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RomanceRe: Girl Stops Friend From Marrying Her Brother Due To High Body Count by abutujj: 5:48pm On Jul 21, 2024
GeneralPula:
She did well..

Girl wey Sabi..

If I meet a girl that’s not a virgin, I’ll never initiate a relationship with her. Tho, we can knack if the vibes goes that way..

All my life, I’ve only initiated a relationship with girls that are virgin. That’s just my style. I don’t normally have passion for over-used things generally..
Mumu how you take dey know say them be virgin Shay Dem dey write am for forehead.Most of you guys do utter rubbish
PropertiesRe: Lady Provides Decent House For Woman Living On A Houseboat For 5 Years by abutujj: 4:06pm On Jul 21, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed. I personally endorse this........If not for the sake of tradition,customs and societal values, I'd have even preferred all my children to be females undecided
Like is this really coming from you hmm am really surprised because you do castigate girls most times in this forum
Jobs/VacanciesRe: You Earn N800k Monthly In Lagos With A Remote Job. Help! by abutujj: 11:12am On Jun 28, 2024
gracefoundmme:
oh nice, which area do u stay?

Leverage platforms like Linkedin (there are tricks to this also), and have a stellar portfolio of what you have done over the years, like ensuring you are an Authority in your area of specialty.
Bro can we connect please I really need someone to help on how to secure this remote job am a data analyst atleast am good using Excel, power bi and sql
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Personal Assistant Needed For 2-3 Months by abutujj: 8:48am On Jun 15, 2024
Codedboy95:
Hello,

I'm looking for a personal assistant to help with various tasks due to my busy schedule. The ideal candidate should have basic internet skills, a reliable laptop and internet connection, strong attention to detail, and be a proactive self-starter. The tasks will vary and are aimed at helping manage my workload at this period.


*Modified*
Application closed, Thanks
I sent you mail since yesterday you haven't reply
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Having Problems Finding A Job? Let Me Help You by abutujj: 4:23pm On Jun 10, 2024
DuaWorrior:
For all those who have contacted me about helping them land a job, I have replied to some of you and I'm still replying. Check you chat when you login to Gmail and you should see a message from me. You don't have to tell me your name or any details about you. There are just five simple things I want you to do:
1. Do not be somebody who harms Muslims or Islam simply because you hate their religion, otherwise this prayer won't benefit you, because that's a condition I include when doing it. It's not for people who do that.
2. Refrain from harming people or any living thing unjustly, such as using harsh language on people without proper justification or throwing stones at passing dogs that didn't offend you in any way, etc.
3. You must get out and look for that job like your life depends on it. My help isn't intended to be a miracle, although it can be. But typically, it's a blessing on your efforts. Allah will bless your efforts as you look for the job.
4. Only go for jobs that you qualify for, please. Don't tempt God by looking for something you clearly don't qualify for.
5. You must be patient and persevere in your search. Don't just give up after a few job applications.

I have collected a list of people I'll pray for over the coming weeks. I'm still adding to that list, and Allah will approve it, Insha Allah. I use your emails as I don't want to ask for your names because some people may think I'll use it for witchcraft. So, I'll use the email addresses on my list instead of your names.

It can take me well over six hours everyday to complete this prayer, but it always pays in the end. Nobody I praid for ever ever ever failed to get a satisfactory solution. It may not be your big dream job, but it'll be one that satisfies you if you are grateful.

So, if you have contacted me for help finding a job, please get up and start looking for one.
Abeg add this email too oh
abutujj@gmail.com
RomanceRe: Data Connection Is F-ucking Up My Work At Home by abutujj: 2:41pm On May 04, 2024
ayjay45:
not mining. Its trading.

I have enough data, it's just not connecting
Op your signal dey make sense me self dey trade oh but mifi I dey used chat up 08 one 82 zero 8 48 make we dey share signal
Christianity EtcRe: Yahoo Boys Spray Cash On A Pastor During Church Service by abutujj: 12:45pm On Apr 30, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
This is Nigeria where every well-to-do and handsome,good looking Young Man is automatically tagged as a Yahoo boy angry.

