ubunja:
Maximum respect for taking out time to put your opinion in a clear and calm manner.

This is the post in question for anyone who needs to know: https://www.nairaland.com/5520205/ubunjas-miseducation-chosen

Let's get to it:


The issue I see here is that you don't have a Clear understanding of what a Green Light is.

The most common Green Light is when a girl keeps looking your way for no apparent reason. Over and over. And sometimes you catch her looking at you. Or when you look at her, her face has just turned away to escape your look.

That's a green light.

Second is a smile that again comes from nowhere. But is so subtle that sometimes you're not sure if it was a smile or if you're sure it was a smile you think that maybe it wasn't meant for you. Ever seen a girl smile at you and you look behind you thinking that maybe she's smiling at someone behind you, cause for sure you don't know that girl and you see no reason why she should be smiling at you? Yeah that kind of smile. It's a green light.

Now, don't tell me you can never have the opportunity to see these things.

And of course you've to take context in account.

In any case, a future writeup will deal with the issue of green lights in depth. Their history, type and degrees of seriousness.




No, you don't have to approach a girl first to see a green light. A green light is not a kiss or sex.

But Yep, Green Lights by nature are NEVER 100% clear. You got that right. And why are they never 100% conclusive?

Its a defense strategy for the woman.

E.g A girl comes up to you at work to admire your shirt and touches the fabric as if to feel the quality. THAT'S A GREEN LIGHT. That touch/contact is a green light. But so you don't call her a ho, the touch comes in disguise of checking out your shirt quality. If the girl just straight-up touched you, you'll freak out. So she hides the touch behind a legitimate and real reason: to feel your shirt quality. That way, if you're clever you catch the message. If you're slow it's an opportunity lost.

Same thing when a woman calls you to "fix her TV". She wants you in her house. The TV is just a cover. If you're slow in Game, you'll fix her TV and go. But a Player reads between the lines and knows what's up.

Why does she need a real, concrete reason for you to be in her house? So if someone comes unexpectedly, she has a real, concrete reason for your presence in her house. So she's protecting her reputation.

Now, this is why Green Lights are never 100% clear. It's a defense mechanism. Just in case....

As a player you must add two or more hints to make sure you're being given a green light or not.

Eg. She asked you to her house to fix her TV? Then when you got there she changes into revealing clothes saying "it's hot", then she keeps commenting on your biceps, and keeps asking you why she never seen you with a girl? All these hints added together = a Green Light. It confirms everything beyond doubt.


So what are we saying? Green Lights are never conclusive as a defense mechanism for a woman. And most cases you must add two or more hints to judge beyond doubt its a Green Light you're being given. But at times you've to run with a single hint. Cause sometimes that one hint will be super bright.



What's the point of claiming abundance when out of the 50 girls you'll blindly approach a week only 3 will respond positively? And how many girls do you really need??

On an average day I personally get minimum 2 women that give me "the look" that says "I find you likeable". Now, if I acted on these daily, already I would be dealing with an abundance of women every week.


Problem is that guys don't know what to look for that tells them girls like them.

And they fear if they wait for the women to choose them, they might wait for ever. But that's not true. Women are always choosing men cause women don't all like the same type of man physically.

Also guys fear waiting to be chosen means they'll be chosen by low quality Women. That's true. And there are two solutions to this: 1. Attack and devour these low quality women and use them as practise and to grow your self esteem. 2. Work on upgrading yourself. Something as simple as new clothes and hitting the gym elevates your Sexual Market Value and catches the eye of higher quality women....

Let me stop here for now.


God bless you

ubunja:
Remember by "boring" she means PREDICTABLE.

While you are right to an extent to think "drama" will not make you boring, the true opposite of the word "boring" is not Drama but excitement. What your girl needs is excitement but excitement rooted in you being unpredictable.

Also remember what women call Predictable the rest of us call "normal". To a girl going to work Monday to Friday is boring. Because its normal. And predictable. However The stuff that truly excite women will get you arrested. Because many times it's not normal or legal. That's why women love criminals. And that's why those criminals are always in and out of jail.

Instead of seeking to bring Drama focus on being Unpredictable. In sex. In everything you do. Your GF must not think she has you "figured out". That will be the end of you. For you have become boring to her. Maintain mystery and don't have patterns she can read easily.

Also, Remember women love the "strong silent type" of man. Because it gives them that job they love of trying to suss you out and understand you. So always say less that necessary. Leave her to fill in the gaps. She loves doing this. That's why women will discuss their men for ages. So don't fully explain yourself to her. Let her explain you to herself.

Being unpredictable in sex is easy, just be experimentative with her in the bedroom. That will ensure you're never boring. Always seek out new things to do with her.

ubunja:
good to know. And I hope you're fine.