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If you were to be employed in a company or you go there for a business meeting and when you ask to be directed to the gents/ladies on reaching there you see this on the door, what will come to your mind?

Not to worry, I will definitely continue with the 'True Life' story in a short while.

The following is a typical example of what will happen on the day of judgement.

We are now living in a world today where people have stopped listening and practising the commandments of God stated in the Quran and Bible but rather follow and act strictly on what their pastors preach to them. Most of them found to be the total opposite of what God commanded man to do. But greed and material gains have made religious leaders misinterprete the Bible in order to mislead their congregation.

ikhiaonose: if u know say u no want to sell no put the car 4 this site.wat is the meaning of this?
No price nothing and u re saying pple should call u.
My guy make una dey try dey do somtin well na.

That's how silly people think they can sell market. When we are all over trying to correct those foo*lish buyers to desist dropping their numbers expecting the seller to call, here you have a more foo*lish unserious seller who is too scared to put up the price.

It is either he is overhyping the price and doesn't want the original owner to see the thread or he is just dump daft to know not everyone has such time to waste.

At 5:30pm that same day, his mother was rushed into the theatre for the operation. Debo and his siblings were dead scared as they saw their mother had lost weight drastically with 24hours the incident happened. She could barely open her eyes and wasn't able to utter a single word. To their greatest amazement, their father all this while was no where to be found. Debo learned from his siblings that after their father had dropped their mother at the hospital and only dropped a meager sum as deposit at the hospital he never turned up again. It was their mum's siblings who all came around and paid more money to the doctor as well as the money for the test, x-rays, drugs and the operation. His 3 siblings, maternal uncles and aunties as well as 2 of his father's siblings were all present at the hospital all through the his mother was in the theatre without any trace of their father in sight.

At around 9pm the doctor came out to meet the family, and after multiple enquiries on the condition of their mother's health, the doctors words were " I am sorry my people, in as much as we did everything we could, we still lost her". Those very words shattered Debo's world. His greatest fear in life of ever losing his mother has already come to past at a very early stage of his life.

One Evening while Debo was in his 3rd year at the University, he received a call from Wunmi to quickly rush home that there is an emergency. On packing a few things and heading home he found only his youngest sister Mojisola who made him understand that other siblings and their mother are all in the hospital. He learned the day before, their father who had lost his job came home that night from his drinking spree and after just having a little misunderstanding with his wife, began to beat her and eventually used a wooden table to hit her on the chest which made her to slump and faint instantly.

When Debo rush to the Hospital, he found his mum in the emergency ward waiting to be operated on. The doctor informed him that after several test and x-ray run on his mum, they discovered she had an internal bleeding and needed to carry out an urgent operation on her to stop the bleeding.

My mother worked extremely hard to provide the very best for me and my siblings and to the amazement of family and friends, no one could just fathom why my father who earns extremely well could just abandon my mother to be the one to take up the entire responsibilities of the home.

Initially as a yound child of about 7years, I used to think every adult must fast all the days of their lives and this always scared me from growing from a boy to a man because I feared I was going to fast every single day as I became older. This fear came as a result seeing my mother observing endless of fasting and prayers. I won't be lying if I said I could count how many times I ever witnessed my mother eat during the day. She was always fasting and praying for God to touch the heart of my father to make him realize he needed to pickup his responsibilities as the man of the house.

My mothers tears fell on the fact that assuming my father had no job and was job haunting or had a job with a meager pay that would have been a different situation, but for a man who works with a multi-international Oil firm and was earning a huge salary even as a junior staff, it was surprising to the entire family why he could decide to ignore his responsibilities as a man.






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After Sipping the glass of water, Debo clears his throat and summoned courage to begin to explain all he had tried telling me over the phone this past few weeks to justify his actions and that of his siblings towards their suffering and aged father.

"My father was a young employee in one of the first foreign Petroleum extraction companies that started operation in Nigeria in the 1950s. He work in the Accounting department of the Oil company for about 7years. As a young employee in the foreign Oil company, my father earned more than 20times what his peers who were either working as junior clerks in Federal government parastatals or private firms earned. While he was earning much even as a junior staff, he was also opportuned to be sent on so many local and foreign trainings alongside with his bosses to help keep the company up-to-date on accounting softwares and modes.

