Stop begging her not to leave. Let's her go jẹjẹly. However, ensure you have a solid plan on how to marry another wife or live joyfully after her departure so that loneliness won't kill you.

Meanwhile, once she leaves, don't take her back.

Cheers..

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NeoWanZaeed:


Hi

Salaam alaikum

Some Nigerians still do!

6.5 - 9 million

Evil people

xavuv:



If i were you,i would discard the lady and mother together. What bitterness!

They should let you go and see the biological father, just to show face and rub minds. Even the step father should come in and make them see reasons for you to go and see the real father.

Such a fiancee is full of bile, understandably implanted in her by her mother. That bile will still be there for you to wrestle with when your time comes.

She will show you shege.

The lady has been brainwashed by her mum. Same will be done to you if you agree to boycott her biological father. Imagine you are the biological father, put yourself in his shoe.

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The evidences you have suffice to discharge her and get another lady. However, ensure you play smart and ensure you take your children from her before sending her packing. Else, she will go away with them and consequently deny you access to them and you will find it difficult to train them the way you planned.

It's not safe to continue living with a promiscuous wife because she can go to any length with compounded lies and satanic plots to cover up her exposed secret. While your continuous expression of your displeasure and criticism of her immodest act could anger her to take your life on a coded level. Your utmost silence on it poses a greater danger. Hence, kindly pity your life and your family's. Don't forget to keep your trusted family members informed about it. God will guide you through on how to take care and train your children so that they don't take after her. What about if she passed away, you will definitely raise the kids without her. So, be guided accordingly.
Only a living man can take care of his children and remarry. Thanks.

Giloworkmode:
Bolton September intake?

I got an unconditional offer too from Bolton. Please let's connect.

Please anyone who got admission to university of Birmingham and anyone currently at university of Birmingham. Can we connect please.

Ki Olohun so wa o

Don't let anyone tell you it's abnormal to have an erection. The best is to caution her to stop dressing seductively while you are inside. If she doesn't change, don't be afraid to send her packing.

Honestly, by nature, it's a normal thing to be having an erection, as far as you're a man and she dresses the way you described above, it's dangerous for both of you if you both continue living together while she continues dressing in that manner. Haven't you heard a man cohabiting with his daughter or any of her female relatives? This is how it always starts. Don't be a lesson to others.

The house belongs to you and she's a younger sister to you. Besides, she's with a healthy man, and not a horse drawn on a book.

Caution her from that aberrant dressing that she brought from her parent's house.

For the meantime she's going to stay with you, tell her honorably to always dress well anytime you are around. Tell her to be concealing her body from you. Don't be shy to avoid commiting an act of abomination. Don't be shy to protect your reputation and your mum's and family's.

If she doesn't yield to your advice, send her away. Otherwise, you will have yourself and your mum to blame later.

Thank me later.... Please, be guided accordingly.

Inna lillaahi wa innaa ilayhi raaji'oon

You're right Akintola

Yeye people.
Blind man prophesizing what only God knows. Had it been he and his likes know the future in the reality, their lives would have been better and no evils would have touched them.
Sometimes, you see a blind pastor or whose children or relatives are blind claiming to be delivering people, and a poverty stricken pastor claiming to be making people rich. No wonder, some gullible people still believe this deceit. May God heal you all.

Humble guy on philanthropic mission

Courtship is nothing but a "painted prostitution and illegal relationship". I pity ladies because they're always at the receiving ends. Used and dumped ladies are the majority in this shit hole called Nigeria. Imagine a primary 3,4 or 5 student involving herself in dating and ending up marrying @30+.
Some changes partners like shoes every now and then and those previous relationships weren't free from illegitimate sex be it consensual or not.
Some would go extra miles aborting pregnancies of different guys and later become unproductive.
No doubt, majority of today's ladies are sex remnants of indecent bad boys of different communities, institutions, towns and states.

This reminds me of a guy who was in a courtship with two different ladies for six and nine years respectively and ended up marry none of them. Few months later, he married a lady he met in less than three months.

Main problem; the ladies of our time are really not interested in a legal relationship or marriage but just to be with mugu guys that will pay their bills in exchange for sex or at least romance.

The rich or the sincere but poor ladies are also getting it wrong subjecting their noble selves to guys of no moral values (not monetary) and those whose present dictionary is devoid of marriage.
*MARRIAGE IS MEANT FOR THE MATURE-MINDED INDIVIDUALS*

soetantaiwo:
How does religion enter drinking water while sitting or while standing? If you like, lie down while you're drinking, but I had never come across of this in my bible. Common sense are not common Sha

See this one sha. Islam didn't leave any stone unturned.

No one delivers except God Almighty. The said two sisters are not only flexible but also gullible to remain unclad before the Hot pastor.

No sensible fellow would do such in the name of deliverance or salvation.

I say; whenever you are perplexed, the problem is best addressed by you. Firstly, refrain from sins, then, pray on your own (If you are a muslim, observe 2 rak'at of Nafilah), observe fasting, give charity and lastly put your trust in God. Everything will be well with you. This is a lasting solution to your problem instead of approaching the self-acclaimed pastors, juju Alfas and their likes. They will rather dupe you and worsen your problem.