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Let me go n get mine fast.

Where is d lovely parents and family here.

For me, the longer you stay in marriage the more you learn even with set down rules we will all stumble over them.. the best medicine in marriage is love...love is the mother of kindness forgiveness long suffering patience and many more... a woman should love her inconsiderate husband endlessly and so should the man... imagine being kind to someone who hurts u daily...infact he or she does not notice your kindness because of their selfish heart.. but God does...so I want to tell u never be weary in doing good for you will reap the fruits of your labour, it shall never be in vain..

I want to use this opportunity to tell my hubby that spends all his time working and never has a little spare time for his family that I love him and maybe just maybe one day he will change but till then I shall not stop loving him or stop being a happy woman for him.

So true, even while making thier food the second hand is on the phone... sometimes kids misbehave when your own the phone. I still don't understand.

First to comment ooo... so this is the high introvert and Co have been getting. I don't care if this topic hits front page or not am just so happy that my sad day ended happily for me.

Nice idea, will give u a call.

martyns303:
Let me start by giving you guys a brief description of where I stay as it is a vital cue to this story. 


I live in a compound with other flats, where the shortest conversation between neighbours is "good morning" and the longest is "please come and move your car, I want to go out". It is the kind of compound where you go to bed with your generator on, only for you to wake up in the morning to find out that there had been light all through the night, and your neighbours had turned off their Gen without telling you. Don't tell me about the pains of child birth, there is nothing more painful than looking at your fuel gauge like "my precious". By now you guys get the message, in pidgin "nobody send you". 


Now back to me, I had just concluded a professional course and was just sitting at home waiting for something to come up, that is just a fancy way of saying am jobless. But I am not searching for one, so all you NL scammers gats stay off. Without anything to do, I sit at home watching movies, and just lazing around. "My grandma just died and I am the man of the house", actually my grandma died a long time ago, I only just got my own place now. With me staying at home while everyone else in the compound goes to work or a few people that don't, I see everything that goes on, making me the all seeing eye (nope I am not affiliated to the illuminati).


A couple of months ago a young couple moved into the compound, the girl looks 25 max while the guy looks 28, they seem happy and in love, but at least once every month I will hear the girl crying profusely, I would hear her crying and lamenting, saying things like Jesus ooo, God oooo, ehhhhhhh, God please help me, I can't take this anymore, ewoo, etc then I would hear her snapping her fingers. I am probably the most soft hearted male, cos I would be feeling really sad, I don't know what a soul is, but I feel really depressed and saddened in my soul each time. If you have watched titanic, the part where Jack placed Rose on the floating stuff, you can't control the tears rolling down ur cheeks or standing in your eyes, and that's how I feel hearing this girl cry like that. Sometimes her sister would come and this has been going on for months. 


Two days ago, I heard the wife crying again, and since my compound is where no one cares, nobody has ever bothered to go in and ask what's happening, but I have had enough and was ready to confront the guy, i am going to give him a piece of my mind and Damn the consequences, so on this day I walked into their flat, the parlour door was open so I just walked in, on getting in, I found the girl in pants and bra, with wrapper half way her stomach, the guy is sitting by her side with a side stool, on the floor are packs of medication, bottled water, what looks like custard and other stuffs. When I walked in that wasn't the sight I was expecting, I had hoped to see the guy beating the living day light out of his fiancee, and me yelling at him to stop. I may have been frozen for like 15 secs while I absorb what's going on. I managed to say a weak sorry, turned around and walked out. The guy followed me immediately and asked what I wanted, I explained to him how I had heard his fiancee crying and wanted to make sure she is ok. "She is fine, thanks for your concern" then walked away, I know he is pissed at me walking into their apartment like that, and even the worst, seeing his woman like that. Damn what was I thinking sef! 