What a stigma!!!
Bro which reasonable hard earner will spray money like that publicly there is say that by their fruits you will know them so it's obvious
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Data Analysis Free Training by abutujj: 9:11am On Apr 17, 2024
mrresearch:
There is an ongoing Data Analysis Free Training for Nigerians who are interested in cashing out through data analysis.

Message 0 8 1 2 4 1 5 6 5 2 0 on whatsapp

Or drop your number to be added to the groups.

Analysis software to be teach includes: EXCEL, SPSS, EVIEW, STATA, MATLAB, NVIVO, SISENSE, TABLEAU, MINITAB
08126820848
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Seek Job Help by abutujj: 9:18am On Apr 16, 2024
Ibkay32:
As I sit down to write this, my heart feels heavy with the weight of uncertainty and the burden of financial struggle. It's not easy to admit, but I find myself in a situation where I am jobless and cashless, facing a daunting road ahead. Yet, in the midst of this darkness, I am reminded of the resilience of the human spirit and the power of seeking help when needed most.

My journey to seek assistance began with a humble acknowledgment of my circumstances. Accepting that I needed help was not a sign of weakness, but rather an act of courage and humility.
While jobless for 2 years, I had invested time in enhancing my skills and qualifications in web development. I enrolled in both physical and online courses and training programs to sharpen my expertise and expand my job prospects. Despite the challenges ahead, I remained hopeful that with perseverance and dedication, I would eventually find a path forward

I hereby seek a support from friends and family on nairaland to please to connect me with any internship or junior developer for either frontend or Full-stack developer. if it's any online or offline job that can help me to earning money every month🙏
Hang in there buddy your prayer soon will be answer.we are in this together,am also looking for internship placement for data analyst or junior data analyst.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Urgent Vacancy - Office Assistant by abutujj: 9:00am On Apr 16, 2024
KossyKiss97:
Good evening
Hi good evening
I know of someone that reside in that ikeja along Axis
Can he apply for the job and pls what is the pay
RomanceRe: She'd Be 31 Soon This Month, Looking For A Life Partner by abutujj: 10:08pm On Apr 14, 2024
[quote author=TooResilient post=129441127]She'd be 31 soon.

Looking for a life partner 31 to 35 years.

She's settling up her business.

She doesn't want yoruba and igbo men because somehow she's not been fortunate with them in the past.

She has big dreams and big life goals like becoming a CEO and also a citizen of a first world country, also promised that her children will be first world citizens to give them a good future.

She's already working towards achieving that.

She's a bit stubborn in terms of pursuing and achieving life goals which some men don't like about her.

She's quite ambitious.

Not an introvert but loves staying indoors.

She's tall/dark/averagely thick/on low cut because she doesn't like making her hair(maybe if cajoled by her lover she'd make hair).

Resides between Lagos/Ogun.

The email attached to this account has been deactivated but you can reach her on lovey.dovey93@protomail.com for a serious relationship.

No jokes or play, she wants a man that really wants to get marrie



Can we chat on Whatsapp zero,8,1,two,6, 8,2, zero,8,4,8
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 500k Monthly Income by abutujj: 2:19pm On Apr 09, 2024
ElprimaHomes:
Offer still on.
08126820848
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Opportunity For Social Worker, Psychology In Australia by abutujj: 7:54am On Apr 07, 2024
GodThankYou:
I'm interested, I have a degree in psychology 2:2
Hi good morning and blessed Sunday
Please this forenzy of a guy that was talking about social work in psychology in Australia,how genuine is he,were you guys able to run it successfully
RomanceRe: How Do U Solve An Issue Of Accomodation? by abutujj: 6:43pm On Jan 21, 2024
Obierika:
Are you sure you don't have a mental problem?

