₦airaland Forum

Esthered:
It may have been said out frustration as no woman gives consent to an open marriage easily.

This is a valid point of view.

Esthered:
You too?

Yes, dear. I mean, it's fine to lose interest in sex, but encouraging one's spouse to get it elsewhere? 🙄

You can't defend BAT without loosing your senses in the process.

This country may not improve in another 150 years. Imagine still fighting for geopolitical and quota system slots in NDA and others in 2025, when countries that are far more populated are admitting foreigners in their thousands into their military. We have been forcing this non-existing national unity for far too long. 150 years from today, you people will continue to pretend, lying to one another as always.

A bold president is not one that is splitting institutions like sliced bread, but one that is able to scrap and ban the following words from our national vocabulary: "state of origin". "local government (of origin)", and "quota system." Replace with state/town of residence and make it almost impossible for anyone to ask for one's ethnicity when filing applications. Put at least 1,000 scape goats in prison, and others will automatically comply.

gabazin080:
1. She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.

2. She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

Hehehe... What a finished man.

Cruise nation

If a 25 year old adult would not tolerate being beaten by a superior adult, why do we always entertain beating kids? What changed? I mean, if beating is so cool, why don't we use them on every other person? Because we know that they will and surely fight back? Those we can't beat, we insult even on the roads.

Children are still very malleable and teachable. You can't go wrong adopting other correctional approach. The fact that some kids who got beaten turned out well doesn't mean that kids who don't get the same treatment won't turn out well.

My opinion is that only lazy people prefer to beat kids. It is the fastest "approach" to get what we want, but not what's best for the lad.

Who knows, perhaps the way we have physically punished children in this country contributes to our status as a dormant, unproductive nation, where many adults have emerged with minimal mental capacity, and have become a burden to society. We stifle people's innovative and critical thinking abilities through fear, anxiety, and inadequate social skills. So, they grow up living in fear of their parents, teachers, sunday school teachers, police officers, soldiers, and everyone else in authority. How can such a society be expected to thrive?

Even as adults, many are still living in fear. Still scared of their landlords, boss, police, etc, almost turning to a national mental disorder.

ogaemma:
So does it mean now that Church is now business?
You are the one who compared Dangote business with his line of ministry.

You compared his marriage with prophecies (not like I care about this), so it's okay to compare apples and oranges.

ogaemma:
A man who failed in his marriage.
A man who could not keep his home is here trying to keep a country.
Listen to him at your own peril.

Dangote's marriage failed. He succeeded in his business.

MIKOLOWISKA:
12 k was expensive then too
Why do you vote useless governors over and over and over and over again?

Minimum wage has always been higher than the price of a 50kg bag of rice until BAT happened. Think about it.

MT:
The state government owns the land, what are they doing with it.

Hold your Governors responsible for some actions.
The Governors collect monthly allocations and own the lands. Stop focusing on the FG skins to solve all your problems.

Are you saying that Nigerians held their governors at the jugular when rice was sold for 12k (50kg)? We've always had the same "useless" governors, so what changed? The fraudster you love to protect and make excuses for.

Nice. Bloggers are gradually learning to use the right words "Okene" or "Ebira" instead of Kogi.

Have you ever seen "Kogi" people give Dino Melaye or Smart Adeyemi the same treatment? No, because the people in Dino or Adeyemi's part of Kogi are a different breed of people.

Walai:
This is a normal practice in most bride price negotiations. That's the beauty of it

What's beautiful about this transactional st u p i d i t y, please?

Even if na goat you wan buy, you no suppose negotiate reach this level. Fathers and the so called feminists who allow this nonsense are to blame though.

ZombieDredd:
Arguments are part of the marriage process, so I don't know how this should be news

Is that how it's done in your family?

I hate the way Nigerians conduct weddings, especially traditional weddings. Loud, boring, and meaningless jamboree that add nothing to the couple. It's mostly an avenue for strangers to cash out.

Support failure

Ebira people, not Kogi people. Out of 500 people in his house, 501 are Ebira.

datola:
This guy always acts as if under the influence.

Of course. If Nigerians know Burna's history, they will worship N. Marley. Better they don't know and keep listening to his songs

You people are canceling N. Marley because of Mohbad's death? Hehehe

Segxydube:
Another sign he was right... Can he touch the public money without the bank knowing?

Na why una deserve bad leaders for nigeria... Una no get brain to think

The money your politicians have been stealing, which of the bank MDs have come to announce to you or tell you about any stolen or laundered funds?

GanagiBitrus:
The insult is uncalled for.

I never for once, believed his missing 180m claim.
VDM was beginning to carve a niche for himself as someone who was truthful, upright & incorruptible, so embarking on such money prank only messed up his reputation.

