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Flakeey: hello fruitful ladies and happy new week.

Pink 22 is very correct IRO the vitamins, weldone sis *kisses*

@Mstia, tnx dearie for checking up on us, we wish you safe delivery, good health for mum and baby (ies)

welcome our newbies, you will get ur bfps sooner than you hope for.

Alwaystrue, thanks abunch for the word of exhortation, God will increase you on every side.

mamaT, you can run but you cant hide, you berra show ur pretty face b4 we deploy army to come and bundle you from your hiding *lol*

sending my love to u all, safe, chil6, lizzyslaw, muma, omonikiba, adedoyinsola, igabe, santagelo, zeezy, beetle and other fruitful ladies that i cant name them now.

safe06: [color=#990000][/color]@pink22,see as akamu don dey hungry м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊ now,kai.
@omonikiba,u wee not tell us abi?nd I wee not talk to u again. #crying n licking d cattarh from my nose#
@adedoyinsola,where af u bin?u think u can walk out n in anytime u like abi? Ko da oooo. Ati mils yin na. Don't worry,u shall av cause to celebrate bfor diz year runz out. Amin.

Chokl8y: I just remembered. He also said that our tears dnt move God. If God was moved by tears, so many people in this world will not be suffering. The bible says, without FAITH it is IMPOSSIBLE to please God. Whether you cry from today till Jesus comes, you will only give yourselves swollen eyes, puffy faces and headache. All we need is to keep declaring God's words concerning our lives without doubting for a second. The bible says in Rom 4 vs 17

 17  (As it is written, I have made thee a father of many nations,) before him whom he believed, even God, who quickeneth the dead, and calleth those things which be not as though they were. note

 18  Who against hope believed in hope, that he might become the father of many nations; according to that which was spoken, So shall thy seed be.

NOTE! 19  And being not weak in faith, he considered not his own body now dead, when he was about an hundred years old, neither yet the deadness of Sarah's womb:

NOTE THIS PART! 20  He staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief; but was strong in faith, giving glory to God;

 21  And being fully persuaded that, what he had promised, he was able also to perform.

 22  And therefore it was imputed to him for righteousness.

Read the whole of Rom 4 and you'll see that we might be the ones standing in the way of our miracles. Just believe and doubt not, whatever we see. Do you know that praying for something over and over again is a big sign of unbelief? It means we dnt believe God heard us and did it the first time. Before we were even born, Jesus said It is finished! It means God has finished doing everything for us, it is left for us to make those things come to us through faith and confession.

So my dear Ladies, I have decided not to pray or ask God for children again. I'll pray for everyone else in the world and the challenges facing Nations and the Church (body of Christ). As for my babies, I am only thanking God for they are here already and I'll keep confessing that!

favored gal: Yesterday I got very bad appraisals at work. A "'. I have never gotten even a C in my 7 years of work so I felt enraged like my boss was picking on me. However, on getting home my hubs said he believes I deserve a 'D' that iv become a different,distracted, distant and unrecognizable person in recent times and went on to list a whole list of my wrongdoings

I was angry with him for not suppporting me but the more I think about it the more I realize they are all right

Ttc has changed me, for the first time in my life I'm failing,and I can't seem to help myself. I'm failing at concieving, I'm failing at my marriage, I'm failing at my job. I can't seem to get anything right anymore.
I don't know how to handle failure.

