₦airaland Forum

[quote author= post=135898703]Most Nigerians don't even know that victim blaming is wrong. It has become a hardcoded Nigerian idealogy because most are wicked and toxic as fork.[/quote]I have also mentioned this on a thread where everyone was blaming a guy for spending money for his own wife that later treated him like g@rbage....still...the truth is ....it gets to a point where a person crosses the victim lane to the stvpid territory...

Orinechi:
Is this not gender based violence? If it was a woman now, the whole feminists in Nigeria would be activated

Nobody cares when a man gets hurt...... Na woman sabi play victim and the sad part na na fellow man us is they believe them because of yænsh and b00bi....

See the babe that mvrdered that CEO Ataga Usifo, they have been twisting the narrative since they arrested her..., her case is already getting to over 2 years with no conviction, trying to package her as victim ..... Where as a man that autopsy showed his wife died of disease was sentenced to d€ath sharp sharp..

Wait......is this about bokoharam or Nigerian women or bums, cos this guy is just all over the place??

OlujobaSamuel:
Lol, the dude believes she truly has a dad that can send her 200k

.....be like say s!mp!ng na follow come talent for some people... They just can't see it when a w0man is us!ng them

Mrexcell:
Only long abused nigerian street ladies have such barbaric mentality a white lady will never think like that.

Don't be a white man a$$licker ...there are m0rally bankrvpt, entitled, gr££dy women among all race of human beings...

lightwind:
Poor keh didn't you saw where the girl said Her Dad Is Supposed Send Her 200k but haven't maybe cos of his bank issues or something ??

Lol.....
U are not very different from the guy....
U naive di£....
Saying her father is supposed to send her 200k is just a finessing strategy to make the guy feel she's not poor since she was already begging for clothes ....

Nigg@ lucky asf....looks like the hammer missed his wind pipe by micro inches

abayomi27:
When you try to be a gentleman, they label you a simp, when you decide to be prudent in your spending, they say you are stingy. How best can we please you ladies?? We want to learn

Lesson number 1: don't date broke entitled women..

Lesson number 2: repeat lesson number 1

Pickieox:
It's how you think. If you want to feel like a white, Latino, or Chinese, yes you can. It all depend on your mentality and the way you think. Anyone can do whatever he or feel like doing as long he or she is not hurting others. This life is "live and let's live". Bobrisky is not your problem or Nigeria problem, you gat a lot on your plate that you need to deal with.

Lol....u are just d£lusional like bobrisky

Ur d£lusion also don't let u ever wonder why its officially allowed to claim you are any gender and even cut of your follow come organ but u can't officially extend that delusion by claiming you are white because u feel white and become a European or American citizen??

because the govt and multi billion dollar industry is gaining money from ur delusi0n and self-deception

U cannot feel what u are not....

Drsmiles:
Why do countries go to war or conflict, loose lives and then return back to the discussion table that you were avoiding before Cease fire and talks after people papa and mama don die ??

How can u allocate 70% of ur budget on building weapons to destroy other pple....u will now see conflict and not chook head.... Haba naaaa!! That's waste of money....

WizardOfNG:
Ndume is now una Prophet? It's amazing how you guys will follow even known and verified devils who attack Tinubu.

Simply amazing and macabre behavior and mindset to view from fellow Nigerians.

y'all suddenly have amnesia about the time tinubu was playing opposition abi??

It's funny how y'all that support tinubu don't look at the mirror when tackling Nigerians...

it's now yall call it an @ttack and h@tred against tinubu when Nigerians complain, despite the current condition being more worse now than when tinubu was playing opposition

Incase U pple can't s££....no one is benefitting from the reforms and propaganda called bold moves, except the officials of 3 arms of Goverment distributing the common wealth of 200million pple among themselves alone..

Eeyaaa......it's pathetic......I mean, how does a person feel like what they are not, so much that they start to manually alter their follow-come settings ...

As in.... can a black person feel like their white or Latino, or Chinese.....

Authoreety:
all this governors worshipping tinubu....



i n o know wetin this man give una chop o

Allocation to embezzle increased to 10billion.....

Dtruthspeaker:
We may not be directly listening to the prayer the persons around us are saying however, we still hear and know the sound of their prayer.

I'm not sure how I will go to church and prayer is going on and I will be hearing other people's prayer while I'm focused on God?? It has not happened to me before...so I don't really get what you are saying....

Dtruthspeaker:
So, the pastor's leading must be comprehensible. And I think that he is referring more to the pastor's ble ble ble and strange speech than the congregation's prayer things

of course..the pastor or prayer lead is comprehensible...if he's not..how did u hear the prayer point he started with for you to pray as well....?? At some point he himself switches to praying between himself and God after guiding....and later switch back to directing the prayer flow, to a stop to manage time or to, perhaps introduce another prayer point... At least that's how I know it happens

Buhari4dullard:
Haba free the man joor, its been done b4 by some famous guy

Lol..Una too like vawulence for this nairaland ;

mu2sa2:
You want to deflect suspicion from your people. You tried but failed abysmally.

His name is Jaskarn Jhaj...u wan deny your Islamic brother as if being British suddenly nullifies is background religion

Dtruthspeaker:
When you said Jesus prayed publicly, we all heard his prayer. So it is indeed a point that when the public hear you praying, your prayer must be comprehensible.

Lets put this in real life perspective.....which public is hearing you ?? Does anyone really go into public like market, bus stop and pray in ways pple can't comprehend ?? Me I have not seen such...