You're begging for financial help and at the same time you have the effrontery to threaten someone with physical violence!
On a serious note the guy need to check himself his ranting
and glamouring for help with force is becoming too much.
He knows is proud and his begging
RomanceRe: Broken Up With My Nigerian Boyfriend by abutujj: 8:17pm On Jan 07, 2024
[quote author=Jackie999 post=127828034]Hi all.

I want to start off with a few important pointers/ disclaimers.

1. I am NOT Nigerian and do not claim to know everything about Nigeria.
2. Please do not be xenophobic or rude to me. I'm not strong enough lol
3. I will be as respectful as possible💞
4. I'll call the man in the story "Sam"

Okay so I'm a lady from a Southern African country. I met a Nigerian man who came here for "japa"/ "looking for better opportunities". I met him after he had arrived within 2months. I was walking into the club with my friends and he was in a vehicle with his friends. The driver stopped me to greet and he said hello. Sam greeted me and the driver asked for my number on his behalf lol. It was cute.

First thoughts, he was handsome in the face but definitely not anyone I'd be interested in talking to. He was unkept and clearly struggling financially just from his appearance. Anyway, he called that night to see if I'd be willing to chill with him and his friends, and I agreed. They came back around. He came into my car but I was put off by him telling me I'm so beautiful, calling me babe and saying "I'd wish to kiss you". Omg I was sooooo freaked out. Anyway I told him to leave my car and never call me again. Within an hour, my car's tyre burst ON THE flipping HIGHWAY😲. I called my father but he was almost 2 hours away so I called him and he came within 20minutes. Him nd his brothers came and fixed it for me.

From that day, we spoke and discussed every single day. I had never been with a Nigerian man or any serious relationship before but I liked him. I supported him financially for the longest time because I saw potential in him. I bought him his firs new clothes here, took him to all the nice places, and helped him with personal hygiene etc. I saw him as a friend. He is genuinely a good good person and I fell for his soul. His just so normal and pure. I am considered pretty, intelligent and independent so I won't lie and say that I can't find anyone else but he has my heart tbh.

Everything was going good but after 3months of being together everyday, he obviously wanted the Bleep. It was such a huge deal for me because I take that seriously. But anyway our relationship progressed in that direction - positively.

He would share the little money he had with me and food with me etc if I had recklessly spent my money etc lol. I was giving him a salary to start a business. Mind you, I studied psychology and I'm smart enough to know when I'm being scammed just because I'm a paranoid/anxious detective type naturally 🙈 anyway, we had the most incredible times and I know without a Shadow of a doubt he loves me.

Fast forward 2 months then I find that he is married with 3 kids. I knew about the kids - after finding out. Buti understand why he'd be hesitant to share that. My father is from a polygamous home so I do have strong feelings about that arrangement and single probably thought it's a bad idea to tell me. Well I found out, I was upset af. But I got over it. He never forced me to or anything but I genuinely thought I'd figure it out.

Well it's been 3 years. We have NEVER argued once about anything. We have the most compatible personalities. His calm, sweet and soft spoken. Same with me. His business is doing good and he has put me on a salary as I resigned, and want to start a business.

Nigerian men are the hill I'm willing to die in lol. I had Nigerian friends in the past (Yoruba) but Igbo men are just built different. They're natural born providers. I have access to his phones and vice versa. He knows everything about me and so do I. Including his marital issues (which are unfortunately plenty).

I know my family would not accept me marrying him although my mom adores him. My father would probably have a heart attack. They worked hard for us to be very well balanced, mentally strong women so I'm so surprised that I landed up in this position. I have an incredible family and lack nothing. Financially, emotionally, mentally... Everythingally...my family is able to provide.

Maybe because his my first actual relationship, I am failing to see the big picture. Truth is... I know he'll forever care for me but I also know that his wife only loves him for money, and uses his children against him. She literally told him she'd use juju on him and deny him access to the children if he leaves her.

