₦airaland Forum

adekolaelect:
you calling your country zoo ,you supporting crime ,corruption and hate speech to you4 leaders and fellow Nigerians and you want other country to respect and treats you as a King but in the Zoo.

lacapine:
I have a 17 years old maid who would be 18 in June. She came when she was 12 and she is like family now. She is in SS1. My problem is her issues with boys. Always keeping boyfriends of which I discourage her big time. Had to ask her why she keeps them, she said because her classmates/ friends have boyfriends.

I have screamed and threatened but she will still keep. What am I doing wrong? Should I allow her just keep them? I teach her sex education though but she says she isn't sexually active. Today, I saw the picture she and the guy posted on facebook holding each other. I lost it today. I flogged and punished her. I'm I being too hard? How do I help her? We wanted to help her till university days but with these, we are scared and reconsidering sending her back after ss3.

How best do I handle this situation.

princemillla:
Pls stop mentioning me if you won't comment like a sane person.

princemillla:
That was the zoo. Our police Re easily bought off. Just settle u r gone. Don't try this with other countries officials.

I have been called several names, abuse and others and u know what, you won't be able to say a single shit.

Only traveller's will relate

princemillla:
Take it or leave it. Every countryman love his country. The day you will be addressed like an animal by officials of other country, it will be dawned on u that there no place like home.

iSlayer2:
Most of us are intelligent but not wise.

omoharry:
I disagree with you in some of your statements...If we blame this act on the bad economy the we would been seeing so many poor indians,philipinos etc..involve in Drug trafficking too in a larger numbers..

This is a society problem which put pressure on our youth to make money at all cost or die trying.It is all about making it like Emeka, John or Chinedu, Tunde, Desmond in their community where they live.The competition for wealth and social status in our society without even ascertaining the sources of that wealth is the reason why we have found ourselves in this mess.Showing off to feel good and belong to a social status is the order of the day

The economy is also a contributing factor but the decadence in our values system and love for quick wealth through any means is a major factor. Some people see life as a competition and they will engage in whatever means to meet up in order to be somebody in their society. Their immediate family and friends who are sympathetic to their business will not see it has a big deal but part of the hustle of life..eg..An Igbo man was executed in Malaysia some years back for drug trafficking and his family put up a banners stating at his Funeral stating"A HERO GOES HOME" REALLy??

Our society would rather listen and acknowledge a Mr Okoro that is a millionaire, who has contributed to the community development.Even going as far as honoring him with a chieftaincy title (even if his source of wealth is unknown) than acknowledge a hard working man doing legit business who is also interested and love his community. So it is a society ill and it need to be addressed.

Ikology:
I still wonder why people are mad at islayer. I like the way Pazienza responded to him. For all intent and purpose he might have good intention. Trying to mob him to recoil is never the best way. Many people have benefited on Nairaland. The only area we all are failing is our strong allegiance to our ethnicity. Dialogue and providing superior reasons is the best. It is only intellectually challenged person that will resort to tagging people with different opinions Afonja or Yoruba.

pazienza:
Your intentions are noble. But here is a bad platform for such discussions. Remember that the greatest harm are usually caused out of good intentions.


Udo.

iSlayer2:
I'm done with your nonsense.

Iamgrey5:
So op is an igbo guy

See how the bigots are targeting Yorubas with hatred in a thread that has nothing to do with the Yorubas

They have been thoroughly exposed today.


I see the hypocritical ladies still waiting on the sidelines to dash likes to anti-Yoruba comments as usual.

iSlayer2:
Eziokwu.

K'ife anyi j'ide n'aka n'ibu onye Igbo n'ezi?

Onwero onye igbo m maru n'efe ekwensu. Tueh!

iSlayer2:
Umuazi.

Ejimagifty:
All i know is no igbo man will ever rule Nigeria again. If una like be arab jews na your wahala

Herdsmen:
Please how do we stop/ reduce skull mining in the Western States..

iSlayer2:
Please, we're here to discuss a pertinent issue bedevilling our people and our future. There are so many of us here who are resident outside Nigeria. I would have liked for them to throw in their thoughts/suggestions too.



cc Ikechu12

iSlayer2:
Onwero ihe ome. Oburo anyi ncha bu umuazi eba. I nwere alo iga tu, anyi n'egenti.

iSlayer2:
LuciferReverend n'ekwa anya ofuma.

The Federal Government has condemned the execution of a Nigerian, Kudirat Afolabi, by the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia for drug-related offenses.

Afolabi, a widow, and mother of two, was beheaded on Monday by the Saudi authorities.

iSlayer2:
[s]We need to sit down amongst each other and discuss ways to curb this menace. It has always been there as an issue but I think this year it has hit an alarming crescendo. This is one of the reasons I hate Ohanaeze Ndigbo with a fiery passion! You will never see them tackle important issues like this affecting the people. they are so disgustingly partisan and are all self seeking. Tueh!

Personally. I don't believe crime is the alternative no matter how dire the situation of the country is. There are Igbo sons and daughters outside the shores of this country doing well in their respective countries of residence, why don't they help this boys get settled properly, I think it's most unfortunate to go to a place with a working system in place to carry out criminal activities, it is so shameful and reckless.

Why not tap into the working system in those countries abroad to get yourself set up properly. Those of us who are abroad legally and have the wherewithal should be able to assist the ones coming in. Now this brings me to ask: who are the people sponsoring this boys to come abroad and do crime? Who are these people? Fully understanding how things work amongst our people I can guess there are some people sponsoring this thing.
They ought to stop destroying the future of our people by luring our youths into crime. If only things can be put in place, actual measures taken, perhaps we can get some respite on this issue, but who will do something about this kwanu? Who? It's a pity.


Daalu nu.[/s]

skales67:
Sorry but I want to ask...

Why is it that you find only Northerners, Middlebelters and Igbos in the combat side of the Nigerian Army but you can NEVER find a Yoruba person there?

Are they too sophisticated or scared to join the NA?

Na question o