack
in tomorrow. I will be sending you a picture of the mattress I bought
with the receipt today. I would've done it there, but I was so busy to
come online, just when I thought of uploading it there, the comments
changed my mind. I'm sorry, I can't disappoint you. Go back and view
the first picture there so that you will believe me when I send you
the next pictures. God bless u
where is the picture? Mind you, I can just with a simple affidavit done by my friend have your bank accounts blocked.

I out of goodwill helped but your behaviour so far shows I misjudged. Losing my patience now.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 4:57am On Oct 09, 2017
BentiBenti:
I'm sorry ma'am, just that some senseless people are filled with hatred here. I was about uploading the pictures until I came online and saw some foolish comments here and I changed my mind. It was my decision to upload the pix and it's also my decision not to upload it any longer. How should this be someone's headache? No be like na she dash me d moni o

Smh
this is rubbish to be honest. The onus lies on you to proof you are not a scam. Your excuses don't hold water.

I expect to see the receipt within 24 hours or will go the extra mile.
FamilyRe: by abescom:
Godchild2015:
May your cup of blessing never goes dry.
It a thing of joy to always put smiles on his fellow face.

At times I don't blame people from doubting when ever someone asked for financial assistance, because alot of people have turned Nairaland to where they can play on people intelligent forgetting we are smarter.
All glory belongs to the GOOD LORD. If I had not done it, someone else would have.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 12:42pm On Oct 07, 2017
The moderators should just close this thread to stop the replies.

I sent op the 19 and he has confirmed it. No need for the animosity.
CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa Sends Lunch Money To Her Twitter Fans by abescom: 5:21pm On Oct 04, 2017
Giving pays. Givers will always have because GOD knows they wi spread what they are given.
FamilyRe: Where The Shoe Pinches; Is This A Case Of Infidelity??? by abescom: 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2017
Preetiex:
@Guitarlife my dear ole stop joo,i proportion d blame to d right places now,e be like say u get beef wit lag babes
You wrote jamb in April, sorry no offense you are not fit for this post.

I wish the op can provide us an update.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 11:18am On Oct 04, 2017
BentiBenti:
Good morning sir. I'm really happy that you're going through all these to help. You're like a Godsent and I'll forever be thankful whenever I turn to look at the mattress I'm sleeping on. But the problem now is, I really need to pack in as my days are already numbered. I've already paid the house rent and it's jst left for me to pack in. In my post, I never ask for MONEY, I only ask for a mattress old or new because of it's urgency. But since you took it upon yourself to help me with money, I don't think it needs the whole world to verify my situation before you give out. One of the nairalanders came to my place yesterday and confirmed my case. I jst need d mattress urgently I beg you sir. If u can snd d money today, I'll get d mattress 2day, snap n upload it here. Or if u wish 2 snd d mattress, i'll still be grateful.. Pls consider dz and help. God bless u.
I'm still ready to take another nairalander for verification again incase anyone is available
Sent you mail. You will be sent the money. If it is a scam na you know. Just want to help.

Have a good day.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 7:37pm On Oct 03, 2017
Nairaland helpers network ( is this what it is called) can you all verify this please. Will gladly send op the 19k if someone who is established on here verifies this.
Foreign AffairsRe: Knifeman Yelling 'allahu Akbar' Shot Dead After Killing Two In France by abescom: 6:26pm On Oct 02, 2017
Evablizin:
i did'nt call all muslim terriorists and i asked a question.
I apologise then. Sorry ma.
Foreign AffairsRe: Knifeman Yelling 'allahu Akbar' Shot Dead After Killing Two In France by abescom: 6:18pm On Oct 02, 2017
Arysexy:
Muslims blv that Jesus is a prophet and that MoreHarmMade is the last prophet. They equate Jesus with moses, Muhammed etc. Is that your Christian blv of Jesus?
You know the Muslims you have met and I know the ones I have met. No point arguing it.
FamilyRe: by abescom: 6:13pm On Oct 02, 2017
Can someone verify this please? Would gladly give op the money if the claim is genuine.
Foreign AffairsRe: Knifeman Yelling 'allahu Akbar' Shot Dead After Killing Two In France by abescom: 6:07pm On Oct 02, 2017
Arysexy:
What did ur bible say about Jesus being the only way to d father Mr RCCG youth leader
And do you know there are Muslims who believe in who Jesus his in the real sense of it?

Which I can send you videos. And don't delude yourself, not all Muslims will go to hell. It is a fact.
Foreign AffairsRe: Knifeman Yelling 'allahu Akbar' Shot Dead After Killing Two In France by abescom: 6:00pm On Oct 02, 2017
Stethaine:
he should be careful for what are you among them?
Stop being idiotic. I am not even a Muslim. I am redeemer and a youth leader but not all Muslims are evil people.

All you are one of those who believe all Muslims will go to hell?
Foreign AffairsRe: Knifeman Yelling 'allahu Akbar' Shot Dead After Killing Two In France by abescom: 5:49pm On Oct 02, 2017
Evablizin:
huh

He shouted Allahu Akbar and killed two poor souls,is allah a blood sucking god?
Be careful what you say.

I am a Christian and do not support what these idiotas are doing but certainly not all of them are bad and devilish.
FamilyRe: Where The Shoe Pinches; Is This A Case Of Infidelity??? by abescom:
lilmax:
and he thinks he has a wife for that matter grin

the guy's a weakling, that's it.... I didn't bother to read the rest, the Facebook part just weak me
You need to read the comment of so called women on here. It is alarmingly pathetic.

They have fully lost it.

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