I thought it'd be easy. Divorce in my country is so accessible and in a situation where a husband has suffered immeasurable abuse from a woman, he definitely has grounds to divorce her. Mind you, I know this because I went through his old messages from 8+ years ago and she was always berating him, accusing him, being hot and cold etc. She's so ungrateful and her only obsession is money. She compared him to Obi Cubana😅 calling out his supposed incompetence. Well I don't know, men aren't just money. They're people with feelings and lives, they deserve love regardless.

For an example, we bought his dad motorcycle and she complained that her dad didn't get one 😩 him and I are now financially good and blessed but I know deep in my soul that I cannot be a second wife.

This post is because I broke up with him yesterday and I know for a fact his not allowed to divorce since this was a marriage introduced by his dad. She has a child from another relationship but nobody even knows. I mean she's a liar liar. He knows but his family don't. And the kids is like 15.

Anyway, I wasn't to know what you guys think of this situation. Just chat honestly. I know he won't divorce and she would kill him but I also don't know what it's like to be a second wife or partner to a Nigerian. It sounds like a really bad idea because I like being the only one for my baby. [/quot

Hmm I will advice you to follow your heart
FoodRe: See The Chicken My Friend Got For 8k. ( Pics Ins.) by abutujj: 7:18pm On Dec 24, 2023
fadilaMaikiriki:
Cont..
Are you advertising yourself
Oya na make I sent address make you come cook for me for Xmas but you go also cook for other room oh
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 1.5M Monthly In Nigeria Vs 4k Pounds Monthly In The UK by abutujj: 6:29pm On Dec 17, 2023
engrrichie92:
I'm a tech bro, I currently do 1.5M Monthly in Nigeria and I just got a job offer last month in the UK for 4K pounds monthly(after tax)

My guys there be complaining about bills and how hard it is to save and all over there

So, If you were me, which would you pick and why?

Modified: will also like to hear from those in the UK; what do you think guys?...Now that you know how it is over there, what would you advice?

Please help push to front page for more engagements
This money no to large like that oh but it depends on what you intend to achieve.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Post What You Do On This Thread, Someone May Hire You. by abutujj: 2:51pm On Dec 10, 2023
Joseph1505:
As for me i am doing very well as a web developer and also open for more gigs, i deal on both frontend and backend development.

When posting your gigs on this thread, ensure you also make the benefits of your services clear.

As for me, what the clients who hire me will benefit from me is free website traffic for one month.

Copy that? grin
I am data analyst I can use the following tools effectively
Excel, power bi, SQL, SPSS and R
Please someone should link me up with data analysis job
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Much Can One Really Make Trading Crypto by abutujj: 10:26pm On Oct 17, 2023
pitamah901:
Crypto trading is one of the most profitable businesses out there especially for the few people who really know how to trade it. Been trading for more than 3 years now and i must say its been the best thing that has happened to me since quitting my low paying job. There's not been a limit to what i can make unlike my previous job where i had to depend on a salary which comes once in a whole month and didn't even last up to middle of the month. The thing I'm most thankful for is making that same salary and more in a single trade and not spending on transport to the office since i work from anywhere. Apart from just earning from it i now get the opportunity to reach out and teach others which also makes up my income.

I really wish people can see the potential in crypto trading
Did you use robot to trade or you trade manually
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Chemistry Teacher Needed In PH by abutujj: 8:14pm On Oct 12, 2023
biggal:
A school in Ph needs a chemistry teacher
How much is the pay
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Salary Payment by abutujj: 3:19pm On Oct 09, 2023
Mikedgr8:
I'm a Teacher in a private school in the mainland part of Lagos State, I got employed just last month in the school. I take the senior classes Physics, Biology and Chemistry for a meagre 25k salary. The cost of transportation between my house and the school is #600 to and fro each day. On days I don't have enough cash, I trek to school not minding the inconveniences.

