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HisRib: Lol! I find it quite interesting that you're calling me bitter, while I'm in a happy & healthy relationship, you are here begging people to teach you how to ask for forgiveness in a language that is not your own.

I will not speak prematurely about your relationship. I can't say your man is using you because I do not know the details of your relationship. But, as an AFRICAN woman, I know my African men quite well.

A girl who comes on a public forum arguing with strangers and posting half naked photos of herself is not one an African man can take seriously.

I suggest you enjoy this relationship while it's still alive because based on your behavior & attitude, that man will run as soon as he finds someone better.

Just so you know, Africans care too much about what people think of them. Nigerian men are full of pride. If any of his friends/family were to run into this post and see how you're making a complete fool out of yourself, he would be devestated.

Oh, and while you're here giving yourself a headache to learn a foreign language and being an internet gangster, his family is preparing a beautiful igbo bride from his village for him to marry.

If you want to win the heart of an African man, learn how to respect yourself.

Deuces!

ah ah that is to harsh! i see nothing wrong in someone making an effort to learn their boyfriendz language. personally i do not see anything wrong with her picz and i doubt his family is preparing any village igbo girl for him.

Mrs R.A.W, plz do not pay pessimistic ppl any mind. you are absolutely beautiful, you should use all this hate as motivation to even learn more about his culture, language and how to cook our local dishes. You are a making an effort and that is what matters. You have young nigerian girls who don't even know shiat about their culture and are not interested in learning either. You and your eze looks good together so please do not listen to the naysayers.

Akshow: like seriously?

yup

Luxiana19: Trashy... she z really pretty.. didna need all this unnecessary show of privates

gurl plzzz, that dress is hot and so is she. If you aint got the confidence to wear it, do not blame her for doing so. If you aint got the body for it then i definitely understand.

Manchidede: [img]http://2.bp..com/-78FRNairbNU/UqRLfkb9z6I/AAAAAAAABUE/Ydj0br9jrSE/s1600/girl+exposed.jpg[/img]
Wow! This one is not oranges again. It is Pawpaw!!...LOL.I will term this "Fashion Decadence!".
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fashionnnn.... she looks hot! i got that dress and it is sexxxyyy.

CastingCrowns: Ave noticed most nollywood movies dont portray the happenings in Nigeria,everyone lives in palatial mansions complete with exotic super-cars parked all around the huge garage,the meals are eaten on dining tables complete with cutleries and the latest china in town,the phonetics are non-Nigerian,the clothes worn are designer duds complete with luxury bags even a character playing a poor person drives a ferrari....Nollywood i watch their movies for the laughs....if they wanna represent us properly on the world stage its high time they make realistic movies not delusional films depicting a utopic place

I guess you have not come across different nollywood films.

xynerise: No need to ask why. I understand

ok that's good. Your earlier statement goes either way.

xynerise: You can attract normal men when you have a beautiful face or nice body, but you can attract both normal men and perverts when you dress like a w'hore(sorry to use the word''w'hore'')

na lie!
ask me why?

Kairoseki77: Her body 8/10

Her face -1/10

jealousy!!!

anywayz may her chi continue to bless her.

shymexx: But still better looking than Igbo's. At least Yoruba's don't breed people with funny shaped heads and people with disproportionate head to body ratio.

Thank God I'm Yoruba.

Are you sure about that? I have seen funny shaped heads that looked like oganigwe and faces that look like vomit from your ppl so lets cut the bull.

Austinodark: Dnt think a Nigerian girl has dat kind of booty jor

am guessing you have seen all nigerian girls booty. anywayz mines is not even big at all, u neva see oganigwe for nyash before.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Ogbeni, butt pad full everywhere too. . . Shine your eye. Not disputing the naturalness of some but then. . . [/color]

you are absolutely right about butt pads lmao, but every big booty is not padded

chidinma looks the best to me, and she is the prettiest there. pow!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Does that thing look real to you? [/color]

hundred percent beef from my mama, take it or leave it.

[quote author=grayh@t]Gurls and dick.. Smh[/quote]men and puzzy... God forgive una

Biim: Silicon or no silicon chicks admit it she is hot, it doesn't make sense hating I am a female tho #no homo#

gurl some chicks just love to hate. i don't see anything fake about her.

Danielle22: D girl is hawt even tho it silicon, i even prfer her to nicki.

how does she have silicon in her?

this thread is hilarious

Damojo: It depends on how neat your wife is.

My wife knows i have serious OCD so she became super-clean when she took in. She also became sexier with the bigger b00bs and curvier hips. We used to have s3x everynight till the day she went into labour. I remember us laffing about it one time that my dick would make the baby's head oblong cos it was touching the cranium, but alas, the womb is thicker than any tissue in the body.

lmao

FOOL FINDER: DANIELLA OKEKE IS THE FAIREST OF THEM ALL,AND SHE HAS A.SS TOO

and curves for days

chiboy1928: are u jealous.

i was thinking the same thing.

