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Judybash93:
If you need links to my published articles, please dm me

Just leave me alone

Ghostreader13:
If this your story is really true.. There are two red flags in your fiancé..

How come some who has been disturbing you to pray about the supposed marriage, suddenly told you not to go to the pastor again??

How come he knew you still went to the pastor even without you telling him
According to your write up, you said he called you "iyawo mi, have u seen what you wanted to see"...??

To me I feel he is hiding something from you about his life... I won't tell you to marry him or not, the choice is yours.

What scared me most was how he knew I later went there and the way he directed the question to me,even last night when he insisted I must tell him what I was told and I cooked up a lie for him,he told me that a person who is lying knows she is lying.

Judybash93:
I don't blame you. I blame the stupid government that enabled corruption thereby disenabling quality education. If not, people like you would be writing quality research papers on how to move this nation forward in different fields and not running to different pastors to find different answers to crap.

And who is holding you from writing your own research?

dominique:
There I was thinking your so-called fiance had some sort of terminal illness till I got to the part where some pastor predicted death on a person he has never met before. And you believed him? It's either that "anty" of yours doesn't want you to marry your fiancee or she wants you to remain single. Better use your head, a strange pastor predicted death on your fiancee and you were so quick to believe. That shows the kind of shallow minded person you are. If I was your fiance and I find out that you're visiting strange pastors because of me, I would never want to have anything to do with you again.

He has health issues,he’s an ulcer patient,in fact he was in the hospital throughout August and September last year,but it was his mom who said the doctor should discharge him even when he wasn’t ok. Later on when he was good,he told me his sickness wasn’t ulcer but refused to tell me what actually happened,he said since he is ok now,no fidgeting.

Meanwhile you forgot the part I wrote that he was the one who brought the idea of praying earlier

funshint:
@OP your bf knows something but he's not telling you. You don't need to ask him anything but you must take a decision.

The decision I want to take is what I don’t know for now,cause I can’t even think straight

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Haven't you heard that pastors share the same scope of scamming gullible persons?

When you tell them something about your life they bring a particular format to cover it up..they gave her the fastest one that's gonna get her attention..

How do you people even think?

No I disagreed
I did not tell any of them what I was there for,even my anty had no clue about what I wanted to pray about,I got there and they only prayed for me before saying what they saw.

Xenry:
Stop chilling with the big boys, they fit use your head add few more months to their lifespans.

Not all guys are into ritual
I’m fact,I’ve never seen him with any juju or black whatever before and there is no room I don’t use to enter in his house,between his mom is a prophetess who owns a church

I’m really heartbroken and I don’t know how to go about this,I’ve been feeling cold since then.

I will make it brief,we are set to pick our wedding date,so we were having a discussion on phone last week and he asked me why I haven’t even prayed about our relationship,it was then I remembered that it never crossed my mind to do so,I just told him I’m not a kind of person who move from one pastor to another but I believe in my dreams,meanwhile I haven’t dreamt about him since we’ve been dating which is unusual,he insisted I must go and after lot of talkings,I told him I have an Anty who I’m sure will take me to somewhere but since then we did not talk about it .

Three days ago,he messaged me and told me that won’t I go to the place again,it was then I decided to call my anty and she said we will go to a place today,I immediately told him what she said and he said no problem.

This morning,he messaged that I shouldn’t go there again,I told him my anty will think i took her for granted,I insisted I will go,so I called my Anty and she said we should suspend it till evening,I immediately messaged him that we are not going again and he was happy .

This evening,I called my Anty and she said I should meet her at home and we headed to church,on getting there,the pastor prayed and he said,I shouldn’t marry him cause he came with a very short life ,that he will soon die and there is nothing I can do to help the situation,I wasn’t satisfied and my Anty said we should try two more places,they all said the same thing.
I just summoned up courage to get home and meditate on everything,I was still on it when he called,and the first thing he asked was that “Iyawo,you’ve seen wetin you wan see and wetin you wan hear now,wetin you go do now? I was dumbfounded cause I didn’t tell him I will later go,now he has been asking what I was told there,I don’t know how to tell him the truth and I’ve been afraid sitting alone in the house since then,I suddenly started having this feeling that a ghost is sitting next to me. Can’t even stand the chance of visiting him cause I don’t know how I will feel looking at him and knowing he will soon die.

He is a good man,he’s caring ,hardworking and romantic,don’t want such a handsome guy to die just like that,I’m really sad right now .

I’m not understanding this anymore
There is no single day a story like this won’t come up,I’m just tired of this country,after the arrest,we won’t hear anything about the case again .

Things wey fit turn around for good in the twinkle of an eye,story fit change in just few seconds but they will just think pass one direction and conclude say dem wan die.

Let me not deceive you,this life is sweet,your present difficulty is just a phase,trust me it won’t last long

ruggedtimi:
nop! I knew this guys carried out this thing by themselves. This is because of the location and their careslessness.

You mean they used a whole human being for practical ?

