DameB:


Yeah. Like teenagers having unforced sex and all that

No, it basically means an adult having sex with someone below the age of consent

DameB:


Statutory rape is having consensual sex with an underaged individual (below the age of consent)
Rape is non-consensual sex whether it be violent or not

Can't be consensual if she's below the age of consent, though I understand what you're trying to say is nonforcible sexual intercourse with an underaged individual.

What sort of costly joke is this? The effect of this is the undermining of the real issue, she deserves to be jailed, dunderhead. She's given mysogynists the excuse they are looking for. Idiota.

Teeboy15:

He said ever since he paid and indicated interest, na only ogogoro and weed dey chop him money, anybody wey see am anywhere must tax am.
God... so na like this this handsome young man life for end... my God...

Meanwhile, some people are here talking trash about the OP, another person saved from the jaws of death, the importance of this thread cannot be overestimated.

GogobiriLalas:
Instead of protesting Islami z ation wait till sh!t hits the fan, you will know what is rape

There's no monopoly of protests, you can start the one for your cause and people will join you, let people be aggrieved and face your front.

lekankolade:
Come to Abuja, I can get u a self contain of 80k to 150k in areas like lugbe ( federal housing, car wash or Berger ), mpape, dutse and other suburbs...there’s stable light in these areas ...

You can get a self con of around 80k in lugbe? Not Sabo lugbe o. I'm checking my options towards next year.

xyz123456:
I don't understand one thing. Is it that people respect their Pastors so much (Fatoyinbo) or there are just lots of rape apologists on Nairaland/Nigeria?? I am baffled by some of these comments supporting Fatoyinbo

All of the above.

Bruh, the toxicity on Nairaland is mind numbing.

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sweetrace:
What a shameless woman! She’s proud she had an affair with a man then went public when he dumped her sorry ass? A married man? What was she hoping to get from such an affair? Very vindictive woman!!!!! She is a conformist who is exactly like a great deal of women of this age. No morals, integrity and poor intelligence. Yet nod their heads like the agama lizard like they are all that. She’s here claiming to be one of those who think outside the box and draws outside the lines!

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Guys, you can't have consensual sex with a minor, it is rape, let's all try to use our senses once in a while.

ricon:
Bunch of hypocrites coming out now to speak against rape because it happened to a celebrity wife...

Rape has always been with us and the few people that spoke out never had any celebrity to loud their voices...

Eye service celebrities... Bandwagon mentality. Shame!

It's instructive, you getting angry with her being a 'celebrity' than the issue at hand.

She should have moved on? What a dunderhead.

Most people really don't know what humour is.

Abudu2000:


For real jazzy shot himself when he started comparing half baked artist to a full blown wizzy.u know what it means to stay afloat in the industry today? All those childish galbino, designer, wacomzy, sugarboy etc where them dey today? To start is one thing, to keep up is everything

You meant Childish Gambino? Remove him from that list you made.

davidgee:
Who have seen Penny Dreadful?

Loved every bit of it, well apart from the rushed finale, still a great show nonetheless.

Jett

jiggaz:
Currently watching THE ENEMY WITHIN... I love this series!! It's very interesting...

It's cancelled.

ladiesreject:
I was really looking forward to @enthroned by God's thread on cultism and the spiritual effects of it. I asked to be tagged when it drops but when it finally dropped, I was disappointed.

The thread isn't interesting at all. (At least for me)
Bashing Catholics, Muslims, TB Joshua et'al.

I'm of the school of thought that says everyone should be left with his or her beliefs, as far as it doesn't pose a threat to any one or the society. If it's legal and ethical, count me in!

I stopped reading the thread when I got to the second page because I felt the essence of the thread has been defeated.

You and me both, I was really looking forward to it, but I'm not for all the bashing and whatnots, there's no reason for me to continue reading the thread.

Gentlewarrior1:

You are absolutely right.

Cultism is past tense. It is stupidity. DDieing and killing over flimsy things that are meaningless

You did well enlightening your brother and he had the good sense to make an informed choice, thank you.

