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HEseesall:
When he told me he wants to use his share for his parents, we agreed my share would be used for get a property then we start to build from there and that's what i did, i expected he knows i would use my name cos i keep the documents, now he is saying he wants his own name only not jointly, who says that pls, at least i compromised for jointly,

@op if it was ur own parents that was sick and needed money to be flown abroad, it means you never took your husband parents has ur own, your husband mind and head was occupied with his parents sickness, he had an agreement with you to buy land so that you guys can build it together, yet you went ahead to buy it in ur own name alone, selfishness. He trusted you, that's why he never bother to ask for the documents , and u also hid it from him all tru the process of building because you want to owns the house alone yet you went ahead to buy it in ur own name alone, selfishness. You are already planning for divorce, that's why u did what u did, and the man is ready to grant you your wish, why coming here to make us think ur husband is wicked , no man in this circumstance will be happy with you. You messed up big time. Ask for forgiveness or you loose your man. If you like listen to all this single children talking trash here. In a year time, you will be tired leaving in the house alone

Arobake:
No, she did not say that. She said he used his own part of the profit for what he wanted to use it for (a laudable project too, by the way), and she used HERS to build a house. The house.

@Arobake, plus go tru the first page and check out for the op further comments on the issue. I guess you read only the op first story. She makes further comments after that where she mentioned they jointly built the house

Anextin:
Your wife goes out to buy land with her money, please be sincere, do u naturally expect her to use your name on it, especially since it was a shared money BTW you too.
I understand they built it together, so the papers should have changed to accommodate the Man's name,
But, see how life works, they had issues, tensed disagreement and the man immediately asked her to leave a home they built together. Built together as if he's the sole owner, and this is before he found out its her name on the docs, even forgot that the initial investment was made solely by her.
If he hadn't sent her packng before finding out, I can understand his anger, but now .....

Even if the man is the sole owner of both the land and house, it is wrong of him to have asked the wife to leave the house, we all knows that, but the issue here is the wife trying to paint the husband bad starting from the topic of the tread, absorbing herself of any wrong doing, she is here to feed her ego, and she's getting what she want from kids here who didn't even study the tread and details b4 telling her to call her husband bluff. Do we know how long it took the husband before he finds out. The husband has not bother to check when he was investing on the land(maybe he has the lion share) because he trust his wife believing it is there land. The husband didn't just dash his money to his parents, he spent it on there health. She has to mock her husband that the house belong to her at the heat of argument. hmmmm what a wife. Women always belief that husband money is OUR money but her own money is her money. Me can't stand such woman either

Pataricatering:
the property was built with her money - read the article well ! He used his own money for his mother ! If he had built the house he would have put it in his own name so he can send her packing anytime - so why should she put his name on what she used her money to build ?

@pataricatering, pls take note of details before offering advise, don't say things base on half information, people asked the op some questions and she agreed that the house was jointly built, but she bought the land alone, and that's why she put her name alone. mind you I guess the husband never knew, that's why he was investing on the land, he might even have the lion share of the money spent to build the house, only for the wife to mock him that the house belongs to her. Read tru the first page, and check each comments from the op

Martinez19:
lol. The woman has more solid grounds on this issue. She used HER MONEY to build the house. It's not advisable to force love. It's either he loves her or not. He should recognise what has happened has happened, If he can't stop his wickedness, manipulation and pride and accept 50-50 ownership for the sake of love, then he Bleep off.

The op has played her part in trying to mend the relationship by offering a 50-50 ownership of the house. If the husband can't humble himself and change his ways, he should Bleep off. He is meant to apologise for trying to kick his wife out. How callous!

One major problem we have in Africa is that we don't pay attention to details before we start saying rubbish, @op said she bought the LAND with her money in her name, but they BOTH contributed to build the house. I guess the husband never knew the land is in the wife's name when he was pumping his money into the project, that might have formed basis for his anger, though he is over reacting, pls madam don't scatter your marriage based on some advise here from children who are not married, admit you are wrong by putting only your name, and bring your husband back home. You have ego too, so ur caption here that your husband has ego is wrong.

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Another reason women lie more about their affairs is simply that they can get away with it.
Historically, a man has put a higher value on the fidelity of his woman because he needs to be sure that any children she has are really his.
This seems to produce a strange kind of emotional blindness in many men, once they've selected a partner to settle down with.
'Whenever we question men about fidelity,' says Dr Holmes, 'they will very often admit to their affairs.
'But if you then ask the same men if they think their wives or girlfriends have had affairs, too, they will be shocked at the very thought, or laugh and call it ridiculous.'
In other words, men want to think women don't cheat, and women want men to think they don't cheat. No wonder women are better at secret affairs. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html

When studies about sexual partners or fidelity use a mixture of face-to-face interviews and anonymous computer questionnaires, men will give the same answers to both, but women will report much higher numbers when the answers are anonymous.
Why do women lie? Because we must, and because we can. In spite of apparent equality and a more sexually open society, we are still more harshly judged for our sex lives than men.

