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InvertedHammer:
OP

Stop deceiving yourself. There is no formula for marriage. Pious, educated, successful, handsome and even losers have failed in marriages equally.

When two adults raised from different family backgrounds and beliefs come together, there is bound to be clashes. The way the clashes are handled will determine if the marriage will survive or not. It is not by sex, education, height, appearance and other mundane things you ignorantly ascribe to marriage.

Marriage is tough
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espritsaint:
hello sweetee,since u guys have been married for 6yrs and and all this while that u hv been talking, i hv not heard about menstration ,period ,pregnancy and i hv children for him.....so i deduce that something is wrung wit you
1) Either both of you are not compatible to each other
2)Or your hole i mean the only hole that you knw that lead the seventh heavens has swallowed his dick i.e it hs made it to shrink (making de man's bangala not to stand again ) so closely to him explain to him
infact you said u were virgine when you guys mate for the first time together .so tell me did you marry him or he married on high purchased...
A QUESTION: So girls do you really think that there is any man who can get married to a virgine withot apprciatting her each minute,each hour.for ,i don't tinc so .. so be sincere to yourself my dear and tell us the whole story.....

2sureguy1:
Sex na food?..................afterall, u said u r a virgin till marriage...........go bak 2 ur old ways, or u find som1 2 lubricate ur vessel..............mtcheeeeww, sex addict.




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gleatz:
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Hope I was able to help

Toks2008:
Thanks sis.

I really dont know what to say and sometimes i get angry with myself for been too assuming to foolishly waste over 12years of my life with a lady who turns out to be clueless and disoriented.

Imagine her telling me she would have stayed if there was a child or children between us? this was a lady i impregnated when she was 19 and the baby was aborted and since then was unable to get pregnant for me till she left after 12yrs yet i remained faithful amidst pressures from people that i try another lady.

You can see that sometimes those guys that break ladies heart were once great lovers but it was actually a lady that made them become who they turn out to be.

If i were not a believer in christ,i will simply start living a reckless life because i dont think till i grow old i will ever truly love again except the lady really gives me reason to.

Im even fed up to woo a lady and at my age i cant possibly waste time wth dating or courtship I just thank GOD for the holy spirit in me else i would have turned into a reckless and heartless philanderer because its really not worth it to be a faithful lover as many ladies value bad guys over good ones.

dayo23:
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Mekybliss:
I hope he won't be wearing that this favorite cloth again please

ugwunneB:
seriously i love this woman alot, she remain one great woman who stode by her husband all through the stormy period dats is one thing we wnt forget in a hurry




love u mama peace and we miss u the action first lady

iPopAlomo:
You didn't elaborate nah... you just said it comes naturally...

And to be sincere... even if I was married I wouldn't advice couples... they sometimes won't tell you what really went down... best is to sympathise with them...

iPopAlomo:
What comes naturally... killing myself...?!

Toks2008:
Asides several underlying reasons, i believe my wife left because she wanted to see life apart from me. I met her say on her 19th birthday and of-course i am her very fist man in all ramifications and im sure you understand what i mean but when she clocked 30 she left after series of rantings that she feels caged and that she has spent all her life with me and since i kindda feel that it seems most women if not all really want to experience this thing called free life,i had to let her go.

This is why i believe that its better to marry a lady who has had experience in the field of relationships because i have come to realize that no matter how cute you may be as a man or woman,no matter how rich,romantic or faithful you can be, if you date or marry a total newbie,he or she is most lijkely to stray because they will always believe there is something better out there.

In-fact she told me that she stil loves me but i should just give her space and this i can't reconcile so i had to let her be for the sake of my life.

I never called anyone a fool but i said it will only be a foolish woman who will leave her hubby cos he cheated on her except she wants to remain single forever because there is no guaranty that the next 100men she will date afterwards wont cheat on her.

Shey you get?its simple logic

Toks2008:
[b]I remember writing on a previous thread that 99% of men will cheat on their wives no matter what and some people were asking for my head.

I am not a philanderer and i had never cheated on my lady of 12 years when we were still together but please please every lady should get this fact clear,men are polygamous by nature and there is nothing any lady can do about this.

What you should concern yourself with are:

1. Are you the main lady or the side lady?
2.Does he love you and if asked to choose one lady will he choose you?
3.Is he using protection with the other ladies?

Look here ladies, only a foolish woman leaves her hubby because he cheats on her and i repeat ONLY A BLATANT FOOL OF A LADY LEAVES HER MAN BECAUSE HE CHEATS ON HER.

There is no guaranty that the next 100 men you will be with will not cheat on you so live with the hard fact and concern yourself with more important aspects of life like giving your life a meaning and if you have children just divert all your love on them and se that hubby of yours as a sex partner then and only then you will have happiness in your marriage.

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iPopAlomo:
You nailed it... you couldn't have said it better... but all these women no dey hear word...

between... one million likes for you...

just dey watch ooO... all of them way dey talk say make she divorce am never fix their own marital issues and the rest of them never marry...

I've said my own... I can never advice a married couple... na 'eh ya' 'Pele' I go dey talk...

afterall when I toast am... she no gree...

joek:
How do I explain my own predicament? My wife denies me sex each tyme we quarrel. We have two kids. I am trying so hard not to start cheating.

SAMBARRY:
Ruth abokoku die with him na. Shebi na your cross, carry am on your head like cross of calvary till you start depending on drugs to suppress your hiv.



Some of your mates wey tow your line dey Victoria garden cemetery. After 2 years remembrance they're histor






She will not die in Jesus mighty name I pray, I feel deeply for her and I know that she is a good wife and mother, God will keep her safe and sound regardless.

SAMBARRY:
Ruth abokoku die with him na. Shebi na your cross, carry am on your head like cross of calvary till you start depending on drugs to suppress your hiv.



Some of your mates wey tow your line dey Victoria garden cemetery. After 2 years remembrance they're histor

She will not die in Jesus mighty name I pray, I feel deeply for her and I know that she is a good wife and mother, God will keep her safe and sound regardless.

Austin4lif:
stop discussing ur family issue with the whole of Nigeria. Don't you have a pastor or ur Rev. Father? Don't u have respected people in ur family. Madam Nairaland or social network is not a place to go for marriage counseling.

Kegite:
He should have beaten the foolishness out of you.
You are not worthy to be a mother.
Why won't you let him take care of his children while you party away with your younger boyfriend ??
Why would you take his wallet ??
Why would you engage him in a fist fight ??
I would encourage him to hit you on a daily basis so you can regain your sanity.
Foolish woman