Hold them tight
They are liars,they are trying to coverup the identity of their herbalist

seglabsy:
adesewaaaa

Yes boss

She’s capping nonsense

Don’t know why to laugh just dey do me

MufasaLion:
Y'all should let her be. She's an adult.

Tell them

You all should face the married man and stop dragging Mercy.
Besides, her life her choice

GoodHardDick:
Watch and see how Nigeria girls like the first comment above will insult her and tell you it is a good thing to sleep with a married man

Shut up

Tmberwolf1:
The oloshoism speaks in you. First of, what are you doing with a married man?!

If a married man makes you happy,stay with him,do whatever makes you happy,you own nobody any explanation.

Btw,I thought we all agreed to mind our businesses this year

He dey among men inside men

VicM6:
Na lady wey get power dey date remote control....I moveee

This comment gat me laughing

Candidlady:
Tell your boyfriend to date his friend.

If igive you the real advice you might nat take it

Give me the real one
I’m here cause of it

garriAndsugar:



allow me wallow in my freaking imaginations

Is better you do

yuping:
Your boyfriend friend think say him wise him be........... man
Putting your mouth in other people relationship is suicidal now you don carry the matter come here. He is a gunner.

Godada:



It seems your boyfriend isn't entirely in control of his life.

Your happiness with him isn't guaranteed.

Most times this sort of thing comes from his family female members. Now it's coming from his friend.

My dear, walked out of that relationship. He lacks the balls to handle a relationship.

If he wants you, then set terms and conditions.

If he ain't subscribing, let he shift.

Nonsense.

Thanks so much

garriAndsugar:

What’s funny about leaving someone in the bathroom?

I will be very brief about it

My NL family,I’m really angry and at the same time heartbroken,I am a type that is fond of social media,I catch cruise,post funny memes ,about politics,celebrities,fashions etc and just flow with the vibes. Note-: I don’t post about my personal stuffs,in fact I do upload my own personal pictures just once in a blue moon. My boyfriend never complain about it and lot of time we do laugh together about some. I am not the type that will set my privacy and hide someone to post anything cause I may not remember to reset the settings in a year time.

Last month,I was at my boyfriend’s place and he told me that his friend called him and they discussed about me and he told him that I am too stubborn and I just post anything I like on my WhatsApp status as if I don’t care about anybody,I just laughed and told my boyfriend that he should have told him it doesn’t defines me,but he fired up and said I should quit posting all in the name of cruise,it got into an heated argument that morning and I angrily left him in the bathroom to do the bathing alone but we found a way to settle it and we were cool.

Last week,we were discussing about our introduction and he said he wanted something bigger and I said I needed something very small,one thing led to the other and he told me I can’t drag him to go against his wishes,i told him also that he can’t drag me to go against my wishes,I noticed he was really angry that I had to read his other messages without replying till the following day,cause he was angry and I was angry at the same time,I’m a very aggressive person and I am working so much on my anger,in fact I was surprised that I was able to keep quiet when he was ranting,I was really happy with myself. The following day,we went back to the discussion and it was cool though he said he was still angry that I ignored him for 22 hours,I apologised and told him the reason behind him,I don’t want to make the statements I will later regret. We were cool thereafter.

Yesterday,he told me his friend (that same friend)will be coming over and will be spending two weeks at his place and I can come over if my schedule isn’t tight,but I declined,I have lot of things to tidy up. It’s our normal routine to call on video call before going to bed, we were on the call when a topic popped up and I told me that him and his friend had a discussion about me again,and he was sounding angry again bringing back the issue that we already buried just because he claimed his friend said this,his friend said that,I maintained my silence and we talked it out again.

This is becoming too much that we only do have problems anytime his friend said this or his friend said that,I am not trying to take him away from his friend but at least,he shouldn’t be the one controlling my relationship .
I don’t know what to do and I am afraid I may end the relationship if it continues like this.

Note-: I have a good relationship with his friends and we do talk from time to time.

vioment:
Since Africa, especially Nigeria is hell,

God sent us (Angels) to come make it heaven.


Evil ones have infiltrated the angels so much, that is why we are suffering.


Rip lady.

Must you comment without reading the post?
Thunder fir* you

Curious345:
you lied

I agree with him,he isn’t lying at all

In less than 2 weeks,I used 12GB
Wetin I dey press,just WhatsApp and sometimes Twitter ,no instagram o...

Righteousness2:
Halloween may look to be Fun but If your Eyes are opened to see what "Halloween" really is in the Spiritual realm, you will run and fly with all your Might from it.

Halloween is Satanic Service day/activity. Many have Unknowingly Given themselves to Celebrate , Promote and advance Satan and Satanic activities. Some many innocent folks are Unknowingly Intiated and Destroy through it.

The Mystery of this World is Deep. The Devil is a crafty and smart dude. He has blinded the eyes of many Worldwide and used various activities that look harmless to chain and Padlock them.

Be Spiritually wise.

You no dey tire?

One released her sex tape

One released his nude pictures

Another one don released his brain

All Naa stunts