I'm so tired, I'm unmotivated, I'm frustrated, I think I'm tending towards depression. You know, like an out of body moment, I see myself spiralling down a dangerous path and I feel helpless to help myself or even pray or even encourage myself

safe06: [color=#990000][/color]napa,how are U̶̲̅ feeling now?y not take pain reliever?plz be strong ok?its well with U̶̲̅. Amin. I no want triplets for u ooo,twins don do u,and na havard I want make u send dem go,n to school in havard no be beans. Lolz.
@mystia,happy belated bornday,wishing u d very best diz age gats to offer. Evry prayer u made yesterday shall b answered by d grace of God. Amin
@hawtmummiliscious,eku ojor meta,tanx for hailing jere,u try. For checking on м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊,lemme scabash ontop ur head diz morning,may u suffer from morning sickness bfor the year runz out,may d scan show u are expecting twins(boy n girl),may financial favours start coming u way(make u buy strictly mother care n huggies for twins dem). Amin.
@lizzyslaw,did u say "but y" in igbo assent?lolz,no mind м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊. Good things don't come easy,ur babies are going to be great,so be patient enof to receive them when God says its time.
@adedoyinsolililala,ur own testimony iz at d corner,just clocking 30 by july?God will embarass u with d news of a healthy baby on ur birthday(dnt mind I dint pray for twins for U̶̲̅ oo),u will b eating white chalk to stop ur throwing up instead of eating birthday cake. U̶̲̅ are a conqueror babes. Be strong nd have faith.
@wonyiyi,its well with u.
@goldenbaby,dats d spirit,be positive.
@all,we cannot afford to loose faith now,let's shame the devil. Sparkling baby dust on us all.

cjnone2000@yaho:
@adedoyinsola. Can't wait to respond to ur post. how long hv u been ttc?. sorry if that got u sad. I have a aunt who was ttc for 20yrs. throughout that 20yrs, there was no Af. in the 18th yr of ttc, she adopted a baby girl. very beautiful/sweet girl. within few months of adopting that girl, God opened her womb. she conceived and gave birth to twins last year, a girl and a boy. what can this God not do. can you imagine what this lady went through within these years? may God not allow us wait this long.(Amen)
God is so faithful, he can never allow us go through what is more than us. A colleague told me a story yesterday. She said a lady in her village was so old that everyone thought she will NEVER marry. despite her single life, she was a devoted christian. long story cut short, God gave her a handsome man who had never married before, within three months of her marriage, she conceived and gave birth to triplets, as if that was not enough, she conceived again and gave birth to another triplets. God settled her for all those wasted years. What can God not do. it is not how far, but how well. What kind of children do you want? destiny changers, world hero's or just anyhow child?. God is preparing the best for you. just hold on to faith. ttc will soon pass away. your mother gave birth, your ground mother did, your siblings have also given birth so you are not exceptional. God is fighting your battles. clean your tears. look around you dear, most of your mates are not yet married, some are dead, some have one challenge or the other, non is without problem. cheer up, its well. hugs love.

MamaTriplets: Hi Mothers of Nations. ℓ̊ want to speak to a discouraged sister. You are tossing and turning on Ɣ☺ΰr bed, not able to sleep. You have called on God and don 'everything' possible to be a Mother. Praised, Prayed, Fasted, Read the Word, Sowed Seeds, Vowed, Medicals and many more. But it seems not to be happening and you are loosing hope. You are saying silently 'how could this be'. Will it ever happen? God is saying to You today that 'This too shall pass'. Baba says All We need are Intercessors that will stand in the gap, He says He speaks and we hear but we doubt. Retrace Ɣ☺ΰr steps today, get on Ɣ☺ΰr kneels at Ɣ☺ΰr Altar of Prayer. Y☺ΰr Babies are Already with you, Our God will give Ɣ☺ΰ divine direction on how to ©º♏Є Out of this Situation and You shall be VICTORIOUS!!!