Think men are the unfaithful sex? A study shows WOMEN are the biggest cheats - they're just better at lying about it
According to Dr David Holmes, a psychologist at Manchester Metropolitan University, women are having more affairs than ever - recent studies say the figure is around 20 per cent for men and a bit over 15 per cent for women - but they behave very differently from men when they cheat.
'The biggest difference is that women are much better at keeping their affairs secret,' he says. 'If you look at the studies into paternity, even conservative figures show that between eight and 15 per cent of children haven't been fathered by the man who thinks he's the biological parent

Dino Melaye went for service b4 he graduate, he claimed to have serve in 1999, while he's statement of result was issue in 2000, which result did he takes to NYSC camp. Even if you like Dino, don't be stupid in giving him support.

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Fear has made a lot of pple so comfortable with poverty!....They are so eager to see MMM crash!!....why? Because the want everyone to be on the same poor level!..... The govt has never told us the truth about anything, but pple choose to believe them about what they said of MMM..... One said to me with passion " You will lose ur money"....I told him " No problem, Those who lost theirs in savannah bank, shares, global recession etc have they died?? Have they stopped putting their money in banks??" Govt will loot us anyway possible but when freedom comes, they will want to feed on our fear! Cos Nigerians are very fearful pple... I love the MMM ideology! I have given Help and gotten help and am growing financially, just like thousands of MMM participants in Nigeria!...Some say 30% is not possible, I told them if it was Diamond bank or wema bank etc that said it gives 30%, u will believe and put ur money, won't u? If MMM was paying tax to the govt, do u think that they will be against it? Why haven't they spoken evil against Casino, Bet9ja, Pool and the gambling agencies?? Cos they pay taxes! In a match, there must be players and spectators!.... I choose to be a player cos only players get paid, spectators only watch and run their mouths and spend money buying tickets!.. We are changing Nigeria! MMM rocks!! For more info click http:///?i=adubay82@yahoo.com OR call 08034228539

Hiploko:
I can't call him those names even if he behaves like or worse than those. But humans ought to at least have conscience. Nigeria is in a state that calls for concern. But becos you voted in this government, you are doing everything to make them appear the savior. Let your conscience talk to you. Sanusi et el have spoken becos they have conscience. I bet you that I wouldn't be crying out if I see a single blueprint or plans to better the state of nigeria. But all we hear is past government, mono economy, corruption. For how long?

So sanusi is making sence now and now has conscience, when he spoke about the lost money in NNPC during the last regime, what happened next. We all know the answer. If the previous government has conscience, money meant to fight insurgents won't be diverted, allowed boko haram to feed on people and destroy a whole zone. sorry, the lives and properties of people in that zone are less important to the south south people

[quote author=makasimatics post=44455058]I am Chukwuma Edozie,from Ogbunike, In Oyi Local government Area,Anambra State.
since I was born, I have never experienced any positive behavior from my father.
He has proved to be a difficult person.
in fact! to the best of my knowledge, he is a very cuny,greedy,and selfish human being.

He would make money but would rather invest it on harlots instead of we the children who are interested in education. In fact, one of his stupid friend had advised him one certain time to not waste his money in the name of training us in the university. " secondary school level is enough for us ", the man said. I don't know if that was what contributed in making my father to neglect me when I was in the university reading mathematics.
Even,amid my days in the versity, I used to take some bags of rice and tin of life vegetable oil to our house without receiving any ' thanks ' from any body though, my mum would sometimes appreciate. I did all those because of the money I generated in my class as a course rep.

Now I have graduated and gone for service in peace after training my self in the university.

With these experiences, I want to know if somebody would blame me if I fail to appreciate him as my father in case I get a work in the future.
Now he tries to come close to me because, he believes that I have conquered

After abandoning me in the campus to die, he still wants to reap the benefits of what he never merited.

well, I think I know what is is my mind.


It is very simple, you too owns him no responsibility, even at his old age. Do not allow sentiment to set in. Most people hear are saying trash that he is still your father, but that is not the issue hear, because you didn't ask if you should stop calling him your father. If you become billionaire tomorrow, pls stay away from him. If he didn't value you as a boy, he should take the same stand when u are also also man, if he doesn't want to, remind him of his previous position and tell him to maintain it.

