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Eniola fatmus weldone ooo with your ugly nose ring...Happy birthday...

raayah:
From birth, clippers, sharing needles , Sleeping with other men ..

Na wa oo... thanks for d info.

Ok

raayah:
Probably you might be right but its almost unheard of to get hiv from a woman.

So how do men get hiv.

MKO4ever:
To the parents out there,
-get close to your children especially the female children,
-know what is going on in their lives
-gain their trust and make them have confident in you
Most likely this girl would have reported this situation, if there was enough closeness with her father

Fathers' sef hmm! May God help this lil girl o.

Na wa oo..

Truckpusher:
The only thing that your father owes you in this life is quality education according to what he can provide and your right to grow up as a responsible child any other thing is a gift and not your right.......Think on how you can be better than your father and not living off


your father's wealth.

The bible says that a good man/father leaves an inheritance for his children. Check an well.

5minsmadness:
Hehehehehe
Good one!

It seems his friends are also a major issue. Can't u find a way to keep him away from them? Don't do it directly cos it will have a negative result, rather insist on him being home early and raise hell if he isn't. OR Call him at odd hours when he's outside and send him message e.g "pls dear buy banana and groundnut for me on your way back. ". Tomorrow it could be 'since u r outside could u buy bread and garri on your way back, also add bathing soap cos the kids have not had thier bath... Etc"

Men HATE being sent messages like these but have no concrete reasons to refuse them. Soon he would prefer being at home early instead of letting u spoil his fun outside.

Na secret I don blow for u oh!

Your so right and funny too. Weldone

In tears...this is so touching, hubby of life pls hear him and hear him well o.

This is lovely. Thanks

byvan03:
The post was direct and simple for anyone that chose to read and comprehend it for what it is. You brought your what ifs dimensions which is of no relevance to my original post. My post talks of what is, not what ifs.

Where in my post did I write what ifs...na wa oo just leave matter it's ok.

J

byvan03:
In the right words, marry that friend and lover for starters, if change comes, take it from there but start with the right foundation first. We tend to disturb God a lot, his grace is already sufficient for all of us.

You don't get married to a beast because the friend and lover you could have married might eventually become a beast. Take each beautiful day of your life as it comes and don't live in "what ifs", what if this hideous change you anticipated never came? What if you live happily ever after? Are there no happily ever after? Did every marriage end in tales of woe? Do the right thing first, it's not your duty to sort out tomorrow, why worry about tomorrow when no one is guaranteed tomorrow?

Now your talking, your first post was too direct and u dint reason this way. We should always be positive and hope for better things, and also know how to embrace change and come out at the top.

byvan03:
Until women learn to marry their friends and not some psychologically stuck up old stick in the mud, woe shall continue to be their tales. Marry your friend and lover, period!

In order words your friend and lover cannot stop being ur friend and lover after marriage... it's only God that gives us grace everything can change just pray it wont.

[quote author=TV01 post=37589062]My views?

The wife is in serious dereliction of her duty. The expectation is;

1. She prepares all meals fresh in direct accord with his taste and preferences
2. She sets-up and serves him accordingly
3. She waits on him while he eats - being proactive in ensuring he has all he needs
4. She clears up at his prompting - although she should learn to take non-verbal cues here.
5. She presents warm soapy water for washing hands, followed by a scented towel for drying - he may prefer you to dry, verify this.
6. She should thank him for allowing her to be of service
7. She should make enquiry as to how she could have improved the service

I also think he's a bit slack for permitting this slovenly approach - give 'em an inch and they'll take a mile. As for "having other chores to attend to", what could take priority over serving your husband .

Arrant nonsense. A woman that loves and is committed to you will love to serve you. All these side-chicks masquerading as wives. Next she'll be asking for you to consider her needs during intimacy .



What if she has a new born to attend to ..I don't see anything wrong in the man dishing out his own food, it's the same man that will tell her the food is cold if she dishes it..do you know if she has a help? They should both try and compromise.

That's good.

As he thought she was a theif.. that statement is so funny en...so he never saw her without makeup before they got married...lol! She looks so pretty with makeup poor man.

Aptamil.

Lol!

She looks good....i just love her..

Suit yourself sir.

Tobium1:
Pls i'ld like to know how much was credited to ur acct for being Ftc

Jealousy!

Am happy am on front page... over to you guys...

Babies are not even spared.. so sad.

My I am lost for words...this is sad. Poor baby girl.

Lol! It's good oo.

I love babies....so happy for them.

Hmm! I am coming..

Happy married life... not loving d gown though.

Rosemary216:
Hehehehehehehhe... Dis z more serious dan i thought! I tink hvin a 'revenge sex' isnt really a good idea. I hv seen ppl who do it nd later feel disgusted @ wat dey did. I tink findin out y he does dat wud b a good start.

The question is How will she find out....seriously this is a tough one.

My babies oooo...