Pink22: Father, as Your children, we come to You and remind You that we have been redeemed from the curse of the law and You have promised us all the blessings of Abraham. We are in a covenant with You and we expect You to fulfill the conditions of that covenant.
Father, we desire to have a babies, and since Your Word says that children are a gift from You, we expect to have normal, healthy babies. Since we have been redeemed from the curse, we expect to carry our child full term. Your Word says You will bless the fruit of our wombs, and Your Word says we will lose none of our young by miscarriage or be barren and that You will keep us safe through childbearing. Since we are no longer under the curse, we will be able to have our children the way You originally planned for Eve to have children—free from pain and suffering and pangs and spasms of distress. So we expect these children to be brought into the world quickly and with no pain. We believe we will feel the contractions but will feel no pain. We believe, according to Your Word, that we will have a beautiful pregnancy with no suffering during it.
Thank You, Father, for hearing and answering our prayers and for faithfully watching over Your Word to perform it. We know You have given Your angels charge over us to accompany and defend and preserve us in all our ways.
Now, Satan, you hear the Word of God. We speak it to you and command you to take your hands off us, God’s children, in the Name of Jesus. We break all assignments you have put up against us and forbid you to hinder this pregnancy or childbirth in any way. We bind you, and the Word of God declares that whatever we bind on this earth is bound in heaven, and whatever we loose is loosed in heaven. And we loose the peace of God to flood our hearts right now, in Jesus’ Name.
Thank You, Lord, for hearing and answering our prayers. We love You and we appreciate You and look forward to seeing this precious little love that You have especially picked out for us

lets pray and confess all these. Our God is faithful

cjnone2000@yaho:
@all. how una dey
I hear something yesterday. I fear but I no run oooo
A good friend of mine opened up to me yesterday. she gave birth last year after some years of ttc.
she told me yestaday that she has a solution to my problem if I get heart. me wey get heart pass zuma rock. I ready as long as no be bad tin.
The lady told me she has a woman fertility specialist who resides in PH. that the woman will give me herbs to carry belle within 3 months inrespective of what my fertility issue is. that if I carry the belle, scan will not see the belle, no antenatal, if my dh give me money for antenatal, I should just come and relex in her house cos there is no need. The herbs will cost N340,000.00 while the cost of delivery ranges from N500,000 - N600,000.00 depending on the sex (f/m. She said the belle no go show within the first four months and might just show small after 5 months. that I must go to PH to deliver the baby in the womans hospital. that I might not be able to breast feed the baby cos my milk may not flow well. she went ahead to give me instance with close friends who has done it & has 3 - 4 kids now through the same woman. I was transfixed at a spot after hearing this. which belle scan no go see. my dh that has been rehearsing how to hear the sound of his child inside womb. He is ready to follow me to any hospital as long as it has to do with his child. how I go do. my ppl we sabi, I fear, but I no run.

Pink22: Ok here goes the list:
Pink22
MamaTriplets
Alwaystrue
JoesQ
Adedoyinsola
Echala
Skimpychick
Godiyaalways
profeseur
omonikiba
Ipio
chi16
flakeey
Ebony
favored gal
chidima
wonyi
beloved1993
Hawtmummie
sen.tempest
Enaeni
kaynee
Blessedmom
Beetle
shiloh
tokerom
swit2have
bededlolo
Gr8babe
Uteh
Golden777
Slimphemmie
Redeemersave
Globusacb
Mrskemi09
Nguf
Greenfruits
Memyselfandi
Loliporp
heknowsmyname
July16th
Onyekaogu
Accutategirl
lanjum
Aladunni
kike100
zeezzy
Marygold
Rocksqueen
RolaRayo
Udoka
Napa
Santagelo25
lizzyslaw
ladyGuinivere
safe06
Muma
Rainyday
chok18y
phewme12
twingirls
nictos
dreasinbc
naffysa
joyfullmum
Maureen44
sorire
Oct 20
cjnone2000@yaho
waistbead

had to bring it to this page to make it easier for every one. You girls have been chatty lately b4 u know now na page 500 we go see. Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaad babes wey don spoil, una morning
me i don my bedroom bulb to RED hehehehehhe wahala dey
oh and happy new month. In this month of March we shall March into our bfps IJN

Beloved1993: @zeezy and waistbead, don't disturb dh o, wetin me I go talk, me that I'm OB/GYN and can't get pregnant. I went for a naming last year and the imam was talking about drs that deliver babies and don't have their own. I wanted the ground to swallow me that day. I got so depressed I didn't work for months. I asked God if He will let me become a laughing stock in town. I actually thought abt changing professions. I have put all that behind and planning on doing fellowship to become an RE. If not for ttc I never thought of becoming RE.
Olorun lo n somo ( its God that gives), not Drs. If not, Drs won't have infertility.

