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Awon eeyan Lai Mohammed

We needed advice,you people are insulting each other

Zzor:
not for the public.

hummm

Zzor:
she has entered,she has entered,let her find a way to tame his randy husband,most women of these generation aint aware of the natural power they posses over men.No randy husband can survive me, you will become so responsible overnight

can you please shield more light on your statement?

She’s 27 ,married but no kids yet ,she lives so close to my house,last week she was down with malaria,after treatment,her parents said she should come over to there place (they lives in the same local government) for a week so as to have eyes on her till she gets better,maybe she has been stressing herself lately. Her husband came to visit her once but they do communicate on phone always.
Yesterday,the guy called her as usual and they exchanged pleasantries,the guy asked when she will be coming back home and she told him maybe next week Friday,few hours later she was called from her place of work that she should forward one important document into the office mailbox,she had to pick up her own spare key, rush down home to get the documents ,on getting home she met the husband at home which was quite usual,she rushed into the bedroom and found out that her belongings were no where to be found,both the shoes that she arranged on the shoe hanger,her clothes in the wardrobe,her framed pictures on the wall,her jewelleries box and all other things,she said she thought she entered into another apartment cause there was no trace of a woman living in the house ,the husband now asked her that why can’t she tell him she will be coming home when he called in the morning?
After lot of arguments on why will I take permission from you before coming home,the husband now opened the laundry basket,where he packed few of her things and then opened the store for her to see the rest of her belongings ,she bursted into tears and she packed everything together ,went to the junction to get a cab and moved everything back to her parents house while the guy was standing there doing nothing.
Few minutes later,he messaged her that her lack of patience will only ruin her,that he kept her things because a friend of him wanted to bring his girlfriend to the place ( can you see what some men took women for? Your friend is bringing in a woman and all you can do is to trash your own wife’s properties,who doesn’t know that it was just a lame excuse) he said will she leave the house if she already has kids? He has been apologising since then ,but she said she won’t go back to the house cause she already caught him cheating once before this incident,her parents said she should go back ,her husband said she should come back home but she’s insisting not to go back to where she doesn’t have respect.
I already told her that I will get back to her if I discussed the issue with my big family here,guys what do you think she can do now,the marriage is just eight months.

God bless you

Truvel:
He Is Just Being Childish. People Like Dis Don't Like Their Women Working Or Doing Anything To Get Money 4 Demselves. Dey Prefer Giving Money To Their Women So As To Av Control Over Dem.

you are right,we were having some conversations long time ago and he stylishly told me that men are to make money while women are to keep the house.
I’m having a second thought about the relationship now,cause I’m a type of woman that I can’t stay without working,I’m not used to that

RedPanthar:
Hope you both resolved it?

Yes ,thanks so much

Kobicove:
Rubbish!

Why is this lady not yet under arrest?!

The government imposed a curfew which you and your co-travellers disobeyed!

That is the reason why we have this calamity on our hands.

As a result of your disobedience of the government's order innocent lives have been lost and people's businesses have been wrecked rendering them bankrupt!!!

In the name that is above every other names,before the end of this month ,your family will weep over you,untimely death will be your portion,if you quote me,all what you labored for will perish in your sight before you die .

Neddstark:
Look at this retardded bastard and product of anal insemination. So Oyetola deserves to be killed by touts right? IF na your papa be Oyetola, you go dey yarn this? The were' in your family lineage is gradually entering into you and will soon turn full blown. Nincompoop

Hey fool
What do you have to say now?
Ogun will kill you

Neddstark:
This tortoise head should shut da Bleep up. Reason you're haunting the governor is not because of the police violence there. But simply because your fat visionless uncle didnt make it to be governor. Blaming Gboyega for the killing of protesters is like blaming Sanwo-Olu for the deaths in Surulere. Selfish interests as usual.

Stop reasoning through your anus and use your brain for once,we are talking about life lost here,all you could reason about is the trash that is coming out from your mouth,is Falz contesting? Is Wizkid uncle a politician? Abi were n shey e ni ?

I want to start creams and soaps making,how can I get to register them ,or what are the procedures before NAFDAC can give me a registration number ?

Bennysam:
If you stop this lie and tell us the truth , it will be better for you me us because you will get a better advice

Hey yo
I’m not lying,what will I gain from lying,if I don’t need you guys advice,I won’t bring the issue down here,that’s how the whole thing happened

lefulefu:
ok just a normal male friend? i thought it was an ex boyfriend.well just talk with ur man why u need to do the job.I am sane human being he will understand

Thank you sir
I really appreciate,but I already stopped the job

lefulefu:
old male friend?
I am not being critical that u took up a job but then this issue of old male friend..as in ur ex?
u said u have a fiancee and u still connecting with ex
u know how it is in naija
as soon as ur ex knows u have a fiancee and u about to get married he go still wan nack to get a final taste and he might just be using this matter as u being his site supervisor as a reason to get into ur pants
why not just avoid ur exs so as not to put an issue in ur relationship
would u feel ok if ur guy was now meeting his exs as well under the reason of one business deal or the other?
anyway na ur relationship sha

Nope ,not an ex boyfriend
Can’t you have male friends without thinking of sexual benefits in Nigeria?
I’m no more getting you guys

CosmicPhoenix:

how can you forget to tell your fiance something like that yet you claim you guys chat frequently,we all know you are lying so just tell us the truth.

