₦airaland Forum

LegendHero:
Every Nigerian know the region that deals in baby factory and selling of babies.

Can one Nairalander remind me of that region please?

The only thing that you and that mofo you quoted needs to be remembered is that both of you don't have sense.
How do you guys manage to turn every thread to your senseless cheap tribal banters �
I just came back from ban for close to no justifiable reason, but you and that mugu you quoted can go about typing rubbish at ease.
Oga seun watin dey occur for here sef

jaxxy:
I think he was married and is divorced now.

So convenient �the perfect excape plan.
Marriage has become try your luck now
Even while saying the vows they will have it in mind that pkatapkata if e no favor me I go divorce am.
Divorce should be scrapped from the law,so that people will learn to live by the actions and take full responsibility for their decisions.

Na wa ooo
The govt is very clueless on how to handle this issue.

Shameless kharki men☹️
Cowards �

emerged01:
I want to believe you are married if not you wont understand. For the fact that I said my wife is a favour from God doesn't mean we dont have our shortcomings but I thank God our love for each other and for the kids always overcome issues.
Do you know that sometimes in marriage love always fade? Those are the times when one needs the spirit of endurance and tolerance to overcome those moments. The tolerance of op doesn't mean he is stupid,his choice to tolerate is best known to him. we should not condemn him. I pray his wife appreciate him and come back for good.
No one should think he or she has full knowledge of what marriage entails. We learn day by day in marriage.

Yes I am in the game ,it's 12yrs and still counting.
It's obvious that the op is an I don't care person.
Without marriage in just normal friendship relationship,if you and someone stays, together,eats,sleep in the same house for that long suppressing a problem that needs to be solved all in the name of endurance it means the man lives his life anyhow without principles,
In life anything goes is a bad habit.
When issues arise, couples who are majure and ready for marriage tackle it head on,when there is a crack on the wall,the sort out ways to fix it before it goes worse.
The Op should really work on himself,
Marriage is a personal business,the couples must create their own constitution that works.
But bro in every constitution created one thing must be there.
Respect,it's clearly not there in the op marriage,they are just playing around.

Eliza di kwa mean oo.

Ebubu:
Please we already have a country. Let us fight to make it equitable than destroy it to start from beginning

Besides, Ebonyi was marginalized so much under other Igbo states and is fearful of further marginalization in a new Igbo Republic. So he has a point in insisting Ebonyi will not be part of a Biafra Republic.

He is the Number 1 Citizen of Ebonyi state and his voice resonates the decision of the people which he lead.

I totally disagree with your marginalization claim.
Although if he is talking about the fraud ipob Biafra he is correct.
Imo state will also never be in the Taliban ipob Biafra.
But if God says it's time for Igbo to have a separate Country like He deemed it fit to do with some other countries that divided.
Umahi will not hold Ebonyi from going.
God bless Igboland.

Miroslavklose:
Making Dangote more popular

Something Dangote pays block to other for,now he has done it for free.
Inside life.

advanceDNA:
Our atheists in the building seff that likes to sound politically correct all the time understand that this is not marriage...

yet some people are justifying the woman’s action with “women need to be pampered and allowed to blow some steam”

7months and moving out ..that’s witch craft naaa

That was how the other one was crying here the other day,that they should come and help him oo that his wife denied him his conjugal right for 1month and he raped her�
Asin which kind of nonsense is that one,how is it even possible for a husband to rape his wife.
Should there even be a situation that warrants the man begging for it not to talk of passing through stress to take it without due process?
My Wife knew I was a womanizer before we married,she also knew I stopped all those nonsense the day I asked her to be my wife,
Denying me sex for no reasonable explanation is witchcraft as you aptly put it.
The kind of physical and mental stress men go through as husband dis days because of oyinbo man teaching ehn
Oyinbo man don finish us pkatapkata �.☹️

jaxxy:
Depends on the issue and the personality. Giving space doesn’t mean not speaking to each other bt not unnecessarily disrupting each other for a short period of time from few hrs to couple of days.

There are also way to address the issues head on as u said bt u must know how to handle her to be able to do that. He tried to address and she told him to his face he irritates her.

After that u was confused on the way forward.