ClinicalHope:
Nwanne madu biko forgive and pay him back with kindness, I mean lots and lots of kindness we all have family issues but come to think of it, there is a divine reason why God gave you Daddy focus on the bright side of life, don't give up and don't stop Praying for your dad. I will be waiting to hear your testimony.

Africans and sentiment, what you said is the reason why there will never be changes in our society when people continue to reap where they never sow. All his father friend and everyone in there village who knows the story will surely follow the trend. Fatherhood and Motherhood is beyond just giving birth. Whenever people refers to someone as a father, it is beyond giving birth, responsibility is what makes you a father not impregnating a woman.

Please I need advice on what to do, I was sent 15k by an uncle and first bank claimed to have mistakenly credited someone else account in which the person has withdrawn the money, going to 2 months now they are yet to pay my money. I am even tired of going there cos they keep telling me to come back.

Please I need reasonable advice. I want my money back. Thanks

BE AS CHEAP AS YOU WANT BUT KNOW YOUR WORTH -

N21,000,000,000 ÷ 170,000,000 Nigerians =
N123.52

PDP just raised N21bn to purchase or hire 170m Nigerians for another four years term of a bumpy ride. Of course, I'm not suggesting you should not collect your meager share of N123.52k but be mindful of the sales agreement.

You should know, N123.52 =

1. Four years school fees of your children.

2. Four years upkeep of your family.

3. Four years hospital bills of your family.

4. Four years security maintenance for your family.

5. Four years electricity provision for your family.

6. Four years water supply for your family.

7. Four years payment for the needed good roads you always dream of.

8. Four years provision to restore the productivity of your farm.

9. Four years cost of restoring your lost business.

10. Four years allowance that will make you feel like a human being.

While somewhere in the villa, N123.52 =

1. The cost of purchasing an annual budget averaging N4trn which translates into N23,529.41 per 170m Nigerian mostly to be pocketed selected few. In simpler terms PDP is buying N23,529.41 from you at a discount rate of N123.52

2. Four years cost of lawlessness that will sustain the near zero life expectancy in Nigeria.

3. Four years cost of watching suspected criminals parading your streets with blaring siren and Military/Police escort - harassing you off the roads you purchased with your meager share of N123. 52

4. Four years cost of watching a minister who just supervised the murder of your child in a stampede at an interview center for non existent jobs sleeping before an investigative panel to find out what happened because he knew nothing is going to happen.

5. Four years cost of watching thieves going after people who blew whistle on them.

6. Four years cost of watching $20bn growing wings and flying away where nobody could find it.

7. Four years cost of watching thugs and fake men of God buying private jets, building multibillion mansions and private universities.

8. Four years cost of watching a handful insurgents operating with better weapons than a federal army supposedly operating within an annual budget of N1trn.

9. Four years cost of watching your dignity depreciating in airports across the globe because everybody hates a Nigerian.

10. Four years cost of watching your child/wife dies for as little as N5000 because you can't afford to go to India or even Ghana for better health care.

11. Four years cost of watching your children rot away at home because universities are permanently on strike.

12. Four years cost of watching TAN insulting your sensibility by telling you all the above is your imagination.

BE WISE AND KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SELLING AND BUYING!
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Andibot:
The major trouble still lies ahead which is; what if Buhari emerges as a presidential candidate? To me I can't vote him Cos he'll use the 1st term fighting his rivals n installing party members hence there'll be zero national development or progress. Anyway I'll prefer to choose d lesser evil. The devil u know...

Installing party member to where, I wonder why people decieve themselves, vote Jonathan and continue with this fresh air. Mind you, the devil u know will always be a devil 100%, why not give an angel u don't know a chance, there is still 50/50 % chance of being a devil also or turn out to be a real angel.

[color=#990000][/color][quote author=trulygirl post=27222168]I wonder why they left it this late or maybe the fear of #buhari is the beginning of wisdom. All we want is a better Nigeria doesn't matter who win 2015 just a better Nigeria.


Youths in the house say #NO to these old politicians. Am hoping to see a 20 - 30years old person in the House of Rep come 2015 otherwise the youths in Nigeria are total failure. instead of channeling our energy on voting out this old cargos we are here on social media playing to the tunes from the drums of the people we have been hearing their name since we were in our mothers womb

@trulygirl :This can only happen in your dream, age limit has been set in the constitution on who can contest for a particular position. 20-30 can't go for house of rep
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][quote author=trulygirl post=27222168]I wonder why they left it this late or maybe the fear of #buhari is the beginning of wisdom. All we want is a better Nigeria doesn't matter who win 2015 just a better Nigeria.