MODIFIED-now i have no doubts in my mind that the op is lying.

https://www.nairaland.com/6005431/hes-transparent-me-financially-doesnt

so how has my previous post gotten to do with this ?
I may take any bullshit from you,but I won’t take calling a lair,you are free to just pass if you don’t have anything to say

Neurotika:
Dude did you read what you typed up there? She agreed to the job offer which I'm sure took like probably 24 hours or more before she resumed there. In between this interval she would have spoken severally with the fiancé but she didn't remember she's gonna start work an "old male friend" gave her. She started the work, she still didn't remember where she was. Until the fiance made a video call to her she now remembered she didn't tell him. That's an enormous load of bulllshit.

Oga ,ok fine I’m guilty if that’s your conclusion,what’s the way out ?

Kamdil:
There is nothing wrong in taking up a job you deemed OK for you, but at least you should have intimated him about it. It looks kinda suspicious and that is his anger.

You have to be humble to apologise until he understands

Ok boss
Thank you

CosmicPhoenix:

how can you forget to tell your fiance something like that yet you claim you guys chat frequetntly,we all know you are lying so just tell us the truth.

lying about what?

Neurotika:
For someone you discuss with thrice daily, not to know about a major development such as you getting a new job shows the kinda woman you are....the context around it doesn't even look neat (old male friend, asking for money prior to it....). Narrowing it down to him being insensitive to your job needs shows how manipulative you are.

I’m not manipulative ,just that I don’t see any big deal in the job,the location is just a stone throw to my house,even when he called,I was laughing while telling him on phone until he changed everything for me

Thank you ,I really appreciate

SweetBuns:
Why should he be mad at you? These men self.

God just blessed you with 2x the amount you needed. And youre worried.

He will get over it. When he comes back, give him assurance.
Be wary of that "friend" of yours o, keep collecting his benefits but keep him at arms length.

Its not a sin for a strong lady to work. Why is he oppressing you

My fiancé traveled three weeks ago on a business trip,we do call at least thrice daily and we do chat frequently,two weeks ago I told him I needed an amount of money to settle one particular bill that I never planned for earlier,he said he is going to send the money by this month ending.
Last week,I was strolling down the street when I met my old time male friend,we exchanged pleasantries and after much discussion he told me he needed someone who can help him to supervise his site which is under construction and he will pay,I told him I will do it since I’m not having a job for now and I don’t like sleeping at home,we agreed on the payment and I started the work three days ago,the only mistake I made was that I forgot to tell my fiancé about the new development,I was at the site yesterday morning when he called on video call and I explained everything to him,he was really mad at me ,he was shouting at the top of his voice as if Heaven will fall,he said I lack patience,he qualified the work as being a labourer,I apologised but it seems my sorry wasn’t enough,he angrily sent me the money I told him I needed earlier but he doesn’t reply my messages nor pick my calls since yesterday.
Is it a crime for me to work?
I need advice

Naa their ways
It happened also in Ekiti few years back when MOB was still in the Labour Party,he wasn’t allowed to use the Oluyemi Kayode’s stadium for campaign

I pray that they will have the grace to complete it.

The issue is not about marrying a rich husband,shey he fit spend on you?
I prefer to have my own money and he should have his,nobody go disturb each other

Go through your bible very well

rtdCivilservant:
Exactly my thought, nobody seems to condemn the woman's action of beating the little boy to the extent of the boy acting that way; secondly the woman must be sick to have uploaded it online. That woman needs to be arrested, simple.

motionarena:
Don't know why people are praising dis video on social media.

If am d father I will beat up d mother why does she have to post this

You just proved the level of your stupidity by this statement (beating up the mother) anyways no qualms,a dumbass being like you can’t give birth to a brave boy like that,so chill.

Shut up jor
You don’t know what you are saying

PoliteActivist:
But what you people can believe ehn! Even you, an ordinary person, how much can you be paid to lie you have a deadly disease that has shut down the world, not to talk of a wealthy governor, who also has to co-opt his family and staff into the lie.
STOP BELIEVING NONSENSE!!

mamotalk:
you be hypocrite. Why you no complain during APC primary earlier this week? Now it's PDP, that's when you Know that school is closed.

I may not be in the mood to comment then,what’s my own to be siding one political party,I don’t belong to any.

mamotalk:
na PDP close school? person wey cancel WAEC dey Abuja and you dey talk. mind yourself.

i take God beg you,no angry me,I don’t give a Bleep on political parties cause in Nigeria politicians are one.

Stupid people
Schools cant resume but they are conducting elections,corona virus doesn’t stop them from securing their own future.
Ofo ni gbogbo yin maa shey ni Oruro Jesu

Carteroz:
That nigga is lying...he is not sick..he is now robbing people of their money..they are now invading peoples shop to arrest people without face mask ..the fine na 10k....nigga is doing business

God bless you bro
It hasn’t been easy in Ado Ekiti since Monday