I don't claim to be a perfect man,far from it anyway and yet [color=#000000]I've never cheated on my wife since we got married. I did mess around a bit while we were dating but there really wasn't a commitment in place so I don't feel as if I've acted unfairly.[/color]
Honestly, if my wife cheated I don't know if I would get a divorce (probably for the sake of the kids) but I would definitely stop loving her. I'm my eyes she wouldn't be the same person anymore. My wife is supposed to belong to me and the thought of her with some other guy would severely taint my perception of her. I wouldn't be able to look her in the face and not feel disgusted. I wouldn't want to touch her or comfort her anymore. In short I would despise her.
The mere thought repulses me and now that I think of it, it would probably do more harm than good to stay together. People always claim that you can forgive and forget but to what extent can one maintain this belief? Isn't marriage supposed to be a sanctified bond that can not be undone by anyone but God?
Do others share this belief or is this too extreme on one end of the spectrum?
all i have to say that you are sick. nd plz do remember what goes up must surely come down. you justify your cheating on your girlfriend/fiance at the time by saying that there was no commitment. am sorry for your skrewed way of thinking and i thank God not all men think like you. If you ever get cheated on you deserved it. nonsense
Ijeoma Okeke100: poster your damn fault that happened to you. why did you have to start this game in the first place. look let me tell you, whether man or woman nobody like to get bored and we all wana explore once in a while. there is nothing wrong with some exploring before one ties the knot so that when she is married she becomes a proper wife. she is only 23 and needs time to play and make er own mistakes. she was not there when you explored your youth so stop being such sour grapes. By the looks of things, you never even gave her a chance to play coz you turned her into an unofficial spouse from the tenter age of 20 or 21 and that is the time someone wants to see life. your fault again that yalls was fiance for over 2 years. who the hell wants to be a fiance for soo long. nigga pleassssss
na lie. explore before you get into a relationship or else you guys can agree to an open relationship. humans like to eat their cake and have it. i would have kuffi smacked her dusty azz. the same go for men to. tic for tat
Dynamicaziz: I never intend to bore you with this my personal experience on how unfaithful ladies can be. I have a girlfriend of close to 2 years that has almost become my wife because we are planning to have our introduction in a few months time. She is 23 years old while I'm almost 29. She is completing her NCE by september and thats about the time I will be resuming for my Masters. She respects and adores me (Don't know wether it's as a result of the difference in status) and I equally cherished her. She stays on campus and comes around on Fridays. She is becoming a part of me - like the proverbial missing rib. To be frank, I'm always happy around her. My trouble with her started a few weeks ago when she began to exhibit traits of a girl who wants to test the waters. I called her, made my observations known, softly scolded and advised her. She practically went on her kneels weeping with a promise to be a good girl afterwards. This new episode started last Sunday when I registered a new account on her favorite social media with a new identity. I sent her a friend request which she accepted promptly, then the conversation began! After she had given me her details all of which were accurate, I requested that we should exchange numbers, as a team from my office is likely to come to her town for a meeting with some government officials and I will like to meet her. She was reluctant initially, but dropped the number after a little persuasion. I had thought the number was fake because I didn't know her with that number. You can imagine my bitterness when I dialled the number and was greeted by her voice. So this girl operates a secret number I didn't know of! I kept my cool and continued calling her as a stranger with a strange voice on this line. We exchanged messages both on the social media and on phone. Then on Friday, I called to inform her that we are already in her town lodged in a hotel for the meeting and asked if she would come around. Her excuse was that she couldn't make it that night but promised to show up the next day. I couldn't wait for the next day to break when I've started calling and sending messages to make her realise how important it is for us to meet. She promised to come by 2 p.m and exactly on top of the hour, she called to inform that she is setting out. All these while I was becoming restless. I left my home immediately so as to get there before her. Everything worked out as planned. I was stil lurking around when she called to announce her arrival. I told her to stand at a spot so that I could come pick her, she did. When I eventually showed up as her date, she nearly collapsed. Enraged as I were, I managed to stop a cab, took her home and gave the red card. She requested that I give her writing materials, which I did. Her excuse was that I didn't allow the game to end properly as I didn't know her plan for showing up there. That even made me mad the more! What reason could it be? She is pleadin for forgiveness now and thats why I need candid and matured pieces of advice from fellow nairalanders. I must state here that througout our unfortunate dating period, I never cheated on this bitch not even once!