The fact that the wife whom he married to be his life partner told him to his face that he disgust her means there is an urgent problem that needs urgent solving if both parties are still interested in the marriage.
That's why I always advise people to ensure that you are ready to be a husband before you marry.
You can be a good man but still not mentally fit to be a husband.
Marry a woman who is ready to be a wife.
Not all women are ready to be a wife,some after motherhood they start getting tired of being a wife.
Some can't find a way to grasp the reality that life as brought in a new dimension of responsibility for them,they just don't want to come to terms with d fact dat sisi life is over�
The op doesn't have a wife again,he can keep decieving himself all he likes.
I understand every marriage should have their own personal rules and create their own spice that works,but there is something foundational in all marriages,it's called RESPECT.
It's clearly not visible in the OP's marriage.
I have never opened a thread on nairaland but I think I will open my first to share I how handled this situation when it happened to me.

emerged01:
Marriage! My wife is a favour from God. I would have done the same if I were in op shoes. I don't mind being a Simp to have peace of mind. I cherish peace pass anything I cant come kill myself.

Bro there is no excuse for the rubbish the op has done.
Even if the woman comes back nothing will change,bcus nothing has been done about the issue that warrants a woman to starve her husband of sex for months and still says he irritates her.
No real man will have peace of mind if someone tells him he disgust them,not to talk of his wife.

jaxxy:
Lol he isn’t cheating on his wife. he has options bt has refused to cheat for now tho his wife has assumed he’s cheating. This can invariably mean she wants to cheat or maybe not.

[s]U can give ur wife space when living in same house[/s] and even same room if understand how women think bt when u don’t u send ur wife to another state to fulfill her wishes and desires hopefully they are ignoble ones.

Bros that is where most marriages start to fall.
There should be no room to allow space,both of you are one, whenever an issue arises it must be settled there and then.
I have tried it for 12yrs and and it has been saving me.

Imagine being in the same house with a friend and both of you will have unsettled issues for 2months yet una dey see each other,not to talk of wife life partner oo�

princeemmma:
you think you are wise, even from you explanation i sense no true love between you and your wife, you just allowed your wife to leave just like that, how about your kid, do you send fatherly love to him/her on phone too...... Mr. man you putting fire on your roof and going to sleep.....

You go here am very soon

The op is a boy and he is obviously unaware that the person he married is not ready to be a wife�.
How can you be in the same house for 1month and your wife body no move?
How can your wife be stone walling in your house for upto 3months and yet you think it's ok?

A real man derives pleasure in taking full care if his wife and ensuring that he puts all his efforts into developing himself to see to it that the marriage works,but does this means the man should act stupid and be disregarded??
Hell no.
Any woman dat derives pleasure in using sex as a tool to malnupulate or punish her husband is a witch.
I wonder why dis isn't a punishable offense though ��

Gobengroup:
Talk straight sir. Igbo hatred for Yoruba won't give them president.
Ahn Ahn what's the problem of those people sef, that's how one was busy abusing Yoruba on Facebook whereas he lives in Ibadan. You lived in Ibadan and Lagos but will be busy cursing and abusing your host on social media at any available space. Is that not insane?

I don't really engage myself in incoherent discuss that relegates one to sounding profoundly unsound �
Hatred is a human character and flaw only the mentally weak ones make it a tribe thing.
I am Igbo I don't hate anyone.
You are no different from the Igbo guy you pictured 2 of una na the same kind of human being una be.

casppyjay:
ok oo Jesu oyingbo make u sef bikiaful before u enter market

Just imagine how incoherent you sound ��
You need this advice more than anyone else.

Emergingnation0:

;DOfcus don't expect anything meaningful from them
and the ones who believes buhari is dead just because one London scammer says so ��

E pain am.

Transporter20:
Omo once a soldier, always a soldier.

If these where my kids ehh, Kai


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aECTPlTzOg

Aswear the worse you can do is clean up the mess, or las las para for their mama but al in all nothing come out na play the kids dey play ��

casppyjay:
and I’m worried about ur well-being brethren

You should worry more about your mental problem that keeps getting worse everyday �

Emergingnation0:
Abeg wetin concerned this fulani muslim with Biafra , Biafra will come and your backwards region will return to 16th century for which they belong

Even if Biafra will come it will not be championed by your occult taliban fraud ipob
Igboland says no to a taliban wannabe movement.
And yes your Backwards region will return to 16th century for which they belong ��

casppyjay:
na only able Jesus fit answer dat ur question ���e get why dem dey call am and u sef don dey impersonate am for earth like diz prepare for ur own handcuff �

It seems I spoke to your soul ��.