And if u are referring to church settings... each person is praying to God and not for anyone to listen to....because technically church gathering isn't a public place like a market or city center where Pharisees show off like pple Jesus warned

it's a private gathering of saint but only bigger because the populations have grown and pple need bigger places to gather to pray and share the communion...

Mshad662:
Ok sir


So how can you classify this kind of prayer then?

..I sincerely don't know what's going on here.... If I wanna guess, I'd say they are singing, and jumping around in order to create public awareness for a upcoming activity ..but I'm not sure since it's just a pic..

Mshad662:
in matthew 5:7 Jesus explicitly warns christians not to babble like the pagans during prayer.

Let us take a look at the meaning of the word babble

1.
the action or fact of talking rapidly and continuously in a foolish, excited, or incomprehensible way.

Is it possible that this was same speaking in tongues the apostles exhibited?

Obviously not

I feel u are taking context wrongly ....

When Jesus said turn the other cheek when they slap you, he ddnt literally mean turn the other cheek for u to keep getting hurt....and he certainly ddnt mean go and enter inside cupboard before you can pray....

The same Jesus prayed many times in public and even prayed with his disciples in a garden, where he faulted them for not being able to pray for an hour as they all slept off.....

As for praying loud, this is a relative term..a person is can pray as audible or as quiet as they wish as long as their aim is not to show off or seek validation of men like the Pharisees which was Jesus' warning....

Lastly, why would you say someone's prayer is incomprehensible?..are u the one he's praying to? .the God he or she is praying to hears what the heart is saying at the end of the day

Antoeni:
Mr Terrible President , He should Direct Him to Focus on Building Low income housing And Very Affordable Medical Care,

They can't get enough money to steal by providing subsidized Medicare to Nigerians.... But u see that road, bridge and round about project?? ...most governor no dey miss am

Kayberg:
This is how women take advantage of a good man, break him, damage him, and make him a grave danger to other women in the future.

That man deserves an award for love and relationship keeping.

the man deserves what he got for being naive and deliberately stvpid...

Matt 10v16 "Be gentle as doves, but be cleverly calculative as the serpent" ....

even Jesus Christ warns u not to lose guard

PaChukwudi44:
Iran lost more lives both civilians and military men.Let me tell you Iran will prefer to kill only the leader of mossad to killing 2000 ordinary isrealis.The decimation of their entire military leadership was embarrassing

Are they not terrorist again.??...terrorist prefer to kill innocent civilians...

Frila:
How many Generals did Israel lost.

Just to make sure we are not delusional

Na generals we dey use count scores?? Many lives of civilians lost no matter again??

Why una nor dey hear word??...as in...Why??

most single mothers will date you first for the purpose of using you for themselves and their kid...and I don't blame them because they are on survival mode raising a kid alone with bills.. if na me...ama use whoever I see....

Survival mode makes them have little love left to give.... They've poured most of the love they have on their child and are also unconsciously filled with suppressed anger, cos a nigga like you told them they are only good for knacks and not as wifey....

if you are ready to be used as an ATM and an emotional bandage, playing fake daddy, in a love rectangle....by all means, dive in...but don't forget the caveat...

287billion?? ... Haba !! See w!cked money this Arabs dey use make young boys end their career

surgical:
you are the one that is slow,the time Tinubu was in Chicago this man was not there, he was with his parents, he did not even attend Chicago state university which Tinubu claimed he attend
Wait for reno version he might be able muddled up things more

Reno won't sleep tonight.....he definitely gonna muddle things up to justify his salary....

Leonyluiz:
Greed is what will sink Nigeria. Cybertruck starts at $70,000 so explain the 700 million naira.

Import and clearing is over 600 million naira .. hahahahahahahha!!


But car dealer dey try shaaa.... When Cough out over 300million for one car and it's just sitting in your shop..... Me seff go add profit for every day it's sitting without being sold..

Tingotoe:
Most of what you said is nothing but superstitious nonsense

...una too like vawulence for this nairaland

Konquest:
Oh shut up and stop deflecting and babbling like a toddler!

The last time I ever voted on Nigerian soil was on June 12, 1993 and BUT I find it highly IRRESPONSIBLE when some people relentlessly spread deliberately fabricated toxic disinformation and hate speech against innocent people such as the Nigerian President 'Bola Tinubu due to tribal bigotry.

I already made my points succinctly and expect you be wiser by now. The Super Moderators and @Seun will have to move rapidly into the NEXT major phase of manually penalizing monikers and paid ipob troll farms that deliberately spread toxic disinformation and sanitize this Website to prevent these kinds of thread derailments and massive disinformation which MUST NEVER be tolerated here. This is NOT an ipob propaganda website BUT an international discussion forum.

Deliberate....?? I'm not the one trying to desperately prove tinubu went to CSU....it's baseless for all I care cos he's president either way...
...but if he and his followers wants to do desperately do so..they should know pple will poke around....

Y'all are always quick to cry bigotry, ipob, h@tred, like a child......please what has this gotta do with the fact that a 13 year old as at 1979 ddnt go to the same school with tinubu

Baba...everyone is not ipob, tribal, or full of hate...some pple just expect transparency and genuinness..and not lies all the time....

Righteousness2:
Cancel and Pray against it in the Name of JESUS .
Get your Husband and yourself to Pray more together and cancel whatever plans the devil has against your Home.

Also Ensure you take more care of hour Hubby lovingly and Roomingly.

Lol.......the husband is likely cheating but she should cancel her husband's infidelity in Jesus name??

Is that how infidelity of an adult is cancelled ??