oh hell no. kick that TRIIICKK to the curb. she does not deserve your love. Damn y do bitchezz end up with good men and good girls with bad men? what nonsense make sure nobody i mean nobody steals your happiness.
pro01: E be like say one person for here dey suffer from dirty/smelly pussy syndrome. As she dey para for hia na because e dey be am like say them don expose her secret.
oh common don't use that as an excuse. u don't expect to disrespect ladies and expect all the ladies to shut up and not say anything. that's not right negro. any man that has been with dirty girls has no one but himself to blame. step your shiiitt up and stop following dirty girls. ya digg?
otele: Ify ama m na I like-ri ndi iberibe Emekwala cancel wedding anyi o. Emego m book Westminster abbey maka June 12. Infact David Cameron wu guest of honor whereas mama Eliza wu guest in chief. Emebokwala m.
Adabekee Enyi m nwayi outside nl ahapula m laghachi Amsterdam obodo nna ya. . Ahuru m ya na Anya but osi ochoghizikwa. I si na idi single yet gi na eme kiss Blackpikin adim jealous.
Danilsa, m ga alu Onye obula kwetaranu. Right now enweghi nke m luru yet. Ify ekwerela maka June 12 but until then alubeghi m nwayi yet. This means that Ify can change mind ya any time, so me not taking chances. While m di single m ga eme engage in full hussling.
Adabekee, I ga alum?
chai otele anurum si i wu nwa nta owu eziokwu? i di ntiii? lmao otele your sense of humor ga egbu mmadu eba.
dammytex: Well, your write up sounds touching and romantic..
you talked about your promises of kids, good food, keeping beautiful etc. You forgot to promise him the bed things. That will surely be the joker for him.
Inosenduatall: Bro, you had to be talking about me! This was the way I felt when I first felt love. I'm talking raw, undiluted love. Love in its purest form. Of course, I didn't get the girl.
Now that I'm reminded of that fact, you know what? Fuccckk love! Am out...
Awww... I no exactly how u feel! But dont worry as long as you loved with all your heart God will definetly provide someone who will love u unconditionally
romeo: Adabeke biko aha gi buzi AdaJuliet.. Romeo and Juliet!! Okuku Igbo bu last bus stop! Toshy kedu gi ohh. Ify etinyekwana aja na dis Garri inugo? Aka nti ka m noo na ado gi
Romeo Romeo, i na tu m ochi nga. So I choro kam bu adajulieti gi? Gwanunum why?
otele: Adabekee Odika ndi mbano makwara mma o. Toshman o nwediri nke wu nwanne nwayi?
Chai otele oh imagi si abum onye mbano/ owerri. Imo state in general nwere pretty girls na. As a matter of fact ima dat umu ada igbo manama ngo ori ahu
Nigerians or africans who fuuucckking hate dark skin or chocolate skin u mofos need to huge a transformer. WTF is wrong with y"all? Nna chocolate wu ebe ano(meaning it doesnt get better than dark skin). Shhhiitt, I tan my skin when I feel like it bcuz I love the glow I get. If west africans hate dark skin then dont get mad when oyibo shows the same fuuuuccking hate. Nonsense
dayokanu: Were you born retardded or you just acquired it over time you disgusting leper.
Speak to me only when spoken to...you disgusting leprechaun ! where are your manners? these days, every morronn has an opinion about Dayokanu
Imagine the nerve for this schlepp, A direct descendant of men who tie wrappers is mentioning my name all over cyberspace
just wondering wat r u doing on this thread? Go and create your own. wtf! shuuuuuu away, create one for the Yorubas and leave this one alone haba, or do u want to be igbo now? ok i get it. renounce your yorobaship then wait till your next life mayb CHI will let you come back ass igbo thats if your lucky.