Some folks here have given reasons why the OP should censor some of his posts: the hits, their language, etc, but the reasons given are not tangible enough, I think part of the allure of cultism to some people is the secrecy behind it, but once it is demystified like what the OP is doing, they realise it is nothing more than a sure path to damnation. The OP is comfortable sharing what he passed through, I see no reason to discourage him.

dairykidd:

So do u really believe anyone who became a cultist never knew the implications are u guys this naive seriously.. Do u think that warning kids about its dangers ever stopped anyone from belonging seriously u think that? We never heard the gist while fighting our admission? all the Truth quoted with sweet lies, that we never knew it was evil before belonging, that we never pondered for nights on end weighing the advantages and problems trying to decide if we should give in or forever remain neutral men If u truly believe that kids do not know the dangers before they join then my brother u really know nothing. Even primary school children nowadays know the implication of joining a campus cult.. Its like watching gangster movies as a kid and fantasizing about being the good gangster. Nobody ever believes the sh!t can take away their lives until its too late. I'm wasting time with u guys u can never see what ur eyes will not see.
Like someone rightly said the op is a good story teller but make him no forget say men dey here too not just children that are a majority but we see through the bs

Stop getting your knickers in a twist, you might want to reread the part you bolded, I did not say the people joining cultism didn't know the implication, I said the gory details of cultism 'should' deter... not 'would' deter... Anyway to each his own.

dairykidd:

Lolzz my brother even before i graduated i done begin dey shelve guys when no dey aligned with me.. Immediately i graduated na there e end.. The only few people that could get close to me where some few former school mates.. I never involved myself in any zonal, area wtv and i never did things with u if ur not in school and from a certain kind of home.. I hand picked my crew from the onset so getting out was easy because we had like minds.. I'm always a step ahead so u must dance to my music if u like be Hercules the real strength is the brain. Op may have renounced but i think this second part of the story is not called for because of the little bit of glorification that follows it like a mild but strong perfume... its there for u to perceive if ur wise and the other axemen are happily jumping on it... well.. its none of my business who want join make him join, who go die go still die

I don't know whether I see glorification in his narration but what I do know, is his constant warning that cultism is evil and ultimately leads to ruination and destruction, if after all these warnings, some persons still decide to join, the fault lies solely with them. They are adults and they can't throw blames around. The thread clearly shows the dangers of cultism, I mean the talk of macheting someone, using axe to cut heads, etc should deter a sensible person.

dairykidd:


I swear the op just error with all this las las join join story, promoting those useless people with style. Ayes when go pull hit and disappear from town like magicians naim Op dey say them dey fall MF and the rest anyhow.. Na so them do Eiye men for benin go knack one ibk John terry guy then run leave upper not knowing say this time around the Eiye men ready run follow them. For like a month every day 2 to 4 Ayes dey drop steady from Abgor park to bye pass where the Ayes go hide. The only Eiye man when them mistake lite for back survive am and him come know the Ayes faces, na so area begin empty as ayes dey on the run again till the war subside by itself... Op never renounce anything I just pity the gullible people when dey fall for his lies... I have been retired since 2005 i no be chis i no dey hide am... Op way no clear at all

So in your own mind OP didn't renounce but we should take your own words seriously when you said you renounced abi? Looks to me like you are an underground cultist on a misguided mission to undermine the OP.

EnthronedbyGod:
I'll open another thread and will talk about mine but will talk more about the spiritual angle and the consequences when I have time.
Cultism is evil,barbaric and satanic,don't ever try to join it you haven't,and if you have, you can't still come out before its too late.
when I have time I'll share my own story but will talk more about the spiritual angle.


Jesus loves you,and God bless you all

Tag me when you're done with the thread, thank you, glad you found your way out of the dark.

You sincerely deserve no pity, those are not harmless flirting, you were in a commmited relationship and you shouldn't have done that. I don't see how she can ever bring herself to trust you, this is one of the red flags they say people should look out for in relationships before they 'chook' head, you made your bed.

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I will never understand the joy they find in this depravity.

Krak:


I schooled there too.

Oh, good.

Neddstark:
Riyadhgoddess is the realest soul here. She isn't even hiding her contact. Babe, please ignore the trolls and those fault-seekers here. You are not here to please anybody. Keep living your life to Gods glory and promote positivity. Big ups

You ain't lied.

Krak:


Let me guess the school you went to. OAU?

Lol yes, knew someone would figure it out.

Nodogragra4me:

You mean even as a ju neither you nor any of your friends knew anything about colours and campus life. Something you learn from home before venturing into school.. Fske news

I schooled in the SW Mr. Man and before I left for school I didn't know anything about any colours cultists use and even while in school, I heard nothing of them (unless those from the mushroom schools in town) because my school then had ZERO tolerance for cultism, your reality is different from other people's realities so just ignore the thread if you have no reasonable contribution and let the OP continue his good work.

He used to have a diary on NL talking about what he experienced in his marriage. Glad he's doing fine.

MisterMan123456:
JUST A QUESTION FOR YOU MR SAYNOTOCULTISM, CAN DAVIDO OR BURNABOY WHO ARE AXEMEN BE USED TO COUNT SCORES WHEN THERE'S A WAR BETWEEN AXE AND OTHERS? I JUST WANT TO KNOW SHA[color=#000099][/color]

Wait... those guys are really cultists? Thought it was a rumour, wonders.