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Hi guys, hope you all had a great weekend.

A friend of mine seeks my opinion on this.

She's planning to move into her own property on her 30th Birthday which is very soon. She said to me, "the house is the birthday gift am giving herself". The thing here is, she's single and would be living in the house alone. Her mum thinks it's not right for her making that move because of the society we are in and couple with the fact that she's still single and might chase potential suitors away. Well, i think she deserves to be happy and if moving into her property on her birthday is what she really wants then why not! I won't want to give my advice if it's not the best for her so, i decided to turn to you guys again for your advices. Thanks y'all.

All of the above. Oops! sori, just playing.

MRbrownJAY:
desperation has some people do some CRAZZZZYYYYY SHHHHHIIIIIIIT!
then you wonder why this guy doesnt even respect what you guys have?!

MEMO TO WOMEN
if some of y'all dont have any respect for yourselves, why do you expect any man to respect you?!

That's it bro! U r damn rite!!

[quote author=LOVE.4BUG link=topic=476226.msg6356803#msg6356803 date=1278677735]see man i'm a lady and can tell when somtin is wrong.

you have kept calm for so long that she now see you as a very WEAK MAN!!

pls dnt EVER CALL HER AGAIN. she feels you can't live without her that is why she treats you that way.

Wait a second!!! did you say you were about to marry that girl?? YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN IN HELL.

thank God she is gone for good.



Pls move on jo

she is not worth it!!!
hisssssssssssssssssssssssssss [/quote]well said.

[quote author=LOVE.4BUG link=topic=476220.msg6356732#msg6356732 date=1278677081]How do you knw that she is the love of your life?

b4 you got married u thought the woman you married was the love of your life but all of a sudden the love dies off. What is a guarantee that this one will not fade [/quote]Well said!

Walk away!

2wise4real:
one hundred n ninety, old papa, u made me laugh, where did u see an ant that is following your groupmate?

@Deybola, avn't caught me b4, n that is why it's so shocking.

So, you are the guy!

kpolli:
Not ready to do wat the lil gal was ready to do

lol!!!!!!

Well, let's just say i can't be in her shoes cuz i don't fall in love like that. Especially on web, HELL NOO!

190:
I have said it before Poster
Too much GANJA is not good for your health
but you wouldn't listen
Now see where smoking that GANJA has led you to!

Lol!!!!!!!!!!! Honestly, i love this Nairaland. Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[quote author=LOVE.4BUG link=topic=475780.msg6352168#msg6352168 date=1278607442]hahah na wa o o but come to think of it which babe go agree for you when you teeth is brown [/quote]lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

kpolli:
well imagine u having to collect the koko from diff styles,

its better to give that to receive, a word is enuff for the wise

ice234:
Thank God am a man. I give generously, and they receive generously.

Lol! OMG!! I love Nairaland!

odiaero:
yeye pikin

lol!!

kpolli:
not just any brand of alcohol but the one called alomo bitters

lol!!

190:
pweety
gimme that your niece's #
i would like 2 have a 1 on 1 talk wit her!
about the fact that HIV and AIDs exists

lol!

Agibecky:
Because, she is how she treats you.

lol!!!

kpolli:
well, i have to first blame u for getting urself into this mess,
now wat u shud do is call her n tell her, though u like her, u dont see a future with her or betterstill ask for her genotype, if she says AS, sharply claim SS sef

lol!!! I can imagine you in his shoes.

It really hurts, i know. Just wondering if you knew he's a cheater, i mean if you've ever caught him with som1 else before he went for your niece.

thweraja10:
Thank God. My mind don cut i think say we go dey there sha. We are not that bad afterall

We can be better, right?

Ujujoan:
Becos u r broke!

lol!!!!!

double08:
why did she deny?
What will dey be discussing for 5 hours?

D man is beansing your girl, i will bet my mortgage that she is cheating on you, if she is innocent then Adolf Hitler is innocent too

lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ Poster, did you bleep her? Pls clarify this for some people's sanity.

@ Queeneve
Are you the lady in question?? The poster didn't mention bleeping her. So, why are you concluding stuffs and crucifying him?? 

Secondly, you are frustrating this thread. Show some decorum!

It's complicated!

I don't mean to be harsh but, it really hurts after reading your post that i just have to express my opinion. Why are you tormenting yourself? I believe you knew from the onset he has this other lady (Miss Priority) in his life before you stepped in and what it's all about. So, why are you complainning now?? It's either you live with the way your relationship is with him and be happy to know you are just wasting your time and emotion cuz to him you are just a passtime OR you back out and save your dignity! You still have some (DIGNITY) left in you, don't you? Women like you give men the audacity to call us crab cuz you are treating yourself like one! Forgive me if it hurts but, u just need to face it.

ok, now i get it. I don't know much about tradition and stuff, maybe he had to stay off but, for me i don't think i will buy that.

If i may ask, if tradition forbids visiting, does it forbids calling too?? That is the least he could have done, right??