Youths in the house say #NO to these old politicians. Am hoping to see a 20 - 30years old person in the House of Rep come 2015 otherwise the youths in Nigeria are total failure. instead of channeling our energy on voting out this old cargos we are here on social media playing to the tunes from the drums of the people we have been hearing their name since we were in our mothers womb


@trulygirl :This can only happen in your dream, age limit has been set in the constitution on who can contest for a particular position. 20-30 can't go for house of rep

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The problem with nigerian is ignorance, expecially the so called youth, I am sure most the noise maker here did not even read the message before typing or fthey read and just decided to insult buhari or they don't even understand what they read. am really sorry for this country

takeprofit: i smell hypocrisy. why judge the mafians if u cant judge the gays. maybe he is afraid of the gays. if we want to be fair, we should delete the word sin from the bible and scrap the ministry of justice. "who r we to judge another man?"

How can you be comparing Mafia's to gay's. Please use your common sense. Mafia's use there way of life to inflict pains on others, taking so many people future away from them. Gay's take decision that affects there life and there life alone. Is like comparing gay and armed robbers. THOUGH NOT A GAY SOPPORTER. Very annoying practice

Am here

fkaz: 15.The details of this Proclamation will be transmitted to the National Assembly in accordance with the provisions of the Constitution. But in the meantime, let me make it clear that within the purview of this Proclamation, the Governors and other political office holders in the affected states will continue to discharge their constitutional responsibilities.

The bolded got me confused how would a state governor discharge his constitutional responsibilities and you said you declared state of emergency in the state. The state governor still remain the chief security officer of the state.
BTW the JTF has been searching, locking-down area suspected to be terrorist hide-out before now, with the state governor discharging their duty.

I tire for this kind of leader

God bless you bo fkaz. I have concerned about same thing. There is no difference between what is on ground before. He is only sending more troops. Nothing like state of emergency. Declaration of state of emergency means the president is taking over the state control inorder to be able to restore peace without interference with any state governor's constitutional right, since the Governor will stop being in charge. This man won't stop playing politics with our intelligent. Not is fault anyway, some olodo are clapping for him already

thelastPope: It is obvious that half of the people posting on NL are Yahoo boys and fooolish students! Just imagine what you and some others have typed. That government should pay them more money? And you want Nigeria to have 24 hours power? I think most of you dont know what you really want. You are obviously confused. Instead of you to vehemently attack the PHCN workers to get lost so we can move on, you are actually supporting them for all the years they have put you under darkness. You have a serious dysfunction. You are adverse to progress

@thelastpope
You have a bigger problem. if your father has put 20years of service into company? will u tell him to get lost. Are phcno staff the one putting u in darkness. Obj claim he spent 15b dollars in 8 years on phcn without any thing to show for it. Gej has started stealling his own claiming they are spending it on ppower. That 384b naira is small for some of dos politian to embezzle in a month.

HAH: This guys are ungrateful, PHCN is one of the most backward agency and the government is magnanimous to have given them that, if I were government is either you take it or leave it

You are a FOOL with capital letter. The is a law and formular that guide how an entitlement should be calculated base on your grade level and year of service either in public or private sector. This law were made by government. When a senator is not return to d house they pay them off and there wont be too much to pay while is nepa staff own different. If PHCN is backward, whose fault? you cant give what u dont have. A nation that needs about 15000MW of power is struggling to generate 3500MW. nah PHCN staff go generate the rest

Machester united paul scholes car was stolen yesterday in front of his house at machester. Lagos is not an exception.

Deep Sight: I honestly dont see the SW ever voting Buhari, even if Tinubu and Fashola both make a personal visit to every house to request such.



Well here is what transpired. As you can see, GEJ won several states in the North - the Middle belt mainly.

Who wins election is not determine by the number of state won. it is by simple majority, provided the candidate has one third in 24 state.

Considering some couples that can hardly feed, yet they dont consider how they will raise a child. I mean feeding, clothing, shelter, not to talk of sending them to school. I think is better not to have something than for you to acquire what you can not cater for. I know most nigerian will tell you it is God that take care of children. what do u guys think

thelastPope: Precisely around when Buhari took over. go figure

Do know when buhari ruled this nation? Nigerian never walk with datas. Nigeria move up in 80's and disappeared in 90's. When did buhari took over power. If u dont know u can ask any primary school kid around u