When I got back to my flat, the movie felt sour, couldn't concentrate on anything, all I could think of is how I am going to compose my words and apologize to the guy and his fiancee. This morning I saw him washing his car, so I walked up to him and started reciting my memorized apology. Planning is the key people, cos with the way I said what I said it hit him cold. The guy started explaining what's going on to me without me even asking. Apparently that's how the fiancee gets into pains whenever it's that time of the month for her, he said the pains could be excruciating for her. He said it's a part of her he's only getting to know as they only moved in together a few months ago, he has advice her going to see a doctor but she rebuffed the idea saying it is a normal thing. He explains how he goes through sleepless nights, boiling water and putting it in a plastic bowl with cover so she can place it on the stomach, buying pain relieves, he mentioned quite a bit of pain relieves, but that they seem to do little. He felt bad cos he is now of the idea that the rest of the neighbors may also have the perception of him being an abusive guy without knowing what's going on, told me he had to take days off from work sometimes to stay with her and when he can't, her sister comes around. 


In my attempt to be nice, I had promised to find a solution to his problem. Don't blame me, at that moment I just want to be nice and get myself out of the mess I got in and appear a good friend. 


So please, if there is anyone out here who knows why this guy's fiancee is going through so much pains, and if it's normal, are there home remedies, herbs or medical prescriptions that could help her situation, please help a brother out. Dankie!!!


CC: lalasticlala u've got controls.
Ishilove please steer the wheels, front page is the destination.

Let him get her pregnant atleast twice.

Sometimes this marriage sef can tire person....only God can continue to give us grace

Chei...endtime is very near. God help us to train our children well oo.

Third partyish. Everything was good till mama came along. Never let anybody put u asunder.

MrCuddles:
This hall is booked for me, whizqueen and adesbreath to dance. No one is invited.

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Lol ooooooooo, oya carry go.

This is serious ooo.... women bear alot all in the name of marriage may God help us ooo. As for the man him reward dey front.

See as them stand out in beauty, did they purposely pick not too handsome grooms men?

I cannot oooo....i will have to turn the world upside down to find a solution for him ooo.... I cannot even tolerate bad smells.. it's just who I found myself to be. May God heal everyone out there with mouth odour.

I think you should just ignore her totally. Try and get someone to do the chores with you. I don't think she will ever change. Sorry about this.

I no fit talk...ah!

Oh! This is so sad... shez is just a baby...I don't even know what to say...chei.

This really got me laughing...my mum did all and still does. But I love my mum regardless.

ladyF:
Nothing there....whether front seat or back seat, I've got his heart!

hehehe It's [size=20pt]LadyF [/size] again

Na lie you talk jor....when d bae beauty pass your own you will be enraged d moment you see her at the side of your man.

MrCuddles:
Adesbreath when you are pregnant, will you do your own. Shebi you said what Kim K can do, you can do better

NB
Where are the Vaseline crew?

Lia Lia ooo..

Naija ooo

Just happy am on front page....in d spirit of front page like introvert n co.

demmy0325:
... See their chests sef.. ... Introvert.. See fresh chest..

Lol am laughing so hard, wetin concern introvert with fresh chest....lol... ur so damn funny....

ISILOVE

Yes ur so right but life is hard already, let's enjoy the part we can when they get where the storm is raging they either win or loose, and the circle of life begins again....it's good to enjoy every pre marriage anything cos when they both start seeing clearly it will take them a conscious effort to live with each others imperfections.... so ride on guys I wish u both a happy married life.

MrCuddles:
Really? Celebs live a fake life.

Don't mind dem, but he hold small sha

Lol! Nairalanders oo..

This is so funny, marriage can be difficult ooo.. May God help us all.

octus2008:
THAT IS HIS BROTHERS HOUSE PEOPLE FROM RELAIBLE SOURCES

Exactly its in Omole phase 2.

peppyluv02:
Well,I don't know but most women are in school of thought that no man is faithful.
So,in other words she's telling the b!tch who may be stalking her secretly that she is still hot for her hubby.

Lol! Good analysis.

peppyluv02:
Married women these days are trying so hard to remain sexy but over shooting it.
She's at the pool,ok to dress that way but what's the aim of sharing the pics? To compete with her husband's mistress?

Ah! Does he have one?