"My father throughout his 7years stay in the Oil company never bought a single property even when what he earned in 3 months could buy a plot of land in the Old Ikoyi or Apapa area of Lagos in the 1970s. All he did was go to beer parlor every single night after the close of work with his friends, drinking with friends isn't a bad idea but the most painful part was that my father was the sole sponsor of every single bottle himself and his friends took. No matter how many bottles they consumed each night, my father always volunteered to settle the bills. He did this in other to keep getting cheers and praises from his friends and as well as retain the presidency of their tiny club formed by the clique of friends.

He did this act year in year out leaving the basic responsibilities of the warfare of myself and my sibling to my mother. A woman who as at then was only managing a small Provision store she took over after the death of her mother.

My mother was the sole bread winner of the house even though her husband was earning up to 100 times her profit annually.

Debo Oduntola (Not Real name) is a young man who after sending me series of mails finally decided we should meet one-on-one to really explain to me the genesis of his actions towards his father.

So far he doesn't have any iota of regret for not helping his father out of poverty even though he earns over N850,000 as an employee of an Oil and Gas servicing company in Lekki. Debo also have 3 other younger ones, Wunmi, Deji and Mojisola. While Wunmi is an Architect with one of the top indigenous Architecture firms in the state and married with 3 kids to a banker, Deji is a Systems Engineer with a Telecommunications contracting company in Abuja. He is also married to a medical doctor and they are bless with a baby boy. Mojisola is currently doing her masters in a Federal university but is into Events planning and is engaged to her long time boyfriend who they intend getting married in the 2nd quarter of next year.

Debo being the first child is married to Bimpe, a medical practitioner and they both have 2 beautiful girls. As the first child, Debo had to act basically like the father and guardian to his sibling right from their childhood days even though he only seniors his immediate sister with 3 years.

As he tried explaining his story to me, tears flowed down his eyes and knowing that he might only burst out crying if I tried consoling him at that particular time, I decided to excuse him after I had handed him a face wipe.

15minutes later I returned to my office to have a chat with Debo as I know he would have composed himself and now ready to talk. Debo demanded I give him a glass of water.

nusirat: Court marriage is not permissible under islamic injunction, so far two of you are muslim, and follow the sunaah Of Prophet Muhammad, PBHM, also there is surah which say let believer married believer and Adulterer marries Adulteress, if this is follow you will not need to go court before you trust each other, also court marriage revolve round the property sharing which has already taking care by Quran.

Surat Nur, Nisa, Muminun, Bakara best explain this question.

Frostyzone: Hello, we are in the 21st century. Stop thinking like a cave man.

You can NEVER modernize, upgrade or adjust the Laws of Allah irrespective of what millenium, century or generation.


Allah's laws cannot be comapred or adjusted to mix with man made laws.

kaytytty: salam we re in a democracy and d law of d land is supreme

Read the thread topic again. They said Islamic View and not the supremacy of the laws of a land.

maclatunji: What is your source for arriving at this conclusion?

Allah is the All Mighty All Knower and every single knowledge, Law or Intellect HE wanted man to practice and know have been passed to the Holy Quran or through the Hadith and Sunnah of The Holy Prophet. No where did Allah Prescribe or permit any other form of marriage aside Nikkiah.

The Court marriage is Man made law but that of Islamic (Nikkiah) is ALLAH's own Laws.

Don't forget Allah forbids all sins except shirk (associating partners with him) going for a court marriage is as good as also putting the marriage under the laws and supervision of man.

Anything Outside Nikiah is HARAM (Forbidden) and Bidiah (modernization)

See this

HELP!!! She Wants Me To Choose Between Her and Nairaland

https://www.nairaland.com/1086277/she-wants-me-choose-between

Billyonaire: Unfortunate circumstance or fortunate opportunism ? What makes you think there will be no unfortunate circumstance or fortunate opportunism 2015 ?

Ubfortunate because the impeachment of Alamieshia and death of Jonathan on paved way for Jonathan to loot the entire treasury of Bayelsa and Nigeria respectively.