The month ended and based on the fact that schools resumed on the 4th of last month, I presumed the salary will be paid on the said date this month.

I tried talking to the proprietor and all he could say was Salary is not ready. Now he tries avoiding me and not picking my calls either.

There is nothing for my family to eat..

I tried going out to work in any construction site but non was willing to take me in to work.
With tears in my eyes, I called him and he managed to pick, he didn't even allow me to talk, he said he will pay next week.

Note, this is the same ordeal faced by other teachers...

Now, my question is why do employers derive joy in delaying salaries after the services rendered by their employees?.
Op na Wa for you is like you just started teaching or else if really know the worth of the subjects you teaching you will not settled for less.I am teaching chemistry for just Tuesday and Friday and Friday is half day for 25k.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Actually Flopped In My Micro Teaching Interview by abutujj: 12:20pm On Aug 21, 2023
dboY1123:
I chose Atomic Structure, Chemical reactions and maybe if there's time, Acid base and salt
So na chemistry
Subject: chemistry
Topic: Atomic structure
Atomic is gotten from the word atom which is the smallest particles of an element so atomic structure means the means the structure of the atomic.the atom is spherical in shape and it consists of three particles
The proton it has positive charge
The neutron it has no charge
The electron it has a negative charge
You can other research.but please let you teaching be brief and concise and hit the main point.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: This Is The List Of Fake Job Addresses Collated (not Exhaustive). by abutujj: 12:06pm On Aug 10, 2023
NasaraHelen:
Please guys I received this address for an interview, I don’t know if it’s scam or real,
Pls help me confirm thanks so much 🙏🙏

GLOBAL MANUFACTURING ALLIANCE & STANDARD LIMITED
3:38 PM
Sequel to your Application;
You Have been recommended For An Interview With EMD GLOBAL LIMITED
HUMAN RESOURCES MANAGEMENT
OFFICE PHONE: NANCY IKE 09021182737
CONTACT FOR MORE INFORMATION TO PROCEED THE INTERVIEW PROCESS

BISIOGABI PLOT 8a OFF LADIPO KASUMU INSIDE TINUADE STREET OPPOSITE FIRST BANK OPEBI ALLEN IKEJA LAGOS
Please I got an invite to this address,were you able to attend was it real
Nairaland GeneralRe: Got Questions About Anything In Nairaland? Ask It Here by abutujj: 12:03pm On Aug 10, 2023
Please is this address real
RomanceRe: Help!!!! I Lose Interest In Guys I Sleep With by abutujj: 2:32pm On Feb 12, 2023
Op you are not alone oh.most girls this days portraits same trait e.g Jessica my ex
RomanceRe: A Secret Only A Few Know. by abutujj: 3:08am On Jan 22, 2023
Pls add me to the whatsup group 08126820848
Jobs/VacanciesAn NGO Company 'bernerd H-mier International Company ' by abutujj(op): 9:01am On Aug 09, 2022
Good morning pals,hope you guys are doing well.
Pls I was invited for interview by this NGO company,Bernerd H-mier international company in porthacourt.please nairalander in porthhacourth is there such company there according to the address 'along old airport road ' I can found it on Google pls help
RomanceRe: Singles by abutujj: 11:38pm On Jun 16, 2022
This scammers be careful of whoever is behind that moniker
RomanceNeed A Working Class And Mature Babe For A Relationship by abutujj(op): 11:22pm On Jun 16, 2022
Hi,am looking for a working class and mature babe for serious relationship that will lead to marriage but she must base in Lagos.you can call me on this noba 07038052709
RomanceRe: Single Peeps Only!! Drop Your Number For Whatsapp Connect by abutujj: 1:11pm On Dec 23, 2021
seunolu7:
If you're single and you're looking to meet someone cool, you live in the city of ibadan or lagos and you're atleast 21. Then this is for you. Drop your number below this and get added.
08187885702

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