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Mercychen:
You're the one sounding miserable and I'm sure you're the loose type that end up as a single mother like her. So keep wailing.

Please this is with all due respect to responsible single mothers who became single mothers due to no fault of theirs. I'm not referring to you mothers. I'm reffering to the loose ones like this loose mouth here quoting me.

I'm done with you.

Buzz off!

Mercychen:
You even see someone willing to manage you sef after your ugly past, you want to leave him.
What wrong has he done?

He has children, you too have and he's not worried or putting pressure on you to have more. What else are you looking for?

He's even better than you because he was legally married and did what he did to save his lovely wife which further makes him a responsible and loving husband material but you with your ugly past are still the one trying to act the victim here. Unto what?

Your baby daddy that outrightly rejected you and your baby, what did you do to him?

Abeg shift and let the man be abeg. you don't deserve him.

lereinter:
What of that your ex bf girl that want to kill you

ehinmowo:
I don type insults b4. But I don dey old pass dt level.

You expect somebody to go and make his money and come and submit to you. And be killing himself to satisfy your broke ass puna?

Death to every simp!!

Oyindamolah:
Women, we want what we cannot give

Youngpo413:
You need a faithful man? Date the broke and ugly ones.....a rich man is hardly faithful,hoes will seduce him every now and then because of money...if he handsome join, OYO.

Justbehave:
Carry your wahala go. Cut him off as in? Are you doing him a favour? Why is that you ladies believe that your pussy is all you got to offer? Pls vamose from here. See you,as if you never cheated on him before. I know your type.Mark him always to put him incheck while you are busy gallivanting with other men.
I pity your simp of a bf who still answers your call late at night.

DMerciful:
Wetin you dey find you go see am!

Just a matter of time before you relax but you will surely relax!

DMerciful:
Why are you monitoring him upandan? Our forefathers married several wives without issues. Our generation is marrying one yet they wanna hold us by our neck. Relax!

DrFunmisticGlow:
Don't mind her, she's a pandering, male identified mammy. Let her go and date a broke guy. Mtcheeeeeeeeeew

Vinnie2000:
Just laughing@your Comment!
If you are a Poor Lady, don't live ur Life waiting for a Rich Guy to Marry you!

You will just Turn to Old Spinster For Nothing!!..

One of my Female always say 'I nor wan Suffer again' But She does not Have even 1 Boyfriend@28,29 yrs..
Waiting for 'Mr Rich and Handsome' When you are Poor and maybe Ugly!
Read the comment very well and see where I said I am working my ass out to escape from poverty before you tell me stories you cooked up in your head

You ladies Should be Wise ooo!

walkingshadow911:
aha! this one is beyond Lazarus o.
just imagine you in another state lol

olorun a wa pelu e

aminusodiq:
i just read your post.... The guy is actually telling u d truth... Its a mind game i play sometimes too... Its just a way to manipulate the mind using reverse psychology. Its easy and im glad u smart enough to decode. He should have told u d truth about the lady at the bar if he had no other plans. And when you realised.. The defense comes.

My solution
- hold on to him while you carefully scrutinize him. Ya'll don't recorgnize real and fall too much for emotions thats why its easier to manipulate you. Well,?money is still involved as you said you love lending him money. If he was a broke ass niggaaa. We wouldnt be here. Ya'll want guys that are heavens on earth and not the blunt one. Ive seen some guys who'd turn stupid just to have you fuckkeddd

- all in all... If u ever fall outta love with him... Tell him and break up rather than cheat and paying back... You increase you body count abd might end up cheating with more than one guy too... Cos its more of revenge than replacement!

- lastly... You can talk it out... Discuss and find a solution. One thing you should know is he'll never admit. I advice you forgive and ignore... While waiting patiently to get him by the balls
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dhiqson:
You my friend
You're a bastard!!!!! see me laughing like a doll here guy!!!!
Her writeup she loves lending him cause he triple folds it back to her
She's not a liability but she loves him cause he assists her financially these girls no go kill me

Demigod22:
Some guys are jobless sha, so he has the time to be updating you of every of his movement. From the church to the reception, for me, I will just tell you that I am attending a wedding. How the church and reception go is not necessary your business. I can only inform you that I am hanging out with my guys and I will be late, but sending you those pictures is not for me to do. We are not even married yet, I am sincere with my partner, but I have a life to live outside the relationship.

aminusodiq:
ur boyfriend is rich... Only rich niggas cheat and tell u to go Bleep yourself

DEMZEE:
All men cheat

Men and women cheat differently

Men just have sex while women cheat

Skullano:
Insecurity nah one problem we need to wave off maka our peace of mind.

advanceDNA:
I like you ..u no dey dey lose guard .
Your sense of detecting redflags is on beast mode....however, as impressive as that is...it could ruin your relationship if u talk Everytime u see one small thing...

Yes.. men like intelligent women..they say it all the time ....but they dont like women that always behave like FBI...seeing every little thing as possible redflags

U see malt in the pics...kásárá...no need to ask..that's not proof for anything..

He tells u where is going all the time..he didn't say so on one day ...Kásárá...

If a man is cheating, don't let him know u are on his rader and suspecting him...u may never catch him..all u'll see is insignificant signs that will make u look like a witch hunter and an alarmist when u complain...

Kásárá...he will get sloppy when he thinks you are not watching...

Hilariousthiago:
You have a great guy there, don't lose him with over-suspicion.

Magnoliaa:
Like Soko said sha, just play it cool. That's the thing about people who feel they are smart and want to play others with it. Like my mom do say, sense wey no reach 1, you still dey divide am, thinking you can fool others... You're good, you're okay, you have your money and values and you seem smart. Just watch how things play out and see what he'll do. Be unbothered about it and be chill. Don't act rattled. If you find out he's a cheat, then coolly cut everything off and give no room for disrespect.

Magnoliaa:
So why did he lie at first that it was just him and the guys?

Olumighty123:
Bro, you get wahala oo, you sha dey threaten the lady

PUSSYHOE:
I am not in pain.

awesonjr:
I feel you pain
use this akon song dey calm
Lonely, I'm Mr. Lonely
I have nobody for my own
Oh, I'm so lonely
I'm Mr. Lonely
I'm Mr. Lonely
I have nobody for my own
Oh, I'm so lonely

Truvelisback:
Ur own self dey ur body. So, a man can't hang out with his male friends and their gfs in peace, just because he is dating u? Haba! I don't blame u, i blamed him for being too sincere with u. People like u don't deserve a good man. U deserve a deceitful man.

lilvicky68:
Women always need financial support whether jobless or jobful