Billyonaire: WE SHALL SEE!!! But remember, I said it before and I am saying it again. The man called GEJ, hasnt lost a single election before, his successes has been natural miracles. LOL

Don't be deceived he has ONLY contestested ONE single election in his entire lifetime and that was last year. Every other time he had come from the unfortunate circumstances of his governor or president.

Billyonaire: As soon as the 2015 campaign begins. Seun will provide escrow services. I can assure you, you will lose your money. There is no credible opposition candidate against Lord GEJ.

My Nigerian people will rather vote a Corrupt Atiku, Ameachi, Fashola, Oshomole than having a CORRUPT, CLUELESS and FAILED Humpty Dumpty like Jonathan in that Villa come 2015

Billyonaire: I dont mean FAKE BALLOT, where I come from, I can steer 1million votes in a day in favor of GEJ,can you do that ?

We don't have poverty stricken people in my place who will sell their conscience and votes for 1kg of rice and 6 yards of Ankara so it will be an inpossible task finding 1million poor people I can buy. But talk of raising 100s of millions from donations from 1million people then I think I can boast of getting that.

Billyonaire: The man called GEJ, has never failed in any of his political venture. Go history bro, go history. I will be here, reminding you by May 29, 2015, that Team GEJ has done it again. Lets bet 5m each, and we need seun to be our escrew agent.

N5m it is!!!
When, Where and How do you want the betting to take place?


Less I burst your bubble, no gurantee GEJ will complete this term. MARK MY WORD.

Billyonaire: Tossed out by who ? Cos I know, I personally have the machinery to generate GEJ 1million votes. Personally speaking!

How won't you? When you have the machine to produce 1million FAKE BALLOT papers in your bedroom.

Come free and fair election who is Jonathan?

Billyonaire: If GEJ delivers on Electricity, he is unstoppable by 1000 OHH BEE JAYs.

He sure can't deliver because he was destined to be a failure and a dissapointment all his miserable and clueless entire life.

Baba_Eleko: and also the world's biggest failure.

As well as the Worlds most CORRUPT leader

Its no news that Jonathan is the World's Biggest TRAITOR

Do you people know politics at all? Well lemme give you a brief insight of the joker that will be used against jonathan.

The Boko haram sect calling for a cease fire and negotiation with the FG will only push the President to a tight corner which not only make him appear like an Enemy to the North but also to Islam but also make him look like a man who doesn't want peace in his country.

Obasanjo isn't the best man in Nigeria, though extremely corrupt but that man Called Obasanjo definitely wants the Unity of Nigeria more than any past and present leader Nigeria has ever produced.


Jonathan look around Aso Rock very well, because come 2015 you will be tossed out of that Villa like Super Ted.

mmmustapha: 3rd 2 comment. Good move 4 jonah boy

Moderators ban this foo*l and DELETE his name from your database.

Let's start cleansing Nigeria by erradicating moor*ons like this.

berem: na wa o! Which way naija?

No be your boyfriends carry out the robbery?
Afterall you promised things will turn out this way across Nigeria after Fashola banned your Okada riding boyfriends from operating in Lagos.

Don't you try and claim ignorance on this. The IG is trailing you.

clemmonce: you are dull.

Na your papa na him dull pass.
As dem no train you for house, dem go train you for forum.

You had a choice to either accept or condemn in a wise manner. As na insult you wan use, na your papa I go send you to because him no teach you.

190-the-clown:
@post

I sure your elder brother dey amongst the robbers this one wey you dey happy so.

I had always suspected you as an Auchi boy.

All this just to acquire Vanity.

There was Money before man came to the world, and there will still be Money after man leaves the World.


Man didn't bring a penny when he came and will certainly not take any when he is leaving.

What do the Churches and Mosque leaders preach to their congregation members these days?

99.9% OF celebrities and Public figures will have ALL 5 regrets.

They live their fake lives to impress others and make themselves miserable inside.

Goldieluks: Where that big-headed short man when get this beer parlor?
Abi una don pack?

Right behind you love.
Was just admiring your Ikebe since.