NaijaRoyalty:
But you were amongst the people that played politics of hate against Jonathan

We know type

Tinubu will not be getting support from south south and south east .

APC and PDP will have split votes in the south west

The north won't vote Tinubu over Atiku

Know these and know peace.

It's not even about tinubu sef I have asked people from different tribes and the resolve seems to be e never reach Yoruba turn.

If Apc doesn't give the ticket to Umahi then power might just stay in the North.

It's true.
UK has also promised to give us atomic bombs.
Israel even promised to give us military support.
Chia the zoo don die☹️

mmanwuijele:
You'd be insane to think that intelligence about the happenings within the Zoo and Africa does not reach the heads of states of the superpowers.

It all comes down to interests though. They will not support it, till it is in their interests. The good thing for the Biafrans though is that we have the human capital. I'll be mentioning Biafra to my OIC in my unit. I urge my other brothers and sisters in the military and the various professions around the world to plant the seed. Justice must be served, regardless of how long it takes.

Our whispers will turn thunder. Our cries will turn to laughter.

Ndi Biafra Kwenu!
Ibibio Kwenu
Igbo Kwenu
Annang Kwenu
Efik Kwenu
Igala Kwenu
Idoma Kwenu
Anioma Kwenu
Ikwerre Kwenu
Itsekiri Kwenu
Isoko Kwenu
Izon Kwenu
Ogoni Kwenu
Uhrobo Kwenu

If the Biafra you are talking about is linked to the Taliban fraud ipob �
It's dead on arrival,we don't want it.
Igboland says no to a taliban wannabe agenda.

Honestly speaking some people all in the name of democracy are stupidly planning to bring another 8yrs of untold suffering to the Country again �
It's such a shame.
As for me and my household Jehovah our Provider is with us so if you like vote who go turn fuel to 500per litre.
We go buy am.

Op first and foremost you must understand that your wife is a human being,
So if a human being picked up a weapon to kill you with will you defend yourself or not?she go still break your head.
If she raises her hands on you agin dislocate it.
Then in the night drug her with sex enhancer and fûck hell out of her.
Any wife witholding sex from a man is a witch.

Waakanda:
Okay o... but he's playing with hunger sha.

Sebi it's God that gave him the one he gave out??
Giving is a big secret to business growth.
Try am e dey work die.

Ok

And them sey make oyinbo man no call them black monkey �

Babastrong:
OP, May God favour your decision.
as per me, i don't usually complain of hard circumstances. I make use of them. Infact the current situation of nigeria is a blessing if you know what you are doing.
This is analysis of how i made my over 1million last year.
i cultivated 10acres of maize and soya beans(mix planting).
after harveting, i was able to get this:
35bags of maize, 12bags of soyabeans(it was late before i planted it, it would've yielded more).
income on the output.
maize= 35x#30000= #1,050000.
soyabeans 12x#50000= 600,000.
total income= #1650000.
total expenses=#275000. Including ploughing each acre@7000. Herbicides and labourers.
the profit made=#1375000.
i don't quit this business soon.
MAY GOD BLESS OUR HUSTLE.

This has always been my point.
I keep saying that there is money in this country ooo, � why rush into another man's land?

foreshore:
I hear you. Maybe you don't have an idea of many people that are worst off after traveling. You think say na only by hustle abi

Wrong bro!
All you need do is ensure that you travel legally.
Your chances of surviving over there are overwhelming higher than a country of black evils �
I never fancied living my land to go to another man's land,but if that oloju opkolor wins.
I will leave with my Family.
My sister even recently moved to Finland.

We can't make am excuse for what is wrong.
It's wrong to be seen with drugs be it small or big.
But no one can also make an excuse for the fact that the Nigerian govt us a very useless one�.

Can they put in better efforts in catching the big fish

I want to pity baba,but that him face look like reel criminal�
How can you be this old and yet you look so tricky,so cunny �
Nawa oo, �

BigDawsNet:
No doubt it...

Some Nigerians make demons look like angels.
They are terrible very evil minded