Dreamsinbc: 27th of March-BFP announcement, 5th of November-birth of the twins, Zikora and Zulito

safe06: [color=#990000][/color]@twingirls n hawtmummie,yes ooo,
@ebiprecious,ok,gud to know d docs certified u just.ok.com,oya just free yasef from all meds,nd eat healthy,exercise well,and den bd regularly,then u top up with prayers,ur babies no far again,dem go soon come knock. Amin.
@all,av u babes ever thought of fixing a romantic colored light bulb in ur room instead of d usual yellow n white?abeg make we try d red or blue,and let dat one remain on when we dey beat dh for bed,make him dey see our facial expressions as we dey speak in tongues yle bdancing,as for м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊ bfor show start I dey do strip dancing,if to say pole dey my house I for dey do pole dancing sef,bur for now na wall dancing. Lolz. And not to forget to keep thanking our dh's for their love n support all thru.

Chokl8y: Awww...thank you too for reading. My mum's story always assures me that everything will always work out for my good. Me too, I have stopped crying. It does not change anything...:-)

Kaynee: Good morning Fruitful ladies. I thank the Lord God Almighty for yet another week. For the fact that we are alive is a testimony my dear sisters. There is hope in the very near future. Remember Christ in you is the hope of Glory. I stumbled on this while browsing and decided to share it. No knowledge is lost.
"OLIVE OIL, HONEY AND MUSTARD SEED MIXTURE FOR THE TREATMENT OF INFERTILITY IN WOMEN
Extra virgin olive oil can be use for the treatment of infertility in both men and women. Most infertility cases are as a result of hormonal problems, 40% of infertility in woman can be traced back to not having enough hormones in the system which could be referred as to having a hormonal imbalance. I can’t be called a gynecologist or a medical practitioner but the purpose of writing this hub is to share my experience with those who may be going through infertility, and also out of my 7 years childlessness experience and how I got pregnant through the use of extra olive oil, honey and mustard seed.
Before Using Extra Virgin Olive Oil for the Healing Of Infertility
I got married in the year 2001 to my hubby, after the wedding we had so much plans which includes raising our own family immediately, but these plans was putting into standstill as a result of childlessness. As the days roll into months I began to get worried of what could be the cause of me not getting pregnant. I could no longer enjoy my marriage due to infertility, I was worried, devastated and feel rejected in fact I almost opted out of the marriage just to save my face. The steps below are the steps I took while trying to get pregnant.
Steps I Took To Get My Infertility Healed
In the year 2003 I went for an infertility test which prove that I was 100% ok to pregnant at any time I wish to, but after a year passed by and no pregnancy I went for another test hoping to hear what the real cause is, at this particular test I was tested of having hormonal imbalance which is the reason why I have not gotten pregnant. On the 3rd of March 2005 I was placed on hormonal drugs which were supposed to last for 6months. After the 6months have elapse yet no pregnancy I lost all hope of ever getting pregnant again I went back to the clinic on Nov 8th 2005 to seek for medical advice, on getting to the clinic I was told that the medication would continue at least for 2years before any other kind of medication would be prescribed again.
Devastated I left the clinic about to board a taxi when I bumped into an old school friend of mine who happen to be at my wedding, she asked after my husband and kids which I told her that I have no kids at present, I also told her that the reason of my visiting the clinic was due to my inability to get pregnant. In fact I narrated my ordeal to her and she told me to see her the next day, when I got to her place the next day she introduced me to a trado-herbal medical practitioner who ran another test on me and told me that actually the problem was really due to hormonal imbalance which could be corrected or enhanced if am ready to go through a therapy called the olive oil, honey, mustard seed therapy. He also told me that if I can follow his prescriptions very well that by the grace of God I would get pregnant.