Orikinla: Eeefy the Sexy.
Even Omo Sexy of Nollywood no sexy like this o.

she is gorgeous!!!! love the afro, physique and her flawless skin complexion

dasparrow: Oh, you just noticed? You have Nigerian society to thank for that. I have never seen or met a group of people who have such an unhealthy obsession with marriage like Nigerians. Its indeed terrible. Its so bad that overseas - in USA - for instance, I have had other black Africans who are not Nigerian ask me in the past why most Nigerians are so marriage desperate. Its very shameful considering that the average Nigerian marriage - marred by excessive infidelity, meddling in-laws, lack of spousal affection and compassion, servant-master relationship, maltreatment of the widow, seizing the children from the woman in the event of the marital union's breakdown, blaming the woman for the baby's gender and emotional, verbal and physical abuse - is nothing to write home about. Interestingly, people from other nationalities and cultures are aware of the fact that many Nigerians have a hellish marriage no matter how much some Nigerians try to pretend that this is not the case.

Funnily enough, after many Nigerians rush into marriage, they come to find out that the grass is not exactly greener on the other side. The women also come to find out that once they are in their 40s and 50s that their husbands are not faithful to them anymore and are out there looking for tighter, fresher varginas not the ones their wives have which have slacked due to popping out so many babies and too much pounding. The vargina is elastic and after years of pounding by the p8nis and giving birth to an average of 4 children or more, the vargina is bound to slack and no amount of kegel exercise will bring the vargina back to its youthful tightness and exuberance before all the pounding and child bearing.

Should the man die before the woman, society or the in-laws blame the woman. Should the woman give birth to females and no males, society blames the woman. Should anything go wrong in the marriage even if it is the man's fault, society blames the woman. So, no matter what the Nigerian woman does, society is still against her. So, why the rush to go into a life of perpetual bondage? if marriage alone guarantees a better life for the man and woman, then most Nigerians ought to be really wealthy and enjoying life considering the large percentage of Nigerians that are married or are getting married. Sadly, the reality remains that even with all the marrying Nigerians do, many still live and raise their families in abject poverty. That in itself, says a lot.

lord knows i love your post.

[quote author=obo_man]Excellent rubbish...

Because everyone is doing it, so you have to join them? If we can't be the change we want to see, then we should stop complaining about social decays here and there.


God help you if a woman that sleeps around to get her degree eventually qualifies to be a medical doctor and is assigned to be your doctor....

It is when she sticks syringe in your balls instead of your bottom dat you go hear wyennnn .... [/quote]lmaoo

aventura: God punish you.

y do we like to curse to much

Toonice: How do you see my boy? His name is Roland Ayomide Aroyewun.
First day at school.

very handsome boy, but plz fix his pants

mustaphagreens: Nairaland babes like adaobi and nombski be like.., yay! OMG!! She's too fat!! In fact, what's killing abt d curves??!!! Don't worry, we guys know d feeling: it's called jealousy. We go still manage d chick like that!

c'mon, just bcuz someone does not like something does not mean that they are jealous nah. the hater and jealousy word is tired of been used when it does not apply nah

jmoore: Bia Ada! One week for traditional wedding, maka gini?

for enjoyment naa

i dont want a ring neither do i want a white wedding, but i want a traditional wedding dat will last for a week

Idowuogbo: So proposing without a ring is what you call romance? Idonbulivit!!

yes gurl. you can just throw a party and invite your closest family and friends!

HisRib: Bride Price is tradition. It's something that has been done for years by our ancestors. Why are you trying to twist things? All this because of a mere engagement ring?!

Is this a sick joke? I can't believe we're even having this conversation. How in the world can you as a man ask for a woman's hand in marriage without a ring & feel good/okay with it? That's just crazy!

I refuse to believe I'm talking to grown men. You lot must be teenagers. I'm in complete disbelief.

A MAN does not run away from responsibility. A boy? Yes. But not a MAN!

since bride price has been done for years by our ancestors, did they also give engagement rings? or are choosing what we want to practice when it deems us fit?

HisRib: I can't believe this man proposed without a ring. Who does that?

Every woman deserves to have an engagement ring. If he can't afford it, he shouldn't be thinking of marriage in the first place.

Sweetheart, my advice to you is, call it off and tell him you want a ring & if he won't give you one, go find another man who will have enough love and respect for you to give you one.

Him not having a ring is NOT a good sign. Just think of all the other things he will disregard once you guys are married. RUN while you can!

whose culture is it to propose with a ring

Enegod: The ring is just a symbol the sincerity of
the proposal is what matters and
accepting should have nothing to getting a ring.

Thank you, my parents didnt do it that way neither did my grandparents or greatgrandparents. Is that even part of the "african culture"?