That was no prank. He only switched the narrative when he realised that majority of Nigerians didn't buy into his lies.

How did he arrive at 80% even when it was obvious that many social media users did not believe him, including top influencers?

By the way, I read somewhere that Don Jazzy unfollowed him.

cococandy:
My happiness on this thread is to witness all the guys calling out the weird one. 2025 will be amazing for us all.

Amen 😍

Erikiel:
It will never be well with some bloggers.
This is not what he said.

Then you obviously did not watch the video.

🤣🤣🤣

I no fit laugh abeg.

Helipad for N4 billion? So how much is a mini airport with runway?

There are helipads in some public hospitals in Lagos state and none should cost more than N10 million. Same helipad that is just about the size and design of a basketball court with Dangote cement concrete slabs?

These guys are hardened and condemned criminals. Just look at what they want to build with 4billion? Cement slabs with wire guaze net. The picture is an helipad infront of emergency ward at LASUTH, Ikeja.

kayperry:
Since when did it become dangote perogative to mention or call out names of corrupt individual,
Do you even understand dangote 1st priority is to protect his investment and in business you dont creat enemies instead you find friends
whats the job of efcc

It is the duty of every citizen to call out illegalities, report crime to the police/EFCC to make investigations swift and faster. Last time I checked, Dangote is first a Nigerian before anything else.

bukatyne:
Nearly became or became?

Even his friend Ote$ joined skit making.

Yet, he couldn't mention the peeps or the amount he even sold it to NNPC.

All we kept hearing was 'That is not what we sold'.

Oya, what did you sell so we can help you stone NNPC....

Silence!

"Oya, what did you sell so we can help you stone NNPC..."

🤣🤣🤣

luminouz:
Seems the name Dangote triggers a lot of people here🤣🤣🤣

I'm not being emotional naptu2. I respect your threads because they are educational. I condemn pedophilia in all aspects. My experience has shown me that women cover up shiits for their husbands when they still stand to gain from the marriage...love or finances...if not, they will expose him.

Now do you get my point?

Just as your beloved Dangote could not expose Buhari and Emefiele's corrupt practices because of the phantom loans he got to build his refinery. But, when a small competitor from Malta showed up and threatened his establishnent, man nearly became a YouTuber.

Do you now understand that this is not a "woman", but a "human" problem? So just focus on the main issue - paedophilia and child labour.

luminouz:
Jesus....how hard is it for you to understand logic na?

Ok boss ..I don hear you. I no wan use argument enter new year.

You're asking me if Dangote is married to the other woman? You brought in the name Dangote to this discussion even when his marital status is unknown to you, remember?

So what else do you want me to do with the name Dangote? "What if" Dangote is married to this woman? Fine, but what if Dangote condemns Buhari and Emefiele's corrupt practices? Both are "what if" scenarios. Both are corrupt practices. What other logic do you need?

luminouz:
The logic is flawed and I'm surprised a man is saying this.

Is Dangote married to the other billionaires and politics is the same as marriage?

It is not today that women have covered their husbands shiits because he has money and they prefer to cry in a benz than ride keke napep. If she is married to Dangote, she would never come out because of the financial benefits.

You're asking me if Dangote is married to the other woman? You brought in the name Dangote to this discussion even when his marital status is unknown to you, remember?

I think it is easier to condemn corrupt politicians than one's own spouse. Until that Dangote you mentioned call out the names of politicians who have been involved in corruption in Nigeria, then he's not fit to be compared with this woman.

luminouz:
Is Bettencourt Nigerian?

Is she molesting young men?

I'm trying to understand your logic here bro

It's the same logic. Your claim is that this lady left the marriage because there was nothing for her to benefit (materially). You may be right, but the fact remains that even Dangote, which you mentioned, has endured many things because of what he wanted to get.

Ordinary small corruption in NNPC, he couldn't mention exact names despite his endless press conferences. We all know how he (Dangote) and other Nigerian billionaires fail to expose corrupt politicians because of the need to protect their empires.

The logic is the same and, so, for coming out to expose corruption in her household, she's better than corrupt Nigerian billionaires who would rather watch Nigerians die in hunger.

luminouz:
Lol...I understand you.

But if it's Dangote, you think she will come out?

Will Dangote also expose someone like Bettencourt Meyers (the richest woman in the world)?

luminouz:
What the man did was wrong.

But it's very rare for a wife to do this unless she believes the man has nothing to offer her again or has a special grudge against him

She endured and tolerated so many things before this last one. Further investigation is needed 'cos they've both covered other acts until this last one. Moreover, this expose may also indict her at the end (child labour), but at least, she did the right thing and should be commended.