When I left the trado-medical center I just told myself that am not going to fall to this kind of treatment, in fact I was not too sure if I was really going to get pregnant by just using ordinary extra virgin olive oil, I was expecting something else not this. So I never went back to the trado-medical doctor again.
The next year being 2006 I traveled to another city, my husband was transferred so I have to move with him, on getting there one of my husband’s colleague who happens to be a family friend promised to introduce us a someone who would run test on both of us to know the real cause of the infertility, so another test was run and yet another confirmation of hormonal imbalance, I was placed on yet another hormonal drugs, yet no pregnancy occurred after one year of using it. After that particular treatment I stopped taking any other form of treatment from anyone who claimed to have the right kind of medications for me.
Then on the 6th of May 2008I was introduced to a lady who also came from a different city to work in that particular city. She was not a medical doctor neither was she a gynecologist, but she was a woman who stayed for 10years in marriage without a child. We talked on length and I asked her what she did to overcome her own side of infertility, she told me that the problem she was having was also hormonal imbalance that prevented her from getting pregnant all those years of childlessness. She now told me of how she got her healing through olive oil, honey, mustard seed therapy, I was shocked at first because I have asked to go through that same therapy before 3years back which I refused so hearing that she got her healing and hormonal corrections through the use of that same therapy I almost screamed.
THE EXTRA VIRGIN OLIVE OIL THERAPY AND ITS HEALING PROCESS AND HOW I GOT PREGNANT THROUGH IT
After that chat with this lady I rushed immediately to get an extra virgin olive oil, honey and mustard seed. I already knew how to prepare the mixture for the therapy, so that was not a problem.
Remember that I rejected this same treatment before but now I just want to try my luck and see if I would have the same result as the lady I spoke with after all am the one who is going to prepare the olive oil mixture; so I mixed the olive oil as directed;
Directions: Ferment about 100grams of mustard seed with 25cl original honey for 2days then on the second day mix the fermented mustard seed and honey with a bottle of 75cl extra virgin olive oil allow to soak for another 24 hours. Take 3spoonful of the mixture first thing in the morning and last thing at night for at least 6months.
After I took the olive oil mixture for 3 months I almost got discouraged but for my husbands continuous encouragement by the end of the fourth month I missed my period, at first I did not want to go for a pregnancy test but on a second I went for a pregnancy test on the 15th of October 2008 only for the result to confirm that am pregnant, my joy knew no bound after 7years am going to be a mother. I began all the necessary preparations for welcoming my baby like buying the baby cribs, infant shoes, baby walker, baby cradle and the rest of them.
On June 2nd 2009 I gave birth to a bouncing baby boy. As I hold him in my arms my joy knew no bound, I was fulfilled. Now as I looked back and ponder what would have happened if I have not refused to take that olive oil mixture at first I would have been a mother of 5years old kid, but in all I still thank God for giving me this wonderful gift of life. You too can be a mother only if you give this a trial, all the ingredients are natural and so have no side effect. And you can prepare this at home following the procedures and quantity prescribed above.
Please always consult with your medical practitioner for advice.
Source (http://bittenonce.hubpages.com/hub/OLIVE-OIL-HONEY-AND-MUSTARD-SEED-MIXTURE-FOR-THE-TREATMENT-OF-INFERTILITY-IN-WOMEN)
You can as well google for more information on Olive oil and mustard seed theraphy with honey.


hmmmmmm i think everybody on dis trend sld try dis o.......@kaynee thanks a bunch for dis knowledege shared,....but plsss do u knw where i can get mustard seed asap i mean now now

Chokl8y: Ok @ Muma, no wahala. I'll just search till I see it.

My 2cents... My mum got married at the age of 26 to a man who started abusing her emotionally. She said it got to level that when he comes back from work, her heart will skip several beats at the sound of his car horn. She did not get pregnant and started going from one hospital to the other.

After a while, 5 years later, when the stress, shame and abuse got too much, with the help of her sister, she got the courage to file for divorce. At this time, she did not even have money cos she had spent all on treatments and she moved out of his house. That was when she met my dad. She was on her way to east to see if she could beg any of her brothers for money. They both boarded the same bus.

Initially when my dad tried to chat her up, she was not interested because she had a lot on her mind including the fact that she was trying to get divorced. She told him straight up that she was too much baggage and he couldn't handle her...lol, she dint even wait to see if it was just an innocent chit chat. Ha! Women.... Anyway, My dad then asked her, if she had any terminal illness. With a mixture of anger and amusement, she told him her whole story without leaving any details cos she was sure he would run.

They talked through out the journey and when they got to where he would drop, (he dropped first), My dad gave her his card and told her to check him up when she gets back to Lagos. (No GSM then). She took the card and shoved it in her bag. While in the east, she told her sister about the funny guy she met and how they talked all the way from lag to the east. But that she wasn't interested. Her sis, the one who encouraged her to get the divorce, told her to make sure she looked for my Dad. She agreed half-heartedly.

Well, she did not get enough money for a good lawyer so she returned to Lag. And forgot about my Dad too. :-( . One day, while going through her stuffs, she saw the card and decided to check him up. At least she needed someone to talk to.

Long story short, they started dating. My dad went to see her mum and brothers. They did their introduction. He hired a lawyer. He wasn't very rich then so it was an amateur they could hire. Meanwhile, my mum's rich ex-husband got a good lawyer and refused to grant her the divorce claiming that she had gotten married while they were still married. This was three years after she first filed for divorce. He kept trying to frustrate her.

As God did it, she was already heavily pregnant with her first child...EVER. The Judge said her ex had won the case but He was granting her the divorce based on the fact that he could see she was suffering so much pain and that her ex was just trying to intimidate her.

Finally, she married my Dad and they went on to have four beautiful, intelligent, good children, including me...hehehehe...

Forgive me, I wanted to write a brief story but I love my parent's story. I have heard it, from my dad like twice and from my mum, for like a million times but I love hearing it again.

So my point is, having children is not the end... What kind of environment will they grow up in? Will you be of sound mind and body to raise them properly in the fear of the lord?

On the order hand, it is not easy, Cjnone. I know that. I mean, 6 years of ur life is not beans especially at ur age when you would have thought you'd be settled and taking care of ur kids. But God is never too late. He might not come at your time, but He will come at the right time. My mum, told me that if she had even had one child for that man, she would never have left him even if he wanted to kill her because she never wanted to be a single mum. Imagine that kind of life.

My dear, be strong. Things can turn around in a twinkle. Even ur hubby can change. I mean the heart of a king is in God's hands... Enough of my sermon. May God give you strength and wisdom to make the right choice. And may you receive Grace to conceive. AMEN!!!!

cjnone2000@yaho:
@zeezzy, my dear, just be happy and keep the hope alife. yes its not easy.
I had to stop my professional exam on the way last two yrs cos of lack of consentration due to ttc.
Do you know I hve been ttc for almost 6yrs. never been pregnant nor miscarried, above 35yrs?.
DH at a time went home behind to get his parents consent to marry another woman.
l heard about it from a close family member. DH that use to be loving and carrying
is now abusive physically and emotional. thought of leaving him on several ocasions.
come to think of it, actor no dey die. am an actor, I must see the end of the fight.
The devil is just a bastard. be happy my love. God is on the throne.
Am now a strong woman. never allowing anything give me stress.
l will go back to everything, studies, friends & relatives I have abandoned due to the stress of ttc.
clean your tears my love. put the devil to shame. let your enemy do the crying hencefort.
its well. no